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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking

I am new to this. Despite writing nice and genuine messages to so many people who are apparently looking for fun n change with anyone yet no meet ....

Haven't given up though but disappointed so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you should try lowering your expectations

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

You are only hindered by your imagination on here my friend. Go get 'em!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here 2 months....

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Four months for me without a meet from here, I just enjoy the forums now and maybe if time and distance barriers can be overcome I'll be able to arrange a meet or two.

Don't get disheartened, enjoy the banter and don't use this as your sole means of getting sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is geared more to the women, patience is the key lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key. It just takes a little time and perseverance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just returned after a few months away and can see a lot of new faces... some are welcoming and some well lets just say they're a tad rude

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"maybe you should try lowering your expectations "

Good Idea I suppose. Thanks

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"You are only hindered by your imagination on here my friend. Go get 'em!! "

Well, I am surely trying hard

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"You've only been here 2 months...."

Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I think your photos and profile look good. I hope you find some fun soon

Sally

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"I've just returned after a few months away and can see a lot of new faces... some are welcoming and some well lets just say they're a tad rude "

I see ... you are right actually

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"I think your photos and profile look good. I hope you find some fun soon

Sally"

Ah ... breath of fresh air

Thanks Sally

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"You've only been here 2 months....

Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take "

Without being rude, its a swingers site not a sex site.

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"Patience is the key. It just takes a little time and perseverance "

Sure. OK I will try ... thanks for your kind words though ...xx

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Nice tits

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"You've only been here 2 months....

Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take

Without being rude, its a swingers site not a sex site. "

Agree. Although this all ends up on sex let's be fair about it but I wasn't only expecting sex in first go but a swinging experience meet but point I am making that no action or movement in this direction at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your photos and profile look good. I hope you find some fun soon

Sally"

Love your photos Sally ... blue is my favourite colour and in pvc it's well let's say it gets certain parts of me aroused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"The site is geared more to the women, patience is the key lol."

I see ... I tend to agree ... they are in demand no matter what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?"

Oh dear

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?"

Well you could be a look alike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've only been here 2 months....

Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take

Without being rude, its a swingers site not a sex site.

Agree. Although this all ends up on sex let's be fair about it but I wasn't only expecting sex in first go but a swinging experience meet but point I am making that no action or movement in this direction at all"

You are more likely to find a woman to sleep with on a night out, than on here OP. It's just another stereotype that women are an easy lay on a swinging site... I'm sure you've figured out by now, that we are a bunch of fussy buggers, and it's just an urban legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Well you could be a look alike. "

Must be.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There realky should be a "standard response" button that can be pressed to populate replies on threads like this

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"Four months for me without a meet from here, I just enjoy the forums now and maybe if time and distance barriers can be overcome I'll be able to arrange a meet or two.

Don't get disheartened, enjoy the banter and don't use this as your sole means of getting sex "

Thanks a lot ... yes I agree

I also have started enjoying forum more than anything actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?"

Haha really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol that bollywood actor named sunil we have a star in our forums

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"You've only been here 2 months....

Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take

Without being rude, its a swingers site not a sex site.

Agree. Although this all ends up on sex let's be fair about it but I wasn't only expecting sex in first go but a swinging experience meet but point I am making that no action or movement in this direction at all

You are more likely to find a woman to sleep with on a night out, than on here OP. It's just another stereotype that women are an easy lay on a swinging site... I'm sure you've figured out by now, that we are a bunch of fussy buggers, and it's just an urban legend "

Sounds so true right this minute

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?"

Ooops! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?"

Good ol' google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe you should try lowering your expectations "

Now there's an offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Good ol' google "

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty

Its this dude

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"maybe you should try lowering your expectations

Now there's an offer "

Wow go on then please!

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Good ol' google

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty

Its this dude "

Yes it is ....

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I had a single profile on here and thats how I met Miss. I ended doing relatively well i.e met quite a few singles and couples.

This is just my experience but having a well written profile and a variety of pics that arent your cock are very important.

You are doing the right thing sending polite messages. Try and include something from the profile of the recipient so they know you have read it.

I didnt have any meets for the first five months. As others have said patience is important. A key move for me was attending socials and clubs and meeting people face to face. Yes it is nerve wracking at first but you soon realise the majority of people are friendly and everybody started somewhere.

Keep your chin up and keep at it. Jack.

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Haha really? "

Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Good ol' google

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty

Its this dude

Yes it is .... "

In that case your married to Mana Shetty maybe have a couples profile

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"I had a single profile on here and thats how I met Miss. I ended doing relatively well i.e met quite a few singles and couples.

This is just my experience but having a well written profile and a variety of pics that arent your cock are very important.

You are doing the right thing sending polite messages. Try and include something from the profile of the recipient so they know you have read it.

I didnt have any meets for the first five months. As others have said patience is important. A key move for me was attending socials and clubs and meeting people face to face. Yes it is nerve wracking at first but you soon realise the majority of people are friendly and everybody started somewhere.

Keep your chin up and keep at it. Jack."

Bless you ... cheers mate much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Good ol' google

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty

Its this dude "

Hahaha!! Very good detective work! I think we've found the reason why he isn't getting meets

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Good ol' google

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty

Its this dude

Yes it is ....

In that case your married to Mana Shetty maybe have a couples profile "

Very knowledgable nice one mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Good ol' google

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty

Its this dude

Yes it is ....

In that case your married to Mana Shetty maybe have a couples profile

Very knowledgable nice one mate "

Fair play, the guy's been busted and he's still playing along got to admire that tenacity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Haha really?

Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read "

Sorry OP, I miss a lot of messages. Tend to hang around the forums a lot

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Good ol' google

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty

Its this dude

Yes it is ....

In that case your married to Mana Shetty maybe have a couples profile

Very knowledgable nice one mate

Fair play, the guy's been busted and he's still playing along got to admire that tenacity "

Ah cheers mate that's what I would call support bless you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Good ol' google

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty

Its this dude

Yes it is ....

In that case your married to Mana Shetty maybe have a couples profile

Very knowledgable nice one mate

Fair play, the guy's been busted and he's still playing along got to admire that tenacity

Ah cheers mate that's what I would call support bless you "

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/6/64/Suniel_Shetty,_Mana_Shetty_at_the_special_screening_of_'Bol_Bachchan'_15.jpg

Make a nice couple tho.

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Haha really?

Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read

Sorry OP, I miss a lot of messages. Tend to hang around the forums a lot "

It is very recent one ... it has something in it which you would like and don't want to disclose here. How spooky I sent it to you out of blue and now bumped into you here ... oh love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Haha really?

Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read

Sorry OP, I miss a lot of messages. Tend to hang around the forums a lot

It is very recent one ... it has something in it which you would like and don't want to disclose here. How spooky I sent it to you out of blue and now bumped into you here ... oh love it "

So it's a dick pic

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Haha really?

Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read

Sorry OP, I miss a lot of messages. Tend to hang around the forums a lot

It is very recent one ... it has something in it which you would like and don't want to disclose here. How spooky I sent it to you out of blue and now bumped into you here ... oh love it

So it's a dick pic "

Haha no not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Haha really?

Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read

Sorry OP, I miss a lot of messages. Tend to hang around the forums a lot

It is very recent one ... it has something in it which you would like and don't want to disclose here. How spooky I sent it to you out of blue and now bumped into you here ... oh love it

So it's a dick pic

Haha no not really "

VIP tickets to your next red carpet screening?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've only been here 2 months....

Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take

Without being rude, its a swingers site not a sex site.

Agree. Although this all ends up on sex let's be fair about it but I wasn't only expecting sex in first go but a swinging experience meet but point I am making that no action or movement in this direction at all

You are more likely to find a woman to sleep with on a night out, than on here OP. It's just another stereotype that women are an easy lay on a swinging site... I'm sure you've figured out by now, that we are a bunch of fussy buggers, and it's just an urban legend "

We are VERY fussy...choosy...discerning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Four months for me without a meet from here, I just enjoy the forums now and maybe if time and distance barriers can be overcome I'll be able to arrange a meet or two.

Don't get disheartened, enjoy the banter and don't use this as your sole means of getting sex "

How is distance such a barrier for you ? You live in Birmingham and from my searches I know there's plenty of hot women there .

You're scaring them with beheading for a bad blow job, aren't you!

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"Four months for me without a meet from here, I just enjoy the forums now and maybe if time and distance barriers can be overcome I'll be able to arrange a meet or two.

Don't get disheartened, enjoy the banter and don't use this as your sole means of getting sex

How is distance such a barrier for you ? You live in Birmingham and from my searches I know there's plenty of hot women there .

You're scaring them with beheading for a bad blow job, aren't you! "

Hahahaha not really ... no I am down here in South Dorking

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By *olling Stone OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorking


"You've only been here 2 months....

Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take

Without being rude, its a swingers site not a sex site.

Agree. Although this all ends up on sex let's be fair about it but I wasn't only expecting sex in first go but a swinging experience meet but point I am making that no action or movement in this direction at all

You are more likely to find a woman to sleep with on a night out, than on here OP. It's just another stereotype that women are an easy lay on a swinging site... I'm sure you've figured out by now, that we are a bunch of fussy buggers, and it's just an urban legend

We are VERY fussy...choosy...discerning"

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Four months for me without a meet from here, I just enjoy the forums now and maybe if time and distance barriers can be overcome I'll be able to arrange a meet or two.

Don't get disheartened, enjoy the banter and don't use this as your sole means of getting sex

How is distance such a barrier for you ? You live in Birmingham and from my searches I know there's plenty of hot women there .

You're scaring them with beheading for a bad blow job, aren't you!

Hahahaha not really ... no I am down here in South Dorking "

Oh really? According to my sources you live in maharashtra, India

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe you should try lowering your expectations "

Have to agree with you on this one,

Less expectations means less dissapointment

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

...why use someone else's pictures, then continue the charade when busted?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want fun .... and change?

Are you sure you're looking in the right place?!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"You've only been here 2 months....

Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take "

If only the Something should happen were true, there'd be a lot of happier guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using a famous Bollywood actor's face photo isn't going to get you interest.

Good work Estella!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


" ...why use someone else's pictures, then continue the charade when busted?!!"

Beats the usual unlos.. I'm enjoying the show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are going to pass yourself off as this guy at least get the age right.....you're a good 10 years out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is like a whodunnit. I like Dr Watson, anyone look like him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going to pass yourself off as this guy at least get the age right.....you're a good 10 years out!"

Unless the OP's lying about his age on here too. As he already comes across as so honest.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think your photos and profile look good. I hope you find some fun soon

Sally

Love your photos Sally ... blue is my favourite colour and in pvc it's well let's say it gets certain parts of me aroused "

Thanks for your kind words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going to pass yourself off as this guy at least get the age right.....you're a good 10 years out!

Unless the OP's lying about his age on here too. As he already comes across as so honest. "

Damn!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I can't see any resemblance except for the sunglasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please keep this going, it's comedy gold.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Four months for me without a meet from here, I just enjoy the forums now and maybe if time and distance barriers can be overcome I'll be able to arrange a meet or two.

Don't get disheartened, enjoy the banter and don't use this as your sole means of getting sex "

Great advice, guys forget that there are plenty of horny women out in the real world away from fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well theres another looking for the sympathy vote. woe is me !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe be people don't want a Bollywood Elvis

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?

Haha really?

Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read

Sorry OP, I miss a lot of messages. Tend to hang around the forums a lot

It is very recent one ... it has something in it which you would like and don't want to disclose here. How spooky I sent it to you out of blue and now bumped into you here ... oh love it

So it's a dick pic "

A bollywood dick pic?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Well it may be him people,don't be so cynical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats worring is hes photo verified yet using a pic off the interwebz

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Bit of a train wreck in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm late to the show, but there's only one pic showing now and not having read the thread I checked it as it has that fake quality to it. OP please join the ranks of other stars we encounter on Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going to pass yourself off as this guy at least get the age right.....you're a good 10 years out!"

The body doesn't match a 40 or 50 something guy either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh noooo Elvis has left the building hurrr hurr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put some proper photo,s on and you may stand a chance elvis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These posts never fail to amaze me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These posts never fail to amaze me "

classic I'm getting nowt,will somebody sympathy shag me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is spinning me out.

Hey fella!! Patience. Your 46. You should have learned that by now... patience is the key.

Right is he elvis? OR a movie star?

Confused of Devon

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World


"whats worring is hes photo verified yet using a pic off the interwebz "

It doesn't have to be a face pc in the PV photo, it can be a full body nude......if I remember right, it has been years since I PV'd this profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No expectations = no disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointed in yourself or others for not taking a liking to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me about 3 months before I got my first reply from a message and over 9 months before my first meet.

Having said all that and with now a handful of veris to display, it doesn't get easier.

Expect the unexpected and you'll be just fine.

Just because it's a swinging site, that doesn'mean women flock to mens feet for fuck.

It's hard work my friend, you will get disappointed and you will suffer frustrations too.

My advice is try and enjoy the site but keep expectations to a zero level. That way the only way is up (excuse the pun)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am new to this. Despite writing nice and genuine messages to so many people who are apparently looking for fun n change with anyone yet no meet ....

Haven't given up though but disappointed so far "

It took me almost a year to have my first meet on here and then about another 3 months for the next. Nothing in the last 9 months.

I still try messaging but hardly ever get a response, not that it bothers me as I know I'm not the best looking and it's not a dating site where people want to get to know you...

Biggest problem you have...your male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New here! ?

Your 2mth old. Your like an old timer to the usual moaning bastards who post about how they think this site is shite.

And you havn't left yet after starting this post. Your dreamy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect nothing now from Fab so I'm never disappointed

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I am new to this. Despite writing nice and genuine messages to so many people who are apparently looking for fun n change with anyone yet no meet ....

Haven't given up though but disappointed so far "

Hello

The ratio of women to men is HIGHER in civvy street than it is online.

Add to the above that you are more than likely to meet a female face to face on a night out whereas the women you MIGHT speak to on here are geographically diverse. ( fucking miles away )

Add to both of the above that many people use the internet imagining that they are swingers and stretching imaginations further that they are highly desired.

If you really want a swinging lifestyle go to clubs / meets etc. It'd be good if you had a friend to go with. Even then it'd take time for you to strike up friendships and trusts.

Despite the regular protestation here that most people are swingers and this is not a sex site, I feel it IS mostly used as a quickie sex site though I can't prove it not having done research.

I'd say most meets here go ...... meet, smile, hi , shag , cheers , bye.

Maybe 'swinging' has come of age

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Note to self......

Read threads DOWNWARDS not UPWARDS

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Note to self......

Read threads DOWNWARDS not UPWARDS"

Sniggers...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Note to self......

Read threads DOWNWARDS not UPWARDS"

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