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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Time to reevaluate everything!

So I've been seeing a guy off here for several months, he was my switch partner and professed his undying love.... Blah, blah, blah.

I say this but we really did connect.

I accepted him as dom and also as sub, I accepted him dressed to the 9's in his TV get up and gave him what he wanted - I gave more than I desired because I got a kick out of him feeling accepted and loving him as a tv.

We spent hours and hours socialising and playing - then it turns out all his promises and professions are bullshit!

So I've been suckered into that trap again. Why can't people just be straight and stop telling people what they think they want to hear?

Off to buy another cat.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok, I had someone do something similar, only it was about 18 months after we'd stopped meeting!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's ok, I had someone do something similar, only it was about 18 months after we'd stopped meeting! "

I could deal with that, I'd tell them to jog on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a guy off here telling me he loved me after out first fuck. i told him i didn't feel the same but in time i might be able to. he also used to send about 12 kisses after every message, every single one.

we're not together.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i had a guy off here telling me he loved me after out first fuck. i told him i didn't feel the same but in time i might be able to. he also used to send about 12 kisses after every message, every single one.

we're not together. "

Ah ha! Yea that's just weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a guy off here telling me he loved me after out first fuck. i told him i didn't feel the same but in time i might be able to. he also used to send about 12 kisses after every message, every single one.

we're not together. "

bit extreme! I never put kisses and got moaned at said not changing my ways for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a guy off here telling me he loved me after out first fuck. i told him i didn't feel the same but in time i might be able to. he also used to send about 12 kisses after every message, every single one.

we're not together.

Ah ha! Yea that's just weird "

i was gutted when we split up tbf, but that's what some guys do. they promise you the world just to get what they wanted instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a guy off here telling me he loved me after out first fuck. i told him i didn't feel the same but in time i might be able to. he also used to send about 12 kisses after every message, every single one.

we're not together.

bit extreme! I never put kisses and got moaned at said not changing my ways for you."

i used to hate kisses in messages until i translated them in my head to pussy kisses, like every kiss was gonna go there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He never promised me anything and if he had I'd have likely ran for the hills (well walked)

That's just it, it "grew" organically so I started to think it was OK.

God I'm a twatwaffle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aw, you're not a twat waffle, but yeah most things just grow without planning anything.

well you learned never to presume anything i guess. i need to work on my communication skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a guy off here telling me he loved me after out first fuck. i told him i didn't feel the same but in time i might be able to. he also used to send about 12 kisses after every message, every single one.

we're not together. "

12 x's means nothing, cut and paste xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

nuf said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm off to buy a cat

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Time to reevaluate everything!

So I've been seeing a guy off here for several months, he was my switch partner and professed his undying love.... Blah, blah, blah.

I say this but we really did connect.

I accepted him as dom and also as sub, I accepted him dressed to the 9's in his TV get up and gave him what he wanted - I gave more than I desired because I got a kick out of him feeling accepted and loving him as a tv.

We spent hours and hours socialising and playing - then it turns out all his promises and professions are bullshit!

So I've been suckered into that trap again. Why can't people just be straight and stop telling people what they think they want to hear?

Off to buy another cat....."

All guys are not bullshiters.

Although you'll be more often right than wrong,if you just assume they are.

Ps I bet the new cats a selfish bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a guy off here telling me he loved me after out first fuck. i told him i didn't feel the same but in time i might be able to. he also used to send about 12 kisses after every message, every single one.

we're not together.

12 x's means nothing, cut and paste xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

nuf said "

aw. all the effort for me though. like you have to use 2 hands to copy and paste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm off to buy a cat "

I've got one... I'm not greedy (vet costs really )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a guy off here telling me he loved me after out first fuck. i told him i didn't feel the same but in time i might be able to. he also used to send about 12 kisses after every message, every single one.

we're not together.

12 x's means nothing, cut and paste xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

nuf said

aw. all the effort for me though. like you have to use 2 hands to copy and paste. "

Nah, 2 fingers is all it takes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a guy off here telling me he loved me after out first fuck. i told him i didn't feel the same but in time i might be able to. he also used to send about 12 kisses after every message, every single one.

we're not together.

12 x's means nothing, cut and paste xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

nuf said

aw. all the effort for me though. like you have to use 2 hands to copy and paste.

Nah, 2 fingers is all it takes "

that's still more than one though. happy days.

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