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Do you like the lights on or off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you like the lights on or off?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

On I'm scared of the dark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always on...

I've nothing to be ashamed of

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Somewhere inbetween

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"On I'm scared of the dark "

I am the big bad wolf...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Candles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On, unless we are playing a game..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights off but telly on!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Define lights. If we're talking neon strip lights then off.

Normal lights are fine

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

candles or dim lighting

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By *acLe0dMan
over a year ago

Preston


"On I'm scared of the dark "

I'd be more than happy to keep you company in the dark, for protection purposes only of course. Though I recommend we stick close togther

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Generally on but some nocturnal activities are perhaps better without bright light giving me a shock.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

When im driving in the dark on my way home from work it's a must to have them on

In the bedroom I also like them on as I like to see what I'm having fun with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Car lights or room lights?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off then I can feel my way round

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

Dimmed and sexy.... like being able to look at who I'm with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the atmosphere I want.

Lighting is brilliant for setting a mood, so from pitch dark fumblings through to sunlight frolics and everything in between (candle light, dimmer lights etc etc) it's all good if I'm having fun.

And I like to consider the lighting part of setting the fun I want.

(control freak much? )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define lights. If we're talking neon strip lights then off.

Normal lights are fine "

Same here. Although I can't be doing with those red light bulbs as you can see fudge all with them on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No real preference id leave it up to the lady

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

I have a led light bulb in bedroom with remote and fairy lights around bed frame

...low mood lighting for me

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Lights out please I feel queasy enough already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A standard lamp in the corner is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big light off but low lights on. Need to see what I'm doing Mrs

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"On I'm scared of the dark

I am the big bad wolf... "

Shhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do. I usually put it on if I have been watching a haunting, it can be abit scary sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a led light bulb in bedroom with remote and fairy lights around bed frame

...low mood lighting for me "

You have fairy lights? I'm a tad envious. My Pinterest Bedroom selection features a lot of fairy lights around the bed

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I mean as a 36 year old woman I hate the dark with a vegence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not main lights on but side lamps. Want to see the sexiness of the woman I'm playing with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a dim light, i dont like shagging under a full on 100w light bulb a dim side lamp is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean as a 36 year old woman I hate the dark with a vegence "

I sure your not the only one. And not something to be embarrassed/ashamed of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean as a 36 year old woman I hate the dark with a vegence "

Have you got a nightlight? They do some good plug in ones in that Swedish shop.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"with remote and fairy lights around bed frame

...low mood lighting for me "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours go on and off automatically

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I mean as a 36 year old woman I hate the dark with a vegence

I sure your not the only one. And not something to be embarrassed/ashamed of "

My ex used to ridicule me about it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I have a led light bulb in bedroom with remote and fairy lights around bed frame

...low mood lighting for me

You have fairy lights? I'm a tad envious. My Pinterest Bedroom selection features a lot of fairy lights around the bed "

Easy enough to add them

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I mean as a 36 year old woman I hate the dark with a vegence

Have you got a nightlight? They do some good plug in ones in that Swedish shop."

I do but it's still too dark so I've slept with the main light on

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I mean as a 36 year old woman I hate the dark with a vegence

I sure your not the only one. And not something to be embarrassed/ashamed of

My ex used to ridicule me about it "

Good job he's an ex then, it's not nice to ridicule someone's fears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean as a 36 year old woman I hate the dark with a vegence

I sure your not the only one. And not something to be embarrassed/ashamed of

My ex used to ridicule me about it "

Obviously an ass should have reassured you rather than ridicule

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in


"I mean as a 36 year old woman I hate the dark with a vegence

I sure your not the only one. And not something to be embarrassed/ashamed of

My ex used to ridicule me about it "

What a bully !!!

Glad he's the ex ! Xxx

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Whatever the moment requires, I used to be body shy and say light off or a really dim light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on, a nice subtle glow.

Not looking to land an aircraft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I'm about to fuck.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

My ex ridiculed me about things I was nervous of.

Since I've left him I'm less nervous of them because I now realise part of the anxiety came from expecting a loads of grief from him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lights on, a nice subtle glow.

Not looking to land an aircraft "

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Thing Is I'm not body shy I just hate the dark

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Depends who I'm about to fuck. "

I'll dim them then

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton


"I mean as a 36 year old woman I hate the dark with a vegence

Have you got a nightlight? They do some good plug in ones in that Swedish shop.

I do but it's still too dark so I've slept with the main light on "

my bulb with remote can be bright or dimmed and lots of colours. ..£7 home bargins *maybe available at other well known retailers*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thing Is I'm not body shy I just hate the dark "

Quite rightly not. Like i say its nothing to be ashamed of

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I mean as a 36 year old woman I hate the dark with a vegence

Have you got a nightlight? They do some good plug in ones in that Swedish shop.

I do but it's still too dark so I've slept with the main light on

my bulb with remote can be bright or dimmed and lots of colours. ..£7 home bargins *maybe available at other well known retailers* "

I have a weird light fitting in my bedroom it can't be dimmed

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

What ever d lady wants if she wants them off so b it but I prefer them on I'm not ashamed of myself

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Thing Is I'm not body shy I just hate the dark

Quite rightly not. Like i say its nothing to be ashamed of "

I told you you're lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft lighting is nice as long as I can see whom I'm making out with.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Am I bovver'd?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thing Is I'm not body shy I just hate the dark

Quite rightly not. Like i say its nothing to be ashamed of

I told you you're lovely "

Lies

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

A friend of mine was with a lady but she wanted d lights off n he said I want to see whom I'm fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean as a 36 year old woman I hate the dark with a vegence

Have you got a nightlight? They do some good plug in ones in that Swedish shop.

I do but it's still too dark so I've slept with the main light on

my bulb with remote can be bright or dimmed and lots of colours. ..£7 home bargins *maybe available at other well known retailers*

I have a weird light fitting in my bedroom it can't be dimmed "

You could try those touch lamps, they usually have three settings and the lowest is a warm soft low light that gets gradually brighter each touch.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Thing Is I'm not body shy I just hate the dark

Quite rightly not. Like i say its nothing to be ashamed of

I told you you're lovely

Lies"

I did

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I mean as a 36 year old woman I hate the dark with a vegence

Have you got a nightlight? They do some good plug in ones in that Swedish shop.

I do but it's still too dark so I've slept with the main light on

my bulb with remote can be bright or dimmed and lots of colours. ..£7 home bargins *maybe available at other well known retailers*

I have a weird light fitting in my bedroom it can't be dimmed

You could try those touch lamps, they usually have three settings and the lowest is a warm soft low light that gets gradually brighter each touch. "

I'll have a go thanks lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thing Is I'm not body shy I just hate the dark

Quite rightly not. Like i say its nothing to be ashamed of

I told you you're lovely

Lies

I did "

No im just a big softie really

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath


"Off then I can feel my way round "

I like this

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Sometimes pitch blackness can heighten the sensation of touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood and the situation. Each has it's merits.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Sometimes pitch blackness can heighten the sensation of touch "

Nah, deffo lights on with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either lights on or off u will still get a good seeing to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly on.

Off for novelty value!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I like eye contact, so in the absence of glow in the dark contacts... light on, please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like eye contact, so in the absence of glow in the dark contacts... light on, please"

The glare off your orange shirt would have sufficed!!

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be


"Soft lighting is nice as long as I can see whom I'm making out with. "

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I like eye contact, so in the absence of glow in the dark contacts... light on, please

The glare off your orange shirt would have sufficed!! "

Nothing wrong with that shirt...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good feeling your way in the dark .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's good feeling your way in the dark . "

By the looks of you that would be quite the adventure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a dim light, i dont like shagging under a full on 100w light bulb a dim side lamp is good "

Same here! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's good feeling your way in the dark .

By the looks of you that would be quite the adventure "

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For you OP I'd definitely leave them on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's good feeling your way in the dark .

By the looks of you that would be quite the adventure

Maybe "

Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on off on off on off on off on off on off... We like the strobe effect ...

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My preference is dimmed light or small lamp in corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm sleeping - lights off

If I'm writing - lights on

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

Lights on but muted..... dimmer switch or candles

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Definitely on. It's a massive turn on when you can see the finer details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning sex is the best, so curtains just open a bit. night time candles or dim lights, we have remote controlled fairy lights which are just about perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on.....

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