FabSwingers.com forum: Guys offering cash!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see from status updates that females are being offered cash for sex. This is instead of guys bothering to make an effort. I guess the art of seduction is dying. I love that part of the game. Seduction, the dance of messages, texts, kik chats, photo swaps, phone calls, leading to that sweet sweet moment of anticipation and then....

But why are more and more guys choosing to shortcut this and just offer cash?

Are they watching porn sites where some guy in the Czech Republic bumps into a stranger, offers her a few hundred euro, then fucks her, and copying this approach?

Human behaviour is driven by economics. If this approach had not once, in the history of fab and rival sites/apps, actually been successful, it would quickly die out. I guess that for every hundred simple cut and paste messages where money is offered for sex, there are positive responses.

Indeed some single female status updates, a small number, actually highlight financial circumstances, broke/skint/etc is this to encourage such offers? Should these words be banned There must be single females on fab responding favourably to these outright offers of cash for sex which in turn encourages the unwanted behaviour of offering cash outright for sex. As I'm sure that's against site rules shouldn't females be reporting every single instance, as repeated bans overtime should restrict this antisocial behaviour?

Should we be tackling issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hope those guys realise the Czech porn is staged and not real!

If anyone either asks for, or offers, cash on here report.

I guess some people confuse this site with Adultwork and there may be a crossover of users. Or just lack tact.

I think there are women on here that take cash for sex and men that opt to utilise this route. I'm sure many take a chance that a lady will accept. Ask 100 women if they want cash and 2 say 'OK' and it's job done for them isn't it?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

There are men on here who offer financial reward and women who accept it but it is absolutely against the rules.

Whenever i see anyone offering or asking for payment i report them. Admin can't deal with it if we don't flag it up to them so we all need to play our part.

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

I always wonder exactly what the guys who offer cash would expect you to do for it?

Bit scary if you ask me.

(And also obviously against site rules.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may offer it but I bet in reality they ain't got 2 penny's to rub together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a message off one earlier today, £250, 3 hours of rough fucking, drinks and hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll dance for sapphires...

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By *ilfy85Woman
over a year ago

Beckwithshaw

A bloke offered me a weeks shopping and has got another lady on here a week to to meet her sad really especially if his boss was to find out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend of mine who's on here txt me last night

Some asshole asked her what he's gonna get for £20

No wonder single guys get so much shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been offered anything!

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"We had a message off one earlier today, £250, 3 hours of rough fucking, drinks and hotel. "

Send me his details, £250 is £250

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think some females are worth the 5p I would consider offering

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

No fecker has ever offered me money for a shag. I feel cheated now

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink

"We had a message off one earlier today, £250, 3 hours of rough fucking, drinks and hotel. "

I got the exact same message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy for them.... they don't have to try and they get what they want. It's vile!

But I'm with that guy... I don't get offered money for sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a message off one earlier today, £250, 3 hours of rough fucking, drinks and hotel.

Send me his details, £250 is £250

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy offer me £150 to spend a hour with me n do what ever I wanted...

He soon blocked me when I said that sounds great when can he come do washing, ironing and cleaning while me n other half go sleep lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy offer me £150 to spend a hour with me n do what ever I wanted...

He soon blocked me when I said that sounds great when can he come do washing, ironing and cleaning while me n other half go sleep lol x"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I like to seduce a man, sometimes I like to pay for their company. Neither way is more or less valid than the other. It's just personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy offer me £150 to spend a hour with me n do what ever I wanted...

He soon blocked me when I said that sounds great when can he come do washing, ironing and cleaning while me n other half go sleep lol x"

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I had a guy saying he just likes to pamper women and didn't expect anything in return. So I didn't make a return reply to his message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy offer me £150 to spend a hour with me n do what ever I wanted...

He soon blocked me when I said that sounds great when can he come do washing, ironing and cleaning while me n other half go sleep lol x

Well he did say anything lol x

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"We had a message off one earlier today, £250, 3 hours of rough fucking, drinks and hotel.

Send me his details, £250 is £250

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one ever offers me cash, I must look cheap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one ever offers me cash, I must look cheap.

Narwww here's some money. *2p*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been offered money (well the female has) but we just humour them and laugh it off, no point in getting her knickers in a twist is there ( half the time she never wears any anyway lol)

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I did see a post from a female offering anyone a blow job for a lift to Mcdonalds

Pure class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did see a post from a female offering anyone a blow job for a lift to Mcdonalds

Pure class"

Sorry but I needed nuggets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did see a post from a female offering anyone a blow job for a lift to Mcdonalds

Pure class

Sorry but I needed nuggets

I'm surprised it was only a bj she offered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was invited to make a donation by a lady the other morning because I wasn't in the age range. I can't say I wasn't tempted but I don't see the point here!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would hope those guys realise the Czech porn is staged and not real! "

What!?

Anyone want a return ticket to czechoslovakia?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lady on here who is quite local to me who regularly puts in her status that she needs a lift somewhere and offers sexual favours in return, I haven't taken up the offer before anyone asks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did see a post from a female offering anyone a blow job for a lift to Mcdonalds

Pure class"

Now that's a drive thru I'd love.

I'll take a mcflurry with head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was invited to make a donation by a lady the other morning because I wasn't in the age range. I can't say I wasn't tempted but I don't see the point here!? "

You should really report them. For every person who is asking for cash on this site, it makes others here think that's acceptable behaviour.

It isn't - those kind of arrangements need to happen elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just link them to adult work...call them a desperate punter and feel better in yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm i just got offered cash to meet .....first time as well ..they normally ask for my knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got offered £250 to treat this man like a sex slave!

MrsP

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got offered £250 to treat this man like a sex slave!

MrsP

Xxx"

I'll do it for free

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Never been offered cash!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No fecker has ever offered me money for a shag. I feel cheated now

I meet people, then they offer me cash to leave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a fair share of the ladies posting similar. Asking for plumbers ect. with sexual favours offered in return. Block them all....

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

I'd pay £5000 to have a lass shit on my chest!

Fuck! Wrong forum!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd pay £5000 to have a lass shit on my chest!

Fuck! Wrong forum!!

Wrong site

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By *hispers-40Woman
over a year ago

up the garden path

Ive been offered holidays log cabins champers hot tub trip to carrabean and some one asking for me to sell my worn knickers wtf

but all declined the knickers on took me back a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had anyone offer money for sex with me must be doing something wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had offers to pay by men and 'the female half ' of couple both declined and reported along with this mornings troll.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We've been asked regulary if I (Suzi ) does escort services.

Is that the same as offering cash ???? Which, I might add, we have also been offered.

Should I report these people ??? I just tend to ignore the message. Xxxxx Suzi

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"Sometimes I like to seduce a man, sometimes I like to pay for their company. Neither way is more or less valid than the other. It's just personal preference."

£2.50 and I'm yours lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I like to seduce a man, sometimes I like to pay for their company. Neither way is more or less valid than the other. It's just personal preference.

£2.50 and I'm yours lol"

No thank you. Lol.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

On a serious note.

I have replied to "single fems" and "couples" profiles and was offered their "services" for cash.

I then report them and next thing I see is, they are still on the site BUT they have blocked me.

How does that work?

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By *tarlord6969Man
over a year ago

stockport

I've been winked, messaged, hooked in and then asked if I would show some appreciation monetarily as the "lady" likes that!...needless to say I didn't bother any more!

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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago

heath hays

The amount of guys in here that offer cash for sex is staggering.I think it's not only against every that swinging is stands for its also a insult like saying are you a prostitute and it also makes the guys doing it look so desperate.Its one of the all time lows and happens a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of guys in here that offer cash for sex is staggering.I think it's not only against every that swinging is stands for its also a insult like saying are you a prostitute and it also makes the guys doing it look so desperate.Its one of the all time lows and happens a lot."

But I mean look at that booty!

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

How do you think it feels when I the other way round? I reply as a genuine swinger with veris and everything.

Then get told if I want fun I have to pay for it? Makes me feel like a stupid punter. Leaves a nasty taste in the mouth especially as when I report them, they stay on but suddenly block me. Do the admin, tell them and then believe them when they deny it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you think it feels when I the other way round? I reply as a genuine swinger with veris and everything.

No admin block you both so you can't be asked again

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"I'd pay £5000 to have a lass shit on my chest!

Fuck! Wrong forum!!

Wrong site

Relapse!

Need more meetings at SA.

Shitters Anonymous

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

How do you think it feels when I the other way round? I reply as a genuine swinger with veris and everything.

No admin block you both so you can't be asked again

But why don't they get banned?

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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago

heath hays

How do you think it feels when I the other way round? I reply as a genuine swinger with veris and everything.

Anyone offering cash for sex is not a true swinger and basically there not only insulting themselfes but there also insulting you.

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By *hispers-40Woman
over a year ago

up the garden path

How do you think it feels when I the other way round? I reply as a genuine swinger with veris and everything.

Anyone offering cash for sex is not a true swinger and basically there not only insulting themselfes but there also insulting you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been offered cash for underwear

and just to actually clean up for us??? Baffling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will find in life that men will pay for sex whether directly or indirectly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone offering cash for sex is not a true swinger and basically there not only insulting themselfes but there also insulting you."

So what you just said there is, that people are only allowed to swing 'the one true way' and cannot do sex and relationships differently in different parts of their lives.

Somehow paying for sex away from a swinging site makes you not a truuuuuue swinger...

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

Anyone offering cash for sex is not a true swinger and basically there not only insulting themselfes but there also insulting you.

So what you just said there is, that people are only allowed to swing 'the one true way' and cannot do sex and relationships differently in different parts of their lives.

Somehow paying for sex away from a swinging site makes you not a truuuuuue swinger..."

Personally speaking. Yes. I think swinging is swinging. Maybe have a section on here for escort services, but I find an ad that says "Mrs loves cocks blah blah blah" then when I have replied, was told o have to be "generous" to be involved. Why not state that straight away? Then men offering can find women/couples offering. Then keep swingers swinging with peace of mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been offered money so a guy could worship my feet...and been told by some that they would pay to fuck me... makes my skin crawl tbh... not good!

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

How do you think it feels when I the other way round? I reply as a genuine swinger with veris and everything.

Anyone offering cash for sex is not a true swinger and basically there not only insulting themselfes but there also insulting you."

Agree completely. Offering to pay, however it is disguised, is quite simply prostitution. We are not here to be bought, we are here to swing, swap partners and have fun with like minded couples. Xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told by a woman if i wanted sex with her i could but it would cost me £60.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *orthern PowerhouseMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It should be stamped on by the site but a few people I have chatted to say the site doesn't seem to take a lot of notice when you report the offenders and this will only drag fabswingers down.

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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago

heath hays

Anyone offering cash for sex is not a true swinger and basically there not only insulting themselfes but there also insulting you.

So what you just said there is, that people are only allowed to swing 'the one true way' and cannot do sex and relationships differently in different parts of their lives.

Somehow paying for sex away from a swinging site makes you not a truuuuuue swinger..."

I didn't say that and you may find that's just your interiptation of what I said.

What MY view is on swinging is it be FUN.We all have our own wants and likes and that's what we should all look for.A fun partner(s) that's compatable with your wants and likes.

Surely having sex for cash is not only taking away the fun,friendship,likes wants,compatibility and just turning it into a soulless no morels business transaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely having sex for cash is not only taking away the fun,friendship,likes wants,compatibility and just turning it into a soulless no morels business transaction."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I like to seduce a man, sometimes I like to pay for their company. Neither way is more or less valid than the other. It's just personal preference.

£2.50 and I'm yours lol

No thank you. Lol."

Ok, I'll raise the stakes - if I buy you a Latte and you buy me a piece of cake we're quits! And get each other's company as a bonus! Deal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a similar discussion with a friend who was on here. She had been chatting to someone on here she wanted to meet but neither could accommodate. She refused to let him pay for a hotel because she considered it prostitution and she didn't have the money to pay for a room.

I've bought girls drinks in clubs when I was younger hoping to get lucky. Is that prostitution?

It's not black and white.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've also enjoyed online roleplays on Second Life, being paid a token after makes me feel really cheap and trashy... Kinda turned me on even more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say no lady's ever offerred me money to either come or go! Whetber that's a good thing or not depends on whether I'm coming or going!

I've never offerred money - I can't give away what I don't have!

Money doesn't grow on trees but us guys can at least happily and freely donate to ladies our one natural and absolutely free resource in great quantities - our cum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Women in Greggs offered me a free cheese and onion bake in return for sex. Obvioulsly I said no.....can't stand the cheese and onion bake

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

It's not just the men that do the "money talk "

Some women on here have messaged me, then when we arrange to meet, they ask me to bring some ££s along.

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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago

heath hays

Fun,friendship,smiles,intamacy,laughs,orgasms,and sexual attraction.No amount of money can buy these things and without those sex is pointless as you won't enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen a post on the Guys site the other day along the lines of: "blow job on offer if someone will buy me 10 fags" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many have offered to buy my used knickers and that seems to be a big thing.

I presume offering people on here cash is some sort of thrill bigger than just paying for a professional.

I haven't reported the ones asking for knickers but would report anyone asking for sex in return for money

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"Women in Greggs offered me a free cheese and onion bake in return for sex. Obvioulsly I said no.....can't stand the cheese and onion bake"

Couldn't agree with you more. Cheese and onion's a bit crap, to be fair. What if she offered you a steak bake. Would your little eye have lit up in anticipation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been offered cash several times. Just report them.

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
over a year ago

on the naughty side of the street

I've had similar messages.

Offers of money for my lingerie, pictures,time and even a phonecall.

Ive also been offered money to attend private events and to be taken on shopping sprees with guys old enough to be going my grandad.

I just think it's sad and delete the msgs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only offer myself as payment

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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago

heath hays

"I've had similar messages.

Offers of money for my lingerie, pictures,time and even a phonecall.

Ive also been offered money to attend private events and to be taken on shopping sprees with guys old enough to be going my grandad.

I just think it's sad and delete the msgs. "

I have had the same offers and even cash via pay pal for pics with me doing things to myself.

I just instantly block them with no reply.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"Women in Greggs offered me a free cheese and onion bake in return for sex. Obvioulsly I said no.....can't stand the cheese and onion bake

Couldn't agree with you more. Cheese and onion's a bit crap, to be fair. What if she offered you a steak bake. Would your little eye have lit up in anticipation?

Stake maybe but sadly I am now banned from every Greggs in the country after I told a busty assistant how her Babs looked delicious

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