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By *ureTemptation OP   Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

There should be an option to pay a premium and have additional filters and stuff to fill in and it sets up meets for you.

I think it would be easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm so inconsistent and unpredictable in my likes/dislikes that an algorithm would tell me to piss off

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Good idea, something along the lines of filling out a profile, then sending and recieving messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never get a meet that way

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Good idea, something along the lines of filling out a profile, then sending and recieving messages"

And spelling them correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That wouldn't work, I wouldn't use a filter to let site arrange meets for me, I,m a grown up I will choose my own sexual partners x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting concept, I think it would work if it found the matches and popped them into a separate inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An interesting concept, one I'm sure would offer me a refund

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to use my own judgement than rely on some electric virtual algorithm software. I've seen the utter crap that an autosift on CV keywords can do for a recruitment campaign and, good gracious, I wouldn't follow the same technique for potential shenanigans.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"There should be an option to pay a premium and have additional filters and stuff to fill in and it sets up meets for you.

I think it would be easier. "

Goodness, no.

If it's anything like the suggestions that our Tivo box makes when selecting programmes for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say "yes" to every 13th person that mails. Works great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to use my own judgement than rely on some electric virtual algorithm software. I've seen the utter crap that an autosift on CV keywords can do for a recruitment campaign and, good gracious, I wouldn't follow the same technique for potential shenanigans. "

And as with CV keywords, people would just game the system.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Looking at your other thread about being overwhelmed and not being able to sift, you are looking for a process to do it for you.

You will then put so little effort in, the rewards won't be richer.

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By *ureTemptation OP   Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid


"Looking at your other thread about being overwhelmed and not being able to sift, you are looking for a process to do it for you.

You will then put so little effort in, the rewards won't be richer."

I think I'm nervous of getting it wrong. I prefer to chat to get to know someone but appreciate most can't be arsed to do that. By the time I feel I want to meet someone, they've lost interest.

(Or in one case got themselves a girlfriend and I don't do attached people if the partner is unaware.)

I've had a few meets without lots of chat go varying degrees of horribly wrong, and I don't trust my own judgement any more.

I haven't really met anyone new since an awfully scary hotel meet a year ago. Maybe that's affecting me more than I realise?

I'd trust a computers judgement over my own right now!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No thanks

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Just say "yes" to every 13th person that mails. Works great. "
made me chuckle xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just say "yes" to every 13th person that mails. Works great. "
cam o be lucky 13 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way would that be useful to me. I'm a contrary Mary most of the time and fickle as fuck. ...besides i like chatting to potentials and working out if they are meet material or not.

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By *ureTemptation OP   Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid


"Just say "yes" to every 13th person that mails. Works great. "

Gonna try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just say "yes" to every 13th person that mails. Works great. "

Message me when 12 people have messaged you and I'll send you a message haha... Sexy boots btw x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

I'd trust a computers judgement over my own right now!"

Then take a break, your gut must always be the best filter....

Good luck

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By *ureTemptation OP   Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid


"Just say "yes" to every 13th person that mails. Works great.

Message me when 12 people have messaged you and I'll send you a message haha... Sexy boots btw x"

Send me 13 messages? Then you're definitely in.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

If you take out platinum membership, fab delivers them to your door in a stretch limousine, all oiled up and ready for fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just say "yes" to every 13th person that mails. Works great.

Message me when 12 people have messaged you and I'll send you a message haha... Sexy boots btw x

Send me 13 messages? Then you're definitely in. "

Now that sounds like a great plan to me. Wait right there lol x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"No way would that be useful to me. I'm a contrary Mary most of the time and fickle as fuck. ...besides i like chatting to potentials and working out if they are meet material or not. "

How does your garden grow?

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By *ureTemptation OP   Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

Or swingers speed dating. That would be fun.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"There should be an option to pay a premium and have additional filters and stuff to fill in and it sets up meets for you.

I think it would be easier. "

No thanks .

They couldn't follow my requirements on a dating site so God help it on here!!!

And can you imagine if a person knew that they'd been matched to you and you still said no thanks! !

You get abuse for saying not for me as it is that would just open it up to " the computer matched us " or words to that effect

Sorry adult site let's be adults and find the people we want not who the computer thinks we want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No way would that be useful to me. I'm a contrary Mary most of the time and fickle as fuck. ...besides i like chatting to potentials and working out if they are meet material or not.

How does your garden grow? "

With silver bells and cockle shells of course

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Just say "yes" to every 13th person that mails. Works great.

Gonna try it. "

So If I meesage you 14 times in a row then I should be lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could imagine it being almost as shit as Facebook with its people you may know suggestions!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only site I use that gives good suggestions based on interests is Pinterest, and I don't see the owners of fab putting that level of investment in the software.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can't see that working. I'd still have hundreds of people to sift through. They can't match by facial expressions or features or personality.

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