FabSwingers.com forum: Organising a 3some with two of your meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone who is single thought this would be a good idea then undertaken the task of trying to get both parties interested and then introduce them to each other then sort a time and place or is it just a fantasy best left alone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did this once.

It worked out well.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes, we've all gotten together to see if we all got on.

We did and now it's just a matter of matching 3 busy lives

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Did u find the whole dynamic of trying to dirt it a headache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate hate hate

When a guy you have met suggests this

Or the old chestnut...can you put a good word in with....

I'm no pimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What if a guy asks u if u want to meet him and one of your previous male friend meets for a good spit roasting

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've done this a couple of times with people I knew well, knew it was something they were both interested in and had a rough idea the logistics were achievable. It gets mildly irritating when a guy asks though; as if I have a black book of other bi girls I can hook him up with in a threesome. It's tricky enough to arrange meets for myself let alone someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

years ago the first lady i ever played with and my then new fb all got together - it was fun but took ages to get us all free

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like this idea, at least I would know both guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only meet men but yes this has happened quite a lot. and even some guys i have only talked to for a while have been up for this too and we made it happen.

i really enjoy doing this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like this idea, at least I would know both guys

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that's what I thought and even if it didn't happen as they are both local to each other they might become friends but now waiting to see if it is achievable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like this idea, at least I would know both guys

that's what I thought and even if it didn't happen as they are both local to each other they might become friends but now waiting to see if it is achievable "
first step is to see if it appeals then see if they get along then arrange a chat and see what happens from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if a guy asks u if u want to meet him and one of your previous male friend meets for a good spit roasting "
I'd say I can organise my own meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if a guy asks u if u want to meet him and one of your previous male friend meets for a good spit roasting I'd say I can organise my own meets

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so u an independent sexy woman have never thought mmm id like to be sandwiched between him and him should I message them and see if I can make it happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good idea in theory but in practice I can't see the logistics working out, for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if a guy asks u if u want to meet him and one of your previous male friend meets for a good spit roasting I'd say I can organise my own meets

so u an independent sexy woman have never thought mmm id like to be sandwiched between him and him should I message them and see if I can make it happen"
I only do 3some with my hubby so hubby would always be 1 of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best organised at a club I find.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if a guy asks u if u want to meet him and one of your previous male friend meets for a good spit roasting I'd say I can organise my own meets

so u an independent sexy woman have never thought mmm id like to be sandwiched between him and him should I message them and see if I can make it happenI only do 3some with my hubby so hubby would always be 1 of them "
and who initiates them u or him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me...always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair it's a good idea as there is much more likely to be a show .

Biggest problem on the site is trying to ascertain that people will actually turn up for arranged meets .

At least if it's people you know already you know they are gonna show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair it's a good idea as there is much more likely to be a show .

Biggest problem on the site is trying to ascertain that people will actually turn up for arranged meets .

At least if it's people you know already you know they are gonna show up

true.

i used to try and arrange 3sums with randoms when i first joined. initially the guys said they were interested but when it came down to it they were all 'i'd rather meet you on your own first'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone who is single thought this would be a good idea then undertaken the task of trying to get both parties interested and then introduce them to each other then sort a time and place or is it just a fantasy best left alone lol"

I did it with two guys off here but they were mates already and I knew one of the guys ... but different to what you are asking though but still good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer two men to already know each other but I've had mff with a friend and a man from here.

If I wanted two men I'd probably look for a mm profile.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I've done it, worked out well!!

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Hard enough getting one, i'm thinking it may be similar to herding cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have once, logistics took some doing as she was in Scotland and he was in Northampton but damn it was a great day night

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

FFS most straight and beyond guys want FFm. For ffm to work the girls have to pick each other otherwise you have a catfight on your hands. .

Guess why loads of guys haven't succeeded!! Myself, I have no desire to bed a guy's previous. It usually means he has some sort of relationship with her so probably not quite an ex.

I mean, why would you ex want to give you your ultimate fantasy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your missing the point of the post pirate I was asking if anyone had organised a 3 some with their fab meets and how stressful was it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Hilerous thing happened. I had a long term gentleman friend who had another long term female friend and he kept saying how alike we where and we would get on. So one day i messaged her and as a surprise we arranged a threesome for him, well he was like a kid waiting. Only when we actually met me and the other girl got on so well we couldnt stop chatting about girl stuff and hardly included him in the sex and he sulked really badly

let him join in the next time though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hilerous thing happened. I had a long term gentleman friend who had another long term female friend and he kept saying how alike we where and we would get on. So one day i messaged her and as a surprise we arranged a threesome for him, well he was like a kid waiting. Only when we actually met me and the other girl got on so well we couldnt stop chatting about girl stuff and hardly included him in the sex and he sulked really badly

let him join in the next time though"
I would of sat back watched u play and then coughed just to remind u I was there lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried this worked out well for all parties especially me what girl wud.nt want 2 hot guys hand picked tried and tested fucking her pussy

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By *ymph84Woman
over a year ago

durham

My dom introduced me to a friend of his from here. Me and her met for coffee one sunny afternoon and we have all since played together as a threesome. Me and said lady have arranged to meet up again

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It can work, just choose wisely and primarily with your needs at heart. You can always add newbies into a mix too.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Looking to introduce a new play toy to my FWB for my viewing pleasure. They'd look beautiful together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it, worked out well!!

With blokes organising parties a lot of couples will see it as just you trying to get your rocks off so you'll struggle.

Do this as a couple and people will be beating your door down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hate hate hate

When a guy you have met suggests this

Or the old chestnut...can you put a good word in with....

I'm no pimp

Totally in agreement.

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By *ooking for bbwsCouple
over a year ago

secret garden chilling, always something to do in the garden

"I've done this a couple of times with people I knew well, knew it was something they were both interested in and had a rough idea the logistics were achievable. It gets mildly irritating when a guy asks though; as if I have a black book of other bi girls I can hook him up with in a threesome. It's tricky enough to arrange meets for myself let alone someone else."

totally agree, u no any bi ladies, um check my veris, oh well good luck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your missing the point of the post pirate I was asking if anyone had organised a 3 some with their fab meets and how stressful was it"

Yes.

And it's about as stressful as let's say...talking to two people. Mainly because that what it involves

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Your missing the point of the post pirate I was asking if anyone had organised a 3 some with their fab meets and how stressful was it"

Of course this covers fab!!??? Or I deed anywhere. Girls need to get on, anecdoted or you get a problem. If I want to bi fun I doubt would choose a guy's previous conquest

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Your missing the point of the post pirate I was asking if anyone had organised a 3 some with their fab meets and how stressful was it

Yes.

And it's about as stressful as let's say...talking to two people. Mainly because that what it involves

So have you organised one? I get approached as other girl..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it with two guys off here but they were mates already and I knew one of the guys ... but different to what you are asking though but still good fun

Same here. They were two mates who were on fab. One was my regular playmate, I was the one introduced to the other. It's not your exact scenario OP, but it was a lot of fun... So felt the need to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your missing the point of the post pirate I was asking if anyone had organised a 3 some with their fab meets and how stressful was it

Yes.

And it's about as stressful as let's say...talking to two people. Mainly because that what it involves

So have you organised one? I get approached as other girl..lol"

Once or twice, you just meed to ask ya know..it'd don't think it's dickish or weird or anything..it's supposed to be a site for swinging and that includes group play so why not ask?

By which I mean don't ask everyone you meet but once you build a few friendships and get to know folk and their tastes then go for it

In fact some of my favourite times were with a lass I knew from here and a friend of mine/ours from vanilla life (who did end up on fab because of the experience) so you can extend it beyond fab even if you know a person well enough. Your not asking anything mind blowingly crazy, just good honest sex for all

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Your missing the point of the post pirate I was asking if anyone had organised a 3 some with their fab meets and how stressful was it

Yes.

And it's about as stressful as let's say...talking to two people. Mainly because that what it involves

So have you organised one? I get approached as other girl..lol

Once or twice, you just meed to ask ya know..it'd don't think it's dickish or weird or anything..it's supposed to be a site for swinging and that includes group play so why not ask?

By which I mean don't ask everyone you meet but once you build a few friendships and get to know folk and their tastes then go for it

The politics of ffm are different to mmf... just take a glance at single female to single guys here. I raise a wry smile when a single approaches and has a bi female friend on tap..rarely a male. Let alone the established couples

Nope, no desire to sleep with his current FB for his fantasy. Seen enough of those. I am pretty sure single females can seek out guys with FB if that is their fantasy, so batten down the doors. If his previous wants a female then sure she can make the approach?

Some may like but I am not sure the numbers are overwhelming. Given the unicorn moniker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

let him join in the next time though"

That is hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your missing the point of the post pirate I was asking if anyone had organised a 3 some with their fab meets and how stressful was it

Yes.

And it's about as stressful as let's say...talking to two people. Mainly because that what it involves

So have you organised one? I get approached as other girl..lol

Once or twice, you just meed to ask ya know..it'd don't think it's dickish or weird or anything..it's supposed to be a site for swinging and that includes group play so why not ask?

By which I mean don't ask everyone you meet but once you build a few friendships and get to know folk and their tastes then go for it

Some may like but I am not sure the numbers are overwhelming. Given the unicorn moniker"

I don't really do politics..needlessly complicates things.

Sometimes I just talk to people I know and if I think they'd enjoy something that I would too..I ask if they want to partake, and at times they say yes.

Maybe I've been lucky. Maybe folk don't mind being asked..I like to think it's the latter really. It's never to fulfil my fantasy either, I like everyone present to have as much enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your missing the point of the post pirate I was asking if anyone had organised a 3 some with their fab meets and how stressful was it

Yes.

And it's about as stressful as let's say...talking to two people. Mainly because that what it involves

So have you organised one? I get approached as other girl..lol

Once or twice, you just meed to ask ya know..it'd don't think it's dickish or weird or anything..it's supposed to be a site for swinging and that includes group play so why not ask?

By which I mean don't ask everyone you meet but once you build a few friendships and get to know folk and their tastes then go for it

Some may like but I am not sure the numbers are overwhelming. Given the unicorn moniker"

I tend to avoid those who wear the 'unicorn moniker' as some kind of pedestal...it's tacky.

Also..If it's okay for the female to seek out a mf for her fantasy? Why not a guy searching out what he desires..surely both have equal perogative to do so and it works both ways..unless women are somehow more special and need to be treat differently? I know i've fulfilled many a fantasy on here and still am doing and it involves just asking people to be part of it and in my experience, if your genuinely straight with folk about it...they're rarely offended and at times are happy to join in. That's my take on it anyhow and it works for me so yeah

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Isn't this sort of scenario 'normal' in the real world (as opposed to the online world).

Sometimes I wonder if the people that ask these sort of questions ever get laid at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't this sort of scenario 'normal' in the real world (as opposed to the online world).

Sometimes I wonder if the people that ask these sort of questions ever get laid at all."
read my verifications u will see I get laid regularly

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I did this a few weeks ago and it worked really well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did this a few weeks ago and it worked really well. "
cool and was it mff or mmf

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