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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone experienced a negative side to having a face pic as your avatar? I'd really like to, but just want to hear other people's experiences first.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Non at all. I've been recognised but didn't know till a message on here as most people are very discrete too but then again I'm a bloke so less of the stalker types are after me than they would you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but that was down to being ugly!

If you're comfortable with it then don't worry about what others say... If you don't want it on public for fear of being recognised then keep it private and share with who you want in private messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys on other sites recognise me and think i'm looking for a fuck there too, despite my profile saying i wasn't.

people have recognised me off site as well (if i go out) but never approached me in person, just sent me a message on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put a facepic up ages ago, even the guys stopped messaging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The milk turned sour.

I learned my lesson.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose not to as my avatar and only had one negative reaction when I pm'd one.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Depends how you display it. I think mine is vague enough for what I want. If you want annonimity it's not for you. Or disguise it in some way.

I think they're better than the usual cock and genitalia pics though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone from the office saw me on who's near and messaged me asking if I wanted to fuck his wife with him (never found out who it was as I didn't ask).

People have also reverse image searched me and found out a load of information (occupation, etc.).

But no, I don't really care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put up a half face pic a little while ago. We got far less messages. Marc asked me to to take it down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put up a half face pic a little while ago. We got far less messages. Marc asked me to to take it down. "

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid


"Someone from the office saw me on who's near and messaged me asking if I wanted to fuck his wife with him (never found out who it was as I didn't ask).

People have also reverse image searched me and found out a load of information (occupation, etc.).

But no, I don't really care."

*wanders off to reverse image search Lib*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone experienced a negative side to having a face pic as your avatar? I'd really like to, but just want to hear other people's experiences first....."

Absolutely not, they get ignored as much as all the others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone from the office saw me on who's near and messaged me asking if I wanted to fuck his wife with him (never found out who it was as I didn't ask).

People have also reverse image searched me and found out a load of information (occupation, etc.).

But no, I don't really care.

*wanders off to reverse image search Lib*"

It was a different photo. I don't think this one is attached to anything important but I did reverse image search my avatar the other day and the search term it came up with was "girl".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put up a half face pic a little while ago. We got far less messages. Marc asked me to to take it down.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Has anyone experienced a negative side to having a face pic as your avatar? I'd really like to, but just want to hear other people's experiences first....."

How many would you like? Off the top of my head:

The woman who worked in the NAAFI who had her pics stuck up at work and was disciplined for it.

The teacher whose profile was circulated round the pupils.

The other teacher who was sacked, took it to a tribunal and lost.

The woman who had men coming up to her in Tescos expecting a shag.

The men outed on Facebook.

The woman who found her profile pics on the work noticeboard....

I could probably bump most of them if you like?

The simple rule is: be careful or accept the consequences.

Mr ddc

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I put up a half face pic a little while ago. We got far less messages. Marc asked me to to take it down. "

I was waiting for the other half to be put up so I could print it off. So far we only have a full set for Lib in our Fab Snap game that we were going to sell for forum Xmas pressies

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid


"Someone from the office saw me on who's near and messaged me asking if I wanted to fuck his wife with him (never found out who it was as I didn't ask).

People have also reverse image searched me and found out a load of information (occupation, etc.).

But no, I don't really care.

*wanders off to reverse image search Lib*

It was a different photo. I don't think this one is attached to anything important but I did reverse image search my avatar the other day and the search term it came up with was "girl". "

lolololololol I just reverse image searched a guy wanking and it came up with a guy hoovering. I wouldn't take it personally. It's not very clever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made the mistake of using one of my face pics here as my avatar on twitter, some twat searched it and found me there to message me because he couldnt here because of my FILTERS.

He learnt his lesson. And I definitely learnt mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received truck loads of abuse when I put my face pic as my avatar. I also know people who have been 'outed' when they've been less than careful with identifiable pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice. It could wreck your life depending on your circumstances

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I received truck loads of abuse when I put my face pic as my avatar. I also know people who have been 'outed' when they've been less than careful with identifiable pictures. "

Abuse

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I received truck loads of abuse when I put my face pic as my avatar. I also know people who have been 'outed' when they've been less than careful with identifiable pictures.

Abuse

Why?"

Because there are some freaky weirdos on Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because there are some freaky weirdos on Fab! "

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

If we lived in the big city then we wouldn't have face pics up, only reason we did was because we wanted pics showing more than tits & arse therefore they would include H's hair and out here that would mean being recognised.. So we put face pics up.

But then our family & close friends know anyway.

We have been recognised several times but each time those concerned have kept a respectable distance & just nodded or smiled..

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou for the varied thought

I don't have much to hide, (work, family freinds wouldn't be affected), but will err on the side of caution for now.x

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