FabSwingers.com forum: Age

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get around age filters. At a guess.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Because they are hoping to meet a much younger woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do guys need to lie.

gettin fuckin sick of it now.

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

It increases their chances of sex. Or at least they think it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it ladies that lie about age on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ? "

I met a guy on here who has since left and returned twice - every profile he had said a different age by a couple of years. Don't see the point really.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ? "

It barely matters if ladies lie about their age as so many men profiles have an upper age limit of 99.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I don't lie.

I would feel stupid doing so

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I don't lie about me age although I find it frustrating when I want to message a lady and I am one year above her limit

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ?

I met a guy on here who has since left and returned twice - every profile he had said a different age by a couple of years. Don't see the point really."

Clearly he's been in a time-space continuum

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Some of the guys that lie about their age can not get away with it whatsoever lol

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I think asking for your prospective partner to be carbon dated sends out the wrong signals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never lied about my age...

in fact when I was in my 20's and 30's I used to have to carry ID with me for proof I was the age I said I was, as I had such a baby face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must be single man bashing day..7 days a week...

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Some like to believe they are younger than they really are or look younger than they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never lied about my age, and never will do

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I find women lie just as much as men on here about their age. I see no point in it but then I'm still young, in fifteen years or so I might decide that 'age is just a number and I feel younger' (no, you just don't feel tired) and then take off the odd five or so. I guess it's self denial and a chance to avoid filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ?

I met a guy on here who has since left and returned twice - every profile he had said a different age by a couple of years. Don't see the point really.

Clearly he's been in a time-space continuum

Ah silly me, why didn't I realise that

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"must be single man bashing day..7 days a week..."

Women do the same, just that there are more men than women on here.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ? "

Because you have an age filter set.

People lie about their age, sex, height, weight, hair, intelligence, jobs, professionalism, discretion, marital status, sexuality, pretty much anything you imagine there being a filter for.

I lie about being laid back and witty on meets, when in reality I am a nervous wreck

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's filters gotta do with it. You can't change your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they feel better about their tiny weener

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we should bring our age filters down in protest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lie about my age to stop people thinking I'm lying about my age. I'm really only forty but I've had a hard life.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

[Removed by poster at 02/11/16 20:58:58]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never lied about my age...

in fact when I was in my 20's and 30's I used to have to carry ID with me for proof I was the age I said I was, as I had such a baby face

I have that problem! *sob*

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

And there was us thinking it was more likely to be the women, goes to show.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ?

I met a guy on here who has since left and returned twice - every profile he had said a different age by a couple of years. Don't see the point really.

Clearly he's been in a time-space continuum

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"I've never lied about my age...

in fact when I was in my 20's and 30's I used to have to carry ID with me for proof I was the age I said I was, as I had such a baby face

I have that problem! *sob*

I had that problem for years then BAM 40's and wrinkles everywhere.

Now I look baby faced with 60 year old skin. *sob*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So they feel better about their tiny weener

Hey how did you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lie about my age to stop people thinking I'm lying about my age. I'm really only forty but I've had a hard life.

The 'Liar Paradox'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we should bring our age filters down in protest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"must be single man bashing day..7 days a week...

Women do the same, just that there are more men than women on here."

I know..

My point is plenty of women/couples do it...but as it is always easier to pick on the biggest group to find faults with..

If it really means that much to someone, ask them to show their ID,some other kinda proof..check for a wedding ring mark, spy on them at work or outside their house..the list is endless...if it means that much to someone...

in most cases the easiest option is to check the verifies(while it is not fair on everyone), it might stop this endless moaning about what guys are doing wrong... (apply the same preset to the other groups if there appears to be a problem in the selection process)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never felt the need to lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never lied about my age...

in fact when I was in my 20's and 30's I used to have to carry ID with me for proof I was the age I said I was, as I had such a baby face

I have that problem! *sob*

I had that problem for years then BAM 40's and wrinkles everywhere.

Now I look baby faced with 60 year old skin. *sob*"

Plus side.... at least it's only in the face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never felt the need to lie "

That's a lie right there!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"What's filters gotta do with it. You can't change your age "

Really?

Bless.

It was only last week that I realised why many couples with a large age difference list the younger one first...

Sadly it was too late for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knocked off 8 years when I joined years ago. Was soon rumbled! Ain't worth it, I'm just on here for the banter now I'm pushing 60!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we should bring our age filters down in protest.

not to your age though my lad.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ? "

its a lets bash the guys posts role up fellas the saintly women will be dishing it out by the bucketful because only guys lie bet you didn't know that little known fact did you

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"I've never lied about my age...

in fact when I was in my 20's and 30's I used to have to carry ID with me for proof I was the age I said I was, as I had such a baby face

I have that problem! *sob*

I had that problem for years then BAM 40's and wrinkles everywhere.

Now I look baby faced with 60 year old skin. *sob*

Plus side.... at least it's only in the face!

But I don't match up! Think it's paper bag over my head time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read the whole thread but I'm sure I'm not the first to suggest that women do it too!

I lie about my age : I've aged myself some months as my Fab birthday is 1 January but my actual birthday is later on in the year.

So I appear (slightly) older on Fab than I really am!

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"I've never lied about my age...

in fact when I was in my 20's and 30's I used to have to carry ID with me for proof I was the age I said I was, as I had such a baby face

I suffered the same fate in my 20s and early 30s. Alas it all went down hill in my 40s!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would I lie about being 25? no need for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we should bring our age filters down in protest.

not to your age though my lad.

I'm too mature isn't that right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's filters gotta do with it. You can't change your age "

yes you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never lied about my age...

in fact when I was in my 20's and 30's I used to have to carry ID with me for proof I was the age I said I was, as I had such a baby face

I have that problem! *sob*

I had that problem for years then BAM 40's and wrinkles everywhere.

Now I look baby faced with 60 year old skin. *sob*

Plus side.... at least it's only in the face!

But I don't match up! Think it's paper bag over my head time."

KINKY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never lied about my age...

in fact when I was in my 20's and 30's I used to have to carry ID with me for proof I was the age I said I was, as I had such a baby face

lucky. never needed I.d from the age of about 15.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think mem lie to get round filters and women do it as some ego boost from what ive seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thinks it's because girls and couples can afford to be choosy on here .

Are you better off been fifty for the up to fifty limit or 51 for the only want guys over fifty limit lol

Ps I really am 51

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit harsh it's not just guys so many couples do it to

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Most men I have met have lied about their age...mostly by saying they are 5 years younger than they are, they say it is to disguise themselves from work colleagues which is bullshit lol

One guy when I met him her was older than me, now he is younger....who the fuck is he kidding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's filters gotta do with it. You can't change your age

yes you can. "

What constantly? Surely the admin/mods wouldn't allow it. Bit extreme for a fuck ain't it

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Has the op had a life experience so now logically assuming ALL guys are the same

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I had a lady lie about her age. Her profile said 29 but when we met she confessed she was nearly 107

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It increases their chances of sex. Or at least they think it does."

It's so obvious when you look at their photos as well. Nothing puts me off more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ?

its a lets bash the guys posts role up fellas the saintly women will be dishing it out by the bucketful because only guys lie bet you didn't know that little known fact did you

Set up another thread about women and age then.

I don't lie about my age. I'm proud of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just men, I remember a woman posting once that she was lying about her age by about 10 years because "everyone told her she looked younger". Sure, love.

I've met men who were a few years older than their profile ages. Didn't really bother me, they'd sent me up to date photos and I fancied them from those.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ? "
It is not an issue to which I have given much thought . I just look at the profile pictures. I have better things to do in life than evaluate whether the photos match the age on the profile .

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

People think I put my age down but I obviously just look older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's filters gotta do with it. You can't change your age

yes you can.

What constantly? Surely the admin/mods wouldn't allow it. Bit extreme for a fuck ain't it

now we're throwing the word 'constantly' in.

that's not what you said.

you just said you couldn't change your age and you can

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"What's filters gotta do with it. You can't change your age

yes you can.

What constantly? Surely the admin/mods wouldn't allow it. Bit extreme for a fuck ain't it

You can change your age once. But there is no limit to how many times you can leave and return with a "younger" profile.

I know of one woman who has done that at least twice since we've been here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's filters gotta do with it. You can't change your age

yes you can.

What constantly? Surely the admin/mods wouldn't allow it. Bit extreme for a fuck ain't it

now we're throwing the word 'constantly' in.

that's not what you said.

you just said you couldn't change your age and you can

Just the once then I imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got ID'd a couple of weeks back in the USA in a bar. The waitress didn't believe me and I was scrabbling in the depths of my bag for my licence fruitlessly for a while which made it look worse!

(I was chuffed to bits really)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never lied about my age...

in fact when I was in my 20's and 30's I used to have to carry ID with me for proof I was the age I said I was, as I had such a baby face

I suffered the same fate in my 20s and early 30s. Alas it all went down hill in my 40s!!!!!!!"

well now I'm 51 I'm rather thankful that I still look younger...its all in the genes obviously

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Theres one woman knocked 10 years of her new profile cause we both shared being 50 same year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never lied about my age...

in fact when I was in my 20's and 30's I used to have to carry ID with me for proof I was the age I said I was, as I had such a baby face

I have that problem! *sob*

I had that problem for years then BAM 40's and wrinkles everywhere.

Now I look baby faced with 60 year old skin. *sob*"

what are these 'wrinkles' you speak of

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ?

Because you have an age filter set.

People lie about their age, sex, height, weight, hair, intelligence, jobs, professionalism, discretion, marital status, sexuality, pretty much anything you imagine there being a filter for.

I lie about being laid back and witty on meets, when in reality I am a nervous wreck

Mr ddc"

People lie about any stat that THEY feel will lesson their chances of a meet with the people THEY want to meet..So someone over 50 who wants to meet over 50's won't in general lie, someone 50 who wants to meet 30somethings or younger might knock a few years off to stay the right side of the magic 50.. Shortuns might add 2" just to get closer to the 6' that a lot of women seem to specify..

Welcome to the world of Fab, where no guarantees on anyone are given, till after you've fucked them

I'm in a good mood by the way, this isn't a downer post, just a pretty factual one

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"I've never lied about my age...

in fact when I was in my 20's and 30's I used to have to carry ID with me for proof I was the age I said I was, as I had such a baby face

I have that problem! *sob*

I had that problem for years then BAM 40's and wrinkles everywhere.

Now I look baby faced with 60 year old skin. *sob*

what are these 'wrinkles' you speak of

Says you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of the guys that lie about their age can not get away with it whatsoever lol"
exactly must think we,re all buttoned up the back, some u cud put twenty years on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never felt the need to lie

That's a lie right there!

Damn busted

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

They don't read either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ?

Because you have an age filter set.

People lie about their age, sex, height, weight, hair, intelligence, jobs, professionalism, discretion, marital status, sexuality, pretty much anything you imagine there being a filter for.

I lie about being laid back and witty on meets, when in reality I am a nervous wreck

Mr ddc"
. Lol think everyone still get butterflies

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I have visions of some of you looking like the Professor from Futurama when getting out the bath...

I'll get me coat..........

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have visions of some of you looking like the Professor from Futurama when getting out the bath...

I'll get me coat..........

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never felt the need to lie

That's a lie right there!

Damn busted

Gonna have to get up early in the morning to catch me out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have visions of some of you looking like the Professor from Futurama when getting out the bath...

I'll get me coat..........

xxx

Awkward.... is it bad when that happens at 23?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's just sometimes u ask for a face pic and they say there maybe 50 and as soon as u see the pic your like I right there pal lol , I'm not saying it to upset anyone x

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I have visions of some of you looking like the Professor from Futurama when getting out the bath...

I'll get me coat..........

xxx

Awkward.... is it bad when that happens at 23?

Not of its only your winky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's filters gotta do with it. You can't change your age

yes you can.

What constantly? Surely the admin/mods wouldn't allow it. Bit extreme for a fuck ain't it

now we're throwing the word 'constantly' in.

that's not what you said.

you just said you couldn't change your age and you can

Just the once then I imagine"

changeable then

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I'm actually 97.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm actually 97.

Good arse for 97

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm actually 97.

Good arse for 97

I shall inform my surgeon of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm actually 97.

Good arse for 97

I shall inform my surgeon of this."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile wise I'm pretty sure it's an even split between the genders with the disclaimer halfway down that they're older than they're fab age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they are hoping to meet a much younger woman."

I actually find younger guys add years to their age to find older women and older guys over 50 tend to bring their age down to under 50. Its hilarious.. i just dont get why they lie. I have never lied about my age, im proud of it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My secret yo maintaining my wrinkle free visage is to maintain a big fat head. Stretches them out doncha know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'To'. Not 'Yo'. I haven't gone 'street'. Just got fat fingers to match my fat head.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Don't know,because they're a bit sad maybe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most men I have met have lied about their age...mostly by saying they are 5 years younger than they are, they say it is to disguise themselves from work colleagues which is bullshit lol

One guy when I met him her was older than me, now he is younger....who the fuck is he kidding?

I've known men to take 10 years off their age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is slightly inaccurate for the pitiful reason that when I first signed up, I was terrified of people I knew spotting me.Ridiculous, I know, but thought it might prevent me from being identified.

Then I put photos on which made the whole charade rather pointless. I'm less paranoid these days

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By *meraldgoddessWoman
over a year ago

BURY

It's not just age its putting up pictures of themselves which are from years ago aswell .

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

"Why do guys especially need to lie about there age ? "

Some do ... I don't ... no point !!

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