FabSwingers.com forum: Private meets to club meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just throwing it out there are private meets becoming a thing of the past and club and party meets are the way forward to socialising and meeting new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do private meets so I have no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do both private meets and club meets. Thinking back on it, we've been having more club meets than private meets in the last year. However, we would never ask a single guy to meet us in a club - it tends to be couples we meet in clubs. But finding a single guy I'm into who is also into me has been next to impossible lately and so we haven't had private meets.

To extrapolate from our own situation and what I hear from others, many people who used to meet privately only meet in clubs now because of the number of no-shows. At least if they're in a club their night wasn't wasted.

Having said that, I think plenty of people still meet privately. I would hardly call it a thing of the past.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We do both private meets and club meets. Thinking back on it, we've been having more club meets than private meets in the last year. However, we would never ask a single guy to meet us in a club - it tends to be couples we meet in clubs. But finding a single guy I'm into who is also into me has been next to impossible lately and so we haven't had private meets.

Having said that, I think plenty of people still meet privately. I would hardly call it a thing of the past."

Appreciate that view thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just throwing it out there are private meets becoming a thing of the past and club and party meets are the way forward to socialising and meeting new people

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Thanking you"

Nah.

Never do club meets..or hardly ever anyhow. Far far too restrictive for my liking.

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

much prefer private meets, as a single guy have always felt people would think i was desperate going to a club as a single but do enjoy going with a fuck buddy of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets definitely for us

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I only do private meets so I have no idea."

Same. I haven't a clue what you based your conclusion on, OP.....where's your evidence? There ain't none. It's just choices, some do, some don't, same as a lot of things.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We enjoy both private and club meets. We like variety!

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to clubs but much prefer the atmosphere of private meets. Seems to be a more relaxed way of having some fun, for me anyway

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I only do private meets so I have no idea."

Same for us.

Club's hold no appeal for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been to clubs but much prefer the atmosphere of private meets. Seems to be a more relaxed way of having some fun, for me anyway "
see I find private meets very stressful..and much more relaxed and less pressure at clubs.

we all prefer different things ... Personally I prefer club meets.

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By *rbane PlayerMan
over a year ago

London

"Just throwing it out there are private meets becoming a thing of the past and club and party meets are the way forward to socialising and meeting new people

Discuss

Thanking you"

Good question. Thanks. I do think party meets are generally best to actually meet people and also for others to decided whether they like you. Private meets are not to be sniffed at if you can get them, but if you are unknown or just starting out then club meets seen more realistic-?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

They both have advantages and disadvantages.

Private meets provide a meet with a pre arranged partner or group whilst a club meet often provides a wider group of potential partners.

A no show on a private meet means a lost occasion whereas a club provides a variety of partners in event of a no show.

We enjoy both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We by and large prefer clubs/parties these days, and the private meets are generally with regulars. However if we want to meet someone new for the purposes MMF threesomes we would meet for the first time in a pub. We would not arrange a first meet in a club/party, because we tend to do very public orgy stuff at parties or meet up with our friends, therefore would not want to focus on a new guy. However if they happen to be attending the same party as us then that's fine. We only play couples at parties, as we have no interest in meeting couples privately for foursomes or swaps.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would do an organised meet at a club but dont think i would go without confirming a meet or anything like that.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We do both it depends on each couple, private meets are good but if neither couple can accommodate then clubs can be useful. Sometimes we go to clubs just for the chance to socialise.

All types of meets have there place in our fun.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

With one exception (which was with friends we'd previously met in a club) we've only ever met in clubs, and like the spontaneity of meeting people that allows. That said we wouldn't totally rule out meeting elsewhere if we'd previously met people socially and were confident that (a) they wouldn't be a no show and more importantly (b) that we wanted to play with them.

As others have said it all comes down to personal preference and circumstances though.

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think for clubs it's good from a social point of view because you meet like minded people and not saying you are guaranteed fun but the impact of being sexually intimate with someone I was say is much greater thanumber private meet. Private meets are good in comfort of your own home, and I'm not dismissing them completely. However like a person on here said before club meets seem to be less of a headache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like club meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never do private meets. Club meets only and that's not going to change anytime soon.

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