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By *uckoo clock OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

why is it that some of my vanilla mates would go ballistic if anyone so much as looked at their wife /partner and yet i love watching her get fucked ?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I think most swingers have a different mind set, many start off from a position of "non possessive" thinking... and also are generally more confident in their relationship. From that stance watching your partner being pleasured can be great fun adn very erotic.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"why is it that some of my vanilla mates would go ballistic if anyone so much as looked at their wife /partner and yet i love watching her get fucked ?"

Vanilla mates have not had the eyes and heart opened about what is out there.

In the Vanilla world too much jealousy still exists rather than raw pleasure xxxxxx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It is nice to have fun, knowing that you can cuddle & make love to your partner rather than having raw unadulterated horny filthy dirty kinky.....

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By *uckoo clock OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

yes me and mine been together thirt odd years so that must be true about solid relationship

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"yes me and mine been together thirt odd years so that must be true about solid relationship "
and from that basis of a solid relationship and trust it is even more fun, isnt it?

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"yes me and mine been together thirt odd years so that must be true about solid relationship "

When yu have trust that must be superb hunny- too many relationships are full of shite - where lies and deciet are the order of the day - and both parties live off that - they both need drama and such to have a relationship at all.

Mwahahahaha - is all i can say - we all know who has the last laugh - and its not the game players at the end of the day!!!!!!!!!!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"yes me and mine been together thirt odd years so that must be true about solid relationship "

Does the reverse work for you as well, the lady watching the male partner being pleasured?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I used to love seeing my now-ex get fucked.

Plus i enjoyed ( platonically ) petting the Labradors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes me and mine been together thirt odd years so that must be true about solid relationship

Does the reverse work for you as well, the lady watching the male partner being pleasured? "

I love watching hubby playing with another woman - VERY erotic! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've been together for 30yrs, so you could say we're pretty solid, but I can't watch my wife with another guy. I'm ok with her being with someone else, I just don't want to watch her, it does nothing for me.

It might sound strange, but I can't even watch her french kiss another guy

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By *uckoo clock OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

yes she loves to watch me play too.....and we get so much more mileage out of it for the rest of the month

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"yes me and mine been together thirt odd years so that must be true about solid relationship

Does the reverse work for you as well, the lady watching the male partner being pleasured?

I love watching hubby playing with another woman - VERY erotic! x"

Me too, I find it really sexy... and I am quite happy to just watch at times.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"we've been together for 30yrs, so you could say we're pretty solid, but I can't watch my wife with another guy. I'm ok with her being with someone else, I just don't want to watch her, it does nothing for me.

It might sound strange, but I can't even watch her french kiss another guy "

I feel a bit different about the French kissing, too - I used to say it was only for my partner and me, I have relaxed a bit now but I can understand where you are coming from.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"yes she loves to watch me play too.....and we get so much more mileage out of it for the rest of the month "
Thats awesome, and in my epxerience the best way of enjoying swinging as a couple.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"we've been together for 30yrs, so you could say we're pretty solid, but I can't watch my wife with another guy. I'm ok with her being with someone else, I just don't want to watch her, it does nothing for me.

It might sound strange, but I can't even watch her french kiss another guy

I feel a bit different about the French kissing, too - I used to say it was only for my partner and me, I have relaxed a bit now but I can understand where you are coming from. "

To date, i've kissed in 11 different languages.

Can't understand a word they're saying ( including scottish ) but what the hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes me and mine been together thirt odd years so that must be true about solid relationship

Does the reverse work for you as well, the lady watching the male partner being pleasured?

I love watching hubby playing with another woman - VERY erotic! x

Me too, I find it really sexy... and I am quite happy to just watch at times."

just watch?! LOL - I find my hands start wandering down my body!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"we've been together for 30yrs, so you could say we're pretty solid, but I can't watch my wife with another guy. I'm ok with her being with someone else, I just don't want to watch her, it does nothing for me.

It might sound strange, but I can't even watch her french kiss another guy

I feel a bit different about the French kissing, too - I used to say it was only for my partner and me, I have relaxed a bit now but I can understand where you are coming from.

To date, i've kissed in 11 different languages.

Can't understand a word they're saying ( including scottish ) but what the hell."

Can you explain that" tonguing and talking at the same time technique" to me please? I wantto learn...

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

Can you explain that" tonguing and talking at the same time technique" to me please? I wantto learn..."

Such a shame. I want* to be taught.

* need to

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By *uckoo clock OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

whats really funny tho is that when we first started swinging she thought i didnt love her cos i liked the idea of shaggin others....she worse that me now ...lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

Can you explain that" tonguing and talking at the same time technique" to me please? I wantto learn...

Such a shame. I want* to be taught.

* need to "
Is there an online beginners course?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"whats really funny tho is that when we first started swinging she thought i didnt love her cos i liked the idea of shaggin others....she worse that me now ...lol"

We did not swing to begin with and when we started it was so exciting. We talked loads about how we felt and what would be acceptable. And we only do what we both want to do when we are out together, so for example at parties if one wants to go home we both do. Just how it works for us.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

Can you explain that" tonguing and talking at the same time technique" to me please? I wantto learn...

Such a shame. I want* to be taught.

* need to

Is there an online beginners course?"

Haven't found one yet. Not the sort of site my dad showed me

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By *uckoo clock OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

yes it should be both exciting and comfotable for both !!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"yes it should be both exciting and comfotable for both !!"

Hey, lets play canasta, Canasta we seem in tune...

PS One of the few card games I play... badly!!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"yes it should be both exciting and comfotable for both !!

Hey, lets play canasta, Canasta we seem in tune...

PS One of the few card games I play... badly!! "

How many card games do you play baldly?

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By *uckoo clock OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

all of em except snap

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"yes it should be both exciting and comfotable for both !!

Hey, lets play canasta, Canasta we seem in tune...

PS One of the few card games I play... badly!!

BOLDLY?

How many card games do you play baldly?

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