FabSwingers.com forum: Sexual preferences and limits.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Quite often we have the rumbling debates here about whether or not someone is racist if they have a blanket ban on sleeping with particular ethnicities.

Should a prostitute have the same option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A prostitute usually dont got preferences as it is work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Surely everyone has the right to say who they have sexual intercourse with.

It's a strange one though isn't it? If I owned a hotel and refused to accomodate any particular race then, quite rightly, I could be prosecuted.

But intercourse and physical interaction is different and should always be absolutely at the discretion of the service provider in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do, they have free will, they are being paid for their time not for sex, so if they choose to turn the client down that's their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite often we have the rumbling debates here about whether or not someone is racist if they have a blanket ban on sleeping with particular ethnicities.

Should a prostitute have the same option?"
I know quite a few ladies that work in that area that specify no to certain ethnicities and age ranges... and also seen it stated that they refuse the right to refuse service..which did make me giggle.

Guess like any job.. there are limits to what you would do within that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quite often we have the rumbling debates here about whether or not someone is racist if they have a blanket ban on sleeping with particular ethnicities.

Should a prostitute have the same option? I know quite a few ladies that work in that area that specify no to certain ethnicities and age ranges... and also seen it stated that they refuse the right to refuse service..which did make me giggle.

Guess like any job.. there are limits to what you would do within that. "

But should someone who is taking cash for personal services be allowed to put discriminatory restrictions on there clients?

After all, a deeply religious business person wouldn't be allowed to not do business with a gay person or grounds of their sexual orientation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite often we have the rumbling debates here about whether or not someone is racist if they have a blanket ban on sleeping with particular ethnicities.

Should a prostitute have the same option?"

Anyone should be given the same option I think, not just for ethnicity tho. Any reason is reason enough. If a person doesn't want sex with someone they should be free to express that without fearing abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course prostitutes have rights, wtf?

money doesn't mean you can do whatever you want to someone offering a service.

you wouldn't go in mcdonalds and ask for a kfc bucket, why would you expect a prostitute to give you services they don't offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You wouldn't go into McDonalds and be refused service because of your ethnicity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You wouldn't go into McDonalds and be refused service because of your ethnicity.

No but an electrician might ask what the job involves and then say he can't or won't do it.. he has that right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite often we have the rumbling debates here about whether or not someone is racist if they have a blanket ban on sleeping with particular ethnicities.

Guess like any job.. there are limits to what you would do within that.

But should someone who is taking cash for personal services be allowed to put discriminatory restrictions on there clients?

After all, a deeply religious business person wouldn't be allowed to not do business with a gay person or grounds of their sexual orientation."
yes they should be allowed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

individuals and private businesses can discriminate.

public businesses cannot.

so say a prostitute herself wants to discriminate then she can. if she worked in a public brothel she could still discriminate but the business owner would be responsible for that and could get prosecuted even, although there are ways round that too. if they hadn't let him into the brothel in the first place, discrimination. but if they ensure they have pros who will service all kinds of punter then they should be covered.

any pro could make up some bullshit excuse also, like say they are having a break and don't wanna service him or pretend they're booked up for the day/week/year even.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok. I'm playing devils advocate here as it's a question that I think has no right answer.

On the one hand you have an act that is so personal that if someone says no (insert ethnicity) then that should be respected.

However has that right been eroded because they are now holding themselves out as a business and everyone has the right not to be discriminated against because of the colour of their skin.

Taking the examples above - no electrician would be allowed to advertise that they won't work for certain people because of ethnicity.

And is it morally right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it right to discriminate? no, and nobody of sound mind would actually do that. ethically you're in the wrong there to think that all people of a certain *whatever/class/ethicity* do not deserve the same rights as anyone else.

to individually prefer one race over another, this is more complicated than discrimination, as preference means you only prefer someone over someone else. so although you might prefer white people you wouldn't rule out someone asian because of it.

so all those people saying they don't meet asians at all because it's their preferences are kind of lying. they do not prefer one type of person over another, they actually do not find anything about asians attractive whatsoever and have written them off completely. they're allowed to do that, and ethically -although they are discriminating as an individual, this is not wrong because you cannot force anyone to have sex with someone they don't like. and anyone complaining that someone doesn't want to fuck them because they are not attrctive to that person is an arsehole for not understanding that people have the right to do that.

if they said asains shouldn't be on this site or in swinging clubs then then this is where discrimination laws could actually kick in.

to force anyone fuck someone they don't want to fuck is rape so you can't do anything about that and people are allowed to be attracted to whoever they want to. same for prostitutes too, they have the right to discriminate as an individual, it might not make good business sense to do that but individual rights are also rights.

ethically discrimination does not make sense, but people are more complicated and often don't make sense until we understand them deeper.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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Of course escorts have choice and control over their clients. It would be wrong otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite often we have the rumbling debates here about whether or not someone is racist if they have a blanket ban on sleeping with particular ethnicities.

Guess like any job.. there are limits to what you would do within that.

But should someone who is taking cash for personal services be allowed to put discriminatory restrictions on there clients?

After all, a deeply religious business person wouldn't be allowed to not do business with a gay person or grounds of their sexual orientation."

Erm, 'cause it's their body, to do with as they wish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite often we have the rumbling debates here about whether or not someone is racist if they have a blanket ban on sleeping with particular ethnicities.

Guess like any job.. there are limits to what you would do within that.

But should someone who is taking cash for personal services be allowed to put discriminatory restrictions on there clients?

After all, a deeply religious business person wouldn't be allowed to not do business with a gay person or grounds of their sexual orientation."

If you're taking it this far then should heterosexual prostitutes be allowed to deny their services to same sex clients? Discriminating on the basis of gender is also against the law.

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