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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay this is a query and not a plan of action.

There are a few people on here who I have also stumbled across on adult work. Some of which offering services. So what if?

What if a sad lonely person sees a person on here, contacts and is rejected. Then finds the person on adult work and decides to purchase their services? What do you do?

I understand that one can choose on AW but hiding behind a profile is not too hard. So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

No Hate just constructive discussion please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay this is a query and not a plan of action.

There are a few people on here who I have also stumbled across on adult work. Some of which offering services. So what if?

What if a sad lonely person sees a person on here, contacts and is rejected. Then finds the person on adult work and decides to purchase their services? What do you do?

I understand that one can choose on AW but hiding behind a profile is not too hard. So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

No Hate just constructive discussion please.

"

escorts fuck lots of people they wouldn't fuck for free

A jobs a job and id think most would fuck a guy they turned down on here if they just turned him down on looks alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand your issue OP. If they won't fuck you for free on here, but will for a price on the other site, so what? Your choice whether you pay for it or not. Fab isn't a charity people here are free to meet who they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol."

its not a case of not having standards, just view it as a job, your providing a service and everybody is treat equal

where as on here your here for your own needs and desires too so you have as much right as them to choose who you shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol.

its not a case of not having standards, just view it as a job, your providing a service and everybody ia treat equal

where as on here your here for your own needs and desires too so you have as much right as them to choose who yoy shag "
That is right, but how could they see that person if they didnt fancy them in real life, but in work they would? Or as the saying goes..... money talks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol.

its not a case of not having standards, just view it as a job, your providing a service and everybody ia treat equal

where as on here your here for your own needs and desires too so you have as much right as them to choose who yoy shag That is right, but how could they see that person if they didnt fancy them in real life, but in work they would? Or as the saying goes..... money talks."

because your not viewing it as a job, you have to view it as work, your not there for your pleasure and atraction your there to provide a service

besides that aren't you the one who always says looks dont matter its just a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol.

its not a case of not having standards, just view it as a job, your providing a service and everybody ia treat equal

where as on here your here for your own needs and desires too so you have as much right as them to choose who yoy shag That is right, but how could they see that person if they didnt fancy them in real life, but in work they would? Or as the saying goes..... money talks.

because your not viewing it as a job, you have to view it as work, your not there for your pleasure and atraction your there to provide a service

besides that aren't you the one who always says looks dont matter its just a fuck "
That is right as its a service they provide and yeah I say that as well, as variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand your issue OP. If they won't fuck you for free on here, but will for a price on the other site, so what? Your choice whether you pay for it or not. Fab isn't a charity people here are free to meet who they want."

Not an issue as I said this is a hypothetical.

Call it social curiosity from someone who's mind fails to understand nuances.

And as I stated was looking for life experiences not pointless opinions. Sorry to sound rude but I work with facts not bias.

I figured though that someone would have the wrong idea.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Everyone has standards, using filters to remove those who are inappropriate to them.

What may be appropriate in one context, certainly may not in a different one. And we all can relate to behaviour and choices that we will restrict to very different settings.

And we all choose our employment and income according to very personal requirements - the hours, income level, sacrifices etc.

It seems totally logical that an escort would select someone to spend their personal time with, upon a different basis to how they'll select whilst working. They provide as reputable and valuable a service as many more in today's society.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I think we all do stuff for work that we wouldn't do in our free time. That's the deal with employment - you trade your time for their money.

Same for any job, even a sex worker.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Ok who wants a taxi!

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

If you were a taxi driver you would carry plenty of people who you would not give a lift too in your own car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol.

its not a case of not having standards, just view it as a job, your providing a service and everybody ia treat equal

where as on here your here for your own needs and desires too so you have as much right as them to choose who yoy shag That is right, but how could they see that person if they didnt fancy them in real life, but in work they would? Or as the saying goes..... money talks."

I understand that (I think); I couldn't sleep with someone I didn't fancy, whether they paid me or not. But then I guess many feel that way, because it's an easy way to make money. If people can get over the fact they don't need to fancy them, then so be it, but would never work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were a taxi driver you would carry plenty of people who you would not give a lift too in your own car "

Great analogy.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"If you were a taxi driver you would carry plenty of people who you would not give a lift too in your own car "

I am a taxi driver and to be fair, i carry lots of people i wouldn't piss on if they were on fire. There are some i'd give a lift to in my own car and some i would piss on, be they on fire or not.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP how do you "stumble across" someone on Adult Work? You are obviously actively looking

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a job and money. If you need, or want the money, you do your job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol.

its not a case of not having standards, just view it as a job, your providing a service and everybody ia treat equal

where as on here your here for your own needs and desires too so you have as much right as them to choose who yoy shag That is right, but how could they see that person if they didnt fancy them in real life, but in work they would? Or as the saying goes..... money talks."

Missed the point there Shag mate.

On here....no charge. So requirement for mutual attraction on some level at least.

AW....paid. You are a customer....so you get what you pay for.

A landlord may serve you a drink in his pub....but may not want to sit down and have a drink with you on a night out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol.

its not a case of not having standards, just view it as a job, your providing a service and everybody ia treat equal

where as on here your here for your own needs and desires too so you have as much right as them to choose who yoy shag That is right, but how could they see that person if they didnt fancy them in real life, but in work they would? Or as the saying goes..... money talks.

I understand that (I think); I couldn't sleep with someone I didn't fancy, whether they paid me or not. But then I guess many feel that way, because it's an easy way to make money. If people can get over the fact they don't need to fancy them, then so be it, but would never work for me."

"Private Dancer". Tina Turner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were a taxi driver you would carry plenty of people who you would not give a lift too in your own car

Great analogy. "

I agree with this, one is a job and you treat it as that (like any job I guess..see above, doesn't matter if he/she fancy the customer, he/she is expected to get on with it and I wouldn't imagine they would really know who it was they were meeting, they might get a stunner, they might get a BO smelly person!!

the other is for pure pleasure on both sides, there is an attraction their on both counts.

I get what you mean though OP but I guess that's one of the down side of having the same job as your hobby!!

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol.

its not a case of not having standards, just view it as a job, your providing a service and everybody ia treat equal

where as on here your here for your own needs and desires too so you have as much right as them to choose who yoy shag That is right, but how could they see that person if they didnt fancy them in real life, but in work they would? Or as the saying goes..... money talks.

I understand that (I think); I couldn't sleep with someone I didn't fancy, whether they paid me or not. But then I guess many feel that way, because it's an easy way to make money. If people can get over the fact they don't need to fancy them, then so be it, but would never work for me.

"Private Dancer". Tina Turner?"

Do I need to listen to that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol.

its not a case of not having standards, just view it as a job, your providing a service and everybody ia treat equal

where as on here your here for your own needs and desires too so you have as much right as them to choose who yoy shag That is right, but how could they see that person if they didnt fancy them in real life, but in work they would? Or as the saying goes..... money talks.

Missed the point there Shag mate.

On here....no charge. So requirement for mutual attraction on some level at least.

AW....paid. You are a customer....so you get what you pay for.

A landlord may serve you a drink in his pub....but may not want to sit down and have a drink with you on a night out!"
That is right, but we was comparing, so that if she didnt fancy the guy on here, but then the guy was a punter on aw and booked her and she was willing to see him, but she would be in a work mode then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AW is work and fab is fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats the point of a job/employment- you agree to do something for someone in exchange for cash that you wouldn't normally do for them for free.

Painters and decorators, plumbers, builders, gardeners, designers, cooks, etc etc.

Its like if some stranger says "will you help paint my fence?". Nah mate, sorry got better things to do. "Go on, give me a hand, I'll pay you".

Ah alright I'll spend my time to do your fence for £100.

"Great thanks deal"

Get the picture?

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By *ooking for bbwsCouple
over a year ago

secret garden chilling, always something to do in the garden


"AW is work and fab is fun...

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a friend of mine said she enjoys both, as can be mutual attraction, but yes it's pleaure u can choose whom U wanna c to be paid from an on fab u can hold ur breath for a long time as get the right person (s) ur look it for on fab. But if we've never done it ourselves, how can we actually judge- comment on the matter inhand.

mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use too be on AW for about 1 year loved my job I didn't do it just for the money enjoyed meeting new people it's not always about the sex as people think I saw only about 2 / 3 clients a day worked only 4 days take you to dinner or drinks or a client would just over for coffee and you know what I find weird I never had one client let me down yet fab swingers site you get sex free and get time wasters can't work that one out you would think would be other way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

"

Obviously the person didn't find them attractive enough without the incentive of money.

Dunno how i'd feel about that really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

Obviously the person didn't find them attractive enough without the incentive of money.

Dunno how i'd feel about that really."

Wouldnt bother me in the slightest, just because im attracted to a person sexually that dont mean im interested in going for the weekly shop with them lol

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol."

Absolute bollocks.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"If you were a taxi driver you would carry plenty of people who you would not give a lift too in your own car "

Using this. Nice one

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol.

Absolute bollocks. "

The good ones have very high standards; and choose their customers.

They aren't obliged to fuck anyone who waves cash at them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP how do you "stumble across" someone on Adult Work? You are obviously actively looking

Sally"

I like browsing as I am sure many do and some have used the same pictures. Gees again with judgements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sex worker dont have standards, whilst here they the same person would have standards as it is for free lol.

Absolute bollocks.

The good ones have very high standards; and choose their customers.

They aren't obliged to fuck anyone who waves cash at them."

I think it maybe depends on what a person can afford lol ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it matter ? "

No it doesn't matter at all as I said, it was a curiosity and as it has yielded some interesting and daft responses I'd say mission accomplished.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter ?

No it doesn't matter at all as I said, it was a curiosity and as it has yielded some interesting and daft responses I'd say mission accomplished."

Are you jealous ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flip side is of your paying cos she knocked you back on here; all good manners and decorum etc go out the window!! Take your revenge. Take a laxative before the appointment eat a shit load of garlic and is there a kind of anti-viagra that'll make her feel bad at her job, forcing her to resort to a half hearted tired wank while you bitterly complain this has never happened before.

God who'd be a prostitute? If you thought men were bad before you started that game.....

I don't know what my point is, I'll freely admit to being bored and feeling silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Does it matter ?

No it doesn't matter at all as I said, it was a curiosity and as it has yielded some interesting and daft responses I'd say mission accomplished."

Interesting and daft responses: probably the standard Fab lot then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay this is a query and not a plan of action.

There are a few people on here who I have also stumbled across on adult work. Some of which offering services. So what if?

What if a sad lonely person sees a person on here, contacts and is rejected. Then finds the person on adult work and decides to purchase their services? What do you do?

I understand that one can choose on AW but hiding behind a profile is not too hard. So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

No Hate just constructive discussion please.

"

its up to the pro fessional escort what she does off site. lots of men pay for sex its their wallet their money dont worry about it if someone is that ugly and needs to pay for a shag let them lololol but on the serious side prostitutes / escorts do a job of work maybe that others wont. the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay this is a query and not a plan of action.

There are a few people on here who I have also stumbled across on adult work. Some of which offering services. So what if?

What if a sad lonely person sees a person on here, contacts and is rejected. Then finds the person on adult work and decides to purchase their services? What do you do?

I understand that one can choose on AW but hiding behind a profile is not too hard. So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

No Hate just constructive discussion please.

its up to the pro fessional escort what she does off site. lots of men pay for sex its their wallet their money dont worry about it if someone is that ugly and needs to pay for a shag let them lololol but on the serious side prostitutes / escorts do a job of work maybe that others wont. the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it"

Do you seriously believe the only people that pay for sex are the ugly ducklings that cant pull lol ?

Escorts are not just hired for sex alone or sex in general

Some people like a nice massage without anything sexual taking place

Others may just want a little company without any feelings of distrust

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"Okay this is a query and not a plan of action.

There are a few people on here who I have also stumbled across on adult work. Some of which offering services. So what if?

What if a sad lonely person sees a person on here, contacts and is rejected. Then finds the person on adult work and decides to purchase their services? What do you do?

I understand that one can choose on AW but hiding behind a profile is not too hard. So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

No Hate just constructive discussion please.

its up to the pro fessional escort what she does off site. lots of men pay for sex its their wallet their money dont worry about it if someone is that ugly and needs to pay for a shag let them lololol but on the serious side prostitutes / escorts do a job of work maybe that others wont. the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it"

Actually many do pay tax and contributions as self employed.

My freind ( formerly a barrister) earns in excess of £100K a year, and pays all her taxes and NI.

It's not illegal by the way.

Soliciting for sex, or running a brothel and various other things are illegal.

An individual buying or selling sex is perfectly legal.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Okay this is a query and not a plan of action.

There are a few people on here who I have also stumbled across on adult work. Some of which offering services. So what if?

What if a sad lonely person sees a person on here, contacts and is rejected. Then finds the person on adult work and decides to purchase their services? What do you do?

I understand that one can choose on AW but hiding behind a profile is not too hard. So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

No Hate just constructive discussion please.

its up to the pro fessional escort what she does off site. lots of men pay for sex its their wallet their money dont worry about it if someone is that ugly and needs to pay for a shag let them lololol but on the serious side prostitutes / escorts do a job of work maybe that others wont. the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it

Actually many do pay tax and contributions as self employed.

My freind ( formerly a barrister) earns in excess of £100K a year, and pays all her taxes and NI.

It's not illegal by the way.

Soliciting for sex, or running a brothel and various other things are illegal.

An individual buying or selling sex is perfectly legal."

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"Okay this is a query and not a plan of action.

There are a few people on here who I have also stumbled across on adult work. Some of which offering services. So what if?

What if a sad lonely person sees a person on here, contacts and is rejected. Then finds the person on adult work and decides to purchase their services? What do you do?

I understand that one can choose on AW but hiding behind a profile is not too hard. So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

No Hate just constructive discussion please.

"

We have noticed lots of people with Twitter & Facebook that are selling other legal items too...what is your point OP & how would you stop legal purchases from other various sites to a person because that said person is turned down on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Okay this is a query and not a plan of action.

There are a few people on here who I have also stumbled across on adult work. Some of which offering services. So what if?

What if a sad lonely person sees a person on here, contacts and is rejected. Then finds the person on adult work and decides to purchase their services? What do you do?

I understand that one can choose on AW but hiding behind a profile is not too hard. So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

No Hate just constructive discussion please.

We have noticed lots of people with Twitter & Facebook that are selling other legal items too...what is your point OP & how would you stop legal purchases from other various sites to a person because that said person is turned down on here."

Seriously are we all so broken that a person can't ask a question without being received negatively.

To those of you who simply shared information, thank you. To some of the others, not jealous, have never encountered a situation that lead me to the question. Studing human behaviour is part of my day job and human sexuality is a hobby. So would you question Brian Cox for studying space. No. Stephen Hawkins and Rip Thorne are the leading authority on black holes but they have never been to one.

Your negative responses are much more a reflection of your view rather than an objective look at the mechanism of human sexuality and think about it. What better place to study human behaviour that a place that shoes the very best and very worst of us.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


" the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it"

The Inland Revenue collect tax from such workers - sex work generally isn't illegal btw.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"Okay this is a query and not a plan of action.

There are a few people on here who I have also stumbled across on adult work. Some of which offering services. So what if?

What if a sad lonely person sees a person on here, contacts and is rejected. Then finds the person on adult work and decides to purchase their services? What do you do?

I understand that one can choose on AW but hiding behind a profile is not too hard. So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

No Hate just constructive discussion please.

We have noticed lots of people with Twitter & Facebook that are selling other legal items too...what is your point OP & how would you stop legal purchases from other various sites to a person because that said person is turned down on here.

Seriously are we all so broken that a person can't ask a question without being received negatively.

To those of you who simply shared information, thank you. To some of the others, not jealous, have never encountered a situation that lead me to the question. Studing human behaviour is part of my day job and human sexuality is a hobby. So would you question Brian Cox for studying space. No. Stephen Hawkins and Rip Thorne are the leading authority on black holes but they have never been to one.

Your negative responses are much more a reflection of your view rather than an objective look at the mechanism of human sexuality and think about it. What better place to study human behaviour that a place that shoes the very best and very worst of us."

Your own philosophies seem to be the answer your own question & any other view on the matter is deemed negative lol, any legal sale is a legal sale so most on here can't see your point & reading between the lines neither do you guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it

The Inland Revenue collect tax from such workers - sex work generally isn't illegal btw."

Would the HMRC be then be living of immoral earnings (which is still on the book as an offence) Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There providing a service let them do there thing for heavens sakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its immoral to sell ones body but perfectly fine to grow a carrot and flog them that ?

Come on people step into the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its immoral to sell ones body but perfectly fine to grow a carrot and flog them that ?

Come on people step into the future "

Some nice looking carrots out there yum yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it

The Inland Revenue collect tax from such workers - sex work generally isn't illegal btw.

Would the HMRC be then be living of immoral earnings (which is still on the book as an offence) Just a thought!"

kind of, but the law means that they are taking money from lawful earnings and it doesn't really matter where that money came from so long as it is earned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are just jealous

1 theyre earning more than others and 2

Less sexual partners about for free ?

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I don't actually understand the question. If a sad lonely person that I rejected on here messaged me on AW then that's their choice. Chances are I wouldn't even realise it was them.

It's when I get messages on here saying "i saw your aw profile and I don't want to pay you so I thought I'd message on here instead" (or similar) that's the issue.

I find something I like in all of my clients but when I meet people on here I go for whatever it is that I want in the moment. Its for me. I find people who want to do the things that I want to do. So I'm choosey, I'm selective, I chose the select few with whom I want to spend time.

With clients, I do what they want to do (unless I wouldn't do it on here) I may enjoy it just as much as them, and usually I really enjoy it... But it's for their pleasure not mine and that's where the difference lies with me.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

And saying that. When I used to be on here and PoF, I'd get men on PoF messaging me for a fuck and when I said no their response was "but you're on fab".

Seperate websites, separate sides of me. It's the same with fab and AW. I do this for me, I do AW to please other people (which is also kind of for me, but yeah..)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't actually understand the question. If a sad lonely person that I rejected on here messaged me on AW then that's their choice. Chances are I wouldn't even realise it was them.

It's when I get messages on here saying "i saw your aw profile and I don't want to pay you so I thought I'd message on here instead" (or similar) that's the issue.

I find something I like in all of my clients but when I meet people on here I go for whatever it is that I want in the moment. Its for me. I find people who want to do the things that I want to do. So I'm choosey, I'm selective, I chose the select few with whom I want to spend time.

With clients, I do what they want to do (unless I wouldn't do it on here) I may enjoy it just as much as them, and usually I really enjoy it... But it's for their pleasure not mine and that's where the difference lies with me."

Sounds fair enough to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And saying that. When I used to be on here and PoF, I'd get men on PoF messaging me for a fuck and when I said no their response was "but you're on fab".

Seperate websites, separate sides of me. It's the same with fab and AW. I do this for me, I do AW to please other people (which is also kind of for me, but yeah..) "

i get that, i'm on POF now looking for a relationship. stupid messages about how they've seen my pussy or they've seen me on here. it's like they don't know the difference between dating and NSA sex.

i put on my POF profile i'm not gonna fuck anyone i date coz i'm not going without sex.

also i changed my setting sot at least 50 character limit now, not that many characters i thought but i don't get stupid messages any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men can be ignorant buggers, we are not all like that

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


" the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it

The Inland Revenue collect tax from such workers - sex work generally isn't illegal btw.

Would the HMRC be then be living of immoral earnings (which is still on the book as an offence) Just a thought!"

No they are taxing legal income.

You don't understand what " immoral earnings" are as defined by law.

Running a brothel ( exploiting others as employee sex workers) is illegal ( and immoral earnings) Soliciting is illegal. Being paid to spend time with someone is not illegal ( otherwise being a home help, or helper to someone would be illegal ). Being paid to spend time with some one, ( including having sex) is not illegal. Immorality is a subjective determination, not a legal one .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it

The Inland Revenue collect tax from such workers - sex work generally isn't illegal btw.

Would the HMRC be then be living of immoral earnings (which is still on the book as an offence) Just a thought!

No they are taxing legal income.

You don't understand what " immoral earnings" are as defined by law.

Running a brothel ( exploiting others as employee sex workers) is illegal ( and immoral earnings) Soliciting is illegal. Being paid to spend time with someone is not illegal ( otherwise being a home help, or helper to someone would be illegal ). Being paid to spend time with some one, ( including having sex) is not illegal. Immorality is a subjective determination, not a legal one .

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it

The Inland Revenue collect tax from such workers - sex work generally isn't illegal btw.

Would the HMRC be then be living of immoral earnings (which is still on the book as an offence) Just a thought!

No they are taxing legal income.

You don't understand what " immoral earnings" are as defined by law.

Running a brothel ( exploiting others as employee sex workers) is illegal ( and immoral earnings) Soliciting is illegal. Being paid to spend time with someone is not illegal ( otherwise being a home help, or helper to someone would be illegal ). Being paid to spend time with some one, ( including having sex) is not illegal. Immorality is a subjective determination, not a legal one .

"

The irony is lost!

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


" the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it

The Inland Revenue collect tax from such workers - sex work generally isn't illegal btw.

Would the HMRC be then be living of immoral earnings (which is still on the book as an offence) Just a thought!

No they are taxing legal income.

You don't understand what " immoral earnings" are as defined by law.

Running a brothel ( exploiting others as employee sex workers) is illegal ( and immoral earnings) Soliciting is illegal. Being paid to spend time with someone is not illegal ( otherwise being a home help, or helper to someone would be illegal ). Being paid to spend time with some one, ( including having sex) is not illegal. Immorality is a subjective determination, not a legal one .

The irony is lost!"

No irony at all just simple legal facts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it

The Inland Revenue collect tax from such workers - sex work generally isn't illegal btw.

Would the HMRC be then be living of immoral earnings (which is still on the book as an offence) Just a thought!

No they are taxing legal income.

You don't understand what " immoral earnings" are as defined by law.

Running a brothel ( exploiting others as employee sex workers) is illegal ( and immoral earnings) Soliciting is illegal. Being paid to spend time with someone is not illegal ( otherwise being a home help, or helper to someone would be illegal ). Being paid to spend time with some one, ( including having sex) is not illegal. Immorality is a subjective determination, not a legal one .

The irony is lost!

No irony at all just simple legal facts."

This I do have to agree with

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts


"So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

Obviously the person didn't find them attractive enough without the incentive of money.

Dunno how i'd feel about that really."

For me (and I imagine others in a similar position), it's not necessarily that I'm not attracted to them, its that they're not offering me what I want in exchange for what I can offer them.

They can either be the type of person I'm looking for for my ideal pleasure and 'pay' me in fulfilling my wishes while I fulfill theirs... Or they can decide that I'm offering what they want and pay me financially for my time in which to fulfill their wishes.

It's no different to any other relationship. You'd not give your time and effort to somebody who is not giving you something of equal value in return...

I've never had a client I didn't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the only thing i dont like about them is that they get away without paying tax and insurance cos i think they should legalise it

The Inland Revenue collect tax from such workers - sex work generally isn't illegal btw.

Would the HMRC be then be living of immoral earnings (which is still on the book as an offence) Just a thought!

No they are taxing legal income.

You don't understand what " immoral earnings" are as defined by law.

Running a brothel ( exploiting others as employee sex workers) is illegal ( and immoral earnings) Soliciting is illegal. Being paid to spend time with someone is not illegal ( otherwise being a home help, or helper to someone would be illegal ). Being paid to spend time with some one, ( including having sex) is not illegal. Immorality is a subjective determination, not a legal one .

The irony is lost!

No irony at all just simple legal facts."

Look up the definition of irony ............

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By *Brinksy xxWoman
over a year ago

Halesowen


"So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

Obviously the person didn't find them attractive enough without the incentive of money.

Dunno how i'd feel about that really.

For me (and I imagine others in a similar position), it's not necessarily that I'm not attracted to them, its that they're not offering me what I want in exchange for what I can offer them.

They can either be the type of person I'm looking for for my ideal pleasure and 'pay' me in fulfilling my wishes while I fulfill theirs... Or they can decide that I'm offering what they want and pay me financially for my time in which to fulfill their wishes.

It's no different to any other relationship. You'd not give your time and effort to somebody who is not giving you something of equal value in return...

I've never had a client I didn't like "

I wholly agree with what you have said.. and to the person. Who said people who escort on aw don't have standards...you are so very wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did this descend into a discussion on tax laws?

For ducks sake let's keep the HMRC out of this. Invite them in, were all fucked x

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't actually understand the question. If a sad lonely person that I rejected on here messaged me on AW then that's their choice. Chances are I wouldn't even realise it was them.

It's when I get messages on here saying "i saw your aw profile and I don't want to pay you so I thought I'd message on here instead" (or similar) that's the issue.

I find something I like in all of my clients but when I meet people on here I go for whatever it is that I want in the moment. Its for me. I find people who want to do the things that I want to do. So I'm choosey, I'm selective, I chose the select few with whom I want to spend time.

With clients, I do what they want to do (unless I wouldn't do it on here) I may enjoy it just as much as them, and usually I really enjoy it... But it's for their pleasure not mine and that's where the difference lies with me."

Perfectly put

Clients, get to explore their wishlist of wants

Private, all about me

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"Okay this is a query and not a plan of action.

There are a few people on here who I have also stumbled across on adult work. Some of which offering services. So what if?

What if a sad lonely person sees a person on here, contacts and is rejected. Then finds the person on adult work and decides to purchase their services? What do you do?

I understand that one can choose on AW but hiding behind a profile is not too hard. So the service provider is now servicing someone they would not fuck for free.

No Hate just constructive discussion please.

"

I think in real life i.e. On here there has to be a connection ie either physical or they made you laugh etc

If your an escort by profession & thars how you pay your bills you probably need to learn to disconnect more so your able to f@#k those you wouldn't in real like

I wouldn't see it as a slight but their standards are bound to be different professional to those they have personally

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