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By *unnynbugs OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath

User to UNLOS in 19 hours? Started chatting to a newbie who looked at me. She stated that she was inundated with messages and was having some nasty ones from guys who she wasn't replying to fast enough, then poof, gone...

Is this likey an admin thing or is it possible she was badgered off the site inside 24hrs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

will be she got scared off the site. first time i came online i deleted pretty quickly, 17 pages of men wanting a fuck was pretty scary to me.

she'll be back if she really wants what this site can offer her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did the same the first time I joined, was bombarded and it freaked me out so I left within a day or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve had quicker than that - matter of a couple of hours

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A new female profile does get bombarded and some guys are rude.

I was put on this site by a then friend and she dealt with it all for me.

I sat there in shock wondering how I was ever going to live down being on a swingers site.

I'm fine now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She will have had 100's of messages from the predictor males that trawl who's new on here. They hope to get in first but I doubt they are successful and just scares women off. The site could do a lot more to make it more new user friendly like automatically putting on filters so they need to be manually set, restricting how many messages they get in the first few hours whilst newbies get used to the site, however I doubt anything will change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shut down my account awhile ago and reopened a new one but the hounds at the gate trying to snap up a newbie are pretty ferocious! I had great fun though picking them off but for a newbie it is terrifying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She will have had 100's of messages from the predictor males that trawl who's new on here. They hope to get in first but I doubt they are successful and just scares women off. The site could do a lot more to make it more new user friendly like automatically putting on filters so they need to be manually set, restricting how many messages they get in the first few hours whilst newbies get used to the site, however I doubt anything will change."

True, figuring out the filters etc...is daunting enough without trying to fend off the cockamania

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I did the same the first time I joined, was bombarded and it freaked me out so I left within a day or so.

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Same happened to me.....came back a week later with a thicker skin

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By *unnynbugs OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath

Surely member retention should be part of it all... I agree with the filters as I followed the prompts and stopped single males straight away... whenever I raise the portcullis I get about a 400% increase in traffic to our profile

Not sure about immediate filters because some people will be looking for different things...

Perhaps a warning? Like you often see In forums like "Don't Feed The Trolls" we should have one for the pests (not singling out single males because I've had some pestering couples too)

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By *unnynbugs OP   Couple
over a year ago

Neath


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True, figuring out the filters etc...is daunting enough without trying to fend off the cockamania "

I prefer the term SausageFest lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think that filters should default to being on automatically for new members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She will have had 100's of messages from the predictor males that trawl who's new on here. They hope to get in first but I doubt they are successful and just scares women off. The site could do a lot more to make it more new user friendly like automatically putting on filters so they need to be manually set, restricting how many messages they get in the first few hours whilst newbies get used to the site, however I doubt anything will change.

True, figuring out the filters etc...is daunting enough without trying to fend off the cockamania "

Cockamania - best term of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She will have had 100's of messages from the predictor males that trawl who's new on here. They hope to get in first but I doubt they are successful and just scares women off. The site could do a lot more to make it more new user friendly like automatically putting on filters so they need to be manually set, restricting how many messages they get in the first few hours whilst newbies get used to the site, however I doubt anything will change."
i always think that.. would be nice to have to take thr filters off yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I shut down my account awhile ago and reopened a new one but the hounds at the gate trying to snap up a newbie are pretty ferocious! I had great fun though picking them off but for a newbie it is terrifying.

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This is my 3rd account now and each time I've had 100's of messages on the first day. Always the same sad socially inept fuckers (yep I'm one of those irritating people who only needs a message once, no mater how crap I remember). As a total newbie it must be terrifying. I initially joined as a couple and I don't remember being bombarded then. Maybe the presence of a male partner put them off.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Only the person who deleted the profile could say why they left , it could be a myriad of reasons .. not just volume of messages.

I see quite a lot of new female profiles as often as not they already have filters applied ... I guess they've either been here before and found them previously or as they are setting up their profile they discover them ..

Some and I repeat some love the attention as well ..

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's not just women who leave soon after joining. I was chatting to a local guy last night, all going well. Checked my messages this morning and gone!! I don't think it was anything I said!

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