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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you have then what's your reason?

I've left fab twice and rejoined twice. The first time I was off for about 16mths and came back as I was interested in becoming more actively involved.

The second time I was off for 3/4mths and no idea why I came back. I left because I was bored and think I came back because I was bored. I have no real need to be on here as I really only meet people I already know, or go to clubs.

Maybe I'm just nosy and like to see what my friends are up to, or who's going to be attending events. I used to go in the chatrooms a lot and very rarely do now, I look on the forums and comment on threads that interest me. That's about all I use it for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left because I was bored with the site I came back a few weeks later and found it was still the same so deleted after a week or so.

I left again for about 4 months and I've returned once again to keep in touch with friends I've made both inside and outside the forum. I'm starting to get to that bored stage again, so I just keep hiding and un hiding my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never left. The site is useful for attending club events and keeping in contact with people. When we do leave it will be for good. But I don't think that will happen until we move back to the US.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stalker. i kind of left. keeping that brief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only ever left and re joined as a couple, now I have Mrs M with me.

Although I would like to keep in contact with old friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my third profile since May 2015, I tend just rage quit.

I'd be considering leaving again but I'd probably come back & I have my site supporter paid up til Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is probably my 6th profile

I've left for various reasons including a death threat from a jealous fuck buddy

I get bored

Peoples attitudes make me want to leave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi."

Do I have to say "hi" back?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Boomerang here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi.

Do I have to say "hi" back?"

Hi hi hi hi lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is my third profile since May 2015, I tend just rage quit.

I'd be considering leaving again but I'd probably come back & I have my site supporter paid up til Christmas."

When I left before I'd only just bought site supporters, I was in that mood of stuff it I'm gone. Now I have only had it once since back and wasn't interested in getting it again, until it didn't allow me to upload any new pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi.

Do I have to say "hi" back?

Hi hi hi hi lol "

Quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi.

Do I have to say "hi" back?

Hi hi hi hi lol

Quiet "

You know me better than to be quiet haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm bored I just hide.

I'm far to lazy to go through the hassle of deleting & creating a new one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on and off here for over 5 years...

in the beginning when I left it was usually through boredom as it all gets a bit samey..

the last 2 times I left was because id sort of got into relationships and I have no idea why I came back this last time but it has been my longest stint so far...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on the verge of leaving last night. Then I realised that I'd rather stick pins in my eyes than give someone their victory.

Turns out I do drama queen really well but I'm not going to have a repeat of that anytime soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a profile that we closed down in 2012. We'd been on for about 4/5 years. We left as we had various health problems and needed a clean break from swinging, rather than just hiding our profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was on the verge of leaving last night. Then I realised that I'd rather stick pins in my eyes than give someone their victory.

Turns out I do drama queen really well but I'm not going to have a repeat of that anytime soon "

Glad to hear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get overwhelmed with all the mail and offers of sex sometimes so I just need a break.

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By *hocopopsMan
over a year ago

PDI @ Don Miguel

Yup boomerang here.

just deleted it thinkin i should go back to vanilla living.

Tried it for 2 mnths...and ws back on here. addictive isnt the word lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get overwhelmed with all the mail and offers of sex sometimes so I just need a break. "

If you leave your address, in future, I'm sure the offers could come that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left a few times cause I got bored, been on and off for about 8 or 9 years now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get overwhelmed with all the mail and offers of sex sometimes so I just need a break. "

I bet you hate being objectified too, only wanted for your body.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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When I left before, which was 18 months ago, it was for reasons away from here.

Despite a blip in the matrix yesterday, bloody photo thieves- which I wouldn't wish on anyway nor do I know why any one would do it- I have no intention of disappearing just yet.

I might be an arse sometimes, but we all have our days.

I enjoy the forums too much and you are all rather wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We must of left and come back about 5 times over the past five years, the main reason for leaving each time was because it got boring, like some on here we didn't join the site because we needed to, we joined the site for a bit of extra fun to our already great sex life so we leave when it gets boring on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never left and come back. Seems pointless to do that but im not impulsive generally anyway.

I have deleted my single fem profile that i had from years ago before i met my other half, i wont be opening another one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never left and come back. Seems pointless to do that but im not impulsive generally anyway.

I have deleted my single fem profile that i had from years ago before i met my other half, i wont be opening another one."

When I left I didn't do so with the intention of coming back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had extended maternity leave (3yrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im frequent at leaving and coming back.

I dont give a shit its my life and I will leave and come back as many times as I like.

I left soSIN as was with that one for over a year and old people could message me who I didnt want messaging me.

In the past iv left due to personal reasons or just bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never left and come back. Seems pointless to do that but im not impulsive generally anyway.

I have deleted my single fem profile that i had from years ago before i met my other half, i wont be opening another one.

When I left I didn't do so with the intention of coming back."

Some people do though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted my profile because my life got busy and I have no will power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't leave I just hide. I might leave if I get to the stage where I can't enjoy reading and posting crap on the forum. I enjoy the virtual company of fellow forumites, but Fab no longer has any direct impact on my life outside of participating in the forum.

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

I left because of a stalker. Was also having a few real life issues. Stayed away for about 8 months before setting up new profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left and rejoined twice.

The first time was because someone had traced me on social media and begun stalking me. I was off for 2 years that time.

Second time I left was due to the breakdown of my marriage and no longer requiring our couples profile.

And every so often I'll hide my profile here and pretend to go UNLOS for a few days to get back to reality!

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

I got bored and left.

I got bored and came back.

I got bored and left.

Got bored and came back.

Bored. Leave.

Bored. And here I am. Back.

I lead such an exciting life.

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By *exleypeteMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath


"Never left and come back. Seems pointless to do that but im not impulsive generally anyway.

I have deleted my single fem profile that i had from years ago before i met my other half, i wont be opening another one.

When I left I didn't do so with the intention of coming back.

Some people do though."

Some people do it daily

I just don't get it

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"Never left and come back. Seems pointless to do that but im not impulsive generally anyway.

I have deleted my single fem profile that i had from years ago before i met my other half, i wont be opening another one.

When I left I didn't do so with the intention of coming back.

Some people do though.

Some people do it daily

I just don't get it "

Previously known as PeteBexley ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start a relationship.

The inane messages and occasional abuse has gotten too much.

I simply want to focus my attention elsewhere.

Many reasons for deleting my fabs profiles, all good ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a Fab yo-yo.

Why?

Because I can.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I got bored and left.

I got bored and came back.

I got bored and left.

Got bored and came back.

Bored. Leave.

Bored. And here I am. Back.

I lead such an exciting life. "

Sounds boring TBH

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

Funny how many Unlos there are now on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how many Unlos there are now on this thread "

Perhaps they got abducted & sent back at a later date with a new identity

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I joined a cult in California and they didn’t allow electronic devices…

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