FabSwingers.com forum: Is it possible..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.. to develop feelings for someone you've never met?

no this isnt about me, i just watched last nights Eastenders where a character had 'fallen' for someone online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. to develop feelings for someone you've never met?

no this isnt about me, i just watched last nights Eastenders where a character had 'fallen' for someone online."

of course it is lol....even when i chatted online to people online years ago...it was rather intense...I seen some actually cross the pond a few times.....and ive pretty much maintained friendships that may take me there or vice versa....of course most i chatted to werent swingers lol...prob be a shock when i take em to a club or something lol

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

".. to develop feelings for someone you've never met?

no this isnt about me, i just watched last nights Eastenders where a character had 'fallen' for someone online."

it happened with my ex and I...when we finally met face to face it just clicked.5 years later he decided he did not love me any more...but we did fall for each other before we physically met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah it is so easy to fall for someone on line..and they can be really intense feelings.. trouble is when things go wrong and they dont measure up in the flesh you still get hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

You read about women that fall in love with men online and send them all their money because of some sob story only to find out they've been conned

Don't hear so much about men falling for the women though and losing all their money............spots a gap in the market

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"You read about women that fall in love with men online and send them all their money because of some sob story only to find out they've been conned

Don't hear so much about men falling for the women though and losing all their money............spots a gap in the market

Hello gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. to develop feelings for someone you've never met?

no this isnt about me, i just watched last nights Eastenders where a character had 'fallen' for someone online."

i've never met you but everytime i perv you pics i have something growing for you

i'm gonna get a kick in the nuts aint i ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

".. to develop feelings for someone you've never met?

no this isnt about me, i just watched last nights Eastenders where a character had 'fallen' for someone online.

i've never met you but everytime i perv you pics i have something growing for you

i'm gonna get a kick in the nuts aint i ???"

haha no your not but it made me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"You read about women that fall in love with men online and send them all their money because of some sob story only to find out they've been conned

Don't hear so much about men falling for the women though and losing all their money............spots a gap in the market

Hello gorgeous

Aha! one for the honeytrap

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"You read about women that fall in love with men online and send them all their money because of some sob story only to find out they've been conned

Don't hear so much about men falling for the women though and losing all their money............spots a gap in the market

i wish

Hello gorgeous

Aha! one for the honeytrap

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Move the "I wish" down a bit.

Ta. xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Before i had a computer i used to here about people meeting on the internet. I laughed, thought it ridiculous. How could you possibly have feelings for someone you type to, after all typing is cold, no emotion, just words.

But the first person i chatted to on the internet made me completely change my mind. It was a guy and we became firm friends to this day. It started general then more personal about family ect and i actually found myself saying things to him that i would never have said to someone id known in person for that short length of time.

Now i have friends from all over the world. Some ive met, some i hope to meet and some i will never meet

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

Absolutely it is possible. I married mine

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeap I believe it is possible to have feelings build up for some one you chat to online, theres a few people on here i keep close to my heart

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

".. to develop feelings for someone you've never met?

Yes...and in our case it carried on in real life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i think i should be signing up to an online dating site, if Heather can find love.. there might be hope for me then

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

oh forgot to say i met my last two "proper" boyfriends before jay online. They both lasted 18 months and neither broke up cause of how we met.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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I have only heard bad stories about dating sites, but thats probably like a lot of things, people only say anything to complain.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

One of my close friends was scammed within a week of joining one. (well i stopped it) You have to be very vigilant once you know the messages stand out a mile but there are some very clever people out there and a lot of vulnerable men and women "looking for love" who have low self esteem and once someone shows them attention they get hooked

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Yeah scams are everywhere, you need a cynical head like mine to see through them.

PS I didn't meet the OH on a dating site, but it was on the net and I tricked him, I told him I was a virgin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

not asking for specific websites here,, but if you don't recommend dating sites for 'meeting' people.. am i wrong to presume you met your respective partners through sites like fabs then?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Yeah scams are everywhere, you need a cynical head like mine to see through them.

PS I didn't meet the OH on a dating site, but it was on the net and I tricked him, I told him I was a virgin

You mean he tricked you into thinking he believed you lmao

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"i think i should be signing up to an online dating site, if Heather can find love.. there might be hope for me then

hun its just as hard on fab you can always try pof

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Yeah scams are everywhere, you need a cynical head like mine to see through them.

PS I didn't meet the OH on a dating site, but it was on the net and I tricked him, I told him I was a virgin

You mean he tricked you into thinking he believed you lmao"

Well there is that too....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"not asking for specific websites here,, but if you don't recommend dating sites for 'meeting' people.. am i wrong to presume you met your respective partners through sites like fabs then?"

Not us no, we met in an AOL vanilla chat room would you believe, all innocent, neither of us looking for anything, and ended up together.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I met both my exes on vanilla sites one was actually a quiz room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think i should be signing up to an online dating site, if Heather can find love.. there might be hope for me then

hun its just as hard on fab you can always try pof

was on POF once, within the first week I'd been latched onto by a scammer a stalker and a couple of married guys wanting cam/phone fun. At least here you know what people want without them bullshitting you about 'true and lasting love'

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

".. to develop feelings for someone you've never met?

no this isnt about me, i just watched last nights Eastenders where a character had 'fallen' for someone online."

aye right.

my first love was sonic the hedgehog.

it just wasn't meant to be.

i was looking for commitment,he was always jumping over things.

i still think of him.

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

".. to develop feelings for someone you've never met?

no this isnt about me, i just watched last nights Eastenders where a character had 'fallen' for someone online."

maybe explains why some peeps post threads on here moaning about being stalked by (in the main, but not exclusively) males (some genuinely single, others "playing away")

in real life it is hard to strike up a conversation with a woman you have never met, yet "online" peeps will enter into a dialogue = and some take that responsiveness as a sign that she lurves him

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

".. to develop feelings for someone you've never met?

no this isnt about me, i just watched last nights Eastenders where a character had 'fallen' for someone online.

maybe explains why some peeps post threads on here moaning about being stalked by (in the main, but not exclusively) males (some genuinely single, others "playing away")

in real life it is hard to strike up a conversation with a woman you have never met, yet "online" peeps will enter into a dialogue = and some take that responsiveness as a sign that she lurves him "

or in the case of "Hev" ... her lol

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