FabSwingers.com forum: Offensive

By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Seems to be offensive to say something is offensive these days lol

I got to my broken nail was offensive the other day.... I am fairly sure they were joking though

What does the word offensive mean to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what offends one another is ok with - c'est la vie

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

That thread about prolapsed flanges offended me..

(searches desperately for the chuntering emoji)

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"That thread about prolapsed flanges offended me..

(searches desperately for the chuntering emoji)"

I couldn't even look at that

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Isn't it a term used in American football

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That thread about prolapsed flanges offended me..

(searches desperately for the chuntering emoji)"

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

For the most part I couldn't give a shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"That thread about prolapsed flanges offended me..

(searches desperately for the chuntering emoji)"

Roses not your thing then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People being lying two faced cockwombling, twatwaffles.... That's offensive.

Fuck dickwads!

I also find swearing highly offensive!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

I am

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm offended at the level of personalisation on here tonight

People need to lighten the fuck up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offensive is in the intent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People being lying two faced cockwombling, twatwaffles.... That's offensive.

Fuck dickwads!

I also find swearing highly offensive! "

Ha ha yep of my favourite sayings cockwombles and twatwaffles ha ha thanks for making me chuckle

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Offensive is in the intent. "

Actually it's much like harrasment, nothing to do with the intent but how it is perceived by the other person

You can harrass someone but not intend it just the same as offending

Unless of course you're implying the person intended to offend ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Offensive is in the intent. "

Intent can be in the perception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Offensive is in the intent.

Actually it's much like harrasment, nothing to do with the intent but how it is perceived by the other person

You can harrass someone but not intend it just the same as offending

Unless of course you're implying the person intended to offend ?"

I'm not implying the person intended to offend, I'm stating outright that the person intended to offend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Offensive is in the intent.

Actually it's much like harrasment, nothing to do with the intent but how it is perceived by the other person

You can harrass someone but not intend it just the same as offending

Unless of course you're implying the person intended to offend ?

I'm not implying the person intended to offend, I'm stating outright that the person intended to offend. "

But said person always does that I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say stuff and don't mean to offend, but it could be offensive if the person was easily offended. It's normally the way I word things. Luckily the people I associate with have a sense of humour and know this.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think saying things that are without respect for others and that are reasonably likely to upset, degrade or be abusive to them, could be deemed offensive.

Having an unusual opinion that you express, except where it's similar to the above, is fine, in general terms. But the devil's in the detail - as with many things.

If someone finds themselves causing others to express their offended sensibilities, then it's likely that they could increase their introspection to good effect. I think you'll be fine Evie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Offensive is in the intent.

Intent can be in the perception. "

Of course. But I don't think the two are that easily separated. One usually comes from the other. Context is everything.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Offensive is in the intent.

Actually it's much like harrasment, nothing to do with the intent but how it is perceived by the other person

You can harrass someone but not intend it just the same as offending

Unless of course you're implying the person intended to offend ?

I'm not implying the person intended to offend, I'm stating outright that the person intended to offend. "

Well if that's the case why not just start a "the worlds a disaster because of all these fatties" thread ?

Would be much easier and clearer on the moral of the story rather than get into a narrative about an individual and specific observations

Very misleading

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"People being lying two faced cockwombling, twatwaffles.... That's offensive.

Fuck dickwads!

I also find swearing highly offensive! "

Amen to that sister.

Bastards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Offensive is in the intent.

Actually it's much like harrasment, nothing to do with the intent but how it is perceived by the other person

You can harrass someone but not intend it just the same as offending

Unless of course you're implying the person intended to offend ?

I'm not implying the person intended to offend, I'm stating outright that the person intended to offend.

Well if that's the case why not just start a "the worlds a disaster because of all these fatties" thread ?

Would be much easier and clearer on the moral of the story rather than get into a narrative about an individual and specific observations

Very misleading "

I'm talking in general terms, not specifics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Offensive is in the intent.

Intent can be in the perception.

Of course. But I don't think the two are that easily separated. One usually comes from the other. Context is everything."

Some people say something they know will offend.

Some seem to enjoy trying to offend people.

Some are oblivious as to how their words may offend.

You can tell,mostly, by how someone writes something, or says it, whether the intent is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg!

I knew I should have had an early night!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I think saying things that are without respect for others and that are reasonably likely to upset, degrade or be abusive to them, could be deemed offensive.

Having an unusual opinion that you express, except where it's similar to the above, is fine, in general terms. But the devil's in the detail - as with many things.

If someone finds themselves causing others to express their offended sensibilities, then it's likely that they could increase their introspection to good effect. I think you'll be fine Evie

Ummmm thanks..... I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

However, i now realise that your probably offended by me being offended at your lack of offence to the offenders offence at being offended, in such that not being offended by the offensenders offense would cause offence to the offense of the original offender's offense

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Omg!

I knew I should have had an early night!"

I'm staying awake for this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now im offended by no one taking offense to my offencive offence to the offending offenders offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now im offended by no one taking offense to my offencive offence to the offending offenders offence

I'm offended by your overuse of the word offend!

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Clearly I'm offending everyone tonight so I'm fucking off to bed

Night you beautiful bastards x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now im offended by no one taking offense to my offencive offence to the offending offenders offence

I'm offended by your overuse of the word offend! "

That offends me!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I'm not normally offended by strangers, as they mean nothing to me. I could be hurt and offended by people close to me, if they said something offensive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now im offended by no one taking offense to my offencive offence to the offending offenders offence

I'm offended by your overuse of the word offend!

That offends me!

Good, I intending on doing so

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Clearly I'm offending everyone tonight so I'm fucking off to bed

Night you beautiful bastards x"

Night night! Oh and I have not blocked you....

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Clearly I'm offending everyone tonight so I'm fucking off to bed

Night you beautiful bastards x

Night night! Oh and I have not blocked you....

Thanks appreciate that, there's always tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now im offended by no one taking offense to my offencive offence to the offending offenders offence

I'm offended by your overuse of the word offend!

That offends me!

Good, I intending on doing so

Oh i say!!

Now, im offended that im offended that your offending me!sorry if it offends you that im offended your offending me for being offended by my offence, it's offensive to be offended by a offensive in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

Are you the man, that hit the man, the man around the corner. If you're the man, who hit the man, the man around the corner. Let you go back and tell the man, that your the man, that hit the man, the man around the corner.

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Clearly I'm offending everyone tonight so I'm fucking off to bed

Night you beautiful bastards x

Night night! Oh and I have not blocked you....

Thanks appreciate that, there's always tomorrow

I don't do the blocking unless someone blocks me. Can't see the point in it unless they are sending you unwanted messages. Some people take this site to seriously and get upset over comments from complete strangers! Hey ho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

That sounds like a hit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly I'm offending everyone tonight so I'm fucking off to bed

Night you beautiful bastards x

Night night! Oh and I have not blocked you....

Thanks appreciate that, there's always tomorrow

I don't even know who blocks me to block them. I have 3 people on my blocked list because they pissed me off

and it takes a lot to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is making my head hurt, I could make a serious contribution to the offensive question but it's the wrong time of night for that.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Clearly I'm offending everyone tonight so I'm fucking off to bed

Night you beautiful bastards x

Night night! Oh and I have not blocked you....

Thanks appreciate that, there's always tomorrow

I don't even know who blocks me to block them. I have 3 people on my blocked list because they pissed me off

and it takes a lot to do that "

Good stuff

you're not in the hair trigger section in here then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the Internet it's just a mad box of bull

don't take it to heart and return as Goof as you get that old adage don't get angry get even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

That sounds like a hit

Think it was a hit in the sixties by the group., Stan Milan and his Tin Can Tram

They later did a cover version of the Sweet number one, wigwam bam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

That sounds like a hit

Think it was a hit in the sixties by the group., Stan Milan and his Tin Can Tram

They later did a cover version of the Sweet number one, wigwam bam

Can I just ask did someone really say what you said before to you on a meet?

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

That sounds like a hit

Think it was a hit in the sixties by the group., Stan Milan and his Tin Can Tram

They later did a cover version of the Sweet number one, wigwam bam

Can I just ask did someone really say what you said before to you on a meet?

What a great butt

Can I help find that remote control down the sofa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

That sounds like a hit

Think it was a hit in the sixties by the group., Stan Milan and his Tin Can Tram

They later did a cover version of the Sweet number one, wigwam bam

Can I just ask did someone really say what you said before to you on a meet?

What a great butt

Can I help find that remote control down the sofa?

No I've hidden it

I was referring to Wigan Dave, think it was on another thread though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

That sounds like a hit

Think it was a hit in the sixties by the group., Stan Milan and his Tin Can Tram

They later did a cover version of the Sweet number one, wigwam bam

That kind of hit is allowed

the rest causes offense.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

That sounds like a hit

Think it was a hit in the sixties by the group., Stan Milan and his Tin Can Tram

They later did a cover version of the Sweet number one, wigwam bam

Can I just ask did someone really say what you said before to you on a meet?

What a great butt

Can I help find that remote control down the sofa?

No I've hidden it

I was referring to Wigan Dave, think it was on another thread though. "

Never mind him then.. let's find that.. you first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

That sounds like a hit

Think it was a hit in the sixties by the group., Stan Milan and his Tin Can Tram

They later did a cover version of the Sweet number one, wigwam bam

That kind of hit is allowed

the rest causes offense. "

Ah yes!

But are you offended because it's offensive?, or because it's offensive to be offended by a third party offence,obviously intended to offend the offensive offender??

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

That sounds like a hit

Think it was a hit in the sixties by the group., Stan Milan and his Tin Can Tram

They later did a cover version of the Sweet number one, wigwam bam

That kind of hit is allowed

the rest causes offense.

Ah yes!

But are you offended because it's offensive?, or because it's offensive to be offended by a third party offence,obviously intended to offend the offensive offender??

Damn it Dave I was onto a very important lost property issue with a half naked lady from up north '!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

That sounds like a hit

Think it was a hit in the sixties by the group., Stan Milan and his Tin Can Tram

They later did a cover version of the Sweet number one, wigwam bam

That kind of hit is allowed

the rest causes offense.

Ah yes!

But are you offended because it's offensive?, or because it's offensive to be offended by a third party offence,obviously intended to offend the offensive offender??

I said it causes offense, not that I was offended....no offense intended if you meant to offend and I have unknowingly upended your intent to be rude but am gladly letting that slide as I am not a prude who is easily offended by those causing offense, answer me this...is that an offence?

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

It's late and I'm trying to catch up on this thread. My brain hurts.

Sorry if that offends anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

That sounds like a hit

Think it was a hit in the sixties by the group., Stan Milan and his Tin Can Tram

They later did a cover version of the Sweet number one, wigwam bam

Can I just ask did someone really say what you said before to you on a meet?

Sorry hun, in all the messagings i missed this

Oh yes, it's very true, the lady didn't even get out of her car to greet me, just wound her window down and said, oh my god!, you look like,....

Wasn't good xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just sent you a pm hun xxx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No-one will offend me on here, or the web in general. I just won't allow it to happen. That comes from many years on the site, in chat, attending socials and the forums. There was a time it would but I have learned to see it for what it really is, just words on a screen.

That works for me.

But I can see hurt displayed nearly every day on here from both genders, all sexualities and sizes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not normally offended by strangers, as they mean nothing to me. I could be hurt and offended by people close to me, if they said something offensive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not normally offended by strangers, as they mean nothing to me. I could be hurt and offended by people close to me, if they said something offensive to me.

I can accept that strangers can say something offensive as I understand that was their intention.

But insults have to be damn creative for it to register.

I try not to insult or be 'offensive online' I don't know you well enough, it's just friendly banter. You have to be over 18 on here, act like an adult and get over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so glad I had an early night!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

I was so offended I went to bed and cried, then woke up and felt offended all over again.

Pity party anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being offended for me is temporary, next minute I'm laughing at something completely unrelated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offensive on here in particular is all about the delivery, context & intent.

An opening post with such a sweeping generalisation will always take a turn for the worse & that to me is where the intent comes into play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

But don't hit as it causes offense and don't be offended that I pointed that out

I am not that man,but I know a man that can!

That sounds like a hit

Think it was a hit in the sixties by the group., Stan Milan and his Tin Can Tram

They later did a cover version of the Sweet number one, wigwam bam

Can I just ask did someone really say what you said before to you on a meet?

Sorry hun, in all the messagings i missed this

Oh yes, it's very true, the lady didn't even get out of her car to greet me, just wound her window down and said, oh my god!, you look like,....

Wasn't good xxx"

That's horrible. Hopefully someone will give her a taste of her own medicine

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over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

I was so offended I went to bed and cried, then woke up and felt offended all over again.

Pity party anyone?

Will there be cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well she's just not worth the effort hun, and at the end of the day, she would never be anything like you! Xxx

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

I was so offended I went to bed and cried, then woke up and felt offended all over again.

Pity party anyone?

Will there be cake

Oh for sure

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over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

I was so offended I went to bed and cried, then woke up and felt offended all over again.

Pity party anyone?

Will there be cake

"
im offended that I haven't had chance to be offended, or been offered cake

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

I was so offended I went to bed and cried, then woke up and felt offended all over again.

Pity party anyone?

Will there be cake

im offended that I haven't had chance to be offended, or been offered cake

If you get offended that easily maybe this isn't the place for you?

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"No-one will offend me on here, or the web in general. I just won't allow it to happen. That comes from many years on the site, in chat, attending socials and the forums. There was a time it would but I have learned to see it for what it really is, just words on a screen.

That works for me.

But I can see hurt displayed nearly every day on here from both genders, all sexualities and sizes."

I don't think being sensitive is a bad thing though. Although these days it's seen as an incredibly undesirable characteristic. And I'm not totally sure why that is?

There seems to be two types of offending.

First is when someone's offended and the offender apologises or tried to see it from the point of _iew of the offendee (if that's a word?).

The second is when the offender gets all defensive and says "Oh TRIGGERED!" Or "Get over it, its words on a screen". Or "Everyone gets offended these days, grow up."

Or something.

I see it like accidentally bumping into someone in Tesco. Do you say "Oh sorry" or "Get over it"?

I think you can still hold an opinion whilst saying "I didn't mean to upset you". I think that's valid?

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By *rbane PlayerMan
over a year ago

London

"Seems to be offensive to say something is offensive these days lol

I got to my broken nail was offensive the other day.... I am fairly sure they were joking though

What does the word offensive mean to you? "

On behalf of those who don't know what the word offensive really means, I am offended!! (lol). I joke

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over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

I was so offended I went to bed and cried, then woke up and felt offended all over again.

Pity party anyone?

Will there be cake

im offended that I haven't had chance to be offended, or been offered cake

If you get offended that easily maybe this isn't the place for you?

I reserve my right to be offended wherever i so choose, thank you

And im offended that I cant be offended in peace, an Englishmans offence is his castle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been offended

Put up a post

All I got was

Suck it up

Grow a pair

Grow up ect

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over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

I was so offended I went to bed and cried, then woke up and felt offended all over again.

Pity party anyone?

Will there be cake

im offended that I haven't had chance to be offended, or been offered cake

If you get offended that easily maybe this isn't the place for you?

I reserve my right to be offended wherever i so choose, thank you

And im offended that I cant be offended in peace, an Englishmans offence is his castle

You have a castle....Miss Honey bring the cake...party at Dave's

Let them eat cake

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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It takes a lot to offend me in person, so something on a screen is less likely to do so.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

I was so offended I went to bed and cried, then woke up and felt offended all over again.

Pity party anyone?

Will there be cake

im offended that I haven't had chance to be offended, or been offered cake

If you get offended that easily maybe this isn't the place for you?

I reserve my right to be offended wherever i so choose, thank you

And im offended that I cant be offended in peace, an Englishmans offence is his castle

You have a castle....Miss Honey bring the cake...party at Dave's

Let them eat cake

Is everyone invited? Wouldn't want to offend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being offended is subjective. It has everything to do with you as an individual or a collective, or a group or a society or a community. Your moral conditioning, your religious beliefs. What offends me may not offend you.

“I want to live in a democracy but I never want to be offended again.” Well you’re an idiot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes a lot to offend me in person, so something on a screen is less likely to do so.

This is how I think. It's something else when I see somebody throw sissy fits here because the don't like something that's been said to them.

And if it is 'offensive'. Then I think that's time to think your winning the argument. Time to smile.

These threads are becoming very counter productive anyway.

Maybe that offends in a passive constructive way.

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over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

I was so offended I went to bed and cried, then woke up and felt offended all over again.

Pity party anyone?

Will there be cake

im offended that I haven't had chance to be offended, or been offered cake

If you get offended that easily maybe this isn't the place for you?

I reserve my right to be offended wherever i so choose, thank you

And im offended that I cant be offended in peace, an Englishmans offence is his castle

You have a castle....Miss Honey bring the cake...party at Dave's

Let them eat cake

Is everyone invited? Wouldn't want to offend.

Only madame B and miss honey are invited to eat cake at my castle

Hope everyone else isn't offended, OR DO I!!

Da da daaah ( budget sound effects, spent all the money on cake!)

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"That thread about prolapsed flanges offended me..

(searches desperately for the chuntering emoji)

Roses not your thing then?

A rose by any other name would smell as sweet...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

Very few people object to someone offering an alternative _iew but still maintaining respect for the person they are disagreeing with. This is not offensive. However, I feel not all opinions are expressed in a respectful manner. And some aren't even opinions, more just inflammatory remarks designed to belittle or be dismissive, yet when challenged are justified as an opinion. It's the way something is said that makes it offensive.

Mrs

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over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

I was so offended I went to bed and cried, then woke up and felt offended all over again.

Pity party anyone?

Will there be cake

im offended that I haven't had chance to be offended, or been offered cake

If you get offended that easily maybe this isn't the place for you?

I reserve my right to be offended wherever i so choose, thank you

And im offended that I cant be offended in peace, an Englishmans offence is his castle

You have a castle....Miss Honey bring the cake...party at Dave's

Let them eat cake

Is everyone invited? Wouldn't want to offend.

Only madame B and miss honey are invited to eat cake at my castle

Hope everyone else isn't offended, OR DO I!!

Da da daaah ( budget sound effects, spent all the money on cake!)

Are you claiming expenses for the cake Miss Honey is bringing...next you will be claiming for your moat lol no wonder you can afford the castle

no offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words are not offensive I have never heard or read anything that has offended me, actions on the other hand can be offensive if I walked out my house and caught someone pissing up my door id be offended unless it was a woman then id be impressed.

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over a year ago

"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

I was so offended I went to bed and cried, then woke up and felt offended all over again.

Pity party anyone?

Will there be cake

im offended that I haven't had chance to be offended, or been offered cake

If you get offended that easily maybe this isn't the place for you?

I reserve my right to be offended wherever i so choose, thank you

And im offended that I cant be offended in peace, an Englishmans offence is his castle

You have a castle....Miss Honey bring the cake...party at Dave's

Let them eat cake

Is everyone invited? Wouldn't want to offend.

Only madame B and miss honey are invited to eat cake at my castle

Hope everyone else isn't offended, OR DO I!!

Da da daaah ( budget sound effects, spent all the money on cake!)

Are you claiming expenses for the cake Miss Honey is bringing...next you will be claiming for your moat lol no wonder you can afford the castle

no offence "

Well the moat isn't going to clean itself,and then i really do need a new duck house

However, i do find this extravagance offensive, so im offended that your not more offended by my offence to the offense of offending the offender,ie me

Think im offended by my own offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's Noah Fence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where's Noah Fence?"

Taking a fence somewhere

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over a year ago

Think he was offended by the long range weather forecast and he's in b&q buying some timber

Have to say he's got one hell of private zoo in his back garden, hope he doesn't take offence at me saying that

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over a year ago

"Where's Noah Fence?

Taking a fence somewhere

Just to clarify, that was a play on words kind of thing rather than saying he's taking offence.

*watches the tumble*

Ok glad I've clarified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fencer took offense at his neighbours fence,

'im offended by your offensive fence',he said

'well you better watch out ',his neighbour replied,'as a fencer i have access to pointy swords'

,oh yeah ''replied the man, 'as a fencer i know that your offensive fence offended the fencing officer,causing offense to the fencing community in general

And what the bloody hell is that enormous boat doing there?'

'well im offended by your offending offence to my fence ',said the first man,'and your upsetting all the animals '

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"very little in the context of these forums..

where everyone seems to be either offensive, or offended

This offends me

are you one of those professionally offended people?

Im offended that your not offended by the lady being offended by not being offended in the first place

If you feel offended by this, i apologise and feel i should be offended by the offense by the offensive offender

I was so offended I went to bed and cried, then woke up and felt offended all over again.

Pity party anyone?

Will there be cake

im offended that I haven't had chance to be offended, or been offered cake

If you get offended that easily maybe this isn't the place for you?

I reserve my right to be offended wherever i so choose, thank you

And im offended that I cant be offended in peace, an Englishmans offence is his castle

You have a castle....Miss Honey bring the cake...party at Dave's

Let them eat cake

Is everyone invited? Wouldn't want to offend.

Only madame B and miss honey are invited to eat cake at my castle

Hope everyone else isn't offended, OR DO I!!

Da da daaah ( budget sound effects, spent all the money on cake!)

Are you claiming expenses for the cake Miss Honey is bringing...next you will be claiming for your moat lol no wonder you can afford the castle

no offence

Well the moat isn't going to clean itself,and then i really do need a new duck house

However, i do find this extravagance offensive, so im offended that your not more offended by my offence to the offense of offending the offender,ie me

Think im offended by my own offence

I'm sorry I was off seeking legal advice from my lawyer. I'll bring a cake as you are providing the venue. It seems fair.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Please don't be offended, but I gave up reading by the time I got to the 4th from the end..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be most appreciated, unless you're offended by the word acceptable, in which case im offended that I offended you, unless you're offended that im offended i offended you?

In that case, no offence intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Bollocks!

I've just pressed the wrong button and reported myself, also blocked myself from messaging myself!

Now that find offensive!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"I think saying things that are without respect for others and that are reasonably likely to upset, degrade or be abusive to them, could be deemed offensive.

Having an unusual opinion that you express, except where it's similar to the above, is fine, in general terms. But the devil's in the detail - as with many things.

If someone finds themselves causing others to express their offended sensibilities, then it's likely that they could increase their introspection to good effect. I think you'll be fine Evie

Ummmm thanks..... I think

You're always perfect, just as you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh Bollocks!

I've just pressed the wrong button and reported myself, also blocked myself from messaging myself!

Now that find offensive!!

You could make it up to yourself by friending yourself, and send yourself a little wink for good measure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do, but i think id better not do the little wink as im in tesco

Ooooh matron!!

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By *errible2sumCouple
over a year ago

london

I don't get offended

I think people who feel offended need put things into perspective.

Seems to be the default setting these days.like people have the right not to be offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get offended.

People get offended far too easily and then there's the delicate little souls who get offended on behalf of everyone, how they manage to get through each day I'll never know. It must be hard work being permanently offended

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Seems to be offensive to say something is offensive these days lol

I got to my broken nail was offensive the other day.... I am fairly sure they were joking though

What does the word offensive mean to you? "

its the internet op it full of it as anyone who's been on line for any length of time will tell you.

if someone comes at me online I stand my ground have my say and then walk away because ultimately I don't care what some random stranger thinks of me on the internet .

the reason I stand and have my say is two fold one I'm a passionate guy in the real world who would stand his ground against unwarranted abuse thrown my way so online I behave in much the same way .

secondly I don't stand my ground because I care about the other persons opinion online .I stand my ground purely to show I'm no ones door mat and I can not be bullied or belittle into shutting up .

both of these ways of being are the same on line or off line to me in fact I would say I'm milder on line over such stuff than I am in the real world for the simply reason its just on line it means fuck all in the grand scheme of my life .

where as sometimes things off line can effect my life hence me being not as mild with those I feel maybe trying to mess with my life or my vibe in the real world.

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over a year ago

"I dont get offended.

Yep, that's me I'm afraid (but fortunately I'm not permanently offended, so I'm a happy soul most of the time)

Mrs

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over a year ago

"Where's Noah Fence?

Taking a fence somewhere

Just to clarify, that was a play on words kind of thing rather than saying he's taking offence.

*watches the tumble*

Ok glad I've clarified

*rides in on a big ball of tumble*

I only just realised what his name means, doh!!

I'm such a knobhead.

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over a year ago

"Seems to be offensive to say something is offensive these days lol

I got to my broken nail was offensive the other day.... I am fairly sure they were joking though

What does the word offensive mean to you?

its the internet op it full of it as anyone who's been on line for any length of time will tell you.

if someone comes at me online I stand my ground have my say and then walk away because ultimately I don't care what some random stranger thinks of me on the internet .

the reason I stand and have my say is two fold one I'm a passionate guy in the real world who would stand his ground against unwarranted abuse thrown my way so online I behave in much the same way .

secondly I don't stand my ground because I care about the other persons opinion online .I stand my ground purely to show I'm no ones door mat and I can not be bullied or belittle into shutting up .

where as sometimes things off line can effect my life hence me being not as mild with those I feel maybe trying to mess with my life or my vibe in the real world. "

Great point. It's all very well to say 'I don't get offended, people are too sensitive these days'

But if people are always going out of their way to offend online, how does that affect them in real life?

I have a work colleague who has recently been making fun of another colleague who's autistic, and it's his autistic behaviour that the other colleague finds hilarious.

This has annoyed me on so many levels.

Does this make me a precious little snowflake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont get offended.

Yep, that's me I'm afraid (but fortunately I'm not permanently offended, so I'm a happy soul most of the time)

Mrs"

A nice wee hobby for you then

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

nope, still not offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breaking news...

Noah Fence has just got engaged to the exterior decorator Emma Painter

She intends to hyphenate her name, taking her husbands before her own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noahs greek cousin taki has arrived to celebrate the engagement

His neighbour, mrs nina dbinsout,has just named her first son after taki

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreign news now

Vladimir Putin's daughter Irma,has is set to marry the daughter of mr and mrs dbinsout

She also intends to hyphenate her name, but keeping her family name first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the home front, millionaire

Herbert Grinch,Britain's oldest man at 109,today married Miss Chesty Mc Knickerless, well known twenty one year old porn star

When asked if he was worried about health problems on the honeymoon, Mr Grinch replied,

'well if she can't keep up i can always have a nap!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr and Mrs Crispin Glory,have announced the engagement of their only son Tarquin,to Miss Annette Francis Hole,only daughter of the Rt. hon Sir Godfrey and Lady Hole

The couple will live in the village of Sticky Bottom, Gloucestershire

She has decided not to hyphenate

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I dont get offended.

People get offended far too easily and then there's the delicate little souls who get offended on behalf of everyone, "

You see, I don't see them as delicate. I see them basically as shit-stirers.

(sorry for any offence, obvs)

{shrugs}

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now news with a political twist

Vince cable's son and his parents susan carr,have announced that their recently born baby boy will be christened Alan Pine

Rumour has it they might hyphenate their last names for him

There was no comments about shortening his first name to Al

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Partner,not parents

Damn predicted text!

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