FabSwingers.com forum: Sick of time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why o why is there so many time wasters on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why o why is there so many time wasters on this site.

I dunno.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why o why is there so many time wasters on this site.

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Its Fablife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why o why is there so many time wasters on this site.

You don't have to be hear chap. If fab life frustrates leave, try another way....

Sorry probably sounds harsh but life is tough, why make it tougher?

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why o why is there so many time wasters on this site.

You don't have to be here chap. If fab life frustrates leave, try another way....

Sorry probably sounds harsh but life is tough, why make it tougher?

Happy swinging"

Ftfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take it on the chin and move on, no harm done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there wouldn't be much else to complain about if there wasn't?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Seven years I've been here. Not encountered one timewaster. Then again my definition of timewaster may differ to yours.

If you're encountering so many then the common denominator is you: reevaluate your selection process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that fella, why do you think there's so many timewasters out of interest?

I've not met any yet to be honest, everyone I've agreed to meet has turned up as planned?

How rigorous is your due diligence process?

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Yeah I know what you mean, I sent a cock pic to a hundred women and none replied... Bloody time wasters! I don't know why theyre even on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why o why is there so many time wasters on this site.

I suppose it all depends on your definition of a timewaster really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ten cock pics sent

All attatched with perfectly reasonable 'fancy a fuck' message

Not a sniff

Who knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seven years I've been here. Not encountered one timewaster. Then again my definition of timewaster may differ to yours.

Same here

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By *unnynbugsCouple
over a year ago

Neath

"Seven years I've been here. Not encountered one timewaster. Then again my definition of timewaster may differ to yours.

If you're encountering so many then the common denominator is you: reevaluate your selection process.

For myself it's someone who says they are coming to a meet then never show up. The dreamers and pic collectors are easy to spot and I humor them usually out of bordom lol... don't class that bit as time wasting

Bunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women on a sex site... I dunno, you ask them for sex, showing them the cock you'll fuck them with and they just delete your message.

Timewasters, the lot of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely a persons repeated failure or frustration has a common denominator......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had a no show yet but then I've not had that many meets either. If I did then I would be pretty pissed, it's bound to happen sooner or later I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why o why is there so many time wasters on this site.

Are there or are you allowing your time to be wasted?

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Sometimes, folk will not be interested in me, sometimes chats do not develop or flow! I would not call them timewasters! The site works for me and some fab folk out there

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Seven years I've been here. Not encountered one timewaster. Then again my definition of timewaster may differ to yours.

If you're encountering so many then the common denominator is you: reevaluate your selection process.

Bunny

Nor I. Or if the conversation dries up/unable to meet. All par for the course and not what I call time wasting.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Sometimes, folk will not be interested in me, sometimes chats do not develop or flow! I would not call them timewasters! The site works for me and some fab folk out there"

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

My definition of wasting time is when you have chatted all week to someone with directions of address and what is planned for the evening then an hour or so befire they send a message to say they can't make it

Bollox

Happens to many times so don't bothere right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My definition of a time waster is some who intentionally fails to show up for the meet....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op - are you getting people not turn up for a social or shag meet? Report them to admin.

If it's just a case of chat that goes nowhere, then that is to be expected - same as if you chatted at a club but they declined further contact.

Op - it would help if you state how others are wasting your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I know what you mean, I sent a cock pic to a hundred women and none replied... Bloody time wasters! I don't know why theyre even on this site.

We're all here just to tease you silly boys.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My definition of time waster - someone you chat too, get a good rapport going, chat on the phone, arrange a meet then day of meet, poof - gone as quick as Donald Trumps morals. All contact drops, no response to messages. If I don't hear 2 hrs before meet I send message saying I'm cancelling.

I really don't understand why people do this but it boils my piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to hear that fella, why do you think there's so many timewasters out of interest?

I've not met any yet to be honest, everyone I've agreed to meet has turned up as planned?

How rigorous is your due diligence process? "

You haven't met any time-wasters? That's the point, you won't

I know what you mean though, I've yet to be stood up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I know what you mean, I sent a cock pic to a hundred women and none replied... Bloody time wasters! I don't know why theyre even on this site.

We're all here just to tease you silly boys.

xxx"

No, I think the teasing is my job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, everyone has differing views as to what a time waster is. For me its someone who you arrange a meet with, take the time to get ready, travel etc then either no shows or lets you down last minute with a poor excuse although I do realise life does get in the way sometimes.

Fab gives you all the tools you need to try to avoid them but I find gut instinct works the best for me, in 5 years I've had 2 no shows to a coffee meet where I would have been anyway. I never go out of my way to travel or change my day to day life for this, it has to fit in with my life.

If you are continually encountering no shows then you are either very unlucky or you maybe need to change your approach to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been stood up in 10 years or so....maybe one of the reasons is as soon as I suspect someone is becoming a bit awkward or even its sounding to good to be true...I lose interest and move on...Works for me

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"As others have said, everyone has differing views as to what a time waster is. For me its someone who you arrange a meet with, take the time to get ready, travel etc then either no shows or lets you down last minute with a poor excuse although I do realise life does get in the way sometimes.

If you are continually encountering no shows then you are either very unlucky or you maybe need to change your approach to this. "

This!

Always arranged social where I would be anyway. Play meet on a flexiday when I'd be home so no going out of my way.

Works for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't is frustrating when you spam out a message to 100 women saying "hi"

with a cock pic and none of them reply!

Bloody time wasting stuck up bitches!

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"Isn't is frustrating when you spam out a message to 100 women saying "hi"

with a cock pic and none of them reply!

Bloody time wasting stuck up bitches!

Apparently because I had a quick 2-3 message chat with a guy and apologised that he wasn't my type and wished him happy fabbing - I'm too old and flat and he wouldn't want to meet me anyway. Then blocked me.

He messaged me several times and begged me to reply and then blocked me?

Totally agree, bloody timewasters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it sounds to good to be true the chances are it probably is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't is frustrating when you spam out a message to 100 women saying "hi"

with a cock pic and none of them reply!

Bloody time wasting stuck up bitches!

He messaged me several times and begged me to reply and then blocked me?

Totally agree, bloody timewasters!

The male ego is a very fragile thing.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Its the internet,it allows people to behave how they want sadly.

However,i think people use the word too loosely tbh.

People can change their minds ,id say timewasters are people who arrange a meet ,then don't show up ,

Miss

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

So OP, exactly how many people haven't turn up for a meet with you?

That is what a timewaster is, a no-show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So OP, exactly how many people haven't turn up for a meet with you?

That is what a timewaster is, a no-show."

Has he given us his definition of a time waster yet? I'm thinking it might not be this.

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"So OP, exactly how many people haven't turn up for a meet with you?

That is what a timewaster is, a no-show.

Has he given us his definition of a time waster yet? I'm thinking it might not be this."

Maybe it's people who start a thread and then leave us all hanging?

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"So OP, exactly how many people haven't turn up for a meet with you?

That is what a timewaster is, a no-show.

Has he given us his definition of a time waster yet? I'm thinking it might not be this.

Maybe it's people who start a thread and then leave us all hanging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been timewasted a few times, they always leave it till the day before of the day and make up some bullshit,like my car needs two new wheels or some shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do people mean by take a different approach?

We have never met anyone yet and really keen. We have had our time wasted so many times where we have took time to get ready and chatting to the others and get let down last minute without even a good excuse. Last night we was stood up after being lead on staying out late in town with them saying we're coming now and a pic and never turned up. The same happened the other week too?

Is that us doing something wrong?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"[Removed by poster at 30/10/16 18:36:01]"

I think people suggest that if something regularly throws up issues, then consider varying something, to see if there's a root cause that can be eliminated.

You can never control for other people but we can adjust our methods, in the hope that we deter or eliminate what's not good for us.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What do people mean by take a different approach?

Is that us doing something wrong?"

I doubt it. I suppose you could only look for verified people and go to a social in the hopes that some face to face meets would then lead to face to pussy and cock meets.

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