FabSwingers.com forum: scopophilia

By *ogostick OP Man
over a year ago

macc

thoughts please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google is the first thing that comes to mind.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"thoughts please"

These vague posts. What's the point?!

My thoughts are:

Some people like it.

Some people don't.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Don't do it illegally and I don't see why it can't be enjoyed. It's on my profile as an interest.

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By *ogostick OP Man
over a year ago

macc

done that. trying to pigeon hole myself think it's a pretty good description

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Don't even know what it is to be honest

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"done that. trying to pigeon hole myself think it's a pretty good description "

Right. So why did you post a vague thread asking for people's thoughts on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Googled it. Why didn't you just say voyeurism? I enjoy it..preferably it to porn. As long as the people are attractive...

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Do you use the _ogostick to help you get a better view?

Our initial introduction to this scene came when we realised someone was watching us on Clifton Downs and decided we quite enjoyed it.

Mr ddc

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By *ogostick OP Man
over a year ago

macc

it's a new term to me was looking to see if my interpretation was correct

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"it's a new term to me was looking to see if my interpretation was correct"

Voyeurism?

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By *ogostick OP Man
over a year ago

macc

that's the point it's not voyeurism

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"that's the point it's not voyeurism "

But when you strip away the Freudian Mumbai jumbo surrounding it; it is;

Viewing stuff to derive pleasure . Sexually, generally.

So?

You watch porn or are a voyeur.

Some definitions suggest that scopophilia means exclusively viewing, and not participating .

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"that's the point it's not voyeurism "

So how so you see it?

(admittedly I should have gone to Wiki, but Google suggested 'voyeurism' to me

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(PS it'll be easier for people to follow the conversations if you use the reply+quote button)

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By *ogostick OP Man
over a year ago

macc

viewing openly not in secret .It's a distinction I prefer . Thanks for inputs

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"done that. trying to pigeon hole myself think it's a pretty good description "

WOW look how smart and sophisticated you are using obscure words to describe everyday happenings with basic meanings.

You must be so intelligent and well informed

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By *ogostick OP Man
over a year ago

macc

who rattled your cage

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"viewing openly not in secret .It's a distinction I prefer . Thanks for inputs"

Viewing openly is always better.

Viewing without consent is still strictly against the law.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

"viewing openly not in secret .It's a distinction I prefer . Thanks for inputs

Viewing openly is always better.

Viewing without consent is still strictly against the law.

Well, exactly - you shouldn't have to make a distinction at all if we assume that the vast majority here would only engage in consensual and legal activity.

You need to get yourself to a club with open play areas ...

Ms G

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By *ogostick OP Man
over a year ago

macc

"viewing openly not in secret .It's a distinction I prefer . Thanks for inputs

Viewing openly is always better.

Viewing without consent is still strictly against the law.

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agreed . I like to watch view others ,never liked the term voyeur as it make you sound like peeping tom.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"viewing openly not in secret .It's a distinction I prefer . Thanks for inputs"

That's not necessarily the definition.

It's basis is simply deriving pleasure from viewing ( secretly or openly).

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