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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this I promise to reply. " Damn you. I was going to post this | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this I promise to reply. Damn you. I was going to post this " Lo siento | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this " No, because if they are perfect then there is a point! If there is no point - they are not perfect for you! | |||
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"Yes, although I probably stick them on our hotlist in case I feel braver another day. " This | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this I promise to reply. " and i promise not to. | |||
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"Yeah one lad messaged and I told him i couldn't meet cos he way out of my bloody league " I call bullshit no one out of your league | |||
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"Yeah one lad messaged and I told him i couldn't meet cos he way out of my bloody league I call bullshit no one out of your league " This lad was amazing and he hadn't seen face pic.lol. | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this I promise to reply. Damn you. I was going to post this Lo siento" No pasa nada. | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this " nope I just go out back sacrifice another chicken to the dark gods and await the message from them | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this " I think you'll find we've already spoken hahaaa | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this " Not really, I don't use the search to look for meets, simply because the chances are that my message will get deleted or ignored. I do recruit for my hotlist from the forums tho | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this I think you'll find we've already spoken hahaaa" Hahahaha | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this I promise to reply. " | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this I think you'll find we've already spoken hahaaa Hahahaha " back at ya! | |||
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"They go in my hotlist too. But I'm not afraid. You only live once." Seriously never be afraid to message me | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this " Please go ahead and message | |||
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"Yes i do this alot ...they go in my hotlist instead " I have that same tactic! | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this " yes xx | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this " All the time. I talk myself out of messaging ... convince myself 'they' wouldn't be interested. I honestly wouldn't mind polite rejection, or even no reply ... 'c'est la vie' ... but am too scared of being laughed at or sneered at for having the temerity to punch above my weight. | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this All the time. I talk myself out of messaging ... convince myself 'they' wouldn't be interested. I honestly wouldn't mind polite rejection, or even no reply ... 'c'est la vie' ... but am too scared of being laughed at or sneered at for having the temerity to punch above my weight. " You're stunning. I'm sure you'd not be rejected on here by anyone you took a fancy too. | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this yes xx" Usually because they won't meet smokers, can't travel, I'm out of their age range, or something of that nature, but not all profiles are true | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this All the time. I talk myself out of messaging ... convince myself 'they' wouldn't be interested. I honestly wouldn't mind polite rejection, or even no reply ... 'c'est la vie' ... but am too scared of being laughed at or sneered at for having the temerity to punch above my weight. " Not just me that does that then | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this All the time. I talk myself out of messaging ... convince myself 'they' wouldn't be interested. I honestly wouldn't mind polite rejection, or even no reply ... 'c'est la vie' ... but am too scared of being laughed at or sneered at for having the temerity to punch above my weight. You're stunning. I'm sure you'd not be rejected on here by anyone you took a fancy too." Thank you - but it'd be crazy to think I'm not going to get rejected. Everyone's individual - we all want different things, and can reject others on the tiniest thing(s) that don't appeal. As I said before, it's not rejection I fear but the *manner* of rejection because I know someone effectively saying 'who the hell do you think you are?!' will get at me. I know this is entirely my problem and would love to be able to get over it! | |||
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"Depends. I didn't. But then I have messaged one or two guys and they've either ignored and deleted my messages (fair enough) or told me i'm only messaging them out of sympathy. So i don't message first anymore, no matter how shit hot they look or funny the profile." And the girls block guys for no reason | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this " Yes, I used to. As a single guy it got to the point where I thought like this about every profile, so just stopped messaging altogether. | |||
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"I have the biggest girl crush on someone. But she's just too perfect. Sat on my hotlist until I'm braver! " Just message them! I never expected KJ to reply but she did and look at us now! Beard | |||
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"If I see someone who looks perfect I always send them a message. what's the worst that could happen? they block you or just ignore you. If you don't ask then you will never know x" | |||
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"Do you ever look at a profile,think they are perfect, but dont message because deep down you know there will be no point? Just realised I do this " No if I see someone I really like I say hello. | |||
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"Yes, although I probably stick them on our hotlist in case I feel braver another day. " This. I wait for the right time and pounce, more often unsuccessfully but who cares, live a little ! | |||
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