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By *ev257 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Do anyone have any tips on how I can talk my wife in to having a go at swinging??

She has been on a nudist beach with me a few time, we do have a lot of sex outdoors & has been caught a few times & she liked it.Also enjoys having nude pictures taken of herself, but is nervous of taking the final step & having someone else join us or should I just give up trying to convince her.

Any ideas or tips??

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

She can only want to do it if and when she's ready and with people who are right for her. Open, honest communication is the only way to determine your mutual needs and desires. Introduce her socially to some of your friends here.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Show her your profile?

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Does she know you have your own profile on

You can't force her into doing it if she is only comfortable with you

Good luck with it but be careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when people say 'how can i talk someone into something' - i cringe - its been suggested and shes not sure - so leave it be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just talk to her openly about it, that's what I did with my Mrs and she's having the time of her life on here now

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

A chat about fantasies watching porn?

Do a massage course together.

Buy her a Toni massage from a woman

Be nice to her

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"A chat about fantasies watching porn?

Do a massage course together.

Buy her a Toni massage from a woman

Be nice to her"

Is that a new service you don't often hear about at Toni&Guy hair salons ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I have some good news for you. Your wife does swing, we've had a few great, sexy afternoons with her. The last one we arranged a gangbang that 12 vwe men spent a good few hours giving her a real good seeing to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do anyone have any tips on how I can talk my wife in to having a go at swinging??

She has been on a nudist beach with me a few time, we do have a lot of sex outdoors & has been caught a few times & she liked it.Also enjoys having nude pictures taken of herself, but is nervous of taking the final step & having someone else join us or should I just give up trying to convince her.

Any ideas or tips??

"

Yeah go and ask a bunch of people that's never met her...I'm sure you'll get some great advice.

Is pressuring your wife into a threesome (that really won't be great if she's not into it) worth the risk of your marriage?

Seriously, sit down, talk to her, tell her about your profile here....you'll get one of two replies.

You'll have a couples profile or a genuine singles profile. Either way you'll have your answer

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do anyone have any tips on how I can talk my wife in to having a go at swinging??

She has been on a nudist beach with me a few time, we do have a lot of sex outdoors & has been caught a few times & she liked it.Also enjoys having nude pictures taken of herself, but is nervous of taking the final step & having someone else join us or should I just give up trying to convince her.

Any ideas or tips??

"

We don't know her so can't advise on the best way to approach this. You seem to have spoken to her already and established that she hasn't rejected the idea out of hand say maybe just take the discussion one stage further and ask outright if it's a possibility or not.

I don't know if your wife is aware that you're here but another possibility would be to look around the site with her and open up the discussion from there.

If it is just nerves it's only a question of time if she genuinely doesn't want to do it respect that but above all pay her the courtesy of honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont try to get her to swing. If she doesnt want to leave her be.

She is probably asking friends "how do i get my hubby to stop asking me to swing?"...

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

You can't get her to... Some women are more boring than others! Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You can't get her to... Some women are more boring than others! Lol"

The lady in question sounds far from boring to me

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Do anyone have any tips on how I can talk my wife in to having a go at swinging??

She has been on a nudist beach with me a few time, we do have a lot of sex outdoors & has been caught a few times & she liked it.Also enjoys having nude pictures taken of herself, but is nervous of taking the final step & having someone else join us or should I just give up trying to convince her.

Any ideas or tips??

"

show her this profile, see if she fancies it after

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By *ev257 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Thanks for all the advice from everyone.

I have tried talking openly and she knows about my profile on here, plus we do have a couples profile where she has a few pictures on & we do go on cam every now & then.

Looks like that is as far as she wants to go.

She has told me if I want to join in with someone else that's fine, but I want it to be the 2 of us and someone else.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the advice from everyone.

I have tried talking openly and she knows about my profile on here, plus we do have a couples profile where she has a few pictures on & we do go on cam every now & then.

Looks like that is as far as she wants to go.

She has told me if I want to join in with someone else that's fine, but I want it to be the 2 of us and someone else.

Thanks

"

I don't think I'd be happy with her saying that.

Thinking you have a free rein to do as you please sounds like a recipe for disaster later on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the advice from everyone.

I have tried talking openly and she knows about my profile on here, plus we do have a couples profile where she has a few pictures on & we do go on cam every now & then.

Looks like that is as far as she wants to go.

She has told me if I want to join in with someone else that's fine, but I want it to be the 2 of us and someone else.

Thanks

"

Funny how you're only mentioning nownthat you have a couples profile on here and you guys play on cam, what's your couples profile?

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By *layboi69Man
over a year ago

alfreton

Rohipnol (satire btw)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the advice from everyone.

I have tried talking openly and she knows about my profile on here, plus we do have a couples profile where she has a few pictures on & we do go on cam every now & then.

Looks like that is as far as she wants to go.

She has told me if I want to join in with someone else that's fine, but I want it to be the 2 of us and someone else.

Thanks

I don't think I'd be happy with her saying that.

Thinking you have a free rein to do as you please sounds like a recipe for disaster later on."

Agree totally, it's a slippery slope from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rohipnol (satire btw)"

How hilarious you are

Sarcasm btw

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Take her to a club perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe just accept her decision and move on? Nothing smacks of disrespect quite so much as someone constantly trying to chip away at one's boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does she know you have your own profile on

You can't force her into doing it if she is only comfortable with you

Good luck with it but be careful"

This ^^^

And does she know her pics are on your profile too??

(Well who else could they be if you've no meets yet?)

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