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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do most people hide their profile when looking at other members,as I don,t I like people to know at least I have looked at them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet."

True... doesn't stop the 25 guys per day scoping and sending you the "blow and go" emails lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet."

fair comment,i totally understand your reasoning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just hidden my profile full stop.

But I do look in stealth mode. Otherwise I'd look like a right pervert.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've just hidden my profile full stop.

But I do look in stealth mode. Otherwise I'd look like a right pervert. "

ha ha ha is that a bad thing??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

True... doesn't stop the 25 guys per day scoping and sending you the "blow and go" emails lol "

We only get about 10 of those a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just hidden my profile full stop.

But I do look in stealth mode. Otherwise I'd look like a right pervert.

ha ha ha is that a bad thing??"

I don't know. You best ask those that blocked me.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

True... doesn't stop the 25 guys per day scoping and sending you the "blow and go" emails lol

We only get about 10 of those a day "

Yeah I suppose but you guys have pussy on offer it's all about bagging the straight guy ass over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet."

This ^^^ It just opens you up to getting more messages, when you are looking out of pure nosiness, rather than interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people to know I looked. Then moved on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stealth perv

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

This ^^^ It just opens you up to getting more messages, when you are looking out of pure nosiness, rather than interest. "

is it not nice that people know you have payed them some attention though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60% of the time I'm just being nosey. I don't fab many pics because the same thing happens, friend requests and winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine whenever I go AOWL......

Seems the polite thing too do..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"60% of the time I'm just being nosey. I don't fab many pics because the same thing happens, friend requests and winks "

very true wink wink,just kidding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hide mine whenever I go AOWL......

Seems the polite thing too do.. "

*AWOL*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

This ^^^ It just opens you up to getting more messages, when you are looking out of pure nosiness, rather than interest.

is it not nice that people know you have payed them some attention though?"

When you get more messages than you can handle generally, it's not ideal to invite more messages to your inbox. To be honest though, if I see a profile that really piques my interest, I have no problem messaging first. So they definitely know I've paid them attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

This ^^^ It just opens you up to getting more messages, when you are looking out of pure nosiness, rather than interest.

is it not nice that people know you have payed them some attention though?

When you get more messages than you can handle generally, it's not ideal to invite more messages to your inbox. To be honest though, if I see a profile that really piques my interest, I have no problem messaging first. So they definitely know I've paid them attention "

good answer

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

This ^^^ It just opens you up to getting more messages, when you are looking out of pure nosiness, rather than interest.

is it not nice that people know you have payed them some attention though?

When you get more messages than you can handle generally, it's not ideal to invite more messages to your inbox. To be honest though, if I see a profile that really piques my interest, I have no problem messaging first. So they definitely know I've paid them attention "

So forward and confident... I'd be shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

This ^^^ It just opens you up to getting more messages, when you are looking out of pure nosiness, rather than interest.

is it not nice that people know you have payed them some attention though?"

Hmmmm depends. We've had people message us with something like - you keep looking but don't message - and then block us. I have a poor short term memory so I often forget who people are.

Seeing who looked at you and vice versa is great, but as usual with the other site tools people can't use it in adult way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

This ^^^ It just opens you up to getting more messages, when you are looking out of pure nosiness, rather than interest.

is it not nice that people know you have payed them some attention though?

Hmmmm depends. We've had people message us with something like - you keep looking but don't message - and then block us. I have a poor short term memory so I often forget who people are.

Seeing who looked at you and vice versa is great, but as usual with the other site tools people can't use it in adult way. "

very true,i guess upfront honesty is the best policy?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

This ^^^ It just opens you up to getting more messages, when you are looking out of pure nosiness, rather than interest.

is it not nice that people know you have payed them some attention though?

When you get more messages than you can handle generally, it's not ideal to invite more messages to your inbox. To be honest though, if I see a profile that really piques my interest, I have no problem messaging first. So they definitely know I've paid them attention

So forward and confident... I'd be shy "

Has someone hacked your profile?? Because we both know that's not true!

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

This ^^^ It just opens you up to getting more messages, when you are looking out of pure nosiness, rather than interest.

is it not nice that people know you have payed them some attention though?

When you get more messages than you can handle generally, it's not ideal to invite more messages to your inbox. To be honest though, if I see a profile that really piques my interest, I have no problem messaging first. So they definitely know I've paid them attention

So forward and confident... I'd be shy

Has someone hacked your profile?? Because we both know that's not true! "

Maybe I'm fibbing this time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""

naughty girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

This ^^^ It just opens you up to getting more messages, when you are looking out of pure nosiness, rather than interest.

is it not nice that people know you have payed them some attention though?

When you get more messages than you can handle generally, it's not ideal to invite more messages to your inbox. To be honest though, if I see a profile that really piques my interest, I have no problem messaging first. So they definitely know I've paid them attention

So forward and confident... I'd be shy

Has someone hacked your profile?? Because we both know that's not true!

Maybe I'm fibbing this time "

Only maybe?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"

naughty girl"

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

naughty girl

Thankyou "

my pleasure x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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No stealth mode.

Only hide when I'm having a day off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No stealth mode.

Only hide when I'm having a day off "

my kind of lady xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do most people hide their profile when looking at other members,as I don,t I like people to know at least I have looked at them?"

I do...

I get too much hassle if I don't

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Yes, we perv in stealth mode.

Otherwise we end up with an inbox full of 'I/we noticed you looked at us' messages. We could have looked for any number of reasons, not necessarily because we'd want to meet.

This ^^^ It just opens you up to getting more messages, when you are looking out of pure nosiness, rather than interest. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"do most people hide their profile when looking at other members,as I don,t I like people to know at least I have looked at them?

I do...

I get too much hassle if I don't "

that's a fair comment x

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

yes because they would wonder why i kept looking at their profiles, it doesnt always work because a couple of friends have contacted me straight after i have looked at their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealth mode for me too.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"do most people hide their profile when looking at other members,as I don,t I like people to know at least I have looked at them?"

I certainly hope they do. I'm imagining thousands look at me without my knowledge..

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We perv in private too,saves the you looked but didnt get in touch mesaages.

Plus i forget who i've looked at and don't wanna appear a stalker

Miss

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