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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and my partner have been together almost 2 years and what a 2 years it's been.

We have done so many 1st, fulfilled many fantasies.

We love swinging never been jelouse at all during meets.

But the best bit about our relationship is the little things

The snuggles at night; random conversations that only we understand, when he leaves me little love notes and love heart sweets around the house, the way he kisses my head when I'm asleep and whispered "I love you" in my ear. Nice hot bubble baths and glass of wine waiting for me after a 12 hour shift at work even though he's been at work himself.

He tells me every day I'm beautiful. He's never ashamed to hold my hand in public and introduce me to his friends as 'his princess'

The only secrets we have is what we getting each other for Xmas and birthdays...

We haven't argued once even when I'm being a bit of a bitch he will just laugh at me and cuddle me.

I like to think our relationship is perfect.

Any other relationships like ours xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds very much like us.

We've been together 17 years and married 15 years. We still kiss each other everyday. Never leave each other without saying I love you. Like you say it's the little things that matter.

Every morning Bump brings me a cup of tea and runs a bath for me (he's up for work before me) and I always make our dinner (home before he is).

We have snuggles and love to have a lazy hour in bed together every Saturday and Sunday morning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds very much like us.

We've been together 17 years and married 15 years. We still kiss each other everyday. Never leave each other without saying I love you. Like you say it's the little things that matter.

Every morning Bump brings me a cup of tea and runs a bath for me (he's up for work before me) and I always make our dinner (home before he is).

We have snuggles and love to have a lazy hour in bed together every Saturday and Sunday morning."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Going by your standards no, our relationship isn't perfect. However we've been contentedly together 35 going on 36 years so we must be doing something right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Going by your standards no, our relationship isn't perfect. However we've been contentedly together 35 going on 36 years so we must be doing something right "

Hopefully we still together in 35 years lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby and me too. Are lucky enough to have found the perfect mate.

22 years in April and we still make each other laugh, have fun, he keeps me grounded as I can go ott. Can see the sadness behind my smile & holds tight!! We're loving swinging - still quite new - never jealous!! We can read each other's mind and know what we want from across the room/club!

He brings me a brew every morning, play fights with our baba and cuddles us all all the time!! We both work hard to keep it special!!! 'Nothing Else Matters' our wedding song too - corny but it's all true ha xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My hubby and me too. Are lucky enough to have found the perfect mate.

22 years in April and we still make each other laugh, have fun, he keeps me grounded as I can go ott. Can see the sadness behind my smile & holds tight!! We're loving swinging - still quite new - never jealous!! We can read each other's mind and know what we want from across the room/club!

He brings me a brew every morning, play fights with our baba and cuddles us all all the time!! We both work hard to keep it special!!! 'Nothing Else Matters' our wedding song too - corny but it's all true ha xxxx"

I love matallica lol xx he can play nothing else matters perfect on guitar x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds very much like us.

We've been together 17 years and married 15 years. We still kiss each other everyday. Never leave each other without saying I love you. Like you say it's the little things that matter.

Every morning Bump brings me a cup of tea and runs a bath for me (he's up for work before me) and I always make our dinner (home before he is).

We have snuggles and love to have a lazy hour in bed together every Saturday and Sunday morning."

Yeah very much the same for us . Apart from lazy hour's in bed . To many kids and if they not about its out on motor bike's as soon as we can

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Where did I go wrong...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples trying to outdo each other. This will be fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Couples trying to outdo each other. This will be fun "

Not to out do each other. X

I have been told because we fuck other people then our relationship must be fake. Just want to prove a point that swingers can have a happy loving relationship x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Couples trying to outdo each other. This will be fun "

I don't think anyone's trying to outdo anybody else. Positivity is always a good thing but sadly people often concentrate on the negative.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Any other relationships like ours xx"

Yes, ours is almost identical, apart from a few minor issues that seem hardly worth mentioning:

We've been together a little longer. Before we met I had all my own hair and all my own teeth. I'm not saying there's a link (but there is )

We have random conversations that neither of us understand (and seldom remember), I leave her little notes saying "Buy milk" or "Pls iron my pants". I eat her sweets to stop her getting fat. I leave her the bath water, (albeit cold and all the bubbles have gone). I'll put the kettle on for her, or pass her the corkscrew.

Every day I tell her it's time to get up and make me a cup of tea. She walks a couple of steps behind me, (she hopes that people won't think she's with me)

The only secrets are whether or not I'll forget her birthday again, or what she'll buy herself for Xmas from me, and charge to my credit card.

We argue regularly, but always manage to resolve it, generally by wearing the other one down while secretly knowing that we were always in the right.

Frankly I don't know what she sees in me, but then she's always had dodgy eyesight.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other relationships like ours xx

Yes, ours is almost identical, apart from a few minor issues that seem hardly worth mentioning:

We've been together a little longer. Before we met I had all my own hair and all my own teeth. I'm not saying there's a link (but there is )

We have random conversations that neither of us understand (and seldom remember), I leave her little notes saying "Buy milk" or "Pls iron my pants". I eat her sweets to stop her getting fat. I leave her the bath water, (albeit cold and all the bubbles have gone). I'll put the kettle on for her, or pass her the corkscrew.

Every day I tell her it's time to get up and make me a cup of tea. She walks a couple of steps behind me, (she hopes that people won't think she's with me)

The only secrets are whether or not I'll forget her birthday again, or what she'll buy herself for Xmas from me, and charge to my credit card.

We argue regularly, but always manage to resolve it, generally by wearing the other one down while secretly knowing that we were always in the right.

Frankly I don't know what she sees in me, but then she's always had dodgy eyesight.

Mr ddc"

You're an old romantic

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The conversations where only we know what where talking about or the conversations we dont need to have as we know what each other is thinking and the fact he humours my quirky nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples trying to outdo each other. This will be fun

Not to out do each other. X

I have been told because we fuck other people then our relationship must be fake. Just want to prove a point that swingers can have a happy loving relationship x"

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"

Mr ddc

You're an old romantic "

But I'd probably better make that Mars bar brownie I've been promising her, just to be safe

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Couples trying to outdo each other. This will be fun

Not to out do each other. X

I have been told because we fuck other people then our relationship must be fake. Just want to prove a point that swingers can have a happy loving relationship x"

Totally agree. And I adore our lazy weekend morning (sometimes naughty) cuddles just chatting shit and drinking coffee. Jack.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any other relationships like ours xx

Yes, ours is almost identical, apart from a few minor issues that seem hardly worth mentioning:

We've been together a little longer. Before we met I had all my own hair and all my own teeth. I'm not saying there's a link (but there is )

We have random conversations that neither of us understand (and seldom remember), I leave her little notes saying "Buy milk" or "Pls iron my pants". I eat her sweets to stop her getting fat. I leave her the bath water, (albeit cold and all the bubbles have gone). I'll put the kettle on for her, or pass her the corkscrew.

Every day I tell her it's time to get up and make me a cup of tea. She walks a couple of steps behind me, (she hopes that people won't think she's with me)

The only secrets are whether or not I'll forget her birthday again, or what she'll buy herself for Xmas from me, and charge to my credit card.

We argue regularly, but always manage to resolve it, generally by wearing the other one down while secretly knowing that we were always in the right.

Frankly I don't know what she sees in me, but then she's always had dodgy eyesight.

Mr ddc"

Hahaha xxz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Mr ddc

You're an old romantic

But I'd probably better make that Mars bar brownie I've been promising her, just to be safe

"

Bow before your queen!

You really do compliment each other so well

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"

Mr ddc

You're an old romantic

But I'd probably better make that Mars bar brownie I've been promising her, just to be safe

Bow before your queen!

You really do compliment each other so well "

Like Beauty and the Beast you mean?

(I'll tell her you called her 'Beast' )

{tries to toss his hair like Hatter, but fails miserably )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Mr ddc

You're an old romantic

But I'd probably better make that Mars bar brownie I've been promising her, just to be safe

Bow before your queen!

You really do compliment each other so well

Like Beauty and the Beast you mean?

(I'll tell her you called her 'Beast' )

{tries to toss his hair like Hatter, but fails miserably )"

I would never call her that

Tweak your moustache instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is pointless, because one person's perfect relationship is another's fucking nightmare.

I don't believe in "perfect" anyway. A relationship is between two (or more) flawed human beings, they take work and change and growth. The second you decide something is "perfect" it sounds like you've stopped trying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Mr ddc

You're an old romantic

But I'd probably better make that Mars bar brownie I've been promising her, just to be safe

Bow before your queen!

You really do compliment each other so well

Like Beauty and the Beast you mean?

(I'll tell her you called her 'Beast' )

{tries to toss his hair like Hatter, but fails miserably )"

Hahaha xx

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

28+ counting, still learning,enjoying and sharing those moments with each other.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"

Tweak your moustache instead?"

done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We both work hard to keep it special!!! 'Nothing Else Matters' our wedding song too - corny but it's all true ha xxxx

I love matallica lol xx he can play nothing else matters perfect on guitar x"

I did buy him a guitar but he just laughed at me ha! We obviously Love Metallica too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

We both work hard to keep it special!!! 'Nothing Else Matters' our wedding song too - corny but it's all true ha xxxx

I love matallica lol xx he can play nothing else matters perfect on guitar x

I did buy him a guitar but he just laughed at me ha! We obviously Love Metallica too "

Hahaha X that's how we met lol x I brought a guitar on a random night out a few weeks before I met him. N thought I better learn to play it n posted on badoo sayin teach me to play guitar n I'll love u forever.

Then he sent me a massive essay bout his guitar playing. I actually found it rather boring lol bit thought it would be fun so arranged to meet him. He picked me up n I never went back lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

We both work hard to keep it special!!! 'Nothing Else Matters' our wedding song too - corny but it's all true ha xxxx

I love matallica lol xx he can play nothing else matters perfect on guitar x

I did buy him a guitar but he just laughed at me ha! We obviously Love Metallica too

Hahaha X that's how we met lol x I brought a guitar on a random night out a few weeks before I met him. N thought I better learn to play it n posted on badoo sayin teach me to play guitar n I'll love u forever.

Then he sent me a massive essay bout his guitar playing. I actually found it rather boring lol bit thought it would be fun so arranged to meet him. He picked me up n I never went back lol x"

I still can't play lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples trying to outdo each other. This will be fun

Not to out do each other. X

I have been told because we fuck other people then our relationship must be fake. Just want to prove a point that swingers can have a happy loving relationship x"

You shouldn't feel the need to prove a point. If ye know your relationship is happy and loving and swinging is for ye then isn't that enough?

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We have been together 36 years and married for 35. Like every couple we have had highs and lows. You just have to work through the lows together. We have been through the hardest time any couple would not wish to go through. Come out the other end, with the support of each other.

Now, we are just enjoying a bit of fun and sharing that with other couples.

Makes a change for a nice thread involving mainly couples. Well done OP xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have been together 36 years and married for 35. Like every couple we have had highs and lows. You just have to work through the lows together. We have been through the hardest time any couple would not wish to go through. Come out the other end, with the support of each other.

Now, we are just enjoying a bit of fun and sharing that with other couples.

Makes a change for a nice thread involving mainly couples. Well done OP xxxxx Suzi "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not like yours at all. That would drive me crazy and I'd be gone within two weeks - max.

My longest partner is about four and a half years now. We see each other every month or so, have amazing emotionally intimate sex, and then get out of each others hair. We chat every day or so on the net and that's pretty excellent.

My second longest partner I've been seeing for about two years, and we've been living together for almost the same. We treat each other like housemates with sex and it's wonderful.

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

It sounds like Disney Porn...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Nope, not like yours at all. That would drive me crazy and I'd be gone within two weeks - max.

My longest partner is about four and a half years now. We see each other every month or so, have amazing emotionally intimate sex, and then get out of each others hair. We chat every day or so on the net and that's pretty excellent.

My second longest partner I've been seeing for about two years, and we've been living together for almost the same. We treat each other like housemates with sex and it's wonderful."
is that why you say your poly? Cause i have quite a few relationships like the first you described but mine have been going on 12 years or more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, not like yours at all. That would drive me crazy and I'd be gone within two weeks - max.

My longest partner is about four and a half years now. We see each other every month or so, have amazing emotionally intimate sex, and then get out of each others hair. We chat every day or so on the net and that's pretty excellent.

My second longest partner I've been seeing for about two years, and we've been living together for almost the same. We treat each other like housemates with sex and it's wonderful.

is that why you say your poly? Cause i have quite a few relationships like the first you described but mine have been going on 12 years or more"

I'm poly because I have multiple partners who I'm open and honest with. Nothing more, nothing less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our relationship is perfect for us .

We've had the usual ' if it's that perfect why do you swing ' line too .

Our response is always the same , because we can , and we like it .

Does it mean our marriage is less than perfect ?

Not to us it doesn't , and at the end of the day that's all that matters

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Nope, not like yours at all. That would drive me crazy and I'd be gone within two weeks - max.

My longest partner is about four and a half years now. We see each other every month or so, have amazing emotionally intimate sex, and then get out of each others hair. We chat every day or so on the net and that's pretty excellent.

My second longest partner I've been seeing for about two years, and we've been living together for almost the same. We treat each other like housemates with sex and it's wonderful.

is that why you say your poly? Cause i have quite a few relationships like the first you described but mine have been going on 12 years or more

I'm poly because I have multiple partners who I'm open and honest with. Nothing more, nothing less."
oh, i never knew i was poly thats a new one for me

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Well like anything its each to their own isnt it? What some describe as perfect wouldnt be another persons cup of tea. Its what makes the world go round. Surely its just about people being happy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been together 36 years and married for 35. Like every couple we have had highs and lows. You just have to work through the lows together. We have been through the hardest time any couple would not wish to go through. Come out the other end, with the support of each other.

Now, we are just enjoying a bit of fun and sharing that with other couples.

Makes a change for a nice thread involving mainly couples. Well done OP xxxxx Suzi "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well like anything its each to their own isnt it? What some describe as perfect wouldnt be another persons cup of tea. Its what makes the world go round. Surely its just about people being happy?"

absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na, we can't stand each other.

She's only with me for my money and I'm only with her for her hot ass and smouldering looks.

Still. We haven't killed each other.....yet.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Na, we can't stand each other.

She's only with me for my money and I'm only with her for her hot ass and smouldering looks.

Still. We haven't killed each other.....yet."

Pmsl. Thats a bonus then.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like the fact that relationships are so diverse and what works for one wouldnt work for another. Its just the fact it works

Makes me laugh when people dont understand we are all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my partner have been together almost 2 years and what a 2 years it's been.

We have done so many 1st, fulfilled many fantasies.

We love swinging never been jelouse at all during meets.

But the best bit about our relationship is the little things

The snuggles at night; random conversations that only we understand, when he leaves me little love notes and love heart sweets around the house, the way he kisses my head when I'm asleep and whispered "I love you" in my ear. Nice hot bubble baths and glass of wine waiting for me after a 12 hour shift at work even though he's been at work himself.

He tells me every day I'm beautiful. He's never ashamed to hold my hand in public and introduce me to his friends as 'his princess'

The only secrets we have is what we getting each other for Xmas and birthdays...

We haven't argued once even when I'm being a bit of a bitch he will just laugh at me and cuddle me.

I like to think our relationship is perfect.

Any other relationships like ours xx

"

This made me so happy! This is all over!

We are pretty damn sickening lol. We have been together almost 10 years. The best part of our day is when we get to snuggle down in bed together, he pulls me in and let's out a sigh of contentment and losses my head. I can't help but grin from ear to ear!

We never leave one another without telling each other we love each other.

We text all the time at work, he begs me to quit so he can snuggle me all of the time lol.

Swinging is pleasure but our marriage is satisfaction, contentment, love, happiness, butterflies and everything that makes life amazing!

I'll stop talking now lol. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me and my partner have been together almost 2 years and what a 2 years it's been.

We have done so many 1st, fulfilled many fantasies.

We love swinging never been jelouse at all during meets.

But the best bit about our relationship is the little things

The snuggles at night; random conversations that only we understand, when he leaves me little love notes and love heart sweets around the house, the way he kisses my head when I'm asleep and whispered "I love you" in my ear. Nice hot bubble baths and glass of wine waiting for me after a 12 hour shift at work even though he's been at work himself.

He tells me every day I'm beautiful. He's never ashamed to hold my hand in public and introduce me to his friends as 'his princess'

The only secrets we have is what we getting each other for Xmas and birthdays...

We haven't argued once even when I'm being a bit of a bitch he will just laugh at me and cuddle me.

I like to think our relationship is perfect.

Any other relationships like ours xx

This made me so happy! This is all over!

We are pretty damn sickening lol. We have been together almost 10 years. The best part of our day is when we get to snuggle down in bed together, he pulls me in and let's out a sigh of contentment and losses my head. I can't help but grin from ear to ear!

We never leave one another without telling each other we love each other.

We text all the time at work, he begs me to quit so he can snuggle me all of the time lol.

Swinging is pleasure but our marriage is satisfaction, contentment, love, happiness, butterflies and everything that makes life amazing!

I'll stop talking now lol. X "

No need to stop talking lol x

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