FabSwingers.com forum: 11 people look

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had 11 people look at me today but no winks or messages Christ am I that ugly? and I'm a sensitive guy so please be gentle ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 30. I usually get between two and 20 and most days don't get a message from anyone knew and one or two from my friends.

Lots of single guys I'm afraid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make that 12 people

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

If it makes you feel any better, at least three times that number looked in ninja mode.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I look at profiles of people in the forums. .. means nothing!

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I've had 11 people look at me today but no winks or messages Christ am I that ugly? and I'm a sensitive guy so please be gentle ha ha "

Go in the chat rooms and you might get some more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a nosey bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same. I look at a lot of the profiles of forum members. It doesn't mean I'm interested. I'm just nosy... But I'm in stealth mode, so nobody can see me perving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people always get more people that look at them thank actually wink/ message OP

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be proactive, don't wait for those that look to message you. Search profiles and message people who take your fancy and your interests match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never count .......effort

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well I have had 165 people look today and 6 messages, only one of which I have responded to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're quite tasty OP XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 and no messages..well I did have a few but they got unread/deleted as wasn't interested

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I've had 11 people look at me today but no winks or messages Christ am I that ugly? and I'm a sensitive guy so please be gentle ha ha "

I've had 57 to day and hoo nows how meney ninger ladies and I've had 0 of anything. So don't fill to bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be proactive, don't wait for those that look to message you. Search profiles and message people who take your fancy and your interests match. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 615 oh no wait that's the time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you jo but still no wink or message ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Most days beween 0-6 today iam on 5 butttttt I did have some pics fabbed and 2 msgs but both from friends but I did get a reply today soo all and all not a bad day for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha ha love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's standard for most fellas my friend, the views to message or wink ratio isn't worth worrying about. In fact, I expect it also applies to the ladies too.

To be honest, if there's one feature I'd remove from Fab it's the 'looked at me' - so many people get wound up by it either in terms of nobody looking or the wink/message to views ratio it actually causes unnecessary stress and grief.

One of the first things I did when I signed up is put myself on stealth mode. Nobody has a clue I've been perving them then. Saves a lot of hassle! (And a few ASBOs and restraining orders no doubt!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

521 here ...

Buts thats only because im putting pics on.. if i dont put pics on its about 40

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

136

Not one message from anyone not on our friends list

Don't whine at 11

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right I'm getting the hang of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had 615 oh no wait that's the time!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 3, which for a shadow guy is not bad or so I would like to think.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Sunday is the day for window shopping

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking at your profile you'd need a secretary to help you keep count??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow I'm a mere porper in your presence 165 wow wow??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well thank you but obviously not tasted enough ha ga??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at profiles of people I don't like.

xxx

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

37 views , 24 messages

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I wouldn't worry too much about how many people look at you. It's a pretty meaningless stat. Especially when most women are in stealth mode anyway. Also, in the past when I cared about meets I'd go many days without a message of any kind.

I think the key thing is to try and not let it get you down. You have to remember, the way Fab works for single guys is not the way things work in real life. It's often just the nature of the site and not necessarily a reflection on your actual personality or your physical attributes. Like others have said, try and be proactive where you can.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Ok ...... I lied

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha ha class love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I typically get 1-2 so I don't think you're doing that bad.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"I had 615 oh no wait that's the time!"

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I typically get 1-2 so I don't think you're doing that bad."
now that's a shocker....seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There you go!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow I'm in your oar

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

174 have looked today and 15 messages

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I typically get 1-2 so I don't think you're doing that bad.now that's a shocker....seriously"

I think he's fibbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Window shopping mmmm ok I'll get my fingers going tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I looked and rubbed my cock on your pictures

Happy now ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I typically get 1-2 so I don't think you're doing that bad.now that's a shocker....seriously

I think he's fibbing

I wish I was.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I typically get 1-2 so I don't think you're doing that bad.now that's a shocker....seriously

I think he's fibbing

I wish I was.

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Lib never fibs.....not big ones anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I typically get 1-2 so I don't think you're doing that bad.now that's a shocker....seriously

I think he's fibbing

I wish I was.

Well I've looked quite a few times in stealth mode, so add one more

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"I typically get 1-2 so I don't think you're doing that bad.now that's a shocker....seriously

I think he's fibbing

I wish I was.

I believe you. I've had three people look at me today. Two blokes and a couple.

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

I would have had only a single viewer if not for the gorgeous just jo this morning.... no winks or fabs but hey she still looked lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Just had a look, we've had 21 views.

No winks, no friend requests and no messages.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"I would have had only a single viewer if not for the gorgeous just jo this morning.... no winks or fabs but hey she still looked lol "

I think Just Jo's the only woman on Fab not in stealth mode. God bless her

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I just signed in on my phone and I've got 135.

Might have a look and see who they are

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By *otlips2000Man
over a year ago

swadlincote

I don't get any usually

So if you send me one and I send you one

We will at least get one each

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

OP, for what it's worth I think you're an attractive man.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"OP, for what it's worth I think you're an attractive man. "

I agree

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

"I would have had only a single viewer if not for the gorgeous just jo this morning.... no winks or fabs but hey she still looked lol

I think Just Jo's the only woman on Fab not in stealth mode. God bless her

She brightened up my morning

Come on ladies... get off stealth and lets see you peeping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally find that the number of profile views is equal to the number of block lists I've been added to....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

126 views today, number of messages received, 3!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said, I really don't think there's any relationship between who looks (or winks) at you and how attractive you are or who might want you. The best meet I've had came from a chat towards the end of a day when nobody had 'looked' at me.

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Not doing to well today 1 look in 2 days lol

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

"Not doing to well today 1 look in 2 days lol"

I got double that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have had only a single viewer if not for the gorgeous just jo this morning.... no winks or fabs but hey she still looked lol

I think Just Jo's the only woman on Fab not in stealth mode. God bless her

Whats the point of being in stealth mode .. i would rather people know i was looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have had only a single viewer if not for the gorgeous just jo this morning.... no winks or fabs but hey she still looked lol

I think Just Jo's the only woman on Fab not in stealth mode. bless her

She brightened up my morning

Come on ladies... get off stealth and lets see you peeping

Glad i brightened your morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 30 on my viewed thingy

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By *pfornaughtyfunMan
over a year ago

merseyside

"I have 30 on my viewed thingy

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morning jo how are you lovely ?

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

"I have 30 on my viewed thingy

Make that 31....

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

P.s. jo..... mmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 30 on my viewed thingy

morning jo how are you lovely ? "

Morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"P.s. jo..... mmmmmmm "

Good morning to you to

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I have just looked - not much to see

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By *pfornaughtyfunMan
over a year ago

merseyside

"I have 30 on my viewed thingy

morning jo how are you lovely ?

Morning

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lovley to wake up to your hot ass pics jo you look hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 people yesterday. But who's counting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, no winks. But having s lovely chat with a gorgeous woman.

(Fab quote) She knows who it is.

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

"P.s. jo..... mmmmmmm

Good morning to you to

Always lovely to see you on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

485 views this morning. Haven't counted my messages... Definitely not 485 messages though!Haha. So although some look, it's sometimes nosiness, not interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"37 views , 24 messages

Lol......and 1 meet in 3 years ago?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"485 views this morning. Haven't counted my messages... Definitely not 485 messages though!Haha. So although some look, it's sometimes nosiness, not interest

We messaged each other a couple of times the other day lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"485 views this morning. Haven't counted my messages... Definitely not 485 messages though!Haha. So although some look, it's sometimes nosiness, not interest

We messaged each other a couple of times the other day lol!"

We did indeed!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Oh, no winks. But having s lovely chat with a gorgeous woman.

(Fab quote) She knows who it is.

I'll wink you.

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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago

middlesbrough

133 views, 9 messages, 2 I've replied to as the others didn't warrant a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just 7, quite high for this time of day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twenty two so far, which is actually than the typical normal daily look count. No winks but 7 or 8 messages, some with fabulous photos attached, courtesy of another thread ;0)

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