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"That bloody show has given Essex a bad name on everything, not just our lovely ladies that reside here. Having married an Essex girl, (18 years next month) I have nothing bad to say about them.... they are ALL lovely. " I wouldn't go as far to say all. But that's my own opinion ![]() | |||
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"Have you seen it? Women (2 I think) wanting to get the definition removed from the dictionary. Am I the only one that wasn't aware there was a dictionary definition? Being a girl from Essex myself, I detest the stigma attached to Essex girls, but I don't think TOWIE done it any favours either (never watched an episode). I don't get it as much now, but a while ago I'd get all the jokes and sly comments, people thinking you'd never heard them before and so on. That said, I don't think people have these perceptions due to a dictionary definition, I think the definition is there due to the perceptions. I don't think it will go away, it has been around far too long for some women to go around saying, "remove that definition". It's just not going to happen (unfortunately). ....and let the Essex girl jokes/comments commence " Yup agreed, similar to the 'thick Irishmen' jokes Well you did ask, 'how do you get an Essex girls eyes to light up.....shine a torch in her ear' I'm here all weeks folks | |||
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"That bloody show has given Essex a bad name on everything, not just our lovely ladies that reside here. Having married an Essex girl, (18 years next month) I have nothing bad to say about them.... they are ALL lovely. I wouldn't go as far to say all. But that's my own opinion ![]() Basildon has its own accent so I'm told. | |||
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" Well you did ask, 'how do you get an Essex girls eyes to light up.....shine a torch in her ear' I'm here all weeks folks" Isn't that to find their brains? Sorry Mrs M.... couldn't resist ![]() | |||
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"Essex girl jokes started well before that show ![]() Oh I know that, I remember hearing one at 14 and thinking yes I've heard it all before ![]() | |||
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"I think there's just too many people acting and dressing like they're from towie. And not necessarily all of them from Essex lol" I see, the skinny jeans ![]() | |||
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"I think there's just too many people acting and dressing like they're from towie. And not necessarily all of them from Essex lol I see, the skinny jeans ![]() I've been wearing them before towie was a thing, back in the emo days ![]() | |||
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"Where is essex and whats towie ?" do you not get out much? No television either? I've never seen TOWIE but seen the "people" from it on enough other TV shows to understand what it's about, also from others talking about it. | |||
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"I live in Hertfordshire on the Essex border and I've never met a Sharon or Tracey as in Birds of feather or anyone who seems like they're from towie although I've never seen a full episode....Essex is a lovely county and so are it's ladies ![]() Oh I've met loads of people that are like Sharon or Tracey, but then Birds of a Feather wasn't about Essex. Agree with you on some areas in Essex being lovely. I didn't appreciate them when I lived there, but now when I go back I do. | |||
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"I live in Hertfordshire on the Essex border and I've never met a Sharon or Tracey as in Birds of feather or anyone who seems like they're from towie although I've never seen a full episode....Essex is a lovely county and so are it's ladies ![]() Where abouts were you if you don't mind me asking? | |||
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"I live in Hertfordshire on the Essex border and I've never met a Sharon or Tracey as in Birds of feather or anyone who seems like they're from towie although I've never seen a full episode....Essex is a lovely county and so are it's ladies ![]() I lived in Colchester, but went to many other towns in the county. | |||
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"Have you seen it? Women (2 I think) wanting to get the definition removed from the dictionary. Am I the only one that wasn't aware there was a dictionary definition? Being a girl from Essex myself, I detest the stigma attached to Essex girls, but I don't think TOWIE done it any favours either (never watched an episode). I don't get it as much now, but a while ago I'd get all the jokes and sly comments, people thinking you'd never heard them before and so on. That said, I don't think people have these perceptions due to a dictionary definition, I think the definition is there due to the perceptions. I don't think it will go away, it has been around far too long for some women to go around saying, "remove that definition". It's just not going to happen (unfortunately). ....and let the Essex girl jokes/comments commence " The highest MENSA IQ scorer is a girl From Essex. it appears to me being a man from Essex then getting all the comments and steriotypes that when living in Cardiff, yet at the same time those people wanted to emulate the so calld Essex mindset or image it seemed cool and sexy. I am.probably not helping the matter by rather sadly keeping an Essex dictionary of dialect and slang which I have been writing for a number of years now. | |||
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"Have you seen it? Women (2 I think) wanting to get the definition removed from the dictionary. Am I the only one that wasn't aware there was a dictionary definition? Being a girl from Essex myself, I detest the stigma attached to Essex girls, but I don't think TOWIE done it any favours either (never watched an episode). I don't get it as much now, but a while ago I'd get all the jokes and sly comments, people thinking you'd never heard them before and so on. That said, I don't think people have these perceptions due to a dictionary definition, I think the definition is there due to the perceptions. I don't think it will go away, it has been around far too long for some women to go around saying, "remove that definition". It's just not going to happen (unfortunately). ....and let the Essex girl jokes/comments commence The highest MENSA IQ scorer is a girl From Essex. it appears to me being a man from Essex then getting all the comments and steriotypes that when living in Cardiff, yet at the same time those people wanted to emulate the so calld Essex mindset or image it seemed cool and sexy. I am.probably not helping the matter by rather sadly keeping an Essex dictionary of dialect and slang which I have been writing for a number of years now. " Soon be time for page two. ![]() | |||
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"Essex girl jokes started well before that show ![]() Yep. I grew up with 'em. Hilarious. All of them. ....well they would be if there weren't any truth in them ![]() | |||
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"We are a famous county for some nice things though.... the world's longest pier, Bas Vegas, leigh on Sea cocklesheds....." We are about five miles from where they will start building the second new nuclear power station. There's a decommissioned one there already so no biggy & H is from Basildon and spent most of her Friday & Saturday nights in BasVegas ![]() | |||
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"People didn't look like they do on TOWIE when I was working in Essex in the late 80's .. unless you count the big hair and padded shoulders which was the fashion at the time ![]() Except for the people in Towie no one else in Essex looks like that now either... ![]() | |||
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"We are a famous county for some nice things though.... the world's longest pier, Bas Vegas, leigh on Sea cocklesheds....." Maldon Salt and Tiptree Preserves are used worldwide, surprised how many places we've been to and a little bit of home pops up ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We are a famous county for some nice things though.... the world's longest pier, Bas Vegas, leigh on Sea cocklesheds..... We are about five miles from where they will start building the second new nuclear power station. There's a decommissioned one there already so no biggy & H is from Basildon and spent most of her Friday & Saturday nights in BasVegas ![]() the farther off the k's who is now a women was an Olympic gold medalist in decathalon and he was the face of some cerial. Thats how they made their money orriginally. | |||
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"We are a famous county for some nice things though.... the world's longest pier, Bas Vegas, leigh on Sea cocklesheds..... We are about five miles from where they will start building the second new nuclear power station. There's a decommissioned one there already so no biggy & H is from Basildon and spent most of her Friday & Saturday nights in BasVegas ![]() step father and he didn't make them their money | |||
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"We are a famous county for some nice things though.... the world's longest pier, Bas Vegas, leigh on Sea cocklesheds..... We are about five miles from where they will start building the second new nuclear power station. There's a decommissioned one there already so no biggy & H is from Basildon and spent most of her Friday & Saturday nights in BasVegas ![]() The father of the Kardashian's was OJ Simpson's barrister in the murder trial. Gain & Stacey was all filmed in Wales... | |||
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"We are a famous county for some nice things though.... the world's longest pier, Bas Vegas, leigh on Sea cocklesheds..... We are about five miles from where they will start building the second new nuclear power station. There's a decommissioned one there already so no biggy & H is from Basildon and spent most of her Friday & Saturday nights in BasVegas ![]() Obviously you didn't see the filming in Essex then.... Southend, Bas Vegas and other local points around Billericay | |||
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"I've always liked essex and wanted to live there, nothing to do with the 'essex girl' thing, just like the county from basildon to billericay. And everywhere else tbh!" About 6 miles then? ? ![]() | |||
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"I'm from Essex and so is most of my family. I'm proud of who I am and when people take the piss out of my accent I just rise above it. " Gainsborough folk can't really say much though can they, but where I've said when I was 14 someone made a joke, that was a man in Gainsborough. Yes I lived there, for all of 6 months(ish) so called family still there though. | |||
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"We are a famous county for some nice things though.... the world's longest pier, Bas Vegas, leigh on Sea cocklesheds..... We are about five miles from where they will start building the second new nuclear power station. There's a decommissioned one there already so no biggy & H is from Basildon and spent most of her Friday & Saturday nights in BasVegas ![]() then what relation is Bruce Jenner to kim then? | |||
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"I've always liked essex and wanted to live there, nothing to do with the 'essex girl' thing, just like the county from basildon to billericay. And everywhere else tbh! About 6 miles then? ? ![]() Yeah I was just going for the alliteration! I should have said from Loughton to Southend on Sea. | |||
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"We are a famous county for some nice things though.... the world's longest pier, Bas Vegas, leigh on Sea cocklesheds..... We are about five miles from where they will start building the second new nuclear power station. There's a decommissioned one there already so no biggy & H is from Basildon and spent most of her Friday & Saturday nights in BasVegas ![]() I have no idea who he is, but Google says step father. Kim and 3 others were already born before Bruce got with their mum | |||
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"We are a famous county for some nice things though.... the world's longest pier, Bas Vegas, leigh on Sea cocklesheds..... We are about five miles from where they will start building the second new nuclear power station. There's a decommissioned one there already so no biggy & H is from Basildon and spent most of her Friday & Saturday nights in BasVegas ![]() you can tell we both dont watch there programmes. lol | |||
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"I moved down here around 7 years ago. I love it. I love that there is so much green space, that I live on the major A road out of Southend, but I can walk 10 minutes down the road and be in a big wood complete with stream running through it. I hate the fact that the River Thames is constantly referred to as 'the sea'. It isn't a bloody sea, it's a river. I love walking from Southend, down to Old Leigh and eating fresh seafood. There is some amazing landscape and history around. " We are on the Dengie Nr Burnham, I love it out here apart from our village being on the main route to Maldon & the A12, but once past 8-9pm the road is usually pretty dead.. ![]() | |||
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"Walton-on-the-naze is still my favourite seaside to go to, mainly due to the childhood memories, eating fish and chips on the beach and not a load of competition going on like Clacton had. " I like Walton too, When we've dropped the kids at school we sometimes head over to Mersea on my M/C & have breakfast while listening to the clang,clang of yacht rigging ![]() | |||
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"Walton-on-the-naze is still my favourite seaside to go to, mainly due to the childhood memories, eating fish and chips on the beach and not a load of competition going on like Clacton had. I like Walton too, When we've dropped the kids at school we sometimes head over to Mersea on my M/C & have breakfast while listening to the clang,clang of yacht rigging ![]() Not got stuck over there yet then? | |||
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"Walton-on-the-naze is still my favourite seaside to go to, mainly due to the childhood memories, eating fish and chips on the beach and not a load of competition going on like Clacton had. I like Walton too, When we've dropped the kids at school we sometimes head over to Mersea on my M/C & have breakfast while listening to the clang,clang of yacht rigging ![]() No, got wet a few times where its been close, I have got stuck in the mud by the barges at Bradwell & lost my trainers though ![]() | |||
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"Walton-on-the-naze is still my favourite seaside to go to, mainly due to the childhood memories, eating fish and chips on the beach and not a load of competition going on like Clacton had. I like Walton too, When we've dropped the kids at school we sometimes head over to Mersea on my M/C & have breakfast while listening to the clang,clang of yacht rigging ![]() ![]() I done a team building course in bradwell, when I was 16. Raft building, rope climbing, obstacle courses, sailing to Mersea, oh not forgetting the crabbing! I loved it. | |||
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"Walton-on-the-naze is still my favourite seaside to go to, mainly due to the childhood memories, eating fish and chips on the beach and not a load of competition going on like Clacton had. I like Walton too, When we've dropped the kids at school we sometimes head over to Mersea on my M/C & have breakfast while listening to the clang,clang of yacht rigging ![]() ![]() We take our long coat Akita there for a swim but not until the day before a wash and chop, the groomers is owned by a friend so she doesn't mind him coming on stinking ![]() | |||
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"and when I visit I always have to have a pint of cockles from the cockle sheds.. Harry doesn't share my enthusiasm for them.. yet! x" Much rather have a Maldon oyster ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We are a famous county for some nice things though.... the world's longest pier, Bas Vegas, leigh on Sea cocklesheds..... Maldon Salt and Tiptree Preserves are used worldwide, surprised how many places we've been to and a little bit of home pops up ![]() ![]() Tiptree preserves from braintree in essex.. | |||
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"We are a famous county for some nice things though.... the world's longest pier, Bas Vegas, leigh on Sea cocklesheds..... We are about five miles from where they will start building the second new nuclear power station. There's a decommissioned one there already so no biggy & H is from Basildon and spent most of her Friday & Saturday nights in BasVegas ![]() Sorry, you are correct. I should have said, I read that none of the Billericay scenes were filmed in Essex... | |||
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"and when I visit I always have to have a pint of cockles from the cockle sheds.. Harry doesn't share my enthusiasm for them.. yet! x Much rather have a Maldon oyster ![]() ![]() oooh now your taliking! yummy! ![]() | |||
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"and when I visit I always have to have a pint of cockles from the cockle sheds.. Harry doesn't share my enthusiasm for them.. yet! x" eating cockles with a cocktail stick in vinegar wonder if they,d go with mushy peas, I tried whelks a number of times but to chewy like trying to eat a packet of wrigleys chewing gum.. ![]() | |||
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"and when I visit I always have to have a pint of cockles from the cockle sheds.. Harry doesn't share my enthusiasm for them.. yet! x Much rather have a Maldon oyster ![]() ![]() ![]() We'll do a trip to Southend, can get both there ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"and when I visit I always have to have a pint of cockles from the cockle sheds.. Harry doesn't share my enthusiasm for them.. yet! x Much rather have a Maldon oyster ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() We can have a proper day out!! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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