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By *rimo4u OP   Man
over a year ago

north kensington w10

so if you never had a guy interested in sleeping with you. but you wanted sex would you pay for it?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

It would be a consideration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will.

Many won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be a consideration"

1pence? i'll even throw in a cuppa for free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its too easy to get sex without paying for it. However, if I couldn't find someone who would have sex with me, and there was a really attractive guy who would sleep with me for money, then yeah, I would pay for it.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Having never been in that situation I have no idea. I doubt it tho, as I only have sex with people I connect with on a mental level as well as a physical one, and that can't be gauged if you're paying for it.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"It would be a consideration

1pence? i'll even throw in a cuppa for free "

Done,now drop your pants,stuff the cuppa though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all the time sex toys and my own fingers exist.

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By *rimo4u OP   Man
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"It would be a consideration

1pence? i'll even throw in a cuppa for free "

Who is tempted to take up his kind offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Havent needed to but never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All women could get a fuck when they want lol.

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

At this moment and time.... maybe

Ask me again in after work and it'll be no as my silicone purchases will have done the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"All women could get a fuck when they want lol."

We can,but that's not what he asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story "

But in answer to your question, I probably wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story "

It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story

It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol "

So do women... If we know what we're doing

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By *fro-samuraiiMan
over a year ago

s


"It would be a consideration

1pence? i'll even throw in a cuppa for free

Who is tempted to take up his kind offer? "

Shittt, I've done it and I'd do it again!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story

It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol

So do women... If we know what we're doing "

True true I can see that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All women could get a fuck when they want lol.

We can,but that's not what he asked"
That is right. I reckon if paying they would get the one they wanted a lot quicker and without the drama lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be a consideration

1pence? i'll even throw in a cuppa for free

Who is tempted to take up his kind offer? "

my inbox has never been so busy

#sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing as I'm always skint - A big fat no!!!

But I wouldn't anyway - I like things for free

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story

It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol "

dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"so if you never had a guy interested in sleeping with you. but you wanted sex would you pay for it? "

I'd more than likely consider it.

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By *rimo4u OP   Man
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story "

So Why do you think that is true? interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need one for men preferably lmaoo

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Not all the time sex toys and my own fingers exist. "

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

To compare like with like the question should be women would you pay for sex if their was a chance the person was trafficked and abused?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"To compare like with like the question should be women would you pay for sex if their was a chance the person was trafficked and abused?"
definitely no..obviously.safe, sane and consensual all the way here....with whomever...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've had times when it wasn't convenient to hook up for sex, just bought a vibrator instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Happy to use my toys instead

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope as others have said toys satisfy and less hassle too

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

All these private messages are very flattering but I would prefer it if you would just save your dosh and write to me via the Match threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story

It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol

dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date..."

However, now take another 4 years of walking up to guys asking of they want NSA sex and you'll have a good percentage agreeing to your offer.

You may have not been looking for it, but it doesn't mean it couldn't have happened if you wanted it to

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story

It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol

dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date...

However, now take another 4 years of walking up to guys asking of they want NSA sex and you'll have a good percentage agreeing to your offer.

You may have not been looking for it, but it doesn't mean it couldn't have happened if you wanted it to "
really? im kind of shy about approaching men in vanilla world..i think the idea of them, in their pair of hot boots and nice ass in their two tone combat work trousers. is probably more kinky, than what they would be, in the bedroom...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 kids? I'm paying every day

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

If i had "the moneymaker" i wouldnt be paying for it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Have done in the past several times. Wouldn't hesitate to do it again in the future. (Have someone booked in for next month actually, I'm looking forward to seeing him again.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be a consideration"

consider this,ill charge you nothing xx

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I wonder if this is the opposite situation to the simillar thread also running for the men..

I wonder how, firstly, women on this forum, and secondly, women think society in general would feel about their paying for sex, given the previous comments that any woman can get a shag anytime.

Would there be a view that, all other things being equal, this actually empowered women to make a choice, and would remove the risk of critisicism of slaggish behaviour from other women?

And how does this compare/contradict the more commonly held belief that men would be somehow dirty/desperate if they did the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be a consideration

consider this,ill charge you nothing xx"

Whenever I say to people that I would pay for sex, random blokes offer it to me 'for nothing', missing the point that they're not the kind of person I would want to pay to have sex with, and therefore are just part of the reason I am paying for it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I wonder if this is the opposite situation to the simillar thread also running for the men..

I wonder how, firstly, women on this forum, and secondly, women think society in general would feel about their paying for sex, given the previous comments that any woman can get a shag anytime.

Would there be a view that, all other things being equal, this actually empowered women to make a choice, and would remove the risk of critisicism of slaggish behaviour from other women?

And how does this compare/contradict the more commonly held belief that men would be somehow dirty/desperate if they did the same?

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some women have issues, some men have issues and so do some couples, from my perception...people if they want. will find a way to dislike you. im like marmite, you love me or hate me, rarely is it 'shes ok'..but what other people say. think or perceive me as, is really not my business. i live with myself in the mirror everyday, quite happily..the labels people place upon you tell you more about that person, than the person they wish to label...usually that truth comes out about them eventually, meanwhile, i carry on being happy to be me, live and let live x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too bloody right I would, if it got to a point that I couldnt attract the people I want to have sex with then yes I totally would as I couldn't go with out sex. Luckily I have Paul and other guys I can call on for my needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so if you never had a guy interested in sleeping with you. but you wanted sex would you pay for it? "

Why? How much you charging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's been those old school chanel 5 documentaries about male escorts. Apparently lots do

Clients said:

- conveniece as too busy with work

- single mum 3 kids no time to herself

- want someone really really good looking

- sometimes want something discreet quick and easy

- works away and always in hotels so may pay for company (meal and hotel sex)

- others were shy or insecure or same as anyone else really

- others were married and this was quick and discreet

However it won't even be a fraction of men paying for it. And for men, probably for the same reasons.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Yes if he was worth it.

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

I agree with this posted in the "Men, would you pay for sex?" Thread:


"We all pay for sex already, whether it's financially or emotionally. "

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"Yes if he was worth it."

I might change my name to Lawrie Al

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I once paid for a man to spend the night with me in a posh hotel, so it is pretty much the same as paying for sex. At ten thirty he said he was tired and went to sleep. I was fuming. At least if I had paid for sex I could have expected to be left satisfied!

Sally

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Nope ,never

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with this posted in the "Men, would you pay for sex?" Thread:

We all pay for sex already, whether it's financially or emotionally. "

I don't actually agree with that. I don't pay financially or emotionally for most of the sex I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story

It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol

dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date..."

If you'd approached a man, perhaps the situation would have been different. Not only men need to make the first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will find women often pay for sex or love, there seems to be quite a market for con men to use sex to drain women's bank accounts, particularly foreign waiters I understand.

So yes some do. others don't.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes. Life's too short to do without

That being said, there's not a shortage predicted in the near future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have paid for sex in the past and would again, no problem

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

If he was good at what he did & had references from legit sources yes.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story

It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol

dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date...

If you'd approached a man, perhaps the situation would have been different. Not only men need to make the first move "
i made the move i went to a club on my own, when i was ready...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would condsider paying for it as no amount of toys could replace the touch of a man on an indefinite basis.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"I have paid for sex in the past and would again, no problem "

Details please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story

It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol

dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date...

If you'd approached a man, perhaps the situation would have been different. Not only men need to make the first move i made the move i went to a club on my own, when i was ready... "

Going a while without it, you must have had so much fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story

It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol

dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date..."

But thats the point- you chose to be celibate, and the avoided the body language and situations which would lead to sex.

If you were looking you would been aproached. And even if not aproached you could still ask and get a one night with anything. Men practically need to beg or be super hot.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I have paid for sex in the past and would again, no problem "

Did I give you your change???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm available and also very cheap.....fill my car with petrol,get us some vodka n irn bru n feed me n I'm all yours until morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would no problem!

Doll x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I'm available and also very cheap.....fill my car with petrol,get us some vodka n irn bru n feed me n I'm all yours until morning!"

Oh, go on then. The larder's overstocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm available and also very cheap.....fill my car with petrol,get us some vodka n irn bru n feed me n I'm all yours until morning!

Oh, go on then. The larder's overstocked "

Should've realised I was opening myself up for meat n two veg puns there!

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By *gentlovedayWoman
over a year ago

Tranmere

I had considered it before I discovered fab tbh but didn't know where to begin so glad I didn't I would have ended up bankrupt !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance

Too many guys out there happy to have sex with me for free!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have paid for sex in the past and would again, no problem

Did I give you your change??? "

Nah I said you could keep it for being such a good sport

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