FabSwingers.com forum: So where do I go with this?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Spot someone and decide to message them. Make the message personal, light hearted, compliment the pics and offer chatting or a social so we can get to know each other.

I did end it with a 'hope to hear from you but if not then good luck' type ending

Get a reply and after falling off my chair I have a look.

The sum is total is 'thank you'

So do I move on or is the fact that she took the time to reply an indication of interest?

Is it a thank you to 'nice pics and profile' or 'thanks and goodbye' to the end of the message.

I get very few replies so this has confused me

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Exactly...

And where to go from a "lol"?

The art of maintaining conversation is dying..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how you feel. It's the bad apple spoiling the bunch thing with me.

I stopped sending messages weeks ago to new people because of this and similar.

Imagine your conversations if you meet?

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

If I reply like that, it's a "hmm I'm not sure I'm interested, but if you can charm the pants off me, I might be".

I'd reply with something witty, charming and fuck knows what that would be. So glad I'm not a single guy on here!

(sorry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about:

"So I heard back from you, and once I had picked myself up off the floor, I entered a strange world of confusion as to whether to reply, henceforth to the forums I trotted in my confusion whereupon a skinny fella from just up the road said "how about:...."

So thanks for the reply... my name is x. This is my face pic, I think my profile is pretty succinct but if you have any questions, please ask away"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I reply like that, it's a "hmm I'm not sure I'm interested, but if you can charm the pants off me, I might be".

I'd reply with something witty, charming and fuck knows what that would be. So glad I'm not a single guy on here!

(sorry)"

The person to send the first message has to really play all his card doesn't he.

Op. I'd leave it alone. Or maybe one back.

"Your welcome "

See how that goes down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would leave it, the likelihood would be slim, send a have a nice day msg lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine what she would be like in bed if that's all the effort she puts in a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I replied like that, it'd be a massive hint that I didn't want to continue the conversation. But that's just me.

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By *ashedMan
over a year ago

hemel

Send her a message saying .

Your welcome .

See her reply for that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She replied! That means she is now contractually obliged to submit to all your sexual desires doesn't it?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I/we would assume, if someone was really interested, then they'd put more effort into their reply than just thank you.

Personally, we would leave it. Conversation is a two way street, after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she wanted a cock picture

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Maybe she wanted a cock picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right so I'll move on by sending a cock picture along with 'you're welcome'

Champion

Gut feeling was to leave it so thanks for the replies. Much appreciated

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I have ended conversations when the response have been very limited. As people have said, the art of conversation is dying, and if thats their level of effort at this stage, why bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I just reply something non-committal like 'thank you' I'm proberbly not interested in continuing the conversation - I'm just being polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it's a polite thank you. For me that would mean I wasn't interested in any more.

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I/we would assume, if someone was really interested, then they'd put more effort into their reply than just thank you.

Personally, we would leave it. Conversation is a two way street, after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right so I'll move on by sending a cock picture along with 'you're welcome'

Champion

Gut feeling was to leave it so thanks for the replies. Much appreciated"

Seriously what's the worst that can happen? You get blocked? It's hardly pushy replying... maybe she is shy? Maybe your initial message didn't give her much to work with (you sent a self closing message). I would take a chance on a humourous reply (I'd get someone else to write it because I am dead inside).. nothing ventured, nothing gained...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Right so I'll move on by sending a cock picture along with 'you're welcome'

Champion

Gut feeling was to leave it so thanks for the replies. Much appreciated

Carpe diem etc

It might work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send her a message saying .

Your welcome .

See her reply for that . "

done that so many times -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right so I'll move on by sending a cock picture along with 'you're welcome'

Champion

Gut feeling was to leave it so thanks for the replies. Much appreciated

Carpe diem etc

It might work"

You are going to come back and let us know the result aren't you?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Spot someone and decide to message them. Make the message personal, light hearted, compliment the pics and offer chatting or a social so we can get to know each other.

I did end it with a 'hope to hear from you but if not then good luck' type ending

Get a reply and after falling off my chair I have a look.

The sum is total is 'thank you'

So do I move on or is the fact that she took the time to reply an indication of interest?

Is it a thank you to 'nice pics and profile' or 'thanks and goodbye' to the end of the message.

I get very few replies so this has confused me

me personally would not message her again right away I'd add her to my hot list and leave it a few days checking in on my hotlist regularly in the mean time .

you see I feel you have shown her you exist you like her and for her part she has acknowledge your interest and the fact you exist .

next move for me would be to wait until she uploads a new picture adds a interesting status update and then message her about one or the other showing you haven't forgotten about her and reminding her of your interest once more which she has shown she has acknowledges and at least shown some interest back to you.

her first short reply could be for a number of reasons other than the one you think . so for that reason I'd act in the way I detailed after all fella Rome was built in a day and bedding a woman is best taken slowly and enjoyed as for to no other reason than the chase is half the fun and something hard won is always more enjoyable in my case than something handed to me on a plate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about:

So thanks for the reply... my name is x. This is my face pic, I think my profile is pretty succinct but if you have any questions, please ask away""

I'd reply and I'd try something like this

......but then again I'm single lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about:

So thanks for the reply... my name is x. This is my face pic, I think my profile is pretty succinct but if you have any questions, please ask away"

I'd reply and I'd try something like this

......but then again I'm single lol

Me too; question... do you find that you buy too many vegetables each week? Because I keep having to throw spuds away and I feel its wasteful; in fact the whole vegetables going off thing is the worst part of being single, that and

- the lonely nights

- the uncontrolled sobbing whilst laying naked in an empty bath

- the requirement to talk to other similarly unfortunate people down the local pub

- getting an invite with a +1 (darkens me for days that one)

- Christmas

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I went with a humorous reply as a follow up - before The 'play it cool' suggestion.

Got a 'haha' out of it and a request for further pics so we'll see. This is where it usually goes pear shaped

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"How about:

So thanks for the reply... my name is x. This is my face pic, I think my profile is pretty succinct but if you have any questions, please ask away"

I'd reply and I'd try something like this

......but then again I'm single lol

- the lonely nights

- the uncontrolled sobbing whilst laying naked in an empty bath

- the requirement to talk to other similarly unfortunate people down the local pub

- getting an invite with a +1 (darkens me for days that one)

- Christmas

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i had a momant about wanting a relationship last night, then i remembered i had the flu..seriously people missed out, if i had recieved a proposal before midnight, the kinky kitty, could have been yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I went with a humorous reply as a follow up - before The 'play it cool' suggestion.

Got a 'haha' out of it and a request for further pics so we'll see. This is where it usually goes pear shaped

BOOM! Did you forget "thank you Pauly"?

Now keep cool and get off the fecking forums and start working out your next message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would message back saying 'thanks for the reply, would you like to continue chatting?'

As it's an open question she has to give some kind of response ...

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about:

So thanks for the reply... my name is x. This is my face pic, I think my profile is pretty succinct but if you have any questions, please ask away"

I'd reply and I'd try something like this

......but then again I'm single lol

- the lonely nights

- the uncontrolled sobbing whilst laying naked in an empty bath

- the requirement to talk to other similarly unfortunate people down the local pub

- getting an invite with a +1 (darkens me for days that one)

- Christmas

i had a momant about wanting a relationship last night, then i remembered i had the flu..seriously people missed out, if i had recieved a proposal before midnight, the kinky kitty, could have been yours

Didn't answer my question about spuds... if we don't listen to one another how can we commit?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"How about:

So thanks for the reply... my name is x. This is my face pic, I think my profile is pretty succinct but if you have any questions, please ask away"

I'd reply and I'd try something like this

......but then again I'm single lol

- the lonely nights

- the uncontrolled sobbing whilst laying naked in an empty bath

- the requirement to talk to other similarly unfortunate people down the local pub

- getting an invite with a +1 (darkens me for days that one)

- Christmas

Didn't answer my question about spuds... if we don't listen to one another how can we commit?"
i ve given up buying potatoes..their eyes remind me of a penis top

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"If I reply like that, it's a "hmm I'm not sure I'm interested, but if you can charm the pants off me, I might be".

I'd reply with something witty, charming and fuck knows what that would be. So glad I'm not a single guy on here!

(sorry)"

Lol, oh dear this is so true!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about:

So thanks for the reply... my name is x. This is my face pic, I think my profile is pretty succinct but if you have any questions, please ask away"

I'd reply and I'd try something like this

......but then again I'm single lol

- the lonely nights

- the uncontrolled sobbing whilst laying naked in an empty bath

- the requirement to talk to other similarly unfortunate people down the local pub

- getting an invite with a +1 (darkens me for days that one)

- Christmas

Didn't answer my question about spuds... if we don't listen to one another how can we commit?i ve given up buying potatoes..their eyes remind me of a penis top

You need a different incense supplier

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"How about:

So thanks for the reply... my name is x. This is my face pic, I think my profile is pretty succinct but if you have any questions, please ask away"

I'd reply and I'd try something like this

......but then again I'm single lol

- the lonely nights

- the uncontrolled sobbing whilst laying naked in an empty bath

- the requirement to talk to other similarly unfortunate people down the local pub

- getting an invite with a +1 (darkens me for days that one)

- Christmas

Didn't answer my question about spuds... if we don't listen to one another how can we commit?i ve given up buying potatoes..their eyes remind me of a penis top

You need a different incense supplier

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ive got flu..not that my perception ids much different when im well..i just dont say it, out loud

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Maybe she wanted a cock picture

That's all we ever want

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Maybe she wanted a cock picture

That's all we ever want

"
or in my case, a picture of a potato will do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she wanted a cock picture

That's all we ever want

or in my case, a picture of a potato will do..

Come here and take a look at my veggies - or the rest of the village as they are more commonly known...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spot someone and decide to message them. Make the message personal, light hearted, compliment the pics and offer chatting or a social so we can get to know each other.

I did end it with a 'hope to hear from you but if not then good luck' type ending

Get a reply and after falling off my chair I have a look.

The sum is total is 'thank you'

So do I move on or is the fact that she took the time to reply an indication of interest?

Is it a thank you to 'nice pics and profile' or 'thanks and goodbye' to the end of the message.

I get very few replies so this has confused me

I would send that if I was just being polite, a way to acknowledge the message. If I'm interested, I tend to write more in depth, with a question put in, so they know I'd like a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A "How's your bum for love bites?

" might illicit a favourable response.....or maybe not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My guess is it was a really bad case of autocarrot and she meant to put :

Fuck me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I went with a humorous reply as a follow up - before The 'play it cool' suggestion.

Got a 'haha' out of it and a request for further pics so we'll see. This is where it usually goes pear shaped

BOOM! Did you forget "thank you Pauly"?

Now keep cool and get off the fecking forums and start working out your next message."

Haven't forgotten - many thanks Pauly

Pic sent, message read, no reply. As expected but at least I gave it a whirl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I went with a humorous reply as a follow up - before The 'play it cool' suggestion.

Got a 'haha' out of it and a request for further pics so we'll see. This is where it usually goes pear shaped

BOOM! Did you forget "thank you Pauly"?

Now keep cool and get off the fecking forums and start working out your next message.

Haven't forgotten - many thanks Pauly

Pic sent, message read, no reply. As expected but at least I gave it a whirl"

Now learn patience... remember sometimes people don't reply straight away to gauge whether you are a nutter who will batter them with messages... keep cool; watch some TV... hell find someone else to message... your work on this one is done, for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I went with a humorous reply as a follow up - before The 'play it cool' suggestion.

Got a 'haha' out of it and a request for further pics so we'll see. This is where it usually goes pear shaped

BOOM! Did you forget "thank you Pauly"?

Now keep cool and get off the fecking forums and start working out your next message.

Haven't forgotten - many thanks Pauly

Pic sent, message read, no reply. As expected but at least I gave it a whirl"

You never know until you try! Hope she gets back to you!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Maybe she wanted a cock picture

That's all we ever want

or in my case, a picture of a potato will do..

Come here and take a look at my veggies - or the rest of the village as they are more commonly known..."
whens harvest festival?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she wanted a cock picture

That's all we ever want

or in my case, a picture of a potato will do..

Come here and take a look at my veggies - or the rest of the village as they are more commonly known... whens harvest festival?

Already been.. I won heaviest marrow just by painting myself top to toe in green with yellow stripes... numpties!! That's a year's worth of chutney I just blagged!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Maybe she wanted a cock picture

That's all we ever want

or in my case, a picture of a potato will do..

Come here and take a look at my veggies - or the rest of the village as they are more commonly known... whens harvest festival?

Already been.. I won heaviest marrow just by painting myself top to toe in green with yellow stripes... numpties!! That's a year's worth of chutney I just blagged! "

got a pic?..whats the christmas hamper full off?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Maybe she wanted a cock picture

That's all we ever want

or in my case, a picture of a potato will do..

Come here and take a look at my veggies - or the rest of the village as they are more commonly known... whens harvest festival?

Already been.. I won heaviest marrow just by painting myself top to toe in green with yellow stripes... numpties!! That's a year's worth of chutney I just blagged!

got a pic?..whats the christmas hamper full off?

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of even..which barn dance you taking me too? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she wanted a cock picture

That's all we ever want

or in my case, a picture of a potato will do..

Come here and take a look at my veggies - or the rest of the village as they are more commonly known... whens harvest festival?

Already been.. I won heaviest marrow just by painting myself top to toe in green with yellow stripes... numpties!! That's a year's worth of chutney I just blagged!

got a pic?..whats the christmas hamper full off?

I am banned from posting vegetable pics after the incident with the butternut squash... the hammer is full of straw and 50 shades of chutney... I am concerned some of it appears "used"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hamper even... they are building a wicker man to slip me into in a few weeks; you can come to that if you like; they then dance around the firepit in the village square... when we burnt the last outed swinger it was a rum old time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sum is total is 'thank you'

The part they missed off "But no thank you".

Move on, and forget them.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Maybe she wanted a cock picture

That's all we ever want

or in my case, a picture of a potato will do..

Come here and take a look at my veggies - or the rest of the village as they are more commonly known... whens harvest festival?

Already been.. I won heaviest marrow just by painting myself top to toe in green with yellow stripes... numpties!! That's a year's worth of chutney I just blagged!

got a pic?..whats the christmas hamper full off?

I am banned from posting vegetable pics after the incident with the butternut squash... the hammer is full of straw and 50 shades of chutney... I am concerned some of it appears "used" "
hahaha thank goodness its not piccalilli ..never know whats in that

i better the hammer is not made out of straw, poor hammer

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Hamper even... they are building a wicker man to slip me into in a few weeks; you can come to that if you like; they then dance around the firepit in the village square... when we burnt the last outed swinger it was a rum old time."
only if i can dance naked in the moonlight, with my rattle and bells x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hamper even... they are building a wicker man to slip me into in a few weeks; you can come to that if you like; they then dance around the firepit in the village square... when we burnt the last outed swinger it was a rum old time. only if i can dance naked in the moonlight, with my rattle and bells x"

Better make it a two-person wicker man.. I will inform the WI (they are in charge of the committee)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spot someone and decide to message them. Make the message personal, light hearted, compliment the pics and offer chatting or a social so we can get to know each other.

I did end it with a 'hope to hear from you but if not then good luck' type ending

Get a reply and after falling off my chair I have a look

The sum is total is 'thank you'

So do I move on or is the fact that she took the time to reply an indication of interest?

Is it a thank you to 'nice pics and profile' or 'thanks and goodbye' to the end of the message.

I get very few replies so this has confused me

Personally I'd interpret that as a genuine than you for the compliment, but not interested in taking things further. It's one up from a harsh delete. It's what we do if people complement the pics but demonstrate they've not read our profile and just generally come out with some crap like 'How's you'? Or worse still, 'How are you's'. Actually shit like that would get the harsh delete. Enjoy the thank you, your remark was appreciated I'd say.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I don't continue when I get one or two word replies. I'd say the vast majority of the time it means 'not interested' and the rest of the time it means they're bad at conversation. Either way, no point continuing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send out "thank you" but telepathically send signals that the fella is supposed to send another message.

I' like to play hard to get. Chase me Chase me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a single girl I would sometimes send a reply like that to someone who had the potential to interest me but gave me very little to respond to (either through their message or their profile).

I would get a lot of messages and trying to start a conversation from a compliment was difficult for me. It's not that I couldn't put in the hard work to have a conversation, it's just that I didn't always have the time or the inclination to do so.

If your first message to someone is one full of compliments, or just a general hello, in fairness what you are expecting is for the recipient to put the hard work into a meaningful response and a proper conversation starter to someone who has made the first contact with them.

In this case she didn't say no... So maybe you just gave her nothing more to reply to other than thank you. The forum can speculate the reasons but the only person that can justify the response is the one who sent it.

Cherry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give up just yet. We had one like that which led to a drink in a pub. It took a few more messages obviously but at least you got a response even if somewhat brief

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"When I was a single girl I would sometimes send a reply like that to someone who had the potential to interest me but gave me very little to respond to (either through their message or their profile).

Cherry "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay as a public information thingy..

Op has now moved on to some communication.. humorous reply sent.. bit of banter.. waiting for next installment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Okay as a public information thingy..

Op has now moved on to some communication.. humorous reply sent.. bit of banter.. waiting for next installment."

What he said - and still waiting myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay as a public information thingy..

Op has now moved on to some communication.. humorous reply sent.. bit of banter.. waiting for next installment.

What he said - and still waiting myself

It's been the highlight of my day... I say highlight... there was a moment earlier on where I had a rather giggly woman sat on my face as I tried to reply in the forums... but well, you know it's up there with "things that made Thursday worthwhile"...

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"If I replied like that, it'd be a massive hint that I didn't want to continue the conversation. But that's just me.

Yup

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd leave it. There again, I probably wouldn't bother writing a message on the first place.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I'd leave it. There again, I probably wouldn't bother writing a message on the first place. "
sexy silent type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my profile I say I'm not meeting at the moment. So when I get a message complimenting me I reply in a similar way as I'm not meeting so there is no point in starting to chat but I don't want to ignore as it seems rude xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay as a public information thingy..

Op has now moved on to some communication.. humorous reply sent.. bit of banter.. waiting for next installment.

What he said - and still waiting myself

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ive sent messages,and had messages back saying "wow were have you been hiding" and then never heard owt back after another message,, I just presume its someone aged 65 called Malcom whos nicked some ladys pics, created a profile sitting on his settee with his hand in his pants lolololo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well ive sent messages,and had messages back saying "wow were have you been hiding" and then never heard owt back after another message,, I just presume its someone aged 65 called Malcom whos nicked some ladys pics, created a profile sitting on his settee with his hand in his pants lolololo

Wow where have you been hiding

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"If I reply like that, it's a "hmm I'm not sure I'm interested, but if you can charm the pants off me, I might be". "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow where have you been hiding

Ive been away for abit

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Well ive sent messages,and had messages back saying "wow were have you been hiding" and then never heard owt back after another message"

I would never do that to you

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Land Of Confusion - Disturbed

www.youtube.com/watch?v=YV4oYkIeGJc

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

"Spot someone and decide to message them. Make the message personal, light hearted, compliment the pics and offer chatting or a social so we can get to know each other.

I did end it with a 'hope to hear from you but if not then good luck' type ending

Get a reply and after falling off my chair I have a look.

The sum is total is 'thank you'

So do I move on or is the fact that she took the time to reply an indication of interest?

Is it a thank you to 'nice pics and profile' or 'thanks and goodbye' to the end of the message.

Does her profile demand more than just 'Hi' as an opener ?

I get very few replies so this has confused me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never did get that reply

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I never did get that reply

You made him leave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never did get that reply

You made him leave!

Which one?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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she probably said thank you for wishing her luck.

sad to see people take anything as a sign of sexual interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"she probably said thank you for wishing her luck.

sad to see people take anything as a sign of sexual interest.

It's Ok - I didn't read the whole thread either

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"she probably said thank you for wishing her luck.

sad to see people take anything as a sign of sexual interest.

I'll do ya

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"she probably said thank you for wishing her luck.

sad to see people take anything as a sign of sexual interest.

It's Ok - I didn't read the whole thread either

it is dead old. i probably posted on it on and old account knowing me.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"she probably said thank you for wishing her luck.

sad to see people take anything as a sign of sexual interest.

I'll do ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who resurrected this? Is it that quite in here we go looking for posts 8mths old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who resurrected this? Is it that quite in here we go looking for posts 8mths old.

I was reminiscing about old Pauly so thought I'd see if I could find it and realised that there never was an ending to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who resurrected this? Is it that quite in here we go looking for posts 8mths old.

I was reminiscing about old Pauly so thought I'd see if I could find it and realised that there never was an ending to it "

Old who? Pauly? What's that?

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