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men who twist that they never get a meet then wont tralvel when they do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like your posts op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Well how far as we talking?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in middlesbrough and would travell for the write ones most people make it. Hard to meet im on skype and kik as whell but most people say they will meet but if i ask to make sure there not faxe they stop texting me xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A lot of men are inherently lazy. Like lions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am in crook co durham

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well how far as we talking?!"
most wont travel 25/30 miles.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Well how far as we talking?!most wont travel 25/t30 miles."
i dont find that

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

You cannot force someone to travel.

Different people have different values.

Let them be.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Right op, if its for a random people are less likely to travel a good distance.

Did you offer to travel to them. Did they message first or did you

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Well how far as we talking?!most wont travel 25/30 miles."
which is a 60 mile round trip. What do they get for travelling that distance? Fun social, night of passion, half an hour shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should anyone travel far to meet you OP...you won't travel yourself and can't accommodate? If you can't make the effort why should they? Contrary to popular belief single guys are allowed to have standards and preferences too!

I never expect men to drive for miles to meet me - I discourage it because I won't - yet they still do. And if they don't want to I don't get my knickers in a twist over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men are inherently lazy. Like lions. "

So am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't blame them, with the amount of times men are sent on a wild goose chase on here. I wouldn't invest time and money in travelling to someone who may or may not be there/actually want sex with me.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

For a first meet I do have my limits as to how far I'll travel. You never know if your going to get on if there's a spark. But for any meets after that I'll travel a lot further. This weekend I'm off to Ireland. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't blame them, with the amount of times men are sent on a wild goose chase on here. I wouldn't invest time and money in travelling to someone who may or may not be there/actually want sex with me. "

Yeah, it's just too risky. Shame because there looks to be good people nation wide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men are inherently lazy. Like lions. "

Haha!

I'd agree mostly,though being 5 10" n weighing in at just under 11 n a half stone I'm not really big cat material (as much as I liken myself to a tiger!)

More of a Scottish wildcat...

*mini roaaaars then bolts up a tree to be aloof from afar*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I would walk 500 miles and I would walk 500 more!

Jeez no one beat me to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men are inherently lazy. Like lions.

Haha!

I'd agree mostly,though being 5 10" n weighing in at just under 11 n a half stone I'm not really big cat material (as much as I liken myself to a tiger!)

More of a Scottish wildcat...

*mini roaaaars then bolts up a tree to be aloof from afar* "

a loof - hmmmmm ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't blame them, with the amount of times men are sent on a wild goose chase on here. I wouldn't invest time and money in travelling to someone who may or may not be there/actually want sex with me.

Yeah, it's just too risky. Shame because there looks to be good people nation wide. "

I've had men drive over 100 miles to meet me. I knew I wasn't going to flake on them, they didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't blame them, with the amount of times men are sent on a wild goose chase on here. I wouldn't invest time and money in travelling to someone who may or may not be there/actually want sex with me.

Yeah, it's just too risky. Shame because there looks to be good people nation wide.

I've had men drive over 100 miles to meet me. I knew I wasn't going to flake on them, they didn't."

Just need to find genuine fowk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I would walk 500 miles and I would walk 500 more!

Jeez no one beat me to that! "

Well, isn't it nice to see under that t-shirt (sorry slow on the catch up I know!)

Also I wouldn't want to travel too far for a meet and wouldn't want them travelling too far for us either. Miss T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well how far as we talking?!most wont travel 25/30 miles."

most of my meets were about 40 miles away.

maybe you do the travelling?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right op, if its for a random people are less likely to travel a good distance.

Did you offer to travel to them. Did they message first or did you"
i cant drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""

I think your profile avatar may be my favourite on this site. Not at all connected to this thread, but then considering the OP deleted its content I'm not entirely sure what that was anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone would travel 100 miles lol.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Right op, if its for a random people are less likely to travel a good distance.

Did you offer to travel to them. Did they message first or did youi cant drive "
public transport?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind travelling . I've got a very nice car that I enjoy driving.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Right op, if its for a random people are less likely to travel a good distance.

Did you offer to travel to them. Did they message first or did youi cant drive "

So what are you offering these guys to come all that way?

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

I live in London. Have travelled to Bridgend, in Wales, Birmingham, Great Yarmouth, Chester, Bristol, Nottimgham and Ripon.

If a lass and I have clicked then anywhere's an option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men are inherently lazy. Like lions.

Haha!

I'd agree mostly,though being 5 10" n weighing in at just under 11 n a half stone I'm not really big cat material (as much as I liken myself to a tiger!)

More of a Scottish wildcat...

*mini roaaaars then bolts up a tree to be aloof from afar*

a loof - hmmmmm ??? "

Wideo

*Hacks up furball*

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I self destructed that joke

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i travel a lot.

i try and organise socials when im out and about at places im going to anyway, in case im stood up or something.

i realise i live in an out of the way place and no clubs in my area, so i make the effort. However, i like others to make some efforts too x and i must admit i have found people that do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travel quite far for club events and my first meet for a while will be 100 miles away soon. I dont mind jumping in the car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men are inherently lazy. Like lions.

Haha!

I'd agree mostly,though being 5 10" n weighing in at just under 11 n a half stone I'm not really big cat material (as much as I liken myself to a tiger!)

More of a Scottish wildcat...

*mini roaaaars then bolts up a tree to be aloof from afar*

a loof - hmmmmm ???

Wideo

*Hacks up furball* "

*Waits patiently for someone to make joke about coughing up furry balls....while remaining aloof!*

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro


"i travel a lot.

i try and organise socials when im out and about at places im going to anyway, in case im stood up or something.

i realise i live in an out of the way place and no clubs in my area, so i make the effort. However, i like others to make some efforts too x and i must admit i have found people that do x"

To me it should be part of the scene, I'd travel for a social or a meet, if I knew I wasn't going to be let down. Which I have to say I've never been but reading some of the stuff that goes on here I think I'm quite lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel quite far for club events and my first meet for a while will be 100 miles away soon. I dont mind jumping in the car"

glad you're ok about travelling so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel quite far for club events and my first meet for a while will be 100 miles away soon. I dont mind jumping in the car

glad you're ok about travelling so far."

Im sure it will be worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel quite far for club events and my first meet for a while will be 100 miles away soon. I dont mind jumping in the car

glad you're ok about travelling so far.

Im sure it will be worth it"

the pressure!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pressure at all hunni im sure you will be great and a very good time will be had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No pressure at all hunni im sure you will be great and a very good time will be had "

and if not let's hope i was right about where we are going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No pressure at all hunni im sure you will be great and a very good time will be had

and if not let's hope i was right about where we are going. "

Yeah will be an experience im sure. But a good experience you never know till you try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd say that this applies to about 95% of single guys that we chat to. Has frustrated us to the point that we now no longer bother looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it'll be great, i keep getting dead excited, don't wanna burn out or explode before the day haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End of the lane.

Any further ya can feck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it'll be great, i keep getting dead excited, don't wanna burn out or explode before the day haha."

Haha im sure youll be fine. Be nice to get get away for the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it'll be great, i keep getting dead excited, don't wanna burn out or explode before the day haha.

Haha im sure youll be fine. Be nice to get get away for the day"

yeah i'm looking forward to getting out and enjoying your company...and other things.

gotta go make the kids their tea, weekend can't come quick enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it'll be great, i keep getting dead excited, don't wanna burn out or explode before the day haha.

Haha im sure youll be fine. Be nice to get get away for the day

yeah i'm looking forward to getting out and enjoying your company...and other things.

gotta go make the kids their tea, weekend can't come quick enough."

Will be good hunni. Cool enjoy your tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well how far as we talking?!most wont travel 25/30 miles."

they don't have to if they don't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right op, if its for a random people are less likely to travel a good distance.

Did you offer to travel to them. Did they message first or did youi cant drive "

I've done a couple hundred miles on trains and buses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to them, then. It's a two way street. I don't travel far because I'm on public transport too, so it would be a bit rich of me to whinge that others didn't want to travel far either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people can't travel and the other person does, just pick them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people can't travel and the other person does, just pick them up "

I wouldn't get in a car with someone until I'd met them a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people can't travel and the other person does, just pick them up

I wouldn't get in a car with someone until I'd met them a few times. "

Yeah get that safety n all that, some proper fruit loops out there. Bit easier for a man I think who can't travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who won't travel fall into 1 of these 3 categories:

1. They just aren't that interested in you.

2. They are too skint and won't admit it.

3. Can't live up to their own hype that convinced you to meet them in the first place.

Usually 1 & 2.

If I had to bet my house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 & 3* I mean.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The right kind of guys travel and will do so even for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men are inherently lazy. Like lions. "

Picking off the weak and wounded....

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Just to put a balanced point across, I would travel to the edge of the earth for a true lady..

Can I just confirm, the Watford gap is still considered as the edge of the earth..

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I can only realey go 30 miles at beat cos I don't drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The right kind of guys travel and will do so even for a social "

I wouldn't travel far just for a social though.

For a social, I'd travel 1 hour..absolute MAX.

I prefer to get to know people via chat and Whatsapp by that point both parties would know if we are gonna fuck each other or not.

Unless of course, one or both look fuck all like their pics...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I can only realey go 30 miles at beat cos I don't drive."

Maybe you could come to one of our London socials?

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I wont travel anywhere unless I have met them before and I would never expect anyone to travel to me without a proper meet x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


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I would walk 500 miles...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"The right kind of guys travel and will do so even for a social

I wouldn't travel far just for a social though.

For a social, I'd travel 1 hour..absolute MAX.

I prefer to get to know people via chat and Whatsapp by that point both parties would know if we are gonna fuck each other or not.

"

I think you can get a good idea whether you will or not but there's nothing like the face to face social to be sure.

I've had guys drive 3 hours to a social with me. We met again after but they still made that initial journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only realey go 30 miles at beat cos I don't drive."

train perhaps?

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro


"The right kind of guys travel and will do so even for a social "

Yep, agree. Prefer the social with no expectations of playing other than maybe meeting a future play mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd drive a few hours to meet someone if I knew they was not gonna let me down meeting me.

If nothing happened then that's fine but as long as they meet for a coffee or something then it's not a wasted meet nor a waste of my time. They'd have to chat with me for at least an hour mind before I travel back haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I've had guys drive 3 hours to a social with me. We met again after but they still made that initial journey "

3 hours just for a social....

He was keen....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would happily travel significant distance for the right lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would happily travel significant distance for the right lady. "

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"The right kind of guys travel and will do so even for a social "

Like Essex to Manchester for instance..

S

As Suzi says & we now say in our profile if your miles away & want s social, no probs we'll do the club thing too while we are there, if we meet & we want to get jiggy, cancel the club.. Easy really..

Just organising it takes a while with family stuff Etc..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it'll be great, i keep getting dead excited, don't wanna burn out or explode before the day haha.

Haha im sure youll be fine. Be nice to get get away for the day

yeah i'm looking forward to getting out and enjoying your company...and other things.

gotta go make the kids their tea, weekend can't come quick enough.

Will be good hunni. Cool enjoy your tea "

was nice thanks, i only had onion rings but they cooked alright.

gonna spend the rest of the night selling stuff online hopefully. or might do that tomorrow, dunno, kind of tired now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it'll be great, i keep getting dead excited, don't wanna burn out or explode before the day haha.

Haha im sure youll be fine. Be nice to get get away for the day

yeah i'm looking forward to getting out and enjoying your company...and other things.

gotta go make the kids their tea, weekend can't come quick enough.

Will be good hunni. Cool enjoy your tea

was nice thanks, i only had onion rings but they cooked alright.

gonna spend the rest of the night selling stuff online hopefully. or might do that tomorrow, dunno, kind of tired now."

Hehe well im sure youll think of something. Thanks for the reminder nearly forgot about our chat regarding your cooking

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"

I've had guys drive 3 hours to a social with me. We met again after but they still made that initial journey

3 hours just for a social....

He was keen....

"

It's happened 3 different times

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Would happily travel significant distance for the right lady.

"

Sorted then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would happily travel significant distance for the right lady.

Sorted then"

Your worth it whether 1 or 100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled all the way to Hull which was 6.5 hours on a train with 3 changes on route at various stations. Had been chatting everyday on the phone and texting and every night we would Skype for hours, like both fall asleep with our laptops still on! Was quite romantic when we finally met, he was waiting for me at the station in Hull and we went to a hotel and from that first night he came down to wales every other weekend or I went up to hull, lasted about 18 months!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travelled all the way to Hull which was 6.5 hours on a train with 3 changes on route at various stations. Had been chatting everyday on the phone and texting and every night we would Skype for hours, like both fall asleep with our laptops still on! Was quite romantic when we finally met, he was waiting for me at the station in Hull and we went to a hotel and from that first night he came down to wales every other weekend or I went up to hull, lasted about 18 months!"

Good effort

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Would happily travel significant distance for the right lady.

Sorted then

Your worth it whether 1 or 100"

Awww thanks

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I travelled all the way to Hull which was 6.5 hours on a train with 3 changes on route at various stations. Had been chatting everyday on the phone and texting and every night we would Skype for hours, like both fall asleep with our laptops still on! Was quite romantic when we finally met, he was waiting for me at the station in Hull and we went to a hotel and from that first night he came down to wales every other weekend or I went up to hull, lasted about 18 months!"

I did that with a guy from Hull, lasted 18 months too

He drove to me for the first social though

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I can only realey go 30 miles at beat cos I don't drive.

Maybe you could come to one of our London socials? "

If London wos 30 miles away I probley wood.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester


"I can only realey go 30 miles at beat cos I don't drive."
get a newtwork card for the train 3rd off price

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I can only realey go 30 miles at beat cos I don't drive. get a newtwork card for the train 3rd off price "

That's not a bad idear

I'll look in to that.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester


"I can only realey go 30 miles at beat cos I don't drive. get a newtwork card for the train 3rd off price "
book in advance 13.60 return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travelled all the way to Hull which was 6.5 hours on a train with 3 changes on route at various stations. Had been chatting everyday on the phone and texting and every night we would Skype for hours, like both fall asleep with our laptops still on! Was quite romantic when we finally met, he was waiting for me at the station in Hull and we went to a hotel and from that first night he came down to wales every other weekend or I went up to hull, lasted about 18 months!

I did that with a guy from Hull, lasted 18 months too

He drove to me for the first social though "

I remember changing in Manchester train station and it was massive and you had to pay 40p to use the toilet, blew my mind! I also got to hull station and asked a man where the exit was but then realised it was a statue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also got to hull station and asked a man where the exit was but then realised it was a statue!"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I can only realey go 30 miles at beat cos I don't drive. get a newtwork card for the train 3rd off price

That's not a bad idear

I'll look in to that."

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