FabSwingers.com forum: Finding 'a lump'

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you were playing with a guy or girl

And you found 'a lump'

Would you say something?

Obviously cpls would within their cpl

I'm talking about a relative stranger

I don't know if I would

Tough one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I would mention what I found and ask if it's ' normal' for them.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I would mention what I found and ask if it's ' normal' for them.

Ditto... and have done. It killed the mood a little but better that than the person not noticing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would mention what I found and ask if it's ' normal' for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would mention it. It could save their life.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Definitely would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or an unusual looking mole, somewhere they may not be able to see.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have a pretty large lump in one of my breasts that i have had checked (biopsies done) and it's nothing to worry about. It has been noticed by a couple of people who just asked if i was aware it was there.

If i didn't already know about it i would be thankful that they mentioned it. Breast cancer runs in my family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes mention it tactfully x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a persons health and possibly life at stake, i would have to say something,

Hoping im never put into the position though

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I would mention what I found and ask if it's ' normal' for them.

this..

better a little awkwardness than ignoring something which could be serious..

if it means one doesn't have sex so be it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would mention it definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I would say something.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I would mention it. It could save their life."

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

"I would mention what I found and ask if it's ' normal' for them.

Same here! Would rather play it safe & them find it's nothing than say nothing for it to be something sinister.

JG x

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

i have done i suggested he got it checked out and it was cancer so i like to think i saved his life

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I have done. The lady had what I thought was an unusual nodule in one of her breasts but she was ok.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"i have done i suggested he got it checked out and it was cancer so i like to think i saved his life"

Proof it's the right thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely. The kindest most sensible thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have done i suggested he got it checked out and it was cancer so i like to think i saved his life"

superb. Always better to get things checked. I don't understand people who just leave it and hope it goes away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% say something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldn't anyone say something? Could be the difference between life or death

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would mention. ...I'd probably wait until the heat of the moment had past though

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"If you were playing with a guy or girl

And you found 'a lump'

Would you say something?

Obviously cpls would within their cpl

I'm talking about a relative stranger

I don't know if I would

Tough one "

would you not want someone to tell you if they found something?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I've seen many things in photos that need to be investigated and I've tried as tactfully as I can to encourage them to seek medical opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How bad would the sex have to be for you to not say anything?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were playing with a guy or girl

And you found 'a lump'

Would you say something?

Obviously cpls would within their cpl

I'm talking about a relative stranger

I don't know if I would

Tough one

would you not want someone to tell you if they found something?"

Listening to everyone

I would

But after

When the smoke clears

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I love my lady lumps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i would say something

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