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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink

Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

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By *asy going swingersCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Yeah I think alot of women do get too hung up on the wobbly bits (wife included).... nothing wrong with wobbly bits

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I know I'm not male, and therefore not the people you are asking but... confidence and acceptance of yourself is always sexier than obsessing about your body and how you look.

I say this with the confidence of a very short, fat woman happy to walk around naked and hold my head up high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm female, but I'm having an input and saying yes women do worry too much. If a man can't accept that some/many women have lumps, bumps, stretch marks etc then it says more about them.

But like people say, frequently on here, people have preferences so if they want a gym bunny/toned woman then they're allowed that preference, they just don't make contact with those that don't fit what they're looking for. However, there are many men that don't think that way, for that I am appreciative

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By *asy going swingersCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I know I'm not male, and therefore not the people you are asking but... confidence and acceptance of yourself is always sexier than obsessing about your body and how you look.

I say this with the confidence of a very short, fat woman happy to walk around naked and hold my head up high.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im attracted to the smile.

I have hang ups about my belly after seeing so many ripped guys on here. So it happens to men too.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

For sure I've never had a guy in my bedroom question my stretch mark or my cellulite or my tummy they have always said how hot and gorgeous my body is.

I have however had guys on here send not so nice messages about my stretch marks but clearly they didn't want to fuck me so it was all good.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

In my experience as a very fat and as a less fat but still podgy girl the men and women who have been attracted to me have mainly been attracted to my face, which has been the thing that has changed the least. Sometimes my boobs get a mention since despite their droopiness they do look pretty awesome underneath clothing when I have the right bra on. So I do worry about it but at the same time I am also aware that I am worrying because I'm still not happy with my body, regardless of what anyone else thinks. It doesn't stop me enjoying it though.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys "

I for one only judge a woman on how she makes me feel when I'm in her company if she makes me feel sexy then I'm going to find her sexy .

attraction is really that simple if someone makes you feel attractive you are naturally going to feel attracted to that person regardless of whether they have a dew wobbly bit of not .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

"

I do hope that's some weird attempt at humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys "

Every lump, bump, scar, stretch and mark is the story of how you got to where you are now, it's our imperfections that make us uniquely perfect.

I've said it before and I'll say it again until I'm blue in the face...

The single most sexiest thing a woman can wear is confidence.

Ess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

"

As opposed to fake men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im attracted to the smile.

I have hang ups about my belly after seeing so many ripped guys on here. So it happens to men too."

+1 there

No one is perfect but it is easy to see some of the people that appear on here, and the attention they get, and think 'maybe this isn't for me as I'm nothing like them'.

If you connect on a mental level then the physical should follow quite easily. Does with me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No lumps and bumps show a life has been had ,and make a real woman

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

I think a lot of guys are too busy thinking "OMG it's an actual woman and she's naked!" to worry about the thing you worry about.

Confidence is what is attractive, be confident and the rest is easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No lumps and bumps show a life has been had ,and make a real woman "

What's a real woman?

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

I do hope that's some weird attempt at humour "

I don't think there's anything sexier than a woman who knows herself and has confidence in how she looks, no matter what size or shape they consider themselves to be, I'm not a lover of those too narcissistic.

I think the female form is a beautiful thing in any shape, your curves no matter how big or small are works of art and wear them with pride. It's about what's in the inside x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of guys are too busy thinking "OMG it's an actual woman and she's naked!" to worry about the thing you worry about.

Confidence is what is attractive, be confident and the rest is easy.

"

True story.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

"

There's absolutely no need for that. We're all real men and women and we like what we like.

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink

Thanks guys (and girls) it's one of them things that I think

Personally woman worry too much about and most men look beyond that and appreciate her mind her smile her hair the way she dresses as opposed to how slim/big she is.

Confidence can be hard though sometimes when you've got have bad body confidence over your body image. My ex would shame me for eating crisps sometimes and it has ingrained in me I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of guys are too busy thinking "OMG it's an actual woman and she's naked!" to worry about the thing you worry about.

Confidence is what is attractive, be confident and the rest is easy.

"

Love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's gender specific. Men worry too. I worry, yes. But I have someone who calls me beautiful, and is happy to kiss all my wobbly bits. I have two beautiful children,that i would gladly receive more wobbly bits for. We all need to try and see the positives in ourselves, as everyone has flaws, how we deal with those flaws is what defines us as confident women. So in conclusion... Some Women worry far too much... Sorry for the babble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

I do hope that's some weird attempt at humour

I don't think there's anything sexier than a woman who knows herself and has confidence in how she looks, no matter what size or shape they consider themselves to be, I'm not a lover of those too narcissistic.

I think the female form is a beautiful thing in any shape, your curves no matter how big or small are works of art and wear them with pride. It's about what's in the inside x"

well said!

Some people get sooooo touchy on these threads

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

couldnt care less as long as the woman has a good personality and is enjoying themselves think the ones who put ladies under the most pressure bodywise is your fellow females

tall small fat thin beuty comes from within !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

There's absolutely no need for that. We're all real men and women and we like what we like.

"

Some sense finally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extract from my profile blurb;

"I like all types of people in terms of body shape/size, height, weight etc. Sometimes of course it will be the magnificent breasts or a particularly pretty pussy that catches my eye - on FAB obviously. I mean....I don't see too many pussies, pretty or otherwise, when I'm doing the 'big shop' or putting the bins out for example. But it is just as likely to be the shape of the mouth, a smile, the sound of a laugh or giggle [as long as it doesn't coincide with me getting my cock out], the look in your eyes, a cheeky wink, the sun on your skin, a liberated attitude, a sense of fun & freedom captured in picture or a message".

And it's true. In short - personality is 99% of th equation for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size 12/14 here and I am very self -conscious about every inch of my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I did once get told my stretch marks made it look like I'd been bitten by a shark. Mine aren't from having children though, so they're socially unacceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

I do hope that's some weird attempt at humour

I don't think there's anything sexier than a woman who knows herself and has confidence in how she looks, no matter what size or shape they consider themselves to be, I'm not a lover of those too narcissistic.

I think the female form is a beautiful thing in any shape, your curves no matter how big or small are works of art and wear them with pride. It's about what's in the inside x"

Why you saying that to me. I wasn't being rude

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I don't think it's gender specific. Men worry too. I worry, yes. But I have someone who calls me beautiful, and is happy to kiss all my wobbly bits. I have two beautiful children,that i would gladly receive more wobbly bits for. We all need to try and see the positives in ourselves, as everyone has flaws, how we deal with those flaws is what defines us as confident women. So in conclusion... Some Women worry far too much... Sorry for the babble "

did you say kiss your wobbly bits has it got hot in here or is that just my blood pressure rising

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro


"I don't think it's gender specific. Men worry too. I worry, yes. But I have someone who calls me beautiful, and is happy to kiss all my wobbly bits. I have two beautiful children,that i would gladly receive more wobbly bits for. We all need to try and see the positives in ourselves, as everyone has flaws, how we deal with those flaws is what defines us as confident women. So in conclusion... Some Women worry far too much... Sorry for the babble "

Completely agree it's not gender specific, too much pressure to look chiselled and buff, I can admire the form of those able to maintain a hard physique both male and formal, but I think we should all just hug and head for the hot tub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I did once get told my stretch marks made it look like I'd been bitten by a shark. Mine aren't from having children though, so they're socially unacceptable. "

Mine have been referred to as grill marks - looks like I've been on a BBQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's gender specific. Men worry too. I worry, yes. But I have someone who calls me beautiful, and is happy to kiss all my wobbly bits. I have two beautiful children,that i would gladly receive more wobbly bits for. We all need to try and see the positives in ourselves, as everyone has flaws, how we deal with those flaws is what defines us as confident women. So in conclusion... Some Women worry far too much... Sorry for the babble

did you say kiss your wobbly bits has it got hot in here or is that just my blood pressure rising "

I was being all deep and meaningful then! And there you go distracting me!

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"I don't think it's gender specific. Men worry too. I worry, yes. But I have someone who calls me beautiful, and is happy to kiss all my wobbly bits. I have two beautiful children,that i would gladly receive more wobbly bits for. We all need to try and see the positives in ourselves, as everyone has flaws, how we deal with those flaws is what defines us as confident women. So in conclusion... Some Women worry far too much... Sorry for the babble

Completely agree it's not gender specific, too much pressure to look chiselled and buff, I can admire the form of those able to maintain a hard physique both male and formal, but I think we should all just hug and head for the hot tub "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I did once get told my stretch marks made it look like I'd been bitten by a shark. Mine aren't from having children though, so they're socially unacceptable.

Mine have been referred to as grill marks - looks like I've been on a BBQ "

Yeah I've got horizontal ones like that on my back

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro


"I don't think it's gender specific. Men worry too. I worry, yes. But I have someone who calls me beautiful, and is happy to kiss all my wobbly bits. I have two beautiful children,that i would gladly receive more wobbly bits for. We all need to try and see the positives in ourselves, as everyone has flaws, how we deal with those flaws is what defines us as confident women. So in conclusion... Some Women worry far too much... Sorry for the babble

Completely agree it's not gender specific, too much pressure to look chiselled and buff, I can admire the form of those able to maintain a hard physique both male and formal, but I think we should all just hug and head for the hot tub

"

Xx

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I don't think it's gender specific. Men worry too. I worry, yes. But I have someone who calls me beautiful, and is happy to kiss all my wobbly bits. I have two beautiful children,that i would gladly receive more wobbly bits for. We all need to try and see the positives in ourselves, as everyone has flaws, how we deal with those flaws is what defines us as confident women. So in conclusion... Some Women worry far too much... Sorry for the babble

did you say kiss your wobbly bits has it got hot in here or is that just my blood pressure rising

I was being all deep and meaningful then! And there you go distracting me! "

sorry not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think women are lot more confident with their bodies,

I don't think there is as much pressure on a woman body wise, even though I know they will worry about it.

Generally don't think men have too many hang ups with women's bodies, but then do think women tend to judge or expect a lot more from a man personally.

You see profiles stating no overweight, beer bellies, etc.. but don't think you generally see that as much on men profiles.

It's all about being comfortable in your own skin.

We do generally live in a society where we are judged on how we look before actually knowing someone, just the way it is I suppose.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I find it interesting personally how I have fewer body hang ups than some very slim women I know. I guess it's just a confidence thing. Sure, there are parts of me I'd change but I don't let them hold me back by any means.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Unless a guy is looking for a flawless supermodel i give them credit for having a bit of intelligence. Most of us have some kind of flaws, plus if they message me they know their not going to get beauty personified

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I find it interesting personally how I have fewer body hang ups than some very slim women I know. I guess it's just a confidence thing. Sure, there are parts of me I'd change but I don't let them hold me back by any means. "

I have more body confidence now, fatter than I have ever been, than when I was a size 8.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's hope for us rotundas

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3888964/Macho-makes-sick-Flabby-older-fathers-healthier-live-longer-attractive-women-lean-muscle-bound-peers-study-reveals.html

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

You are who you are. If there's an attraction from both sides then crack on!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I find it interesting personally how I have fewer body hang ups than some very slim women I know. I guess it's just a confidence thing. Sure, there are parts of me I'd change but I don't let them hold me back by any means.

I have more body confidence now, fatter than I have ever been, than when I was a size 8."

I've never been smaller than I am now but if I ever get there it'll be interesting to see if it makes me more or less body confident. I think I've just always possibly been face confident so the body aspect has never mattered that much to me in respect to other people's opinions of it.

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Well I did once get told my stretch marks made it look like I'd been bitten by a shark. Mine aren't from having children though, so they're socially unacceptable. "

That's horrible. I have stretch marks but mine weren't from childbirth like yourself mine are from gaining/loosing weight too quick x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

I do hope that's some weird attempt at humour "

Despise this saying

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"I don't think it's gender specific. Men worry too. I worry, yes. But I have someone who calls me beautiful, and is happy to kiss all my wobbly bits. I have two beautiful children,that i would gladly receive more wobbly bits for. We all need to try and see the positives in ourselves, as everyone has flaws, how we deal with those flaws is what defines us as confident women. So in conclusion... Some Women worry far too much... Sorry for the babble "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

I do hope that's some weird attempt at humour

Despise this saying "

Your not only one and it's so untrue

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

Every lump, bump, scar, stretch and mark is the story of how you got to where you are now, it's our imperfections that make us uniquely perfect.

I've said it before and I'll say it again until I'm blue in the face...

The single most sexiest thing a woman can wear is confidence.

Ess"

I just wish I had that bit more confidence. I do in every day situations and in my job etc, but I do compare myself to other woman a lot

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

Every lump, bump, scar, stretch and mark is the story of how you got to where you are now, it's our imperfections that make us uniquely perfect.

I've said it before and I'll say it again until I'm blue in the face...

The single most sexiest thing a woman can wear is confidence.

Ess

I just wish I had that bit more confidence. I do in every day situations and in my job etc, but I do compare myself to other woman a lot "

I've spoken to you your intelligent and funny stop being so hard on yourself and don't look for your confidence in others no your own worth darling .

your a articulate intelligent funny woman those facts mean you have a lot more going for you than you think, xxx

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

I do hope that's some weird attempt at humour

Despise this saying

Your not only one and it's so untrue "

I'm slim with boobs and a bum, am I therefore a stick that can only attract scruffs?

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

I for one only judge a woman on how she makes me feel when I'm in her company if she makes me feel sexy then I'm going to find her sexy .

attraction is really that simple if someone makes you feel attractive you are naturally going to feel attracted to that person regardless of whether they have a dew wobbly bit of not ."

Maybe it's a being happy in your own skin. I'm just not happy when I gain weight so therefore not confident. But even when I'm at my slimmest I still have wobbly bits, my boobs arent as pert and I'd gladly swap my tummy for a bigger bum but he I've got lovely hair nails and smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have feelings about the way we look. And we have ideas and feelings about how others think about our looks. I have always struggled with body image as I'm so tall but I have had to learn that my size doesn’t define me. I guess that every single person on here has issues with their body, their lumps and bumps. It's easy for me to say "try not to body-bash yourself" but just because you are not a model shape doesn't mean you are not beautiful.

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

Every lump, bump, scar, stretch and mark is the story of how you got to where you are now, it's our imperfections that make us uniquely perfect.

I've said it before and I'll say it again until I'm blue in the face...

The single most sexiest thing a woman can wear is confidence.

Ess

I just wish I had that bit more confidence. I do in every day situations and in my job etc, but I do compare myself to other woman a lot

I've spoken to you your intelligent and funny stop being so hard on yourself and don't look for your confidence in others no your own worth darling .

your a articulate intelligent funny woman those facts mean you have a lot more going for you than you think, xxx "

That's very kind thank you x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Thanks guys (and girls) it's one of them things that I think

Personally woman worry too much about and most men look beyond that and appreciate her mind her smile her hair the way she dresses as opposed to how slim/big she is.

Confidence can be hard though sometimes when you've got have bad body confidence over your body image. My ex would shame me for eating crisps sometimes and it has ingrained in me I suppose "

That sort of psychological abuse is hard to shake off. Leave you exes comments in the past, with the ex. Find you and build from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play, my comment didn't go down well.

It's something I've seen on a t shirt.

Personally I think that a lot of women get too hung up over weight, woman are beautiful regardless of size. It's the person within that matters....

So if I offended or upset anyone I'd like to apologise....

However in a recent study it was discovered that women who carried a few extra pounds tended to live longer than men who pointed it out.....

(hoping this is seen as amusing)

Mr

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys "

As long as your chuff don't smell like a cesspit and your teeth ain't rotting, and you are nice to me then you've pulled, and I will love every inch of you for a few hours like it was my last, for who am I to deny a woman love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

As long as your chuff don't smell like a cesspit and your teeth ain't rotting, and you are nice to me then you've pulled, and I will love every inch of you for a few hours like it was my last, for who am I to deny a woman love "

Chuff??? Hahaha. So loving that word!

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

As long as your chuff don't smell like a cesspit and your teeth ain't rotting, and you are nice to me then you've pulled, and I will love every inch of you for a few hours like it was my last, for who am I to deny a woman love "

Well my teeth are sparkling and my ahhheem 'chuff' is smelling of roses

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

Every lump, bump, scar, stretch and mark is the story of how you got to where you are now, it's our imperfections that make us uniquely perfect.

I've said it before and I'll say it again until I'm blue in the face...

The single most sexiest thing a woman can wear is confidence.

Ess

I just wish I had that bit more confidence. I do in every day situations and in my job etc, but I do compare myself to other woman a lot

I've spoken to you your intelligent and funny stop being so hard on yourself and don't look for your confidence in others no your own worth darling .

your a articulate intelligent funny woman those facts mean you have a lot more going for you than you think, xxx

That's very kind thank you x"

that's not being kind I'm a straight talker hence I get blocked because of my forum posts a lot

so if I say that's what I got about you from our chats its a fact in my eyes plus you have a sweet naughty side to

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

Every lump, bump, scar, stretch and mark is the story of how you got to where you are now, it's our imperfections that make us uniquely perfect.

I've said it before and I'll say it again until I'm blue in the face...

The single most sexiest thing a woman can wear is confidence.

Ess

I just wish I had that bit more confidence. I do in every day situations and in my job etc, but I do compare myself to other woman a lot

I've spoken to you your intelligent and funny stop being so hard on yourself and don't look for your confidence in others no your own worth darling .

your a articulate intelligent funny woman those facts mean you have a lot more going for you than you think, xxx

That's very kind thank you x

that's not being kind I'm a straight talker hence I get blocked because of my forum posts a lot

so if I say that's what I got about you from our chats its a fact in my eyes plus you have a sweet naughty side to "

I've never been called sweet, first for everything I guess PM you x

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Fair play, my comment didn't go down well.

It's something I've seen on a t shirt.

Personally I think that a lot of women get too hung up over weight, woman are beautiful regardless of size. It's the person within that matters....

So if I offended or upset anyone I'd like to apologise....

However in a recent study it was discovered that women who carried a few extra pounds tended to live longer than men who pointed it out.....

(hoping this is seen as amusing)

Mr"

High 5. No offence x

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

As long as your chuff don't smell like a cesspit and your teeth ain't rotting, and you are nice to me then you've pulled, and I will love every inch of you for a few hours like it was my last, for who am I to deny a woman love

Chuff??? Hahaha. So loving that word! "

Then you'll love the viz profanisaurus many a page dedicated to joys of the English language describing the bits between our legs

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

As long as your chuff don't smell like a cesspit and your teeth ain't rotting, and you are nice to me then you've pulled, and I will love every inch of you for a few hours like it was my last, for who am I to deny a woman love

Chuff??? Hahaha. So loving that word!

Then you'll love the viz profanisaurus many a page dedicated to joys of the English language describing the bits between our legs "

Sounds like a prehistoric dinosaur

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

As long as your chuff don't smell like a cesspit and your teeth ain't rotting, and you are nice to me then you've pulled, and I will love every inch of you for a few hours like it was my last, for who am I to deny a woman love

Well my teeth are sparkling and my ahhheem 'chuff' is smelling of roses "

I'll happily attempt to verify this rose scented chuff claim you make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

I do hope that's some weird attempt at humour

Despise this saying

Your not only one and it's so untrue

I'm slim with boobs and a bum, am I therefore a stick that can only attract scruffs? "

No your not.. your slim with boob's and a peach of a bum

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm hung up on the fat and more so now, having had a week in Devon, overindulging on food

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me if somebody is trying to make you feel bad about your looks/body, they're putting you down to build themselves up, or they are selling something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you are a beautiful lady and obviously have a wonderful brain too.

Men have the same concerns as you. I look at some of the guys on here and wonder how the hell I have a chance with any of the women on here when they are my competition. However, I've still had meets. I still have fun. I still wake up in the morning and like who I am.

Any guy would consider himself lucky to be near you.

The way I see it. They either like you AND your body or they don't. It's their choice, not yours and if they are looking just at body and how they are going to lookeep with you on their arm they aren't thinking about you and you don't need them around xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

I do hope that's some weird attempt at humour

Despise this saying

Your not only one and it's so untrue

I'm slim with boobs and a bum, am I therefore a stick that can only attract scruffs? "

But do you have a rose scented chuff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys "

For me a lovely smile can win me over!

But in reality I do love a big bum! If my fav position is anything to go by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just pop some pot pourri in my knickers... Et voila! Rose scented chuff! Makes me wish I was double jointed, so I could go down on myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just pop some pot pourri in my knickers... Et voila! Rose scented chuff! Makes me wish I was double jointed, so I could go down on myself "

Do you change the pot pourri for cinnamon and apple at Christmas thereby ensuring a festive foof?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just pop some pot pourri in my knickers... Et voila! Rose scented chuff! Makes me wish I was double jointed, so I could go down on myself "

We can dream can't we

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

For me a lovely smile can win me over!

But in reality I do love a big bum! If my fav position is anything to go by "

If I stick my bum out when doing doggie it can look big

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

As long as your chuff don't smell like a cesspit and your teeth ain't rotting, and you are nice to me then you've pulled, and I will love every inch of you for a few hours like it was my last, for who am I to deny a woman love

Well my teeth are sparkling and my ahhheem 'chuff' is smelling of roses

I'll happily attempt to verify this rose scented chuff claim you make. "

Imagine if fab had smelly vision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just pop some pot pourri in my knickers... Et voila! Rose scented chuff! Makes me wish I was double jointed, so I could go down on myself

Do you change the pot pourri for cinnamon and apple at Christmas thereby ensuring a festive foof? "

Oh definitely! And grow my hair out a little down there and dye it green like a tree... I go all out at Christmas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

For me a lovely smile can win me over!

But in reality I do love a big bum! If my fav position is anything to go by

If I stick my bum out when doing doggie it can look big "

Well it's the effort that matters

Is this thread due to some self confidence issues? If my opinion matters then don't you worry that pretty little head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just pop some pot pourri in my knickers... Et voila! Rose scented chuff! Makes me wish I was double jointed, so I could go down on myself

Do you change the pot pourri for cinnamon and apple at Christmas thereby ensuring a festive foof?

Oh definitely! And grow my hair out a little down there and dye it green like a tree... I go all out at Christmas! "

Cool. Tinsel or lament?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just pop some pot pourri in my knickers... Et voila! Rose scented chuff! Makes me wish I was double jointed, so I could go down on myself

Do you change the pot pourri for cinnamon and apple at Christmas thereby ensuring a festive foof?

Oh definitely! And grow my hair out a little down there and dye it green like a tree... I go all out at Christmas!

Cool. Tinsel or lament? "

Tinsel of course, with a few little bells attached. It's a good way to sound the alarm, when my cinnamon and apple scented chuff needs some servicing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys "

If I find someone attractive, then so be it. Stretch marks and flabby bits and all

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I was never comfortable with my wobbly bits.. but I'm less comfortable now with stretch marks and too much skin from losing weight...

Can't bloody win.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys "

For me it is about your personality, it won't matter what you look like. If I can't make a connection, nothing will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

As long as your chuff don't smell like a cesspit and your teeth ain't rotting, and you are nice to me then you've pulled, and I will love every inch of you for a few hours like it was my last, for who am I to deny a woman love

Well my teeth are sparkling and my ahhheem 'chuff' is smelling of roses

I'll happily attempt to verify this rose scented chuff claim you make.

Imagine if fab had smelly vision "

Mmm eau d'chuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was never comfortable with my wobbly bits.. but I'm less comfortable now with stretch marks and too much skin from losing weight...

Can't bloody win. "

I've had a peruse at your pictures, personally I don't think there is anything for you to worry about.

I wouldn't say no !

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By *eaded_BazMan
over a year ago

Truro


"I was never comfortable with my wobbly bits.. but I'm less comfortable now with stretch marks and too much skin from losing weight...

Can't bloody win. "

You have absolutely nothing to be worried about, you have a lovely set of pictures and write very articulate. An asset is on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes women do worry about wobbly bits and stretch marks and so on but some men do too but for me its all part of who that person is and i have no issue with it at all

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By *igtittedteaseWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Doesn't help when you get a message from a guy saying that to him curvy is a size 8 anything bigger is obese

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Doesn't help when you get a message from a guy saying that to him curvy is a size 8 anything bigger is obese "

Just ignore those messages. It's not from anyone you know, care about or likely to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't help when you get a message from a guy saying that to him curvy is a size 8 anything bigger is obese "

See my above post, it's people pushing buttons because they have nothing better to do.

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

If I find someone attractive, then so be it. Stretch marks and flabby bits and all "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't help when you get a message from a guy saying that to him curvy is a size 8 anything bigger is obese "

some people.... that's new to me!

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Doesn't help when you get a message from a guy saying that to him curvy is a size 8 anything bigger is obese

some people.... that's new to me! "

Sounds like the type of man that would be ok with hairy legs hairy pits hairy lip dresses like a twonk but if your a size 8 then it's good, what a tw*t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is the key be happy in your own skin only shallow blokes will let a few stretchmark's cloud their judgment its the person within that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just pop some pot pourri in my knickers... Et voila! Rose scented chuff! Makes me wish I was double jointed, so I could go down on myself

Do you change the pot pourri for cinnamon and apple at Christmas thereby ensuring a festive foof?

Oh definitely! And grow my hair out a little down there and dye it green like a tree... I go all out at Christmas!

Cool. Tinsel or lament?

Tinsel of course, with a few little bells attached. It's a good way to sound the alarm, when my cinnamon and apple scented chuff needs some servicing "

Incorrigible young lady

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Question for all the men. Do us woman worry too much about flabby bits? I'm very self conscious about all my flaws and it can hold me back at times. It's got me thinking and I see some beautiful woman whom look amazing and present themselves really well regardless of their size I think confidence plays a big part

Basically I was wandering do men look past a bit of a tummy and stretch marks if a woman is body conscious and appreciate a pretty face and well groomed lady regardless of being a size 8,10,12,14,16,18 etc ?

Oh and happy Halloween guys

If I find someone attractive, then so be it. Stretch marks and flabby bits and all "

Ah that's the right answer

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By *amicaWoman
over a year ago

mirfield

That's true you should be not worry

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By *amicaWoman
over a year ago

mirfield

Me too lol xx

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

If I'm getting to see a ladies lumps, bumps and stretchmarks I'm already having fun, so it's all good

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

I honestly think it's how a women carries and presents herself x I find women attractive for all different reasons x but if a woman feels good about herself dresses for herself feels confident and carries that confidence she will then ooze sex appeal and I look past the veneer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy with my body ...didnt used to be ...but alot more confident

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"I am happy with my body ...didnt used to be ...but alot more confident "

It's all about the self confidence Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am happy with my body ...didnt used to be ...but alot more confident

It's all about the self confidence Jo"

Totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am happy with my body ...didnt used to be ...but alot more confident

It's all about the self confidence Jo

Totally agree with you "

i meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men have said once they have a woman naked in front of them theyre not bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow? "

I don't understand your point? And yes if he wasn't a cunt and was handsome and well groomed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I don't understand your point? And yes if he wasn't a cunt and was handsome and well groomed. "

Well there is your answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a mum of two children my body isn't perfect but at 41 I actually like who I am

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow? "

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height. "

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think of the Roald Dahl bit in The Twits.

You can have a perfect figure but not be in the least bit sexy and attractive, likewise you can have lumps and bumps in all the wrong places and still have men rock hard at the drop of a hat: it's more about attitude and personality and how you present yourself more than just the shape of your body.

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity."

Yes it can but I was talking about a ladies insecurities about her flaws lumps bumps etc not height. You have already hijacked another thread please don't troll this one

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"I always think of the Roald Dahl bit in The Twits.

You can have a perfect figure but not be in the least bit sexy and attractive, likewise you can have lumps and bumps in all the wrong places and still have men rock hard at the drop of a hat: it's more about attitude and personality and how you present yourself more than just the shape of your body."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity."

Yes but you wouldn't mention willy size or how a pussy looks on a weight thread. They are also body insecurity issues. This thread is weight specific. If someone put up a height thread, people would not be discussing their weight issues. I don't mean to argue, I was just genuinely confused as to why that question was put in a weight issue thread.

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over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes it can but I was talking about a ladies insecurities about her flaws lumps bumps etc not height. You have already hijacked another thread please don't troll this one "

Hijacked? Sureee. Because talking about anything other than you are demanding is folly.

I just don't think you like hypocrisy being highlighted.

If you don't like your weight, lose it. Simple.

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over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes but you wouldn't mention willy size or how a pussy looks on a weight thread. They are also body insecurity issues. This thread is weight specific. If someone put up a height thread, people would not be discussing their weight issues. I don't mean to argue, I was just genuinely confused as to why that question was put in a weight issue thread. "

It was actually an analogy. Any body hang up could me used

Will you do me a favour Will you police the thread to make sure there isn't ounce of divergence from the weight topic? seeing how it's forbidden.

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes it can but I was talking about a ladies insecurities about her flaws lumps bumps etc not height. You have already hijacked another thread please don't troll this one

Hijacked? Sureee. Because talking about anything other than you are demanding is folly.

I just don't think you like hypocrisy being highlighted.

If you don't like your weight, lose it. Simple."

It's not as black and white as that. I suffered domestic abuse and nearly developed an eating disorder as a result of my ex conditioning me to feel inferior about my body even though I was a size 10!! He'd not mock my weight as such it was how I looked naked and things I can't change such as scar tissue on my vagina and stretch marks. Loose skin from loosing weight stuff like that. So please don't be so cruel and jumping to conclusions

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over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes but you wouldn't mention willy size or how a pussy looks on a weight thread. They are also body insecurity issues. This thread is weight specific. If someone put up a height thread, people would not be discussing their weight issues. I don't mean to argue, I was just genuinely confused as to why that question was put in a weight issue thread.

It was actually an analogy. Any body hang up could me used

Will you do me a favour Will you police the thread to make sure there isn't ounce of divergence from the weight topic? seeing how it's forbidden. "

Well aren't you a charmer?!

Uniform on and at the ready!

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By *illy big bolloxMan
over a year ago

Newark

Look don't get hung up about wobbly bits and stretchmark's and all the nice things that make up a women.

Your gorgeous as you are so stop getting conscious about it x

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over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes it can but I was talking about a ladies insecurities about her flaws lumps bumps etc not height. You have already hijacked another thread please don't troll this one

Hijacked? Sureee. Because talking about anything other than you are demanding is folly.

I just don't think you like hypocrisy being highlighted.

If you don't like your weight, lose it. Simple.

It's not as black and white as that. I suffered domestic abuse and nearly developed an eating disorder as a result of my ex conditioning me to feel inferior about my body even though I was a size 10!! He'd not mock my weight as such it was how I looked naked and things I can't change such as scar tissue on my vagina and stretch marks. Loose skin from loosing weight stuff like that. So please don't be so cruel and jumping to conclusions "

Then your insecurity isnt weight related. Your probs still feel insecure either way.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

OP.

I totally get where you're at. My ex of 11 yrs played the game every day. My new plum coloured top I bought...."new top, what colour's that? *grabs stomach* plump?"

It's no fun, it hurts and it knocks you. Badly.

I removed him from my life in March. Since the toxic negativity has gone, my confidence built daily. You must let this happen. You are not his words. You are not his lies.

Yes, I have lost weight since he left, I've been very lucky and it's all happened naturally.....I realised, with him gone, I stopped comfort eating. Hey presto, size 16-10 in 6 months. I'm not suggesting you should lose weight, all I mean by it is with the right attitude towards yourself things just happen. My confidence came from getting rid of him, proving I was stronger than he would ever let me believe.

I have a scar from a c-section. I have stretch marks. I have a birth mark on the back of my leg which isn't pretty. But you know something OP, they're all part of me....and I'm a beautiful person, so that makes them beautiful too. They're my "added extras". My physical bits that make me...me.

If I see a man with a scar, I'm not repulsed by it, I'm interested as to how he got it. Behind every mark there's a story, and I want to hear people's stories

I'm sure others feel the same.

Go get em tiger, and start with the one in the mirror. Xxx

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes it can but I was talking about a ladies insecurities about her flaws lumps bumps etc not height. You have already hijacked another thread please don't troll this one

Hijacked? Sureee. Because talking about anything other than you are demanding is folly.

I just don't think you like hypocrisy being highlighted.

If you don't like your weight, lose it. Simple.

It's not as black and white as that. I suffered domestic abuse and nearly developed an eating disorder as a result of my ex conditioning me to feel inferior about my body even though I was a size 10!! He'd not mock my weight as such it was how I looked naked and things I can't change such as scar tissue on my vagina and stretch marks. Loose skin from loosing weight stuff like that. So please don't be so cruel and jumping to conclusions

Then your insecurity isnt weight related. Your probs still feel insecure either way.

"

Please don't comment on any of my posts threads again and I shall do the same. Thank you.

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over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes it can but I was talking about a ladies insecurities about her flaws lumps bumps etc not height. You have already hijacked another thread please don't troll this one

Hijacked? Sureee. Because talking about anything other than you are demanding is folly.

I just don't think you like hypocrisy being highlighted.

If you don't like your weight, lose it. Simple.

It's not as black and white as that. I suffered domestic abuse and nearly developed an eating disorder as a result of my ex conditioning me to feel inferior about my body even though I was a size 10!! He'd not mock my weight as such it was how I looked naked and things I can't change such as scar tissue on my vagina and stretch marks. Loose skin from loosing weight stuff like that. So please don't be so cruel and jumping to conclusions "

You are beautiful OP. I would take positivity from the constructive posts on this thread. As someone else also said "go get 'em"

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am also very body conscious, We have had 4 children and my 3rd was over 10lbs so my belly is very wobbly.. But Mr T is always telling me how beautiful I am which makes all the difference.

Our bodies tell a story, every stretch mark, every scar..

I am sure men have just as many body hang ups.

I know T feels he needs to hit the gym and get ripped but we have been together 18 years and love him as he is..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

"

Here Here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's gender specific. Men worry too. I worry, yes. But I have someone who calls me beautiful, and is happy to kiss all my wobbly bits. I have two beautiful children,that i would gladly receive more wobbly bits for. We all need to try and see the positives in ourselves, as everyone has flaws, how we deal with those flaws is what defines us as confident women. So in conclusion... Some Women worry far too much... Sorry for the babble "

Definitely this

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"OP.

I totally get where you're at. My ex of 11 yrs played the game every day. My new plum coloured top I bought...."new top, what colour's that? *grabs stomach* plump?"

It's no fun, it hurts and it knocks you. Badly.

I removed him from my life in March. Since the toxic negativity has gone, my confidence built daily. You must let this happen. You are not his words. You are not his lies.

Yes, I have lost weight since he left, I've been very lucky and it's all happened naturally.....I realised, with him gone, I stopped comfort eating. Hey presto, size 16-10 in 6 months. I'm not suggesting you should lose weight, all I mean by it is with the right attitude towards yourself things just happen. My confidence came from getting rid of him, proving I was stronger than he would ever let me believe.

I have a scar from a c-section. I have stretch marks. I have a birth mark on the back of my leg which isn't pretty. But you know something OP, they're all part of me....and I'm a beautiful person, so that makes them beautiful too. They're my "added extras". My physical bits that make me...me.

If I see a man with a scar, I'm not repulsed by it, I'm interested as to how he got it. Behind every mark there's a story, and I want to hear people's stories

I'm sure others feel the same.

Go get em tiger, and start with the one in the mirror. Xxx"

Yes i totally understand that. I went on a programme called the freedom programme after my DVPO (domestic violence protection officer) put me onto it and it was a huge eye opener it's gave me the tools to recognise certain types of behaviour and realise it's not me that's weak it's controlling antagonistic men (not all men obviously and possibly woman ) but in my case male x

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over a year ago


"Well I did once get told my stretch marks made it look like I'd been bitten by a shark. Mine aren't from having children though, so they're socially unacceptable. "

Wow! That sounds incredibly harsh! Sorry to hear!

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over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes it can but I was talking about a ladies insecurities about her flaws lumps bumps etc not height. You have already hijacked another thread please don't troll this one

Hijacked? Sureee. Because talking about anything other than you are demanding is folly.

I just don't think you like hypocrisy being highlighted.

If you don't like your weight, lose it. Simple.

It's not as black and white as that. I suffered domestic abuse and nearly developed an eating disorder as a result of my ex conditioning me to feel inferior about my body even though I was a size 10!! He'd not mock my weight as such it was how I looked naked and things I can't change such as scar tissue on my vagina and stretch marks. Loose skin from loosing weight stuff like that. So please don't be so cruel and jumping to conclusions

Then your insecurity isnt weight related. Your probs still feel insecure either way.

Please don't comment on any of my posts threads again and I shall do the same. Thank you. "

He's added his small-minded views about weight on another thread already!

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over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes it can but I was talking about a ladies insecurities about her flaws lumps bumps etc not height. You have already hijacked another thread please don't troll this one

Hijacked? Sureee. Because talking about anything other than you are demanding is folly.

I just don't think you like hypocrisy being highlighted.

If you don't like your weight, lose it. Simple.

It's not as black and white as that. I suffered domestic abuse and nearly developed an eating disorder as a result of my ex conditioning me to feel inferior about my body even though I was a size 10!! He'd not mock my weight as such it was how I looked naked and things I can't change such as scar tissue on my vagina and stretch marks. Loose skin from loosing weight stuff like that. So please don't be so cruel and jumping to conclusions

Then your insecurity isnt weight related. Your probs still feel insecure either way.

Please don't comment on any of my posts threads again and I shall do the same. Thank you. "

Okay. I fail to see what any of that had to do with your weight though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The older I get, the more I realise that guys don't care too much about lumps and bumps. They don't care what shape our tits are or if we have a huge labia.

I'm learning that it's the confidence that seems to win, every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love each and every part of my body . It's not perfect but no one is and if you don't like it don't look at it.

Mr loves every curve of my body and always tell me how my body is perfect for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes it can but I was talking about a ladies insecurities about her flaws lumps bumps etc not height. You have already hijacked another thread please don't troll this one

Hijacked? Sureee. Because talking about anything other than you are demanding is folly.

I just don't think you like hypocrisy being highlighted.

If you don't like your weight, lose it. Simple.

It's not as black and white as that. I suffered domestic abuse and nearly developed an eating disorder as a result of my ex conditioning me to feel inferior about my body even though I was a size 10!! He'd not mock my weight as such it was how I looked naked and things I can't change such as scar tissue on my vagina and stretch marks. Loose skin from loosing weight stuff like that. So please don't be so cruel and jumping to conclusions

Then your insecurity isnt weight related. Your probs still feel insecure either way.

Please don't comment on any of my posts threads again and I shall do the same. Thank you.

He's added his small-minded views about weight on another thread already!"

My small minded at all. Very natural view about health destroying obesity.

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes it can but I was talking about a ladies insecurities about her flaws lumps bumps etc not height. You have already hijacked another thread please don't troll this one

Hijacked? Sureee. Because talking about anything other than you are demanding is folly.

I just don't think you like hypocrisy being highlighted.

If you don't like your weight, lose it. Simple.

It's not as black and white as that. I suffered domestic abuse and nearly developed an eating disorder as a result of my ex conditioning me to feel inferior about my body even though I was a size 10!! He'd not mock my weight as such it was how I looked naked and things I can't change such as scar tissue on my vagina and stretch marks. Loose skin from loosing weight stuff like that. So please don't be so cruel and jumping to conclusions

Then your insecurity isnt weight related. Your probs still feel insecure either way.

Please don't comment on any of my posts threads again and I shall do the same. Thank you.

He's added his small-minded views about weight on another thread already!"

He has a habit of it. (Green arrow tells all) I think he will be blocked by a good few forumites aswell x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men like meat.

Dogs like sticks.

Here Here! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't

I'll strip off and waggle my fat arse around the bedroom. Fuck it, I'll even do a bit of twerking and belly rolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a few imperfections. as i know for a fact i ain't perfect. But i dont get hung up on mine in the way women do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this isnt about weight or size - a very petite size 8 may still have wobbly bits

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By *adyDanger OP   Woman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"this isnt about weight or size - a very petite size 8 may still have wobbly bits "

Exactly x

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over a year ago


"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes it can but I was talking about a ladies insecurities about her flaws lumps bumps etc not height. You have already hijacked another thread please don't troll this one

Hijacked? Sureee. Because talking about anything other than you are demanding is folly.

I just don't think you like hypocrisy being highlighted.

If you don't like your weight, lose it. Simple.

It's not as black and white as that. I suffered domestic abuse and nearly developed an eating disorder as a result of my ex conditioning me to feel inferior about my body even though I was a size 10!! He'd not mock my weight as such it was how I looked naked and things I can't change such as scar tissue on my vagina and stretch marks. Loose skin from loosing weight stuff like that. So please don't be so cruel and jumping to conclusions

Then your insecurity isnt weight related. Your probs still feel insecure either way.

Please don't comment on any of my posts threads again and I shall do the same. Thank you.

He's added his small-minded views about weight on another thread already!

He has a habit of it. (Green arrow tells all) I think he will be blocked by a good few forumites aswell x"

You really have a thing for me. Checking my page. Following my stuff, remembering me.

Let people block all they like. It's self flattery to think it bothers me.

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"Depends on how fat. I think chubby is cute but once it's obese, it's a turn off for me.

Just frame the question from a female perspective; would you be less attracted to a man who's 5'3? Would that be shallow?

I'm confused as to what that question has to do with the OP's thread. This is about lumps and bumps. Not height.

The specifics are about weight but the general question can be used for any bodily insecurity.

Yes it can but I was talking about a ladies insecurities about her flaws lumps bumps etc not height. You have already hijacked another thread please don't troll this one

Hijacked? Sureee. Because talking about anything other than you are demanding is folly.

I just don't think you like hypocrisy being highlighted.

If you don't like your weight, lose it. Simple.

It's not as black and white as that. I suffered domestic abuse and nearly developed an eating disorder as a result of my ex conditioning me to feel inferior about my body even though I was a size 10!! He'd not mock my weight as such it was how I looked naked and things I can't change such as scar tissue on my vagina and stretch marks. Loose skin from loosing weight stuff like that. So please don't be so cruel and jumping to conclusions

Then your insecurity isnt weight related. Your probs still feel insecure either way.

Please don't comment on any of my posts threads again and I shall do the same. Thank you.

He's added his small-minded views about weight on another thread already!

He has a habit of it. (Green arrow tells all) I think he will be blocked by a good few forumites aswell x

You really have a thing for me. Checking my page. Following my stuff, remembering me.

Let people block all they like. It's self flattery to think it bothers me."

No thing for ypu . She just thinks you're a ( best not say it so I don't land on the naughty step )

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We worry too much! It's better to accept ourselves, even if we'd like something different in the future. Anxiety and pressure - from others or ourselves - just isn't healthy.

I'm shortish, prone to a few extra pounds, have been skinny for too long and know I'll vary my shape a fair bit. Tough if meets want something very precise that differs from me: it's something I can face losing - I'd prefer a relaxed meet, where they're not obsessed wanting me a certain way.

I sometimes over-play the 'flaws', so that there's no disappointment coming my way.

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