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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So there i am tonite trying to arrange a meet with a localish man. He didnt even read my message and was off line for two hours after i had agreed to meet him. Later he came back on line asking if am ok and still wanted a meet. I didnt and blocked him. Am zero tolerant now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the new way to backout of a meet that he had no intention of attending- pretend not to read the message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are these timewasters I hear so much about and why are they better at getting meets than me haha

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"So there i am tonite trying to arrange a meet with a localish man. He didnt even read my message and was off line for two hours after i had agreed to meet him. Later he came back on line asking if am ok and still wanted a meet. I didnt and blocked him. Am zero tolerant now!"

AND?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I feel your pain

Had couple of time wasters - you learn the signs X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so annoying, I had the same last weekend. Ruined my sat night waiting to hear from her. It's a side of fab that really lets this amazing site down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I feel your pain

Had couple of time wasters - you learn the signs X "

Really? I can't believe people back out from meets like that... No one forces anyone to agree, but once you have agreed, why would you change your mind? And why would you not tell the other?

I don't have much experience here, but I hope it won't happen to me

Xxx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I will only discuss things provisionally, in outline form by text. I don't firm things up until I've spoken to the. People have lives away from here and I'm usually slow, so I find it works well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So there i am tonite trying to arrange a meet with a localish man. He didnt even read my message and was off line for two hours after i had agreed to meet him. Later he came back on line asking if am ok and still wanted a meet. I didnt and blocked him. Am zero tolerant now!"

You don't say if you'd agreed a time and place and if you had whether you'd gone there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So there i am tonite trying to arrange a meet with a localish man. He didnt even read my message and was off line for two hours after i had agreed to meet him. Later he came back on line asking if am ok and still wanted a meet. I didnt and blocked him. Am zero tolerant now!"

could have invited me and I would have happily drove down to urs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I missing something here? You hadn't arranged to meet, and were just in planning stages? I don't see the problem

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"So there i am tonite trying to arrange a meet with a localish man. He didnt even read my message and was off line for two hours after i had agreed to meet him. Later he came back on line asking if am ok and still wanted a meet. I didnt and blocked him. Am zero tolerant now!"

So you block him just cos he didount reply strat away ?????

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

perhaps after he'd actually read your profile he decided not to waste your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who are these timewasters I hear so much about and why are they better at getting meets than me haha"

Which one is the time waster? The one who didn't make an arrangement straight away that a meet was agreed to in principal or the one who refused to meet when arrangements were starting to try to be made?

OP, I can see it's annoying, but perhaps there was a legitimate reason for two hours of comms silence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I missing something here? You hadn't arranged to meet, and were just in planning stages? I don't see the problem "

This. #confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who are these timewasters I hear so much about and why are they better at getting meets than me haha"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and ignore

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By *onsaiMan
over a year ago

Denton

I had arranged a social meet I turned up she didn't she was still online Tryed to contact her then goes off line then get in touch later arranges another meet for Sunday then blocks me whats that about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had arranged a social meet I turned up she didn't she was still online Tryed to contact her then goes off line then get in touch later arranges another meet for Sunday then blocks me whats that about?"

We here things like this all the time. It's crazy, I dunno dude??

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"So there i am tonite trying to arrange a meet with a localish man. He didnt even read my message and was off line for two hours after i had agreed to meet him. Later he came back on line asking if am ok and still wanted a meet. I didnt and blocked him. Am zero tolerant now!"

You haven't also replied to our last conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you didn't arrange a time & a place in your intial contact with him, why is he a timewaster?

He saw you online later & thought he'd check if you're still up for it, I'd imagine anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you didn't arrange a time & a place in your intial contact with him, why is he a timewaster?

He saw you online later & thought he'd check if you're still up for it, I'd imagine anyway."

That's what I thought too. He's probably scratching his head

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Bad man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having re-read the OP.....I can't actually see a problem. He asked if you still wanted to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I arrange an outline time and date for a meet (say a week in advance) I then don't really interact very much with that person until the day before to confirm details and still good to go.

Unless they are on my friends lists, WhatsApp etc and we may chat through that.

Guy sends a "still want to meet" message and you block him OP? Well... I am not sure that qualifies him as a time waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So there i am tonite trying to arrange a meet with a localish man. He didnt even read my message and was off line for two hours after i had agreed to meet him. Later he came back on line asking if am ok and still wanted a meet. I didnt and blocked him. Am zero tolerant now!"

If the meet was for that night , I don't blame you . We would do the same .

But maybe if he didn't realise it was for that night , you may have been a bit harsh ?

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