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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or is there hardly any submissive girls on here?

Cant quite find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are so submissive they won't put their hands up and admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not looking hard enough then op

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By *andeCouple
over a year ago

Bognor area

I am sub - would I meet you ? No

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I am sub - would I meet you ? No "

This

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sub - would I meet you ? No "

Is your cage purposely built ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is there hardly any submissive girls on here?

Cant quite find them "

There are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is there hardly any submissive girls on here?

Cant quite find them "

Try not coming over as a total knob on your profile and spouting about being Mr Dominant and you might get a better reception.

Just because they are a submissive doesn't mean they either want or will allow you to do what you expect.

It's obvious you don't understand what a proper Dominant is to a Submissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of men tend to think submissive means anything goes and they can just use that person for their own needs without consideration of that person.

so you will struggle to find them, why would they try to attract guys like that?

i'm dominant and hide it coz of all the fake submissive guys who think being submissive means they lie there and let me do whatever they want, lol, i want they guy to do more for me than that and his inexperience turns me off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's the other way around not enough Dom ladies here

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"They are so submissive they won't put their hands up and admit it "

OP: Try again with a thread entitled "Oi! Subs! Post here now "

Mr ddc

Ps '' is the closest I could get to 'stern'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is but submissions need a lot of trust in their doms. Personally I wouldn't play the sub role with anyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also OP, sub/dom isn't just about rough sex!

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink

Dom diddly Dom Dom Dom.... don't mind me I'm just humming a tune

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By *andeCouple
over a year ago

Bognor area


"I am sub - would I meet you ? No

Is your cage purposely built ?"

No it's a dog cage from argos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is there hardly any submissive girls on here?

Cant quite find them "
plenty on here but your not going to find them with the way your profile comes across...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's loads of submissive women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sub - would I meet you ? No "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.... in conclusion, it is just you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is there hardly any submissive girls on here?

Cant quite find them "

Oh if you were ten years older. Such a pretty lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your approach. I've had "doms" message me all sorts of shit that really isn't okay and doesn't fit within bdsm nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dom diddly Dom Dom Dom.... don't mind me I'm just humming a tune "

nice tune.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes its just you OP!

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Dom diddly Dom Dom Dom.... don't mind me I'm just humming a tune

nice tune. "

I can teach you the words if you like , now get on your knees and do as your told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dom diddly Dom Dom Dom.... don't mind me I'm just humming a tune

nice tune.

I can teach you the words if you like , now get on your knees and do as your told "

i'm not liking this chorus though.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Few issues.

*your profile makes you sound like you think you know it all....That's not a dom/sub relationship at all. You need to learn each other to get it.

*rough isn't dominant...it's well....rough!

*the words "if you think you can handle this" make you sound like an ego maniac who believes they are better than others.

*You're 26.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is there hardly any submissive girls on here?

Cant quite find them plenty on here but your not going to find them with the way your profile comes across... "

But he's verified...He proudly states so in his profile (for the hard of thinking obviously, who can't work it out themselves or just miss it...He really wants folk to know he's verified) so he must be ok right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and yeah...There are lots of sub ladies on here

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Dom diddly Dom Dom Dom.... don't mind me I'm just humming a tune

nice tune.

I can teach you the words if you like , now get on your knees and do as your told

i'm not liking this chorus though."

Oh damn I'll have a rethink Dom Dom Dom diddly Dom hmmmmm going to ponder

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op - perhaps you could explain how you define a submissive woman? Have you done a survey upon a suitably large number of people and analysed the results?

There's a difference between others not preferring you as a partner, to people not liking a varied set of choices. And if you're not their preference, you'll probably not be told that what they love is similar to what you'd like.

I think perhaps you're over-generalising, without sufficient quality data.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dom diddly Dom Dom Dom.... don't mind me I'm just humming a tune

nice tune.

I can teach you the words if you like , now get on your knees and do as your told

i'm not liking this chorus though.

Oh damn I'll have a rethink Dom Dom Dom diddly Dom hmmmmm going to ponder "

haha.

i'll probably like the lyrics, just realised i started taking the dom diddly song the wrong way.

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Dom diddly Dom Dom Dom.... don't mind me I'm just humming a tune

nice tune.

I can teach you the words if you like , now get on your knees and do as your told

i'm not liking this chorus though.

Oh damn I'll have a rethink Dom Dom Dom diddly Dom hmmmmm going to ponder

haha.

i'll probably like the lyrics, just realised i started taking the dom diddly song the wrong way. "

Yaaaaay you like my song now, (the penny's dropped)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told my dominant regular partner I needed intense sex, bordering on brutal, today.

He knows what that is.

Answering your question, there are submissive women on here and women who like rough sex.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Shagging someone hard and hurting them isn't being a Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dom diddly Dom Dom Dom.... don't mind me I'm just humming a tune

nice tune.

I can teach you the words if you like , now get on your knees and do as your told

i'm not liking this chorus though.

Oh damn I'll have a rethink Dom Dom Dom diddly Dom hmmmmm going to ponder

haha.

i'll probably like the lyrics, just realised i started taking the dom diddly song the wrong way.

Yaaaaay you like my song now, (the penny's dropped) "

lol, i got it from the first line. then forgot by the chorus.

wonder if there's a sub version?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Is it just me or is there hardly any submissive girls on here?

Cant quite find them "

Where are all the submissive men?

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By *ooking for bbwsCouple
over a year ago

secret garden chilling, always something to do in the garden


"I am sub - would I meet you ? No "

love it made me chuckle need that he he

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Is it just me or is there hardly any submissive girls on here?

Cant quite find them "

No, it's just you OP. Have you tried retracing your steps to the last place you remember seeing one? That normally works for me when I can't find something.

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

I was about to rant about the op's post & related profile but others have said it better than I could. So 'ditto' what all you lovely ppl who know proper Dom & Sub said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shagging someone hard and hurting them isn't being a Dom "

^ this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a collared sub and it is a role you can not take up on a casual basis. Doms care about their subs so they get the best out of them and in truth the sub is the one with the power you obviously have not got a clue. If you want to learn to be a PROPER dom then you need to start visiting local munches . If you don't know what they are I would suggest you get an education.

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"I'm a collared sub and it is a role you can not take up on a casual basis. Doms care about their subs so they get the best out of them and in truth the sub is the one with the power you obviously have not got a clue. If you want to learn to be a PROPER dom then you need to start visiting local munches . If you don't know what they are I would suggest you get an education. "

I'd disagree with that. You don't have to learn to be a Dom! And I know loads what don't and never will go to munches. Doesn't make you superior if you attend munches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your main problem, would be finding a suitable SUBmarine to take a woman into .. or am I thinking the wrong kind of SUB here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't say anything about being superior what I meant was sub dom play is not something to be considered lightly and thus the chances of finding that on a casual swingers site is slim. He would have more luck finding someone at a munch or on a fetish site which is better suited for that senario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shagging someone hard and hurting them isn't being a Dom

^ this."

totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a collared sub and it is a role you can not take up on a casual basis."

Actually, you totally can. I play casually with a handful of subs and a couple of dominants. It depends what kind of play you're looking for and your approach to the whole thing.

Just because it's not *your* thing, doesn't mean it isn't done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try down the back of your sofa OP.

The last time we looked, we found £3.25, 2 submissive women and a single straight male with humorous underpants.

That was quite a Tuesday evening.

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"I didn't say anything about being superior what I meant was sub dom play is not something to be considered lightly and thus the chances of finding that on a casual swingers site is slim. He would have more luck finding someone at a munch or on a fetish site which is better suited for that senario "

Again I disagree. I don't live the lifestyle but I am into bdsm and d/s dynamic. Don't make me any less understanding than others whom attend munches

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"I'm a collared sub and it is a role you can not take up on a casual basis.

Actually, you totally can. I play casually with a handful of subs and a couple of dominants. It depends what kind of play you're looking for and your approach to the whole thing.

Just because it's not *your* thing, doesn't mean it isn't done."

Agree with this

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Is it just me or is there hardly any submissive girls on here?

Cant quite find them "
im collared xx

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Try down the back of your sofa OP.

The last time we looked, we found £3.25, 2 submissive women and a single straight male with humorous underpants.

That was quite a Tuesday evening."

Sofa so good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shagging someone hard and hurting them isn't being a Dom

^ this.

totally agree"

He didn't say he was a Dom, did he?

My dominant partner isn't my Dom and I'm not his sub.

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By *albec26Man
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

Hey OP I've a captain caveman outfit you can have

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I think your main problem, would be finding a suitable SUBmarine to take a woman into .. or am I thinking the wrong kind of SUB here? "
the sub way sandwich...mmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you TOLD them to show themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't say anything about being superior what I meant was sub dom play is not something to be considered lightly and thus the chances of finding that on a casual swingers site is slim. He would have more luck finding someone at a munch or on a fetish site which is better suited for that senario

Again I disagree. I don't live the lifestyle but I am into bdsm and d/s dynamic. Don't make me any less understanding than others whom attend munches "

I found one, and wasn't even looking. He was naturally dominant, I'm naturally submissive. It worked very well.

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"I didn't say anything about being superior what I meant was sub dom play is not something to be considered lightly and thus the chances of finding that on a casual swingers site is slim. He would have more luck finding someone at a munch or on a fetish site which is better suited for that senario "

OP try fetlife and join some groups on there. There's lots of informative and quality stuff on there. It can be a bit hard to navigate but it is good for educational bits.

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"I didn't say anything about being superior what I meant was sub dom play is not something to be considered lightly and thus the chances of finding that on a casual swingers site is slim. He would have more luck finding someone at a munch or on a fetish site which is better suited for that senario

Again I disagree. I don't live the lifestyle but I am into bdsm and d/s dynamic. Don't make me any less understanding than others whom attend munches

I found one, and wasn't even looking. He was naturally dominant, I'm naturally submissive. It worked very well."

Me too,

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I'm a collared sub and it is a role you can not take up on a casual basis. Doms care about their subs so they get the best out of them and in truth the sub is the one with the power you obviously have not got a clue. If you want to learn to be a PROPER dom then you need to start visiting local munches . If you don't know what they are I would suggest you get an education. "

I thought every subs dream dominant is a limit ignoring, heartless, no safe word, sociopathic sadist. At least mine is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is there hardly any submissive girls on here?

Cant quite find them

Where are all the submissive men?"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the OP doesn't sound very dominant, more an overbearing bully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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OP try fetlife and join some groups on there. There's lots of informative and quality stuff on there. It can be a bit hard to navigate but it is good for educational bits. "

that i would agree with its where i found my master and your right there is a lot of advice and info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the OP doesn't sound very dominant, more an overbearing bully "

I got that he likes a bit of rough sex, wants to be in charge and wants a woman who likes that kind of thing.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

I've played sub, check my spanking pics out,but a dom needs to build trust, a whip doesn't make you a dom, you earn your sub and you get rewarded with their submission. It's not about throat grabbing and calling her a slut, it's respect for her and not about how hard you hit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of submissive woman around however they only choose men that actually understand what responsibility it is to be a Dom rather some guy that thinks he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just you; i have 5 women wearing collars leashed to the end of my bedstead....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your main problem, would be finding a suitable SUBmarine to take a woman into .. or am I thinking the wrong kind of SUB here? the sub way sandwich...mmmmmmmm "

6" or the full 12?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've played sub, check my spanking pics out,but a dom needs to build trust, a whip doesn't make you a dom, you earn your sub and you get rewarded with their submission. It's not about throat grabbing and calling her a slut, it's respect for her and not about how hard you hit.

"

now get off here and get back where you belong!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I think your main problem, would be finding a suitable SUBmarine to take a woman into .. or am I thinking the wrong kind of SUB here? the sub way sandwich...mmmmmmmm

6" or the full 12? "
whatever i can eat at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your main problem, would be finding a suitable SUBmarine to take a woman into .. or am I thinking the wrong kind of SUB here? the sub way sandwich...mmmmmmmm

6" or the full 12? whatever i can eat at the time "

Shame there's not an inbetween size isn't it haha

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By *ymph84Woman
over a year ago

durham

Plenty of sub women on here but as others have said it's about building trust.

My dom and I met on here but we have built up a secure bond between us and I trust him to take care of me during a session.

Would I trust any tom, dick or harry to do anything to me... no!!

Many men claim to be dominant but they just want to have rough sex with women that is not being dominant in my eyes

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I think your main problem, would be finding a suitable SUBmarine to take a woman into .. or am I thinking the wrong kind of SUB here? the sub way sandwich...mmmmmmmm

6" or the full 12? whatever i can eat at the time

Shame there's not an inbetween size isn't it haha "
ill share or save some for later x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've played sub, check my spanking pics out,but a dom needs to build trust, a whip doesn't make you a dom, you earn your sub and you get rewarded with their submission. It's not about throat grabbing and calling her a slut, it's respect for her and not about how hard you hit.

"

I told you that you weren't to post in the forums after 11.

The crop is coming out!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Hahaha ha ha haaahahaha hahaaaa haaaa ha aha ha haaaha haha haaaa.

Aaaaand breathe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha ha ha haaahahaha hahaaaa haaaa ha aha ha haaaha haha haaaa.

Aaaaand breathe."

I was going to slap you on the back then; but don't think I am quick enough to dodge the right hook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha ha ha haaahahaha hahaaaa haaaa ha aha ha haaaha haha haaaa.

Aaaaand breathe."

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