FabSwingers.com forum: When you argue with a mate....

By *issLiss OP Couple
over a year ago

south east

Just had a fight with a friend of mine literally because I called her out for behaving in an ignorant manner. When I pointed out it was over nothing but if she wants to be pissed off then be pissed off to which she replied "consider this our bond broken"

I'm quite upset about it as I think that's quite mean thing to say? Not sure if she ever was a friend in the first place now...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a fight with a friend of mine literally because I called her out for behaving in an ignorant manner. When I pointed out it was over nothing but if she wants to be pissed off then be pissed off to which she replied "consider this our bond broken"

I'm quite upset about it as I think that's quite mean thing to say? Not sure if she ever was a friend in the first place now..."

People say things they shouldn't in the heat of the moment, usually when they know they perhaps are in the wrong. And the closer the person, the more likely they'll know just how to make it hurt you. Let the situation calm. Whilst you're still hurting you won't be able to see clearly if this is worth losing her over. I'd suggest if it has upset you this much, chances are she means something to you, and hence the relationship is worth salvaging. Let the sting pass (hers too, you called her out - perhaps she wasn't in the right place to hear it - however accurate it was) and then make a decision. Good luck.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are always at their worst when they get called out on shit, probably note mad at herself for being so stupid in the first place