FabSwingers.com forum: Evaluate Your Life Day

By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Today, 19th October, is Evaluate Your Life Day. Apparently.

I apply the CARD method to quality and evaluations:

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How does your Fab life rate?

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

"Today, 19th October, is Evaluate Your Life Day. Apparently.

I apply the CARD method to quality and evaluations:

Consistent

Accessible

Recent

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How does your Fab life rate?

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. I think I'll use the FAF method to evaluate our fab life.......

Not what your thinking

Fabulous

And

Fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evaluate your life day?

Jesus, that's depressing

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Today, 19th October, is Evaluate Your Life Day. Apparently.

I apply the CARD method to quality and evaluations:

Consistent

Accessible

Recent

Dated

How does your Fab life rate?

. I think I'll use the FAF method to evaluate our fab life.......

Not what your thinking

Fabulous

And

Fun

Mrs blue eyes

Faf about as much as you like.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Evaluate your life day?

Jesus, that's depressing

It's good to take stock every once in a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already

Beard"

Forty is FAB U LOUS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

67 is too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too busy enjoying life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already

Beard

Forty is FAB U LOUS!

Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what

Beard

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already

Beard

Forty is FAB U LOUS!

Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what

Beard"

I did 50 things I'd never done before for my fiftieth. Perhaps do one thing for each decade?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Too busy enjoying life

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"67 is too

Keep it up.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Who thinks this stuff up?

Mine is going according to plan so that's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work in progress

Always room for improvement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult to rationalise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already

Beard

Forty is FAB U LOUS!

Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what

Beard

I did 50 things I'd never done before for my fiftieth. Perhaps do one thing for each decade?

That's an interesting idea, I missed out on attending your 50th and I was sorry to have done so. I'm not sure if a club party would be appropriate so maybe your idea is a goer

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm alive, it's great!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already

Beard

Forty is FAB U LOUS!

Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what

Beard

I did 50 things I'd never done before for my fiftieth. Perhaps do one thing for each decade?

That's an interesting idea, I missed out on attending your 50th and I was sorry to have done so. I'm not sure if a club party would be appropriate so maybe your idea is a goer

Beard"

Ooo, now I have to try and work out who you are. The Fab party at Jaydees was great, but I had it a few weeks after my actual birthday. I think you'd have lots of people there and you'll really throw yourself into your fabulous forties.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Who thinks this stuff up?

Mine is going according to plan so that's all good

I don't know but it's on the calendar at work so I'm dragging you lot into it too.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Work in progress

Always room for improvement"

My primary school head started every assembly with, Good better best; never let it rest until your good is better and your better is best.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Difficult to rationalise

Put it off until Fight Procrastination Day (Sept) next year. You get the whole of Procrastination Week (March) to put it off too.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm alive, it's great! "

One breath at a time. Make some of them really big gaspy ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I want to evaluate my life. I'm feeling depressed enough as it is today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life day looks the same mostly everyday as bodybuilding is the priority.

Was working 4hrs this morning. I go to the gym evey other day.

Eating every 2hrs

Studying spanish all day

Watching tv and relaxing mostly all day

Being on the fab forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm alive, it's great!

One breath at a time. Make some of them really big gaspy ones.

If I do that I'll pass out.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Slowly, slowly chasing dreams! At a crossroads and ready to jump in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already

Beard

Forty is FAB U LOUS!

Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what

Beard

I did 50 things I'd never done before for my fiftieth. Perhaps do one thing for each decade?

You inspired me to do things I don't normally do and I'm having a blast.

How does the CARD thing work?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Not sure I want to evaluate my life. I'm feeling depressed enough as it is today"

It might be a good thing to do.

Take a serious look and list all the good things. Be honest about when something has made you smile or feel happy. Then just read the list. It's all part of your life too.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"My life day looks the same mostly everyday as bodybuilding is the priority.

Was working 4hrs this morning. I go to the gym evey other day.

Eating every 2hrs

Studying spanish all day

Watching tv and relaxing mostly all day

Being on the fab forum

Do you ever feel like breaking out of the routine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather not evaluate my life, if its all the same to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life hasn't gone how it was projected in primary school.

But, in letting myself down, I have helped a lot of people up. So, I'm ok with it.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm alive, it's great!

One breath at a time. Make some of them really big gaspy ones.

If I do that I'll pass out.

Have someone there to give you oral... sorry, I mean mouth to mouth.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Slowly, slowly chasing dreams! At a crossroads and ready to jump in...

Both feet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm watching my dog wipe his arse on my polished oak floor.

Life couldn't get any better

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already

Beard

Forty is FAB U LOUS!

Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what

Beard

I did 50 things I'd never done before for my fiftieth. Perhaps do one thing for each decade?

You inspired me to do things I don't normally do and I'm having a blast.

How does the CARD thing work?"

Look at how consistent you are. Are there moments when you act or feel differently and in ways that fall below what you expect/want for yourself? What can you do to be more consistent?

Accessible is open to interpretation, depending on what you are looking for. Are you open to new things? Are you open with those around you or are you blocking people from getting into your life?

Recent is about keeping things in the present and up to date. It can be about what you are putting off doing and/or about dwelling on the past and not letting go.

Dated is about knowing when things have happened/need to happen. I use this one for my sexual health checks, amongst other things.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"My life hasn't gone how it was projected in primary school.

But, in letting myself down, I have helped a lot of people up. So, I'm ok with it.

I'm not sure how my life was projected in primary school.

It doesn't sound like you've let yourself down at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has gone to plan too. Umfortunately Baldrick appears to have been the planner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already

Beard

Forty is FAB U LOUS!

Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what

Beard

I did 50 things I'd never done before for my fiftieth. Perhaps do one thing for each decade?

You inspired me to do things I don't normally do and I'm having a blast.

How does the CARD thing work?

Look at how consistent you are. Are there moments when you act or feel differently and in ways that fall below what you expect/want for yourself? What can you do to be more consistent?

Accessible is open to interpretation, depending on what you are looking for. Are you open to new things? Are you open with those around you or are you blocking people from getting into your life?

Recent is about keeping things in the present and up to date. It can be about what you are putting off doing and/or about dwelling on the past and not letting go.

Dated is about knowing when things have happened/need to happen. I use this one for my sexual health checks, amongst other things.

I've saved that to ponder, thank you.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

It hasn't always gone to plan, but all things considered, I've been blessed.

Twenty working days before I retire. Looking forward to being a hands on grandma and travel the globe.

It's all good!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Who thinks this stuff up?

Mine is going according to plan so that's all good

I don't know but it's on the calendar at work so I'm dragging you lot into it too.

Good plan, I like it

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"Slowly, slowly chasing dreams! At a crossroads and ready to jump in...

Both feet!"

No, not yet!

Firm steps, building foundations, gathering interest from respected parties...I truly believe it is all about belief and timing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm alive, it's great!

One breath at a time. Make some of them really big gaspy ones.

If I do that I'll pass out.

Have someone there to give you oral... sorry, I mean mouth to mouth.

Hang on!

I'll be back.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"It hasn't always gone to plan, but all things considered, I've been blessed.

Twenty working days before I retire. Looking forward to being a hands on grandma and travel the globe.

It's all good!

Ooh! I retire in 19 days

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Mine has gone to plan too. Umfortunately Baldrick appears to have been the planner

Just a cunning plan then and not a cunnilingus plan.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It hasn't always gone to plan, but all things considered, I've been blessed.

Twenty working days before I retire. Looking forward to being a hands on grandma and travel the globe.

It's all good!

That's put a big smile on my face and a little envy in my eye.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"67 is too

I'm glad to hear that, I'll be there on NYE.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I don't understand the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My life day looks the same mostly everyday as bodybuilding is the priority.

Was working 4hrs this morning. I go to the gym evey other day.

Eating every 2hrs

Studying spanish all day

Watching tv and relaxing mostly all day

Being on the fab forum

Do you ever feel like breaking out of the routine?

"
No. I dont, but I do sometimes take a active 1 week rest from the gym, to recover better. I like routines yoo know, what about you?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"My life day looks the same mostly everyday as bodybuilding is the priority.

Was working 4hrs this morning. I go to the gym evey other day.

Eating every 2hrs

Studying spanish all day

Watching tv and relaxing mostly all day

Being on the fab forum

Do you ever feel like breaking out of the routine?

No. I dont, but I do sometimes take a active 1 week rest from the gym, to recover better. I like routines yoo know, what about you?"

I like my routines too, but they are less rigid than yours.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I don't understand the question "

If you were to evaluate your Fab/fab life, what would you say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting.

It rates as interesting.

Reading your 'CARD' system, I am definitely a work in progress, this has given me food for thought, thanks OP xx

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Interesting.

It rates as interesting.

Reading your 'CARD' system, I am definitely a work in progress, this has given me food for thought, thanks OP xx"

Interesting is usually better than dull. Not always, but usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My life day looks the same mostly everyday as bodybuilding is the priority.

Was working 4hrs this morning. I go to the gym evey other day.

Eating every 2hrs

Studying spanish all day

Watching tv and relaxing mostly all day

Being on the fab forum

Do you ever feel like breaking out of the routine?

No. I dont, but I do sometimes take a active 1 week rest from the gym, to recover better. I like routines yoo know, what about you?

I like my routines too, but they are less rigid than yours.

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That is good as well and its good to mix it up sometimes too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand the question

If you were to evaluate your Fab/fab life, what would you say?

Oh, Fab life, I misread the question

All's good thanks

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I don't understand the question

If you were to evaluate your Fab/fab life, what would you say?"

Lots of things:

Annoying, time-consuming, enlightening, joyous, surprising, stupid, squalid, outrageous, madness, beautiful, fun...

I dunno.

How succinct do you want me to be?

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