FabSwingers.com forum: Advise

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

New to this looking for my first meet. With no joy? Everyone probably herd it before. But any advise? I dont want to just keep messaging people all the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience, patience, and you guessed it......more patience.

You're one of 1000's of men looking for meets. Give women a reason to choose you instead of all the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Op a couple of grammar errors in your profile but it read quite well. Nice pics

Good Luck Tink

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Go to a club. Meet. Get veri'd.

Look on the meets & clubs forum...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Get yer ass to a club or social, keep posting "positive" stuff on the forums and get yerself known. Good luck fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Op a couple of grammar errors in your profile but it read quite well. Nice pics

Good Luck Tink

Thank you i will take another look at it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks . I intend to go to a club meet but as a single male bit nervous lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks . I intend to go to a club meet but as a single male bit nervous lol"

It can be nerve racking but you'll find the nerves will go quite quickly once you start chatting to people inside.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks . I intend to go to a club meet but as a single male bit nervous lol

It can be nerve racking but you'll find the nerves will go quite quickly once you start chatting to people inside."

Thanks i will give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same advice I give to all frustrated single guys.....

Shave your legs and buy a frock,,,,

Hey it worked for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New to this looking for my first meet. With no joy? Everyone probably herd it before. But any advise? I dont want to just keep messaging people all the time lol "

You have only been on for two weeks.

You're too young for us and straight. If you weren't then we still would not be interested. I don't want to be over-critical and it is probably unconscious on your part but a couple of sentences phrased badly can give a bad impression.

"Do like an older women find them intriguing and often mind blowing in bed!same age is fine too but not too interested in younger but if so message me and i may reply." That sounds arrogant.

"Most single males on here just want a quick fuck." That may or may not be the case, and may or may not include you, but putting others down is never a good tactic.

Many people will also be put off by the unexplainable "cannot accommodate." They will assume that you are attached and, if they had been interested in you, will wonder what you had in mind. As there are so many fish in the sea, they will just move on.

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

"Same advice I give to all frustrated single guys.....

Shave your legs and buy a frock,,,,

Hey it worked for me...

Quite literally choked on my coffee

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"New to this looking for my first meet. With no joy? Everyone probably herd it before. But any advise? I dont want to just keep messaging people all the time lol

You have only been on for two weeks.

"Do like an older women find them intriguing and often mind blowing in bed!same age is fine too but not too interested in younger but if so message me and i may reply." That sounds arrogant.

"Most single males on here just want a quick fuck." That may or may not be the case, and may or may not include you, but putting others down is never a good tactic.

Thanks i will look at profile again tonight. I carnt accommodate due to a shared house and wast discreet atm some one else said the same so i shall put that on profile

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"New to this looking for my first meet. With no joy? Everyone probably herd it before. But any advise? I dont want to just keep messaging people all the time lol

You have only been on for two weeks.

"Do like an older women find them intriguing and often mind blowing in bed!same age is fine too but not too interested in younger but if so message me and i may reply." That sounds arrogant.

"Most single males on here just want a quick fuck." That may or may not be the case, and may or may not include you, but putting others down is never a good tactic.

Thanks i will look at profile again tonight. I carnt accommodate due to a shared house and wast discreet atm some one else said the same so i shall put that on profile "

If you can't accommodate it's usually a good idea to say why on your profile otherwise people just assume you are playing away from home, a lot of people won't meet if you're attached.

I have it on my profile and it is non-negotiable, I'm a live in carer for my disabled mum. There is no way I'm bringing a stranger home for a fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a very good profile OP. It reads very well, and you have some sexy pictures. As others have said, clubs and socials are a great way to meet new people from the swinging community..... And patience! I have a feeling you will do very well on here, in time OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have a very good profile OP. It reads very well, and you have some sexy pictures. As others have said, clubs and socials are a great way to meet new people from the swinging community..... And patience! I have a feeling you will do very well on here, in time OP

Thanks i will look at profile again tonight i will ad nore pictures but dont wanr to give all away over pics lol.

I will attend clubs ect just as a single male bit nervours lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A key rule of Fab is that single men will almost certainly need to continue messaging people, in order to get much chance of success.

I noticed a typo in your profile:

'Do like an older women',

which I assume could have been meant that you love older women, similarly to women of the same age, so perhaps 'Do like older women' or 'Do like an older woman' etc.

Stick with it. Keep improving your profile and messaging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A key rule of Fab is that single men will almost certainly need to continue messaging people, in order to get much chance of success.

I noticed a typo in your profile:

'Do like an older women',

which I assume could have been meant that you love older women, similarly to women of the same age, so perhaps 'Do like older women' or 'Do like an older woman' etc.

Stick with it. Keep improving your profile and messaging."

Thanks iv uvdated profile a bit tonight ill keep improving it

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

"New to this looking for my first meet. With no joy? Everyone probably herd it before. But any advise? I dont want to just keep messaging people all the time lol "

go to a club bud

remove the rigmarole of getting seen in messages through simple mutual attraction and interaction in a club.

If you are insistent, try and be yourself, active on the forum and ...wheres shagtonight when you need him....

he'd tell you to 'be patient.'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A key rule of Fab is that single men will almost certainly need to continue messaging people, in order to get much chance of success.

I noticed a typo in your profile:

'Do like an older women',

which I assume could have been meant that you love older women, similarly to women of the same age, so perhaps 'Do like older women' or 'Do like an older woman' etc.

Stick with it. Keep improving your profile and messaging."

Thanks iv uvdated profile a bit tonight ill keep improving it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"A key rule of Fab is that single men will almost certainly need to continue messaging people, in order to get much chance of success.

I noticed a typo in your profile:

'Do like an older women',

which I assume could have been meant that you love older women, similarly to women of the same age, so perhaps 'Do like older women' or 'Do like an older woman' etc.

Stick with it. Keep improving your profile and messaging.

Thanks iv uvdated profile a bit tonight ill keep improving it "

That's great - when we keep re-reading our own stuff we get to miss the little details so easily.

As you said, keep improving it, bit by bit

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"New to this looking for my first meet. With no joy? Everyone probably herd it before. But any advise? I dont want to just keep messaging people all the time lol "

*consults OP's tits and briefly considers moving to Porchester*

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