FabSwingers.com forum: Cheating in relationships?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cheating is not always sleeping with someone.what small things do people class as cheating?e.g flirting etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sneakily messaging another behind partners back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever the Monopoly board comes out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sneakily messaging another behind partners back."

Spot on

agree with this

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Looking at someone through sunglasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking at someone through sunglasses

haha we've all done it

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Looking at someone through sunglasses

haha we've all done it

Someone buying you a drink

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Messaging other women on Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 29/10/16 16:46:26]

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Sharing cake- bastards

Going to the cinema to see a film with a mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sneakily messaging another behind partners back."

Agree 100%. That's why I split with a GF. Found she had been messaging two people on FB. Including links to porn clips of what she wanted to do one of them.

Said it was harmless fun but it split us up and left me heart broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at another woman's cleavage.

Liking a hot fella with his top off on facebook.

All cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Adding hotties on instagram

Sending snaps of my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking somebody but thinking of somebody else.

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By *auren001Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

"Sneakily messaging another behind partners back."

This

"emotional cheating" if you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whenever the Monopoly board comes out.

I was going to say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fucking somebody but thinking of somebody else.

Is that cheating?! Oh balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meeting a 'friend' for 'coffee'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending nude photos to a "friend"

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Fucking somebody but thinking of somebody else.

Does this include celebs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fucking somebody but thinking of somebody else.

Does this include celebs? "

Yes. All cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sneakily messaging another behind partners back."
That is right. I have seen on some profiles where they are married, but happy to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol."

Oh feck does that mean I'm cheating

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Fucking somebody but thinking of somebody else.

Does this include celebs?

Yes. All cheating. "

So at my next meet if I imagine say...Henry Cavill, will that be classed as cheating?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

Oh feck does that mean I'm cheating

Straight to hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is cheating no matter what it is ,ands all going on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol."

I can't believe people would do this....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

Oh feck does that mean I'm cheating

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lol, it depends how you see it as your needs have to be satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

Oh feck does that mean I'm cheating

Straight to hell "
That is right too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The two things I hate most in my life - cheaters and liars - they both disgust me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

Oh feck does that mean I'm cheating

Straight to hell "

Oh feck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

I can't believe people would do this....

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Yeah same. I reckon it depends how good they can handle the guilt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The two things I hate most in my life - cheaters and liars - they both disgust me.

Gosh, moreso that murderers and rapists? You really do have a dislike for them don't you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

I can't believe people would do this....

Yeah same. I reckon it depends how good they can handle the guilt."

*cough* fabicide *cough*

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Hiding cola haribos so shag cant find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The two things I hate most in my life - cheaters and liars - they both disgust me.

I'd say they're both in the same category. But like I was grown up being told, I'd rather have a thief in my life than a liar, at least you know what to expect and where you stand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fucking somebody but thinking of somebody else.

Does this include celebs?

Yes. All cheating.

So at my next meet if I imagine say...Henry Cavill, will that be classed as cheating?

No comment.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I should let you all know, I am a cheat

Yep I'm having takeout for tea when I should be sticking to plan

Shhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiding cola haribos so shag cant find them"
Yes and I like them cola bottles, they are my favorites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

I can't believe people would do this....

Yeah same. I reckon it depends how good they can handle the guilt.

*cough* fabicide *cough*"
lol good one that.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

ing other ppls posts. Behind partners back of course

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

ing other ppls posts. Behind partners back of course"

Coming on the forums without your partner knowing ,,,,

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Basically anything you do with another person that you feel the need to hide from your partner.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Agree with others,anything you keep secret from your partner ie txting or messaging other people .

Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Adding hotties on instagram

Sending snaps of my cock"

you got a cock?

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By *ennyabcWoman
over a year ago

mayo

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

Oh feck does that mean I'm cheating

Straight to hell "

Oh shit I'm going there too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking over intimate conversations that was in strict confidence ?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Adding hotties on instagram

Sending snaps of my cock

you got a cock?

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buying a nice tshirt with a print of a woman on the front that your partner feels threatened by lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree with others,anything you keep secret from your partner ie txting or messaging other people .

Miss.

What if a female friend had a problem that they shared with me and they asked me to keep it private from everyone including if I had a partner.

Is that cheating if I did as they asked?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Buying a nice tshirt with a print of a woman on the front that your partner feels threatened by lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Buying a nice tshirt with a print of a woman on the front that your partner feels threatened by lol

£27 i paid for that tshirt :-/

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

Oh feck does that mean I'm cheating

Straight to hell

Oh shit I'm going there too

At least we won't be cold...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

Oh feck does that mean I'm cheating

Straight to hell

Oh shit I'm going there too

At least we won't be cold..."

Living in this country most of us hope for a warmer climate lol

Take me to hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Buying a nice tshirt with a print of a woman on the front that your partner feels threatened by lol

£27 i paid for that tshirt :-/ "

Somehow dissapeared strangely enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup think I've got a Pamela Anderson T-shirt somewhere haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yup think I've got a Pamela Anderson T-shirt somewhere haha "

Dont know who the woman was but my ex was not happy when i walked in wearing it, thought ffs, tells me what i should eat drink wear when to sleep shit and fuking piss

Glad to be single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being unable to accomodate :oz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being unable to accomodate :oz"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Agree with others,anything you keep secret from your partner ie txting or messaging other people .

Miss.

What if a female friend had a problem that they shared with me and they asked me to keep it private from everyone including if I had a partner.

Is that cheating if I did as they asked?

Spose that one is ok if you are keeping your mates problem confidential.you don't have to share everyones problems but your own problems should be spoken about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being unable to accomodate :oz

?"
They could live at home still or as you never know who you will meet online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being unable to accomodate :oz

?They could live at home still or as you never know who you will meet online."

Few sparks short of a flame lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being unable to accomodate :oz

?They could live at home still or as you never know who you will meet online.

Few sparks short of a flame lol "
That is right too lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Agree with others,anything you keep secret from your partner ie txting or messaging other people .

Miss.

What if a female friend had a problem that they shared with me and they asked me to keep it private from everyone including if I had a partner.

Is that cheating if I did as they asked?

I meant the opposite sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How about liking pics of models/girls u know on instagram or facebook?or checking girls out in hotpants while ur driving with ur girl in the car?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How about if your mate sends u a pic of a girl u know in a bikini?has the other half got a right to be annoyed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whenever the Monopoly board comes out.

Totally this!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Looking at someone through sunglasses

We do this together, not sure that counts though

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"How about liking pics of models/girls u know on instagram or facebook?or checking girls out in hotpants while ur driving with ur girl in the car?"

Nope, we tend to like the same girls on Instagtam too. & chat to the same models

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being unable to accomodate :oz"

I don't accommodate and I ain't no cheater. I don't WANT to accommodate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of willingness to comunicate properly honestly and calmly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sneakily messaging another behind partners back."
This for me too.. would probably feel worse than the physical... although i think secrecy would be the aspect for me that meant it was cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about if your mate sends u a pic of a girl u know in a bikini?has the other half got a right to be annoyed?"
nope but if the partner was sending naughty photos or texts back and forth to another party then I would say yes. But mates send stuff all the time

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

I caught my wife sending sexually explicit texts to other men periodically over the last three years of our relationship, I classed this as a fork of cheating.

When I confronted her about the fourth guy she admitted to sleeping with the third.

We're no longer together and it ruined me.

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

*Form not fork. Fucking auto carrot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about liking pics of models/girls u know on instagram or facebook?or checking girls out in hotpants while ur driving with ur girl in the car?

Nope, we tend to like the same girls on Instagtam too. & chat to the same models

I spose looking is ok ?but actually taking it further is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about liking pics of models/girls u know on instagram or facebook?or checking girls out in hotpants while ur driving with ur girl in the car?

Nope, we tend to like the same girls on Instagtam too. & chat to the same models

I spose looking is ok ?but actually taking it further is different."
taking it further is fine as long as its not behind my back or just 121 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically anything you do with another person that you feel the need to hide from your partner."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I caught my wife sending sexually explicit texts to other men periodically over the last three years of our relationship, I classed this as a fork of cheating.

When I confronted her about the fourth guy she admitted to sleeping with the third.

We're no longer together and it ruined me. "

Shit that sucks dude,,,some people are unable to be honest and end it and would rather cheat.we live and learn.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Anything that takes their focus away from you and your relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is wrong on all levels all it does it hurt innocent people if you ain't happy you should do the right thing and walk away instead of stringing them along makes me sick had it done to me and they never change once a cheat always a cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically anything you do with another person that you feel the need to hide from your partner."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only consider it cheating if she lies about it, other than that, everything on the menu is fair game, as long as its safe, and she's honest about it.

The lady I was last in a short relationship with didn't Get this, and lied about having sex with someone else, I ended things on the spot.

I have no capacity for jealousy, its not in me, but I hate being g lied to, when someone lies about something that they don't need to lie about, the trust is gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For this the song "playing with fire" by ndubz... My ex was a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree with others,anything you keep secret from your partner ie txting or messaging other people .

Miss.

What if a female friend had a problem that they shared with me and they asked me to keep it private from everyone including if I had a partner.

Is that cheating if I did as they asked?

I meant the opposite sex

OK, what if it was a male friend then?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I only consider it cheating if she lies about it, other than that, everything on the menu is fair game, as long as its safe, and she's honest about it.

The lady I was last in a short relationship with didn't Get this, and lied about having sex with someone else, I ended things on the spot.

I have no capacity for jealousy, its not in me, but I hate being g lied to, when someone lies about something that they don't need to lie about, the trust is gone"

It's this for me too, when you ask questions because you know something is going on and they make out like it's all in your head and lie to your face, that's the bit that gets to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

I can't believe people would do this....

Yeah same. I reckon it depends how good they can handle the guilt.

*cough* fabicide *cough*"

Mine was tongue in cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

Oh feck does that mean I'm cheating

Straight to hell

Oh shit I'm going there too

At least we won't be cold...

Living in this country most of us hope for a warmer climate lol

Take me to hell "

Yeah I can live with hell if you're down there too.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being on fab, without the other one knowing lol.

I can't believe people would do this....

Yeah same. I reckon it depends how good they can handle the guilt.

*cough* fabicide *cough*

Mine was tongue in cheek

I thought it was sarcasm and reading the line on the profile made it clear

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

With no recent ex it was male names in phonebook that turned out to be females and messages on Facebook

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"How about liking pics of models/girls u know on instagram or facebook?or checking girls out in hotpants while ur driving with ur girl in the car?

Nope, we tend to like the same girls on Instagtam too. & chat to the same models

I spose looking is ok ?but actually taking it further is different."

We do that together too.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"How about liking pics of models/girls u know on instagram or facebook?or checking girls out in hotpants while ur driving with ur girl in the car?

Nope, we tend to like the same girls on Instagtam too. & chat to the same models

I spose looking is ok ?but actually taking it further is different. taking it further is fine as long as its not behind my back or just 121 x "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With no recent ex it was male names in phonebook that turned out to be females and messages on Facebook "

Oh dear :/

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Anything that I would feel the need to keep from my boyfriend I would class as cheating..

Any secrets or dishonesty.

It's no problem for us though because we don't give a fuck what the other does as long as we take pictures

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Doing anything that you've implicitly or explicitly agreed with a partner that you won't do with another person is cheating - it's a betray of trust.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I would say its easy if you feel the need to hide it your cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its hidden from each other and your secretly doing stuff like messaging,meeting up etc, to me it means you want something to happen eventually now or in the future so yes its cheating still.

Doll x

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Plotting planning and arranging meeting them behing partners back, continuous lie after lie about meetings. Knowing what your doing will hurt your partner (obviously with another person not just normal rubbish)

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