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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've been swinging since January and we find it difficult to ask if people want to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you are not alone in that experience ....

But the fear of fear is an imposter which is best conquered swiftly....

If you cant be brave, be bold,,,,

Best of luck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not alone at all.

Chatting and everyone getting on great, progresses to that awkward point where you're all thinking the same thing but who makes the first move.

It's kind of like having 4 cars at a mini roundabout you all want to go but who goes first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have difficulty engaging others in chat or moving the chat to play?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

When me and hubby are chatting to a couple at a club I simply say -

We are going to find a room, would you like to join us?

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth


"When me and hubby are chatting to a couple at a club I simply say -

We are going to find a room, would you like to join us?"

We are similar we just say we are off tohave some fun,have a chat if you both want to join in then come in,the hard part is us knowing if we Both want to play so we have a code to use so we know if we want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do understand that feeling, you should try being a single guy in a club and approaching people totally on your own! You don't want to be a nuisance to anyone yet you know half the people there probably have no interest in you. For somewhere so full of people it can be a pretty lonely place for a single guy.

That being said it's still worth making the effort though and you can meet some lovely people as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When me and hubby are chatting to a couple at a club I simply say -

We are going to find a room, would you like to join us?"

That's pretty much the way we approach the move from chatting to playing too. We have a signal between us so we know we're both happy to play without having to go off and talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When me and hubby are chatting to a couple at a club I simply say -

We are going to find a room, would you like to join us?"

This

If they say no you can then just get up and walk off without issue and find someone else to talk to or go for a fumble.

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