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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are your views on random friend requests? And when are you considered "friends"?

I've sent a few random but found its more because I think the girl/ couple is hot and I don't know what to say to be original, I know people don't just want the generic stuff!

Probably my lack of game but would be interested in your views!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only send one to someone I know otherwise I'll wait for them.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We usually never accept friend requests unless we have met.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend request has to be from someone who has spoken to you and you got to know a little about them. I block and delete those who send random requests but I make sure it states this on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont just send them. I send them to people i have been talking to and i always ask before sending one

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

A 'friend' on fab would be someone im chatting to with a view to meet or someone i chat to regularly. Not just some random person sending a friends request

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Ignore

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I ignore them.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

If there's been a suitable connection, whether physical or virtual, yes. But I'd wait to be asked.

Hence...3 friends, 2 of which retired profiles!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I bulk delete them every couple of months. I only look and accept if I have agreed that with someone.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

They irritate me. So i just delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't like them. And find ourselves always explaining we don't accept them

Kinky

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We never accept friends request unless we have met or intend to meet but will send them a message back saying thank you and the reason why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to add the people I want as a friend. I get so many random ones I barely bother looking.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"A friend request has to be from someone who has spoken to you and you got to know a little about them. I block and delete those who send random requests but I make sure it states this on my profile. "

Same as us. People we have met or have been chatting to for a while.

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D


"A friend request has to be from someone who has spoken to you and you got to know a little about them. I block and delete those who send random requests but I make sure it states this on my profile. "
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This, plus I don't bother accepting requests from ppl who has only 2/3 pics hidden in there's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always message first to strike up conversation and gauge interest. If none I don't send one. If there is interest I always ask about a friend request. Ransoms tend to piss people off.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I find it extremely rude when someone I have never had any type of contact with sends me a friends request and it goes straight into my delete bin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them as i do my winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never accept them from randomers. It's like saying 'show us everything you got' without so much as a hello.

Sometimes, we'll wait till they're offline, have a quick perv before we block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only accept once we agreed to meet them,generally it's just guys wanting to get off looking at more pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We never accept them from randomers. It's like saying 'show us everything you got' without so much as a hello.

Sometimes, we'll wait till they're offline, have a quick perv before we block them "

Haha we do this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We never accept them from randomers. It's like saying 'show us everything you got' without so much as a hello.

Sometimes, we'll wait till they're offline, have a quick perv before we block them

Haha we do this too "

It's great sport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see it going somewhere then I will send.. but if not then I don't.. and if we are friends and it comes to nothing then I will just delete it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend request me, will give me something to reply to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your views on random friend requests? And when are you considered "friends"?

I've sent a few random but found its more because I think the girl/ couple is hot and I don't know what to say to be original, I know people don't just want the generic stuff!

Probably my lack of game but would be interested in your views! "

We just ignore random friend requests.

You aren't really doing yourself any favours.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

My friends are people I've met, or people I've been chatting to where there's a likelihood we could meet.

I also think it's rude to send requests randomly ... and if they just want to see my private pics they're going to be sorely disappointed anyway.

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We only accept them if we've met and are more likely to meet again. These lists can often become like FaceBook, 500+ people on your list and only know 10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lifestyle is totally private for us and a lot of other people on here! So random friend requests are always ignored! We would never just accept a FR.

They are only accepted if we have been speaking for a bit and there's a connection & it may go somewhere or if the people are miles and miles away and guaranteed to not know us. They also have to be verified too (learnt from our mistakes)

They is da rules - don't like it plod along to the next profile!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a friend request....

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By *ad-GirlWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"What are your views on random friend requests? And when are you considered "friends"?

I've sent a few random but found its more because I think the girl/ couple is hot and I don't know what to say to be original, I know people don't just want the generic stuff!

Probably my lack of game but would be interested in your views! "

Random ones just get ignored and myself I think it shows that someone sending one won't by my type of guy if we haven't chatted before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them if they're from someone I've had no contact with. I limit my friends list to those I've met or am going to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had them, I usually have a look at their profile, if they look attractive, and have friends only pics I have been known to accept, nose at their friends pics, then unfriendly again quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ignore. I don't delete them that way they can't send another 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We immediately delete them if we've never had any contact with that person. If we've been chatting though and getting along we're happy to add them, we don't just reserve our friends list for people we've met.

There's a definite feeling that people who send a request without sending a message are just looking to perve our private pics - they'd be sorely disappointed if that's where they think we've got the explicit pics!

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"What are your views on random friend requests? And when are you considered "friends"?

I've sent a few random but found its more because I think the girl/ couple is hot and I don't know what to say to be original, I know people don't just want the generic stuff!

Probably my lack of game but would be interested in your views! "

Not bothered about being sent requests, especially from the ladies, and couples, nor do I mind getting them fr m single guys.I will definitely accept if there are pics in private. I am nosey so always have a look. If I don't like what I'm looking at then I remove them from my friends list, and that's only if I remember.

I know some people get really hung up on being sent friend requests.Not sure why though. It doesn't actually mean you are friends, and they are so easy to delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You de wonder sometimes

If you de no friends / private pics on your profile how many friends requests would u get then

?????

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"We never accept them from randomers. It's like saying 'show us everything you got' without so much as a hello.

Sometimes, we'll wait till they're offline, have a quick perv before we block them "

Don't forget to fab a few of their friend only pics before you unfriend them, just to let them know you were there or send a nice message thanking them for allowing you to look at their pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We never accept them from randomers. It's like saying 'show us everything you got' without so much as a hello.

Sometimes, we'll wait till they're offline, have a quick perv before we block them

Don't forget to fab a few of their friend only pics before you unfriend them, just to let them know you were there or send a nice message thanking them for allowing you to look at their pics "

Oh damn! Never thought of that. You can be assured we will in future. That'd be a head trip for the inviter

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"We never accept them from randomers. It's like saying 'show us everything you got' without so much as a hello.

Sometimes, we'll wait till they're offline, have a quick perv before we block them "

We do this too, but as we are secret squirrels we don't have to wait.

Despite having "We do not accept....etc" on our profile we still get 5-10 requests a week without prior contact..I guess picture perves can be in legitimate couples too as their profiles never say the fem plays alone & they never message first to say she does.

S

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"You de wonder sometimes

If you de no friends / private pics on your profile how many friends requests would u get then

?????"

I'll go ask MrsSB, hang on be back in a mo....

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send if no idea what to say I accept any I like making friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send if no idea what to say I accept any I like making friends."

We have had a few do this.

We just cannot figure how anyone can think it is fine or that it shows good manners.

Just our thoughts on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We never accept them from randomers. It's like saying 'show us everything you got' without so much as a hello.

Sometimes, we'll wait till they're offline, have a quick perv before we block them "

exactly, why the hell would you send a load of random requests out unless it's to perve their Friends only pics? They're Friends only for a reason!

I've never sent a random request and have no plans to start

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I never send friends requests ...

The tactic I employ is to chat with a lady, wear her down and use subliminal messages to coerce her into sending me a request..

When that fails, I resort to begging, usually closely followed by a rapid descent into depression, drinking gin outta a bottle wrapped in a paperbag whilst slouched on a park bench and shouting abuse at small children and the pigeons...

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"We never accept them from randomers. It's like saying 'show us everything you got' without so much as a hello.

Sometimes, we'll wait till they're offline, have a quick perv before we block them

Don't forget to fab a few of their friend only pics before you unfriend them, just to let them know you were there or send a nice message thanking them for allowing you to look at their pics

Oh damn! Never thought of that. You can be assured we will in future. That'd be a head trip for the inviter "

It pays to have a devious mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Immediate block. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just ignore. I don't delete them that way they can't send another 1"

Is that right if you leave them they cant send another ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your views on random friend requests? And when are you considered "friends"?

I've sent a few random but found its more because I think the girl/ couple is hot and I don't know what to say to be original, I know people don't just want the generic stuff!

Probably my lack of game but would be interested in your views! "

I only add people I've met...

Any random friends invite stays in my box as you can't send another if no reply to the first one

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"What are your views on random friend requests? And when are you considered "friends"?

I've sent a few random but found its more because I think the girl/ couple is hot and I don't know what to say to be original, I know people don't just want the generic stuff!

Probably my lack of game but would be interested in your views!

I only add people I've met...

Any random friends invite stays in my box as you can't send another if no reply to the first one "

Good move, I didn't know that..

Thanks

S

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I just ignore. I don't delete them that way they can't send another 1

Is that right if you leave them they cant send another ..."

So that's why it won't let me send you another one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just ignore. I don't delete them that way they can't send another 1

Is that right if you leave them they cant send another ...

So that's why it won't let me send you another one!!"

Could well be

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I just ignore. I don't delete them that way they can't send another 1

Is that right if you leave them they cant send another ...

So that's why it won't let me send you another one!!"

We'd send one as substitute but Jo is straight

S

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I just ignore. I don't delete them that way they can't send another 1

Is that right if you leave them they cant send another ...

So that's why it won't let me send you another one!!

Could well be "

Ah well at least I know now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just ignore. I don't delete them that way they can't send another 1

Is that right if you leave them they cant send another ...

So that's why it won't let me send you another one!!

Could well be

Ah well at least I know now "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete all random friend invites, I only add guys I've been speaking too with a view to meeting or have met!

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Random friend requests from people who can't be bothered to talk to us really irritates me. It quite clearly states on our profile that we will block people who send them. If you're disrespectful enough to ignore that then it just proves that you're not the sort of person we want to interact with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Random friend requests from people who can't be bothered to talk to us really irritates me. It quite clearly states on our profile that we will block people who send them. If you're disrespectful enough to ignore that then it just proves that you're not the sort of person we want to interact with"

So you actually think that someone who is on here specifically to perve pics considers actually reading your profile whilst he has his cock in hand? Considering that at least one of you is male, you should know that that isn't going to happen ... they just want to see more so try to add you... it won't stop happening but telling them you will block them if they do it is a bit pointless IMO

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't accept random friend requests, i usually just ignore them and leave them there. They can just send you another one if you delete it.

I only accept from people i have actually met or have been chatting to for a while.

Since making more of my pics public I'm getting far fewer friend requests, most just want to look at your hidden pics. I have also noticed I'm getting many more messages though. It's not made my inbox any harder to manage, most of them are of the instant delete variety anyway

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I think maybe no friend only pics may be the way forward, move them to private, where they don't show on your profile and send them to "real" Fab friends when/if required.

Dunno & as we've got males blocked it's a minor issue for us..

S

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Random friend requests from people who can't be bothered to talk to us really irritates me. It quite clearly states on our profile that we will block people who send them. If you're disrespectful enough to ignore that then it just proves that you're not the sort of person we want to interact with

So you actually think that someone who is on here specifically to perve pics considers actually reading your profile whilst he has his cock in hand? Considering that at least one of you is male, you should know that that isn't going to happen ... they just want to see more so try to add you... it won't stop happening but telling them you will block them if they do it is a bit pointless IMO "

As has been said on many a thread, run your profile in the manner that pleases you..........we choose to do exactly that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random 1's no matter how 'hot or attractive' sender is I just delete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deleted and blocked is our response to random friend requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get any

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I never send friend requests. I dont have any friend only pictures and I know a lot of women/couples get loads of requests. All of my friends have come about from them sending me the request after we have chatted for a while. Some I have met, some I havent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think maybe no friend only pics may be the way forward, move them to private, where they don't show on your profile and send them to "real" Fab friends when/if required.

Dunno & as we've got males blocked it's a minor issue for us..

S"

I have either public or private pics but none in my friends only folder ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Random friend requests from people who can't be bothered to talk to us really irritates me. It quite clearly states on our profile that we will block people who send them. If you're disrespectful enough to ignore that then it just proves that you're not the sort of person we want to interact with

So you actually think that someone who is on here specifically to perve pics considers actually reading your profile whilst he has his cock in hand? Considering that at least one of you is male, you should know that that isn't going to happen ... they just want to see more so try to add you... it won't stop happening but telling them you will block them if they do it is a bit pointless IMO

As has been said on many a thread, run your profile in the manner that pleases you..........we choose to do exactly that!"

Never seen that but it's good that you stick to your guns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never send friend requests. I dont have any friend only pictures and I know a lot of women/couples get loads of requests. All of my friends have come about from them sending me the request after we have chatted for a while. Some I have met, some I havent."

Nice pics

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I think maybe no friend only pics may be the way forward, move them to private, where they don't show on your profile and send them to "real" Fab friends when/if required.

Dunno & as we've got males blocked it's a minor issue for us..

S

I have either public or private pics but none in my friends only folder ... "

Least my current fave pic is on your public gallery then

S

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Never seen the point of random friends requests, im of the point of view that if someone cant be bothered to put some effort in to make a conversation then friends requests will be ignored as they just come across as private pic collectors

Frank

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By *ife adventurerMan
over a year ago

North Essex

I don't accept or send random friends requests. Friends are those that I have met or am chatting to with a view to meeting at some point.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Never seen the point of random friends requests, im of the point of view that if someone cant be bothered to put some effort in to make a conversation then friends requests will be ignored as they just come across as private pic collectors

Frank"

Couldn't agree more

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"I never send friend requests. I dont have any friend only pictures and I know a lot of women/couples get loads of requests. All of my friends have come about from them sending me the request after we have chatted for a while. Some I have met, some I havent.

Nice pics "

Thank you, and ditto

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Delete

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead

I look at them, read their profile and if I think we may have something in common I send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't tell you how much fun I've had sending random requests off this feed . If only for a good wind up .

Some very uptight people on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only accept requests from people we have met or are arranging plans with to meet. Any random ones just get deleted and ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't tell you how much fun I've had sending random requests off this feed . If only for a good wind up .

Some very uptight people on this site "

Hahahaha,

I know right, whats the big deal? just dont accept, how fucking hards that?

Its not like one night some random sends a friend request and the next day you wake up with Scabbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept them - They only do it to gain access to people's restricted photos.

I edit my friends list constantly. Only keep people on it if there's regular contact/messages. If not, they are axed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't tell you how much fun I've had sending random requests off this feed . If only for a good wind up .

Some very uptight people on this site

Hahahaha,

I know right, whats the big deal? just dont accept, how fucking hards that?

Its not like one night some random sends a friend request and the next day you wake up with Scabbies "

Hahahahaha how about people run there profiles how they wish Hahahahaha how hard is that to accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't tell you how much fun I've had sending random requests off this feed . If only for a good wind up .

Some very uptight people on this site "

there are also a lot of eejits too

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By *anm2009Man
over a year ago

Barrow-in-Furness

Chameleons bi Monday

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By *nder lock and KeyCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Can't tell you how much fun I've had sending random requests off this feed . If only for a good wind up .

Some very uptight people on this site

Hahahaha,

I know right, whats the big deal? just dont accept, how fucking hards that?

Its not like one night some random sends a friend request and the next day you wake up with Scabbies

Hahahahaha how about people run there profiles how they wish Hahahahaha how hard is that to accept "

get a life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't tell you how much fun I've had sending random requests off this feed . If only for a good wind up .

Some very uptight people on this site

Hahahaha,

I know right, whats the big deal? just dont accept, how fucking hards that?

Its not like one night some random sends a friend request and the next day you wake up with Scabbies

Hahahahaha how about people run there profiles how they wish Hahahahaha how hard is that to accept

get a life"

Oooh check you out lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

OP Do you walk up to random people on the street and say we're friends? or do you get to know them before you call yourself friends. Why so many people think the online world should be so different to day to day life I'll never know

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton

I ignore them in the main if someone doesn't have the manners to say hello first and ask then they are best avoided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still not blocked no one's fabbed the photos feeling left out hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ignore them in the main if someone doesn't have the manners to say hello first and ask then they are best avoided. "

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't tell you how much fun I've had sending random requests off this feed . If only for a good wind up .

Some very uptight people on this site

Hahahaha,

I know right, whats the big deal? just dont accept, how fucking hards that?

Its not like one night some random sends a friend request and the next day you wake up with Scabbies

Hahahahaha how about people run there profiles how they wish Hahahahaha how hard is that to accept

get a life"

Really ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't tell you how much fun I've had sending random requests off this feed . If only for a good wind up .

Some very uptight people on this site

Hahahaha,

I know right, whats the big deal? just dont accept, how fucking hards that?

Its not like one night some random sends a friend request and the next day you wake up with Scabbies

Hahahahaha how about people run there profiles how they wish Hahahahaha how hard is that to accept "

Agree totally with one small addition.

Read and respect their profile choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't tell you how much fun I've had sending random requests off this feed . If only for a good wind up .

Some very uptight people on this site

Hahahaha,

I know right, whats the big deal? just dont accept, how fucking hards that?

Its not like one night some random sends a friend request and the next day you wake up with Scabbies

Hahahahaha how about people run there profiles how they wish Hahahahaha how hard is that to accept

Agree totally with one small addition.

Read and respect their profile choices."

OK if the profile reads like war and peace but the photos look good then why now .

I mean really is it that insulting that people can't just delete and move on .

I'm mean it's a sex site where many people on here go to clubs at weekends and have sex with random people they have only know half an hour .

Time to chill out and stop being so uptight I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We immediately delete them if we've never had any contact with that person. If we've been chatting though and getting along we're happy to add them, we don't just reserve our friends list for people we've met.

There's a definite feeling that people who send a request without sending a message are just looking to perve our private pics - they'd be sorely disappointed if that's where they think we've got the explicit pics! "
states on my profile that I don't accept random friend requests kik Skype etc unless meeting as my pics are for people I've met regularly talk to or plan on meeting it just gets ignored had 15 today already all declined as no connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We immediately delete them if we've never had any contact with that person. If we've been chatting though and getting along we're happy to add them, we don't just reserve our friends list for people we've met.

There's a definite feeling that people who send a request without sending a message are just looking to perve our private pics - they'd be sorely disappointed if that's where they think we've got the explicit pics! states on my profile that I don't accept random friend requests kik Skype etc unless meeting as my pics are for people I've met regularly talk to or plan on meeting it just gets ignored had 15 today already all declined as no connection"

16 now but not sure why . Think I got a problem

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"You de wonder sometimes

If you de no friends / private pics on your profile how many friends requests would u get then

?????

I'll go ask MrsSB, hang on be back in a mo....

S"

One or two a week apparently, so I think we may have a winner

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We immediately delete them if we've never had any contact with that person. If we've been chatting though and getting along we're happy to add them, we don't just reserve our friends list for people we've met.

There's a definite feeling that people who send a request without sending a message are just looking to perve our private pics - they'd be sorely disappointed if that's where they think we've got the explicit pics! states on my profile that I don't accept random friend requests kik Skype etc unless meeting as my pics are for people I've met regularly talk to or plan on meeting it just gets ignored had 15 today already all declined as no connection"

17 really think I have a problem now

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"We immediately delete them if we've never had any contact with that person. If we've been chatting though and getting along we're happy to add them, we don't just reserve our friends list for people we've met.

There's a definite feeling that people who send a request without sending a message are just looking to perve our private pics - they'd be sorely disappointed if that's where they think we've got the explicit pics! states on my profile that I don't accept random friend requests kik Skype etc unless meeting as my pics are for people I've met regularly talk to or plan on meeting it just gets ignored had 15 today already all declined as no connection

17 really think I have a problem now "

Perhaps you should stop fannying about & start meeting lol

;-)

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant block and delete.

Quite simple - if we haven't chatted either in here or the rest of the site then what makes them think we would be interested in sharing private pics, etc with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Instant block and delete.

Quite simple - if we haven't chatted either in here or the rest of the site then what makes them think we would be interested in sharing private pics, etc with them?"

Is that a zzr14 in the photo you have??? Love that bike . Not as nice as my xjr13 but a good bike non the less . Will you block me now ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We immediately delete them if we've never had any contact with that person. If we've been chatting though and getting along we're happy to add them, we don't just reserve our friends list for people we've met.

There's a definite feeling that people who send a request without sending a message are just looking to perve our private pics - they'd be sorely disappointed if that's where they think we've got the explicit pics! states on my profile that I don't accept random friend requests kik Skype etc unless meeting as my pics are for people I've met regularly talk to or plan on meeting it just gets ignored had 15 today already all declined as no connection

17 really think I have a problem now

Perhaps you should stop fannying about & start meeting lol

;-)

S"

Who's got a fanny out then ???

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"We immediately delete them if we've never had any contact with that person. If we've been chatting though and getting along we're happy to add them, we don't just reserve our friends list for people we've met.

There's a definite feeling that people who send a request without sending a message are just looking to perve our private pics - they'd be sorely disappointed if that's where they think we've got the explicit pics! states on my profile that I don't accept random friend requests kik Skype etc unless meeting as my pics are for people I've met regularly talk to or plan on meeting it just gets ignored had 15 today already all declined as no connection

17 really think I have a problem now

Perhaps you should stop fannying about & start meeting lol

;-)

S

Who's got a fanny out then ??? "

Lol

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We immediately delete them if we've never had any contact with that person. If we've been chatting though and getting along we're happy to add them, we don't just reserve our friends list for people we've met.

There's a definite feeling that people who send a request without sending a message are just looking to perve our private pics - they'd be sorely disappointed if that's where they think we've got the explicit pics! states on my profile that I don't accept random friend requests kik Skype etc unless meeting as my pics are for people I've met regularly talk to or plan on meeting it just gets ignored had 15 today already all declined as no connection

17 really think I have a problem now

Perhaps you should stop fannying about & start meeting lol

;-)

S

Who's got a fanny out then ???

Lol

S"

Did I miss it ?? Was that a hint that you wanna meet us ??? Hahahaha

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"We immediately delete them if we've never had any contact with that person. If we've been chatting though and getting along we're happy to add them, we don't just reserve our friends list for people we've met.

There's a definite feeling that people who send a request without sending a message are just looking to perve our private pics - they'd be sorely disappointed if that's where they think we've got the explicit pics! states on my profile that I don't accept random friend requests kik Skype etc unless meeting as my pics are for people I've met regularly talk to or plan on meeting it just gets ignored had 15 today already all declined as no connection

17 really think I have a problem now

Perhaps you should stop fannying about & start meeting lol

;-)

S

Who's got a fanny out then ???

Lol

S

Did I miss it ?? Was that a hint that you wanna meet us ??? Hahahaha "

Nah, too busy now

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your views on random friend requests? "

I always have this vague fear that a friend request may be from someone crying in the dark thinking nobody likes them or wants to be their friend, and that would suck so I just always accept the request.

And it's ridiculously easy to ignore and block people if they act like shitheads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your views on random friend requests?

I always have this vague fear that a friend request may be from someone crying in the dark thinking nobody likes them or wants to be their friend, and that would suck so I just always accept the request.

And it's ridiculously easy to ignore and block people if they act like shitheads.

"

True dat .

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By *arumcoupleCouple
over a year ago

salisbury

Sorry we just delete and instant block, if they are that presumptuous before a meet, what would they be like during a meet??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We never accept them from randomers. It's like saying 'show us everything you got' without so much as a hello.

Sometimes, we'll wait till they're offline, have a quick perv before we block them

Don't forget to fab a few of their friend only pics before you unfriend them, just to let them know you were there or send a nice message thanking them for allowing you to look at their pics

Oh damn! Never thought of that. You can be assured we will in future. That'd be a head trip for the inviter "

Hahahahaha haha boo hoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only after we have meet them will we except friends requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive accidentally sent unsolicited friend requests by hitting the wrong button on my ipad whilst trying to perv at public galleries, they are right close together you know, and these big dumb thumbs of mine

anyone else done that?

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