FabSwingers.com forum: standards too high

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You have met someone, so why impossible?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

Hold out. You go girl, it's worked before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

And why are your standards too high?

You might not meet other people's standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any woman you talk to now is going to wonder if she's below standard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you're after.

If you have a vision of your ideal meet, but they have to meet 20 strict criteria that they absolutely must meet, then the pool of likely matches is going to be lower than if you only had 5 strict criteria.

And then - even if you find someone who you think is perfect, they then need to like you!

Normally I'd say to people stick to your guns and don't lower your standards. But if they're unobtainable standards then I'd say re_iew your criteria to decide which you are flexible on so you're more realistic about what what you want and what you can achieve!

Gosh that was all a little long-winded wasn't it!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just fuck anything with a pulse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

Just a suggestion, but don't use that as a chat up line

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Any woman you talk to now is going to wonder if she's below standard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing on the profile to care what the standards are ....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

What do you class as too high? Do you warrant them being so high? Seeing as you don't have any picture evidence as what the ladies need to live up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never compromise

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Never compromise

I totally agree to this

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Just fuck anything with a pulse.

That used to be our standard, but we had to lower it...

Mr ddc

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"Never compromise

I totally agree to this

Me too. Don't think it would work if you compromised what you're looking for. You have standards for a reason.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

And why are your standards too high?

You might not meet other people's standards."

Exactly right. He doesn't meet my standards. Too short too old doesn't drink doesn't smoke and sounds like he thinks he's too good for most people. Not for me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll find that with a lot of people.

They expect Harrods when they're only a corner shop themselves!

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"You'll find that with a lot of people.

They expect Harrods when they're only a corner shop themselves!"

I'm a Tesco's Express.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I have standards!

If you don't like them, I have others

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

And why are your standards too high?

You might not meet other people's standards.

Exactly right. He doesn't meet my standards. Too short too old doesn't drink doesn't smoke and sounds like he thinks he's too good for most people. Not for me at all"

I wouldn't meet him because he can't spell discreat.

Discrete.

Discr - dammit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean you're going to be looking for BBWs now?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Never compromise

This

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"You'll find that with a lot of people.

They expect Harrods when they're only a corner shop themselves!"

Haha I like

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

And why are your standards too high?

You might not meet other people's standards.

Exactly right. He doesn't meet my standards. Too short too old doesn't drink doesn't smoke and sounds like he thinks he's too good for most people. Not for me at all

I wouldn't meet him because he can't spell discreat.

Discrete.

Discr - dammit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just fuck anything with a pulse.

That used to be our standard, but we had to lower it...

Mr ddc"

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By *ina75Woman
over a year ago

Stone

Depends what you are aiming for, If you just want a bit of fun, then your standards should be flexible otherwise you may be missing out on a bit of fun. But if you are trying to find a perfect mate then is Fab the right place for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

i think you've shot yourself in the foot there, fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

Yeah definitely lower your standards!

Go for fat birds or old fat birds they always want to fuck shadows with bad personalities!

You're in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was the impossible, anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you think the things you're looking for are unobtainable?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

Why would you lower your standards

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If you think your standards are too high then this is the thread for thee:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/559548

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"If you think your standards are too high then this is the thread for thee:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/559548

On a different note, whenever I see this kind of thread "standard too high", I wonder how many people whom we've met, actually lower their standard to meet us.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Most people have to lower something to meet me.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

Here's a handy tip: Find the ugliest gal on fab and send her a message.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You mean you're going to be looking for BBWs now?"

Why would that be considered to be lowering ones standards? !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

Your latter option. Otherwise you sound desperate for a shag. I've not had enough coffee yet, this might sound bitchy

Maybe you should meet somewhere in the middle. Like, be realistic to who may be on here. I'm still looking for a rich bikini model who's 5,8" and loves manchester accents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just fuck anything with a pulse.

Just fuck anything that's warm. Even with no pulse you could still save them

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"well im back on here after being away because ive set my standards too high in the past and think its time to lower them.

or should i stick with my guns and hold out for the impossible

Personally, I don't prescribe to the concept of "standards". The whole idea that someone else is inferior or superior just doesn't wash with me.

When it comes to potential meets on here, we have a simple system. Do we find them attractive? If we do, then we'd be willing to meet.

Although it does get more complicated, as how attractive a person appears can change (either way), particularly when their personality is expressed.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A truly wonderful gift may not be wrapped as you would expect!!

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