FabSwingers.com forum: Clues that someone is attached

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Only available daytimes in the week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock picture over the toilet bowl,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to work 14-22 during the week, I don't see how that can make you attached.

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

Says they are attached in their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unable to meet in a public place

unable to accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Says they are attached in their profile?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cpls profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiding the left hand in every pic..

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By *imon_79Man
over a year ago

southend

"Says they are attached in their profile?"

I always find that a bit of a giveaway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Says they are attached in their profile?"

I say that on my profile - you would be Amazed at how many people miss it though!!

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink

"Only available daytimes in the week."

I'm single but can only meet daytimes when my children are in school.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Is this one of those generalisations threads?

Like, if you can't accommodate, you must be cheating. However, this only usually applies to single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say they are married and generally get on with things quietly and without fuss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only available daytimes in the week.

I'm single but can only meet daytimes when my children are in school. "

CHEAT! BURN THE CHEAT!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They throw up a 'clues someone is attached' thread as a double bluff

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink

"Only available daytimes in the week.

I'm single but can only meet daytimes when my children are in school.

CHEAT! BURN THE CHEAT!!

is that meant in a funny way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their husband comes home early from work and you have to jump out of the window.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their husband comes home early from work and you have to jump out of the window."

Or doesn't notice because he's too busy chatting on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only available daytimes in the week."

I,m only available daytimes in the week and I am NOT attached. I have a family to look after. Too many assumptions on this forum. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only available daytimes in the week.

I'm single but can only meet daytimes when my children are in school. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only available daytimes in the week."

is this from reading their profile, or after chatting and arranging to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear a wedding ring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A ring on the finger? A wedding photo on the mantle peace? Nightly rows and lack of sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cock picture over the toilet bowl,,,,

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Are we having one of these a week now?

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink

"Only available daytimes in the week.

I,m only available daytimes in the week and I am NOT attached. I have a family to look after. Too many assumptions on this forum. X"

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

They send you shitty messages after reading what you've written on your profile

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

"Hiding the left hand in every pic.."

More like you're on about your profile

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

The give away is when they say 'I do' at the altar...

After that I've no idea.. every reason someone suggest could have an equally valid reason for not being .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

face pics taken in the car

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"face pics taken in the car"

What is with those pics in the car???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"face pics taken in the car

What is with those pics in the car???

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

Girlie stuff in the background in the guys photos. Although they could just be a t girl.

Dammit, is there no surefire way of knowing?!

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

Well i work night's so that's one 'fact' blown out of the water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have the haunted look of a man who has committed to one woman for the rest of their lives but who long ago discovered she's a nag and has given up shaving her legs. The anal queen that she once was has vanished, along with her sex drive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well i work night's so that's one 'fact' blown out of the water "

Clue or fact?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only available daytimes in the week.

I,m only available daytimes in the week and I am NOT attached. I have a family to look after. Too many assumptions on this forum. X"

It's a clue , I didn't say it was set in stone.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Only available daytimes in the week."

That's a clue they dont work nine to five

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"unable to meet in a public place

unable to accommodate

This means they have kids

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

When asked "are you married?", they say "yes".

Pretty simple really.

Mr ddc

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Has pics showing couple and says so on profile.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"They have the haunted look of a man who has committed to one woman for the rest of their lives but who long ago discovered she's a nag and has given up shaving her legs. The anal queen that she once was has vanished, along with her sex drive.

Rushes to get the shaver and lube ....

Rushes to get the lady shave and lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they come across articulate, funny, smart & sexy.

The hotties are usually attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"unable to meet in a public place

unable to accommodate

This means they have kids"

Or live with others, not necessarily a spouse.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Girlie stuff in the background in the guys photos. Although they could just be a t girl.

Dammit, is there no surefire way of knowing?!

I've two daughters .. they stay at mine and have various things at my house

The last bit is definitely true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can comment on threads like this with humour?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"If they come across articulate, funny, smart & sexy.

The hotties are usually attached

A ma definitely attached .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're wearing a blue Tshirt in their third public pic..... pretty scientific huh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say they are married and generally get on with things quietly and without fuss? "

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By *infullyNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Stanwell

It's hard to tell, some people might say that not being able to accommodate is a giveaway, but I'm single and can't accommodate because I live with uni housemates

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"If they come across articulate, funny, smart & sexy.

The hotties are usually attached

What do you call an intelligent, caring, compassionate loyal honest sexy funny guy?

A myth..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rushes to get the shaver and lube ....

Rushes to get the lady shave and lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way you will 100% know that someone is married is if it's there on their profile, or if they have a conscience and they tell you ....

Otherwise you can keep guessing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They throw up a 'clues someone is attached' thread as a double bluff"

I have it on authority that some (not all!

) of the most vocal 'anti-cheaters' are indeed married themselves and use the ruse to both put themselves on a pedestal whilst undermining others ...

Whether true or not - who knows. But this comes from more than one lady who says that they've met people who have admitted they're attached (either married or with long term partner) despite being vehemently anti-married in public forums

I can only take what they say at face value but obviously this is third hand info so must be treated with the appropriate caution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clues that forum regulars are attached, male / female ~ they never post in the "all cheating marrieds are b*stards" threads

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Clues that forum regulars are attached, male / female ~ they never post in the "all cheating marrieds are b*stards" threads

I am attached but I don't write this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to work 14-22 during the week, I don't see how that can make you attached. "

Plus you usually find. Unable to do weekends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only available daytimes in the week."

May work nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant do very late meets or very early.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Cant do very late meets or very early. "

Children?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clues that forum regulars are attached, male / female ~ they never post in the "all cheating marrieds are b*stards" threads

I am attached but I don't write this"

I'm not saying they write it but they tend to stay away from those kind of threads so as not to out themselves.

I'm going with the theme that the threads about attached as in cheating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some combination of:

- Doesn't chat or answer mails in the evening.

- Won't meet local to them in a public place.

- Won't meet at home.

- Won't allow themselves to be marked during sex.

There are perfectly reasonable explanations for all of those things - but my playtime isn't equal opportunities and therefore I'm entitled to turn people down based on one or more of those characteristics.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Some combination of:

- Doesn't chat or answer mails in the evening.

- Won't meet local to them in a public place.

- Won't meet at home.

- Won't allow themselves to be marked during sex.

Good points. I like to meet people at their own homes for play - you can soon see if there is zero evidence of female influence in decor or bathroom products lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clues that forum regulars are attached, male / female ~ they never post in the "all cheating marrieds are b*stards" threads

I don't post in these sorts of threads and I'm definitely single....

Actually this is my FIRST post in this type of thread....

I don't post in them because, I don't care what someone else does, it's not my business and it's not my concern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it matter? "

Yes. To many of us it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're wearing a blue Tshirt in their third public pic..... pretty scientific huh

It's actually Dr's scrubs in mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Says they are attached in their profile?"

You should have been a detective..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clues that forum regulars are attached, male / female ~ they never post in the "all cheating marrieds are b*stards" threads

Oops! Should I avoid those threads ? I thought they were being ironic

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Suggest meeting at their's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're wearing a blue Tshirt in their third public pic..... pretty scientific huh

It's actually Dr's scrubs in mine

Damn maybe I'm onto something!

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I knew married women who were honest with me and for a moment, no personal issues interfered between us, just two souls enjoying each other.

I knew single women whose only intention was feed their self- esteem, collecting guys messages and promising a good shag, but without further answer or showing up.

Catching attached people here? Is that the most terrible sin, a reason to be despised...?

With respect of everyone's opinion on that, this is mostly a refuge for the soul from the daily madness...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have a Couples profile and photos of themselves together...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?"

Yes.

But that's not the main reason for meeting them!

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

The ladies husband answers the front door,that gave it away for me one day.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"The ladies husband answers the front door,that gave it away for me one day."

Well you can't give us half a story,what happened...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?"

Or alternatively you could ask a question we see daily...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Says they are attached in their profile?

I always find that a bit of a giveaway! "

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

Or alternatively you could ask a question we see daily..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?"

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

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By *auren001Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

As posted in my thread sending you pics with wedding ring still on...doh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People seem to be making conclusions that some behaviors are symptomatic of being in a relationship based on how there own behaviour is/could be dictated by being in a relationship.

Most of the thread is one person posting a clue and another discounting it by providing a totally valid explanation for it.

I think unfortunately there isn't really a way to know, you just have to take their word for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

No"

And that's absolutely fine, you're perogative. However there are ladies that are happy to, particularly if they are attached themselves. Even both with or without their partners knowledge. Both ladies I met in the past were attached and cheating. Some actually prefer attached/married and cheating because you ensure mutual discretion and less likelihood of drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware."

My Mrs is fully aware of me being here plus it's on my profile that I'm married and our couples profile is listed there too, but even when I'm so open, most women still say they won't meet me cause I'm married.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?"

No from me too

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't accommodate

Hand on I can't accommodate

Fook me where's my husband been hiding for the past 10 years? I best check behind the fridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?"

An honest cheat? Well that's a new one on me

But to answer the question yes, peoples personal life is no concern of mine as mine is not theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

Well, not everyone feels the same way as myself, and I don't feel the same way as everyone else...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

I tend to stay away from male half's of swinging couples

I've had to much drama with it in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their husband comes home early from work and you have to jump out of the window."

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

I tend to stay away from male half's of swinging couples

I've had to much drama with it in the past"

Do you mind if I ask what's happened in the past, cause this has been said to me a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should totally be making notes off this thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some combination of:

- Doesn't chat or answer mails in the evening.

- Won't meet local to them in a public place.

- Won't meet at home.

- Won't allow themselves to be marked during sex.

Good points. I like to meet people at their own homes for play - you can soon see if there is zero evidence of female influence in decor or bathroom products lol!

But do remember that some men have good conditioners and shampoos that aren't female influenced.

And a bit of flair interior design.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

I'm not keen on meeting the male half even with permission, it's the dynamics of it all which unsettles me.

For example I like to flirt,chat in a way I wouldn't be comfortable with knowing the OH could well be looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

I'm not keen on meeting the male half even with permission, it's the dynamics of it all which unsettles me.

For example I like to flirt,chat in a way I wouldn't be comfortable with knowing the OH could well be looking.

Ah, well that does make sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

I'm not keen on meeting the male half even with permission, it's the dynamics of it all which unsettles me.

For example I like to flirt,chat in a way I wouldn't be comfortable with knowing the OH could well be looking.

Ah, well that does make sense."

I solve that problem by chatting to them on their own private profile, or moving it to Kik straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?"

for me its more about the person, not the situation they find themselves in..

if I don't like the person, married or not, I won't meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here after 5 pm when they finish work and going home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

I'm not keen on meeting the male half even with permission, it's the dynamics of it all which unsettles me.

For example I like to flirt,chat in a way I wouldn't be comfortable with knowing the OH could well be looking.

Ah, well that does make sense.

I solve that problem by chatting to them on their own private profile, or moving it to Kik straight away."

I get what you're saying & this would work for me if they were say just FB's & didn't live together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

I tend to stay away from male half's of swinging couples

I've had to much drama with it in the past

Do you mind if I ask what's happened in the past, cause this has been said to me a few times."

Women wanting to meet me before I meet their husband, why would I want to meet them I'm not fucking them, does it matter if they like me

Women who think they will be ok with their husbands meeting alone then finding out they are not and them keep texting and phoning their fella in our meet, or sending me messages after, even had one women take my number off her fellas phone and call me up giving me grief

I've had a few problems in the past

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

The only way you could genuinely know is if they admit that they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

I'm not keen on meeting the male half even with permission, it's the dynamics of it all which unsettles me.

For example I like to flirt,chat in a way I wouldn't be comfortable with knowing the OH could well be looking.

Ah, well that does make sense.

I solve that problem by chatting to them on their own private profile, or moving it to Kik straight away.

I get what you're saying & this would work for me if they were say just FB's & didn't live together."

I'm not sure I understand. Why does the place someone lives make a difference?

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By *enny79TV/TS
over a year ago

chesterfield

Ok I can't accommodate but because I live with my mum I work v long hours so not available that much to meet but still v single I know people do lie about it but for some there is a valid reason xx

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over a year ago

"The only way you could genuinely know is if they admit that they are "

Which is why I do from the outset. If that rules me out for many, so be it. I'm a patient man..horny, but patient.

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over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

I tend to stay away from male half's of swinging couples

I've had to much drama with it in the past

Do you mind if I ask what's happened in the past, cause this has been said to me a few times.

Women wanting to meet me before I meet their husband, why would I want to meet them I'm not fucking them, does it matter if they like me

I've had a few problems in the past"

Ah that's a shame, but yes once bitten twice shy.

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over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

I'm not keen on meeting the male half even with permission, it's the dynamics of it all which unsettles me.

For example I like to flirt,chat in a way I wouldn't be comfortable with knowing the OH could well be looking.

Ah, well that does make sense.

I solve that problem by chatting to them on their own private profile, or moving it to Kik straight away.

I get what you're saying & this would work for me if they were say just FB's & didn't live together.

I'm not sure I understand. Why does the place someone lives make a difference?"

It may sound silly but I wouldn't be comfortable with chatting away to him with her looking over his shoulder, being a topic of discussion that kind of thing.

I have idea this actually happens it's just my thoughts that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

I'm not keen on meeting the male half even with permission, it's the dynamics of it all which unsettles me.

For example I like to flirt,chat in a way I wouldn't be comfortable with knowing the OH could well be looking.

Ah, well that does make sense.

I solve that problem by chatting to them on their own private profile, or moving it to Kik straight away.

I get what you're saying & this would work for me if they were say just FB's & didn't live together.

I'm not sure I understand. Why does the place someone lives make a difference?

It may sound silly but I wouldn't be comfortable with chatting away to him with her looking over his shoulder, being a topic of discussion that kind of thing.

I have idea this actually happens it's just my thoughts that's all.

From my own POV - my partners never see the private conversations that I have with other people who aren't them. They have no right to see either what I say to my other partners, or to people I'm thinking about hooking up with.

I always ask when I chat to people too - I ask them if they show their partners their chats with people. I they say yes, I generally arrange a meet sooner rather than later so that we can talk in person rather than online.

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

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"Some combination of:

- Doesn't chat or answer mails in the evening.

- Won't meet local to them in a public place.

- Won't meet at home.

- Won't allow themselves to be marked during sex.

Good points. I like to meet people at their own homes for play - you can soon see if there is zero evidence of female influence in decor or bathroom products lol!

people may have children stay over so maybe there are mixed toiletries , dont always assume.....or should they assume you are not single because you cannot accommodate

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over a year ago

" lets throw a bomb in would you ladies / cpls meet a married man if he was honest ?

I have no problem with meeting married men.

I have a problem with meeting married men if their wife isn't aware.

I tend to stay away from male half's of swinging couples

I've had to much drama with it in the past

Do you mind if I ask what's happened in the past, cause this has been said to me a few times.

Women wanting to meet me before I meet their husband, why would I want to meet them I'm not fucking them, does it matter if they like me

I've had a few problems in the past"

Ah, well that would never happen with me, when either my Mrs or myself goes on a meet, the other never has anything to do with the person the meet was arranged with and never text during, we are both happy with our arrangement which does get frowned upon by others.

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"Some combination of:

- Doesn't chat or answer mails in the evening.

- Won't meet local to them in a public place.

- Won't meet at home.

- Won't allow themselves to be marked during sex.

If Mrs M found any marks on me, it would more than likely be my back! (Scratched to fuck) and also letting me out to play at any hour of the day or night, even a coffee at our local McDonald's or Tesco

Won't meet at home due to a BIG dog that hates people.

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