FabSwingers.com forum: Not meeting

By *ussyhussy OP Couple
over a year ago

south west

How do you guys feel about a woman setting up a singles profile for flirting and chat if they will never meet . Is it time wasting or do you enjoy the banter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you're honest on your profile i don't see the problem.

people can call you a time waster for not wanting to meet but they should read your profile before contacting you.

you will get guys expecting you to meet though, coz they're exceptional', lol. oh and loads of guys thinking you're here for dirty chat probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you want to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says I'm not meeting but it hasn't stopped people asking

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I've had my profile for years but I'm not meeting right now as I have everything I need, doesn't make us time wasters as we state it in our profiles, unfortunately it's the people who read it and try their luck that waste time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you're honest on your profile i don't see the problem.

people can call you a time waster for not wanting to meet but they should read your profile before contacting you.

you will get guys expecting you to meet though, coz they're exceptional', lol. oh and loads of guys thinking you're here for dirty chat probably."

This ^

Nothing wrong with a chat and a flirt that's going no further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't really understand it but as with most things we don't understand, we just don't worry about it too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im honest on my profile as to why i am here.

I do think perhaps Fab should have more search options so its easy to filter us 'social flirty types' out..

like an 'actively meeting'

'social encounters'

also include preference for body type search options.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had my profile for years but I'm not meeting right now as I have everything I need, doesn't make us time wasters as we state it in our profiles, unfortunately it's the people who read it and try their luck that waste time

Exactly this, I have it splattered all over my profile that I'm not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noones obliged to meet and shouldnt be made to feel that way

Making that clear is maybe a good idea though

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sone people have been here a while and have found what/who they were looking for but continue to enjoy the social side of things. Nothing wrong with that!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Exactly this, I have it splattered all over my profile that I'm not interested."

And if things change we are still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think each to their own as to why they have a profile on fab and what they use it for

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am totally 100% honest on my profile ..still get alot of messages asking to meet ...i let them down gently

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have been sat here a few minutes now poised ready to type...

...except I cannot remember what the question was!?

I'll be back!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We are clear about meeting socially only, but still get a fair few messages wanting to meet

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Okay...

It's not my fault that some people don't read my profile. I am not meeting...and even if I did I don't want to meet men and yet they continue to message me.

So, exactly who are the time wasters?

It's not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay...

It's not my fault that some people don't read my profile. I am not meeting...and even if I did I don't want to meet men and yet they continue to message me.

So, exactly who are the time wasters?

It's not me.

filter out single men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say do want you want to ,men do it and its only fair women feel its ok too x im on here as a couple and at the moment we don't meet, but we love the chatting and fantasy and camming that we do.I Know my hubby loves it when a women flirts and if im honest I enjoy the men too. And we have made some nice acquaintences/friends.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Okay...

It's not my fault that some people don't read my profile. I am not meeting...and even if I did I don't want to meet men and yet they continue to message me.

So, exactly who are the time wasters?

It's not me.

filter out single men?"

And then what?

What else would I have to feign incredulity about then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest

If I go look on someone's profile and it says " not meeting" I do tend to just block n move on, however there are some profiles that say not meeting n they've got 5-10 verifications saying totally opposite then

I just think can't be arsed with liars n still block n move on....

Future time saved....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being honest

I just think can't be arsed with liars n still block n move on....

Future time saved...."

I'm the same. My block list is huge..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you guys feel about a woman setting up a singles profile for flirting and chat if they will never meet . Is it time wasting or do you enjoy the banter? "

Cant see the point but , if it gives you and them a kick , go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you guys feel about a woman setting up a singles profile for flirting and chat if they will never meet . Is it time wasting or do you enjoy the banter? "

As long as your profile is clear about what your after then I can't see a problem.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Im 1 that dus reed profiles and respects overs choices. If I don't match the profile I don't bother even thinking about messaging. I sum times wonder y sum are on hear wen thay say not meeting but its up to them wot thay do. And Un like sum on this tether and harf the site lol I don't just block cos i dont see the point of bloking overs just cos of small pettey siley things.

Eg not meeting.

To short

To tall

Rong hair cullor

Blar blar blar

And so on.....

Wot if latter on that not meeting changes ????

All u guys that block cos of it just mis out in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldnt be for me, but its up to her of what she is after.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

"How do you guys feel about a woman setting up a singles profile for flirting and chat if they will never meet . Is it time wasting or do you enjoy the banter?

As long as your profile is clear about what your after then I can't see a problem.

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