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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I have been browsing my near by feed and doing local searches, I have messaged pretty much everyone who I like the look of or is looking for the same as me with very little or no success but now im browsing seeing the same profiles, I wont message anyone twice because I know its annoying.. so my question is what do I do now?

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By *dventurouscouple69Couple
over a year ago

swingerville

Change your postcode under account settings to another local one and try again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Widen the search

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

You've had 3 meets - doing better than many.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Change your postcode under account settings to another local one and try again?"

Thats a good idea but if im searching within a 20-30 mile radius wont i just see the same people? Unless i change it to outside of that 20 miles area which then becomes not local? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've had 3 meets - doing better than many."

Only one, one of them is a meet from a previous profile a few years back and the other is cam

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Why not try going to a club or social?

Sally

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Give up?

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend


"You've had 3 meets - doing better than many.

Only one, one of them is a meet from a previous profile a few years back and the other is cam"
OK, missed that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not try going to a club or social?

Sally "

Also a good idea, but I can never seem to find much info about them and when they are on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Give up? "

I never give up haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep looking until someone responds. Make changes to how you approach people. Try different things to attract women to your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep looking until someone responds. Make changes to how you approach people. Try different things to attract women to your profile. "

So bloody difficult that, im always polite, send a long message rather than short, make sure i read profiles first, send facepics with messages, but it seems you women are so fussy some prefer dirty messages rather than polite or dick pics rather than facepics. I dont know women ey hehe joking

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Been back two months and one meet and one old meet suggesting another meet would be in order, I'd say that was pretty good going to be honest.

I'd also contact admin about your age thing, which may or may not put some people off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been back two months and one meet and one old meet suggesting another meet would be in order, I'd say that was pretty good going to be honest.

I'd also contact admin about your age thing, which may or may not put some people off."

Yea need that sorted really, annoying it cant be changed

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"Why not try going to a club or social?

Sally

Also a good idea, but I can never seem to find much info about them and when they are on. "

There's loads of info about clubs in the club reviews section, with links to their websites etc. Newbie club nights and other theme nights/parties are listed in the club/events section of the forum, while socials are usually listed in the meet requests or UK sections

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not try going to a club or social?

Sally

Also a good idea, but I can never seem to find much info about them and when they are on.

There's loads of info about clubs in the club reviews section, with links to their websites etc. Newbie club nights and other theme nights/parties are listed in the club/events section of the forum, while socials are usually listed in the meet requests or UK sections "

Thanks hun ill check it out, think i need to get on the laptop and look haha

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