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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know that this is odd coming from a guy and i know its not all guys i definitely don't do it. Im bi and yes i love to suck a nice fat cock as much as i love to eat pussy and ass but the amount of messages i get from guys saying stuff like " whats your post coad get your dick out I'll come over " or

" fuck n go I'll fuck you n go where are you"

Or

" suck me now i will fuck you '

Or

" can i spunk in your mouth "

Its just like no no no no no come on guys dose no one say hello any more dose no one have some god dam respect anymore anyway sorry rant over

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

Us women get those messages too fairly constantly.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

Some of these guys cant get laid in vanilla world, so they come on to a site like fab, with there three word introduction (fancy a fuck), and can't understand why after a year they've got nowhere.

Treat fab is like a bar, a club, the British legion, Darby and jones, a concert.

You have to speak to people, or you'll get a slap(the block button)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Us women get those messages too fairly constantly. "
i have got 6 in half an hour today its like so how maybe people do i say no to before i have to block them or they block me because i said no

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Try being a woman!

On my single account I had to block all messages because I was getting several a day like this. It's no wonder single men on here struggle to get replies when the ladies inboxes are full of this type of shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't particularly care if I get those messages - it's easy to see from the first line without even opening them that they aren't someone I'm going to be interested in, so they're quickly deleted. If I was that bothered I'd block all messages and message people myself.

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By *ockerMrBloggs6969Man
over a year ago

nr you but not too near

Makes I giggle when someone states outside world as vanilla..eh nut,there's plenty flavours out there.ya don't have to come on here to get choc/raspberry ripples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try being a woman!

On my single account I had to block all messages because I was getting several a day like this. It's no wonder single men on here struggle to get replies when the ladies inboxes are full of this type of shit"
it must not be fun i mean i get loads a day and i get annoyed haha

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London


"Makes I giggle when someone states outside world as vanilla..eh nut,there's plenty flavours out there.ya don't have to come on here to get choc/raspberry ripples"

Just like how they call this site a swingers site, and there isn't a swing in site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had many of those, considering the thousands of messages I must have had in the time I've been here.

I'm going to assume they think all men are like them and will fuck or suck at the drop of a hat.

It's the full ball syndrome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that this is odd coming from a guy and i know its not all guys i definitely don't do it. Im bi and yes i love to suck a nice fat cock as much as i love to eat pussy and ass but the amount of messages i get from guys saying stuff like " whats your post coad get your dick out I'll come over " or

" fuck n go I'll fuck you n go where are you"

Or

" suck me now i will fuck you '

Or

" can i spunk in your mouth "

Its just like no no no no no come on guys dose no one say hello any more dose no one have some god dam respect anymore anyway sorry rant over "

I've just copied and pasted most of the above. I'll let you know my hit rate from the messeges I send.

*thats why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,'ve had lots of instant fuck required messages XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I,'ve had lots of instant fuck required messages XXX"
not fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, for single women that's usually a regular occurence to get messages like that. Its one of the reasons I've blocked everyone and search myself. I really cannot understand people that do this, do they really think anyone will be imperessed with that crude immature rubbish? Maybe it works once in a while, maybe they have no social skills or maybe they just assume as this is an adult site, its how you should approach people? Who knows. All I know is they don't bother me anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As others have said, for single women that's usually a regular occurence to get messages like that. Its one of the reasons I've blocked everyone and search myself. I really cannot understand people that do this, do they really think anyone will be imperessed with that crude immature rubbish? Maybe it works once in a while, maybe they have no social skills or maybe they just assume as this is an adult site, its how you should approach people? Who knows. All I know is they don't bother me anymore "
well im glad they don't and i dont understand why they do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on....you mean single women and couples don't like these kind of messages?

*goes off for a long hard think about restructuring message technique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering what guys are after, the least they can do is show some respect. If they went up to a girl in a bar and said "fancy a fuck?", they'll get nowhere! Reading profiles to see what a woman's wishes are for her own body, isn't difficult and shows respect. It's shocking how many don't bother. Then have the nerve to send abuse back because I've deleted their disrespectful first message. Far too many guys act like they're entitled to something.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Fab is all about etiquette if you do things the correct polite way you get meets if not you don't get meets simple, you catch more bee's with honey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once replied to a fancy a fuck message with a polite no thanks then got asked why the hell not, its a sex site, then was called a timewaster! Got to love this place at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always amazed that people come on a site, see photos of genitals and sex talk and think that people might be looking for sex. How dare they!!!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Fab is all about etiquette if you do things the correct polite way you get meets if not you don't get meets simple, you catch more bee's with honey."

I can confirm that this is correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering what guys are after, the least they can do is show some respect. If they went up to a girl in a bar and said "fancy a fuck?", they'll get nowhere! Reading profiles to see what a woman's wishes are for her own body, isn't difficult and shows respect. It's shocking how many don't bother. Then have the nerve to send abuse back because I've deleted their disrespectful first message. Far too many guys act like they're entitled to something."

I hate to dissagree but back when I was a lot younger I had some of my best times with the line fancy a fuck! and was a start of a few longish term relationships

But here it seems that a lot are looking for more than just sex and there are a lot of woman who enjoy the thought of a seccond boyfriend

I'm nit saying anything is wrong but sometimes it's good to just get you're intentions right out in the open at the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always amazed that people come on a site, see photos of genitals and sex talk and think that people might be looking for sex. How dare they!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The useless messages from men are usually just enough to be read without opening the message so easy to delete.

I did once get a 'fancy a fuck?' message off a lady so said yes and got sex from it. I also once sent my 'gizzashagyabitch' message to a lady and got a shag from that.

If I'm in an interactive mood, if I get sent a 'fancy a shag?' from a man, I say 'yes, but not with you' then block and delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that this is odd coming from a guy and i know its not all guys i definitely don't do it. Im bi and yes i love to suck a nice fat cock as much as i love to eat pussy and ass but the amount of messages i get from guys saying stuff like " whats your post coad get your dick out I'll come over " or

" fuck n go I'll fuck you n go where are you"

Or

" suck me now i will fuck you '

Or

" can i spunk in your mouth "

Its just like no no no no no come on guys dose no one say hello any more dose no one have some god dam respect anymore anyway sorry rant over "

Willing to travel shows commitment.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Fab is all about etiquette if you do things the correct polite way you get meets if not you don't get meets simple, you catch more bee's with honey.

I can confirm that this is correct "

Looking at your profile i bet you attract lots of bee's lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering what guys are after, the least they can do is show some respect. If they went up to a girl in a bar and said "fancy a fuck?", they'll get nowhere! Reading profiles to see what a woman's wishes are for her own body, isn't difficult and shows respect. It's shocking how many don't bother. Then have the nerve to send abuse back because I've deleted their disrespectful first message. Far too many guys act like they're entitled to something.

I hate to dissagree but back when I was a lot younger I had some of my best times with the line fancy a fuck! and was a start of a few longish term relationships

But here it seems that a lot are looking for more than just sex and there are a lot of woman who enjoy the thought of a seccond boyfriend

I'm nit saying anything is wrong but sometimes it's good to just get you're intentions right out in the open at the start. "

You acquired a girlfriend from saying to her "fancy a fuck?".

Profiles are there to state your intentions. If only they were read before messaging then a lot of guys would save their own time from being wasted.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London


"Considering what guys are after, the least they can do is show some respect. If they went up to a girl in a bar and said "fancy a fuck?", they'll get nowhere! Reading profiles to see what a woman's wishes are for her own body, isn't difficult and shows respect. It's shocking how many don't bother. Then have the nerve to send abuse back because I've deleted their disrespectful first message. Far too many guys act like they're entitled to something.

I hate to dissagree but back when I was a lot younger I had some of my best times with the line fancy a fuck! and was a start of a few longish term relationships

But here it seems that a lot are looking for more than just sex and there are a lot of woman who enjoy the thought of a seccond boyfriend

I'm nit saying anything is wrong but sometimes it's good to just get you're intentions right out in the open at the start. "

That's why your still to be verified

Fancy a fuck

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Fab is all about etiquette if you do things the correct polite way you get meets if not you don't get meets simple, you catch more bee's with honey.

I can confirm that this is correct

Looking at your profile i bet you attract lots of bee's lol"

Among other insects

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

Do you fuck on 1st dates?

Does your dad own a brewery?

Can I feel your tits?

Or will you them too me?

Well you gotta nice face

and you look pretty honest!

Me face will be leaving in 1/4 of an hour.....

Id like you to be on it!!!

So I'm guessing this ain't a good chat up line then? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair It doesnt matter what you put by the sounds of it. I message telling that person a bit about myself but it still get deleted and quite often Deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most guys don't message me like that but they send the generic 'i'm not making much effort' text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a woman!

On my single account I had to block all messages because I was getting several a day like this. It's no wonder single men on here struggle to get replies when the ladies inboxes are full of this type of shit"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The messages that make me smile to myself in disbelief are it's a shame you're not closer.

Like I would have no say in whether I would or wouldn't be having sex with the sender. And the only thing to prevent it is distance.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"Us women get those messages too fairly constantly.

Starting to get them as well, consideringI am a CD as well.

I usually just delete them, I expect to see more why do I not get meets threads appearing here soon."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us women get those messages too fairly constantly. i have got 6 in half an hour today its like so how maybe people do i say no to before i have to block them or they block me because i said no "

Have you set your filters OP? Or would doing this also put a stop on what you're looking for? If that's the case, unfortunately you'll just have to grit your teeth and keep deleting the unwanted messages!

Hope you get it sorted though and are able to enjoy Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i actually had a guy message me offering to pay ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering what guys are after, the least they can do is show some respect. If they went up to a girl in a bar and said "fancy a fuck?", they'll get nowhere! Reading profiles to see what a woman's wishes are for her own body, isn't difficult and shows respect. It's shocking how many don't bother. Then have the nerve to send abuse back because I've deleted their disrespectful first message. Far too many guys act like they're entitled to something."

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