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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen a lot of profiles saying that they are only looking for 'safe fun'..... goes without saying doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some who prefer bareback OP.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

There are a lot on here who don't OP so it's just a way of deterring them from contacting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have a look at the 1000 other safe sex threads there are each day

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I've seen a lot of profiles saying that they are only looking for 'safe fun'..... goes without saying doesn't it? "

I've red sum profiles that say bear back only. So not allways op.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen a lot of profiles saying that they are only looking for 'safe fun'..... goes without saying doesn't it? "

"Goes without saying" really doesn't work on here.

Making any kind of assumptions could land you in a whole heap of doo doo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide. "

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they probably get asked for bareback a lot so put it on their profile to stop people asking for that.

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By *eardedSilverFoxMan
over a year ago

Colchester


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide. "

That's your opinion and it's noted

Next!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


""Goes without saying" really doesn't work on here."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices? "

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices? "

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Is this serious? It's not is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... "

That's not really true is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they?? "

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward."

Of course I realise that not everyone does, but do you really think that those that do have a nastie will a) know that they do or b) say up front that they do?

I'm not saying your point isn't valid, it is but my original point was aimed at why people wouldn't want to be safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward.

Of course I realise that not everyone does, but do you really think that those that do have a nastie will a) know that they do or b) say up front that they do?

I'm not saying your point isn't valid, it is but my original point was aimed at why people wouldn't want to be safe. "

Because that's the way they choose to enjoy their sexual fun. Is it that hard to comprehend?

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

"

This.

I use a condom for penetrative sex, my choice.

Kissing on a meet, a blow job (without condom) and going down on a pussy (no dam) is hardly without risk and is not really safe sex. We all make our own choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only true 'safe sex' is celibacy. Will you indulge in that OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback seems to be all the rage lately but not for us at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen a lot of profiles saying that they are only looking for 'safe fun'..... goes without saying doesn't it? "

No.

But i think as a grown man you know this.

Me thinks this is an attempt to show the forum how sensible you are with your sexual health and to have a chance to roll your eyes at those who choose to behave differently

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only true 'safe sex' is celibacy. Will you indulge in that OP? "

Really???..... and I thought you were putting together a sensible debate!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen a lot of profiles saying that they are only looking for 'safe fun'..... goes without saying doesn't it?

No.

But i think as a grown man you know this.

Me thinks this is an attempt to show the forum how sensible you are with your sexual health and to have a chance to roll your eyes at those who choose to behave differently "

Not at all mate, I don't roll my eyes at anyone. Each to their own, my 'attempt' as you call it was simply to voice an opinion. And yes it's only my opinion so you don't need to agree or disagree. This is a forum isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward.

Of course I realise that not everyone does, but do you really think that those that do have a nastie will a) know that they do or b) say up front that they do?

I'm not saying your point isn't valid, it is but my original point was aimed at why people wouldn't want to be safe. "

That's what STD screening is for OP. No sex is safe sex... What if the condom splits? We all face that every time we indulge in penetrative intercourse, if we choose to wear a condom. Some may choose bareback, but surely that is their right? As long as both are consenting, it really is no business of ours on how others conduct their sex life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward.

Of course I realise that not everyone does, but do you really think that those that do have a nastie will a) know that they do or b) say up front that they do?

I'm not saying your point isn't valid, it is but my original point was aimed at why people wouldn't want to be safe.

That's what STD screening is for OP. No sex is safe sex... What if the condom splits? We all face that every time we indulge in penetrative intercourse, if we choose to wear a condom. Some may choose bareback, but surely that is their right? As long as both are consenting, it really is no business of ours on how others conduct their sex life. "

Fair play and I agree. It's a free country and everyone has their own choices to make. I'm only expressing my own personal preferences, I only put it on here to gauge others opinions and didnt expect to get bollocked for doing so

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen a lot of profiles saying that they are only looking for 'safe fun'..... goes without saying doesn't it?

I've red sum profiles that say bear back only. So not allways op."

I always thought Beastiality was a criminal offence, or did they mean bareback. instead of bear back. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward.

Of course I realise that not everyone does, but do you really think that those that do have a nastie will a) know that they do or b) say up front that they do?

I'm not saying your point isn't valid, it is but my original point was aimed at why people wouldn't want to be safe.

That's what STD screening is for OP. No sex is safe sex... What if the condom splits? We all face that every time we indulge in penetrative intercourse, if we choose to wear a condom. Some may choose bareback, but surely that is their right? As long as both are consenting, it really is no business of ours on how others conduct their sex life.

Fair play and I agree. It's a free country and everyone has their own choices to make. I'm only expressing my own personal preferences, I only put it on here to gauge others opinions and didnt expect to get bollocked for doing so

Lol"

I think it was more your judgement, than your preference to be fair. As you alluded to them being suicidal further up the thread. But don't worry OP. It will all be forgotten in a few days

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward.

Of course I realise that not everyone does, but do you really think that those that do have a nastie will a) know that they do or b) say up front that they do?

I'm not saying your point isn't valid, it is but my original point was aimed at why people wouldn't want to be safe.

That's what STD screening is for OP. No sex is safe sex... What if the condom splits? We all face that every time we indulge in penetrative intercourse, if we choose to wear a condom. Some may choose bareback, but surely that is their right? As long as both are consenting, it really is no business of ours on how others conduct their sex life.

Fair play and I agree. It's a free country and everyone has their own choices to make. I'm only expressing my own personal preferences, I only put it on here to gauge others opinions and didnt expect to get bollocked for doing so

Lol

I think it was more your judgement, than your preference to be fair. As you alluded to them being suicidal further up the thread. But don't worry OP. It will all be forgotten in a few days "

I've had bareback...I don't believe I was suicidal at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward.

Of course I realise that not everyone does, but do you really think that those that do have a nastie will a) know that they do or b) say up front that they do?

I'm not saying your point isn't valid, it is but my original point was aimed at why people wouldn't want to be safe.

That's what STD screening is for OP. No sex is safe sex... What if the condom splits? We all face that every time we indulge in penetrative intercourse, if we choose to wear a condom. Some may choose bareback, but surely that is their right? As long as both are consenting, it really is no business of ours on how others conduct their sex life.

Fair play and I agree. It's a free country and everyone has their own choices to make. I'm only expressing my own personal preferences, I only put it on here to gauge others opinions and didnt expect to get bollocked for doing so

Lol

I think it was more your judgement, than your preference to be fair. As you alluded to them being suicidal further up the thread. But don't worry OP. It will all be forgotten in a few days

I've had bareback...I don't believe I was suicidal at the time."

Ive had bareback sex, I'm still alive

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

elbow pads...CHECK!

knee pads....CHECK!

Cycle Helmet... CHECK!

Bubble Wrap Torso shield CHECK

Contender... are you ready?!...

Gladiator....are you ready?!...

ohh the good old days when gladiators was actually decent.

Safe fun anyone?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward.

Of course I realise that not everyone does, but do you really think that those that do have a nastie will a) know that they do or b) say up front that they do?

I'm not saying your point isn't valid, it is but my original point was aimed at why people wouldn't want to be safe.

That's what STD screening is for OP. No sex is safe sex... What if the condom splits? We all face that every time we indulge in penetrative intercourse, if we choose to wear a condom. Some may choose bareback, but surely that is their right? As long as both are consenting, it really is no business of ours on how others conduct their sex life.

Fair play and I agree. It's a free country and everyone has their own choices to make. I'm only expressing my own personal preferences, I only put it on here to gauge others opinions and didnt expect to get bollocked for doing so

Lol

I think it was more your judgement, than your preference to be fair. As you alluded to them being suicidal further up the thread. But don't worry OP. It will all be forgotten in a few days

I've had bareback...I don't believe I was suicidal at the time.

Ive had bareback sex, I'm still alive "

For some reason, I'm thinking if Naked Gun reading this thread! Haha

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward.

Of course I realise that not everyone does, but do you really think that those that do have a nastie will a) know that they do or b) say up front that they do?

I'm not saying your point isn't valid, it is but my original point was aimed at why people wouldn't want to be safe.

That's what STD screening is for OP. No sex is safe sex... What if the condom splits? We all face that every time we indulge in penetrative intercourse, if we choose to wear a condom. Some may choose bareback, but surely that is their right? As long as both are consenting, it really is no business of ours on how others conduct their sex life.

Fair play and I agree. It's a free country and everyone has their own choices to make. I'm only expressing my own personal preferences, I only put it on here to gauge others opinions and didnt expect to get bollocked for doing so

Lol

I think it was more your judgement, than your preference to be fair. As you alluded to them being suicidal further up the thread. But don't worry OP. It will all be forgotten in a few days

I've had bareback...I don't believe I was suicidal at the time.

Ive had bareback sex, I'm still alive "

If I havent had bareback sex, then my daughter must be someone elses.....

Would I bareback some random off the internet? Fuck no.

Do I think those that do are fucking mental? Yes. But, you know, personal choice and all that. Being minging isn't illegal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward.

Of course I realise that not everyone does, but do you really think that those that do have a nastie will a) know that they do or b) say up front that they do?

I'm not saying your point isn't valid, it is but my original point was aimed at why people wouldn't want to be safe.

That's what STD screening is for OP. No sex is safe sex... What if the condom splits? We all face that every time we indulge in penetrative intercourse, if we choose to wear a condom. Some may choose bareback, but surely that is their right? As long as both are consenting, it really is no business of ours on how others conduct their sex life.

Fair play and I agree. It's a free country and everyone has their own choices to make. I'm only expressing my own personal preferences, I only put it on here to gauge others opinions and didnt expect to get bollocked for doing so

Lol

I think it was more your judgement, than your preference to be fair. As you alluded to them being suicidal further up the thread. But don't worry OP. It will all be forgotten in a few days

I've had bareback...I don't believe I was suicidal at the time.

Ive had bareback sex, I'm still alive

If I havent had bareback sex, then my daughter must be someone elses.....

Would I bareback some random off the internet? Fuck no.

Do I think those that do are fucking mental? Yes. But, you know, personal choice and all that. Being minging isn't illegal. "

Minging! Haven't heard that word for years!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward.

Of course I realise that not everyone does, but do you really think that those that do have a nastie will a) know that they do or b) say up front that they do?

I'm not saying your point isn't valid, it is but my original point was aimed at why people wouldn't want to be safe.

That's what STD screening is for OP. No sex is safe sex... What if the condom splits? We all face that every time we indulge in penetrative intercourse, if we choose to wear a condom. Some may choose bareback, but surely that is their right? As long as both are consenting, it really is no business of ours on how others conduct their sex life.

Fair play and I agree. It's a free country and everyone has their own choices to make. I'm only expressing my own personal preferences, I only put it on here to gauge others opinions and didnt expect to get bollocked for doing so

Lol

I think it was more your judgement, than your preference to be fair. As you alluded to them being suicidal further up the thread. But don't worry OP. It will all be forgotten in a few days

I've had bareback...I don't believe I was suicidal at the time.

Ive had bareback sex, I'm still alive

If I havent had bareback sex, then my daughter must be someone elses.....

Would I bareback some random off the internet? Fuck no.

Do I think those that do are fucking mental? Yes. But, you know, personal choice and all that. Being minging isn't illegal.

Minging! Haven't heard that word for years! "

I'm old-school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand people have preferences etc, it's acceptable to have preferences when it comes to race, size, hair colour even if it may raise eyebrows. But playing roulette with your health??? Come on!!! That's not a preference it's flipping suicide.

How about look after your own sexual health and leave others to their choices?

Don't get me wrong I'm happy to leave people to their own choices... if they dont mind their dicks crusting up and dropping off or fannies stinking like an episode of rick steins fruits of the sea and foaming at the lips it 'their choice'

I'm just concerned they are on a swingers site willing to let others be exposed to whatever STI they may have. It's not like they would state on their profile 'I/we have a dirty infection but still insist on bareback' would they??

You do realise that not everyone who 'chooses' bareback will have any nasties or are you just incredibly naive. Either way my original point is still valid in answer to your post.

Protect yourself and avoid those who don't conform to your sexual health standards. It's really pretty straight forward.

Of course I realise that not everyone does, but do you really think that those that do have a nastie will a) know that they do or b) say up front that they do?

I'm not saying your point isn't valid, it is but my original point was aimed at why people wouldn't want to be safe.

That's what STD screening is for OP. No sex is safe sex... What if the condom splits? We all face that every time we indulge in penetrative intercourse, if we choose to wear a condom. Some may choose bareback, but surely that is their right? As long as both are consenting, it really is no business of ours on how others conduct their sex life.

Fair play and I agree. It's a free country and everyone has their own choices to make. I'm only expressing my own personal preferences, I only put it on here to gauge others opinions and didnt expect to get bollocked for doing so

Lol

I think it was more your judgement, than your preference to be fair. As you alluded to them being suicidal further up the thread. But don't worry OP. It will all be forgotten in a few days

I've had bareback...I don't believe I was suicidal at the time.

Ive had bareback sex, I'm still alive

If I havent had bareback sex, then my daughter must be someone elses.....

Would I bareback some random off the internet? Fuck no.

Do I think those that do are fucking mental? Yes. But, you know, personal choice and all that. Being minging isn't illegal.

Minging! Haven't heard that word for years!

I'm old-school. "

An oldie but a goodie

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen a lot of profiles saying that they are only looking for 'safe fun'..... goes without saying doesn't it?

I've red sum profiles that say bear back only. So not allways op."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it odd when a profile says safe sex but then has photos showing bareback.

Yes i know it could be their long term partner but it seems strange to not have an explanation about the bareback photos.

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