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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings" Yes. It was the 90's and I had a lot of cider. | |||
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings" Yes XXX | |||
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"and who's to say we haven't been the unattractive people in the past? " | |||
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"Sadly, I'm 'that' other person I'm sure there's been many WTF! moments from others I've met over the years! " you'll wear out the strings on me violin Dan! | |||
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up " That's coyote ugly | |||
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings" no OP I don't get d*unk on grounds of being a control freak so the answer is I've always had my wits about me so I have no excuse to who I've slept with which means I've never woke up in the morning thinking why did I fuck her . I wake up knowing full well why I fucked her it was because I wanted to plain and simple be she gods gift or miss average slim or chubby she was my choice not the alcohols choice . so regrets my end | |||
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up " Gnaw your arm off..that so made me giggle! | |||
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up That's coyote ugly" | |||
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up Gnaw your arm off..that so made me giggle! " fancy meeting a 1 armed man | |||
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings no OP I don't get d*unk on grounds of being a control freak so the answer is I've always had my wits about me so I have no excuse to who I've slept with which means I've never woke up in the morning thinking why did I fuck her . I wake up knowing full well why I fucked her it was because I wanted to plain and simple be she gods gift or miss average slim or chubby she was my choice not the alcohols choice . so regrets my end " Paradise where you are innit, what, what? | |||
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up " Ah shit, sorry about that. I know I looked a bit rough that particular morning, but I do scrub up well ya know | |||
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings" I have years ago when I was an innocent lol. I thought it was expected and I'm was to polite to say no. Didn't do a social back then. Went purely by his pics online. He booked a hotel. I knocked on the door. He obviously answered. I walked him and after turning around to look at him probably I could clearly see he was much much older then he'd previously let on. I went on with the evening. He gave me lots of vodka which I drank due to nerves. Sex happened. I let it. Next morning I rush out as fast as I could crying, shaking and angry with myself for going through with it. Never again! This is one reason why I insist on socials, chats on kik with swapping very resent face pics before promising further meet ups. | |||
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves " How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person? | |||
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"Sadly, I'm 'that' other person I'm sure there's been many WTF! moments from others I've met over the years! " this for me too but then again drink account's for meny encounters of youth | |||
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up Ah shit, sorry about that. I know I looked a bit rough that particular morning, but I do scrub up well ya know " You do look better when yer slap a bit of lippy on | |||
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person?" Quite easily lol Engage your brain and everything else falls into place Theres alot more to attraction than meets the eye | |||
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person?" I get one on a bus So a naked body is no problem | |||
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"I'd love to say that going out, getting d*unk and waking up next to someone I'm not massively attracted is all consigned to my youth, but... " With you brother! | |||
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person? I get one on a bus So a naked body is no problem " oh my gosh. Why??! lol. What is so sexy about the morning commute lol? | |||
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person? I get one on a bus So a naked body is no problem oh my gosh. Why??! lol. What is so sexy about the morning commute lol?" I think it's the vibration . I'm sooo easily pleased | |||
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person? Quite easily lol Engage your brain and everything else falls into place Theres alot more to attraction than meets the eye " Ah you simply imagine it's another woman whom you adore that's under you? Naughty boy! Lol. | |||
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person? I get one on a bus So a naked body is no problem oh my gosh. Why??! lol. What is so sexy about the morning commute lol? I think it's the vibration . I'm sooo easily pleased " If the bus turns you on, I dread to think what you're like in the gym surrounded by those beauty lycra clad ladies lol | |||
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person? Quite easily lol Engage your brain and everything else falls into place Theres alot more to attraction than meets the eye Ah you simply imagine it's another woman whom you adore that's under you? Naughty boy! Lol." No not at all, i know fine well who im with at all times and i dont try and make a diamond out of a pebble, I just get stuck in and get the job done Everyones a winner | |||
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person? I get one on a bus So a naked body is no problem oh my gosh. Why??! lol. What is so sexy about the morning commute lol? I think it's the vibration . I'm sooo easily pleased If the bus turns you on, I dread to think what you're like in the gym surrounded by those beauty lycra clad ladies lol" Yeah . I need professional help don't I? | |||
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person?" oh so true sadly us heterosexual guys are biologically programed to go hard when faced with tits and a ripe fanny . which sadly means we are capable of fucking any woman cant guarantee a good fuck but we are capable of the act when faced with the female form no matter how unappealing that form maybe | |||
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"I've been the "other person" and fair play to her, she didn't even try and hide her dissapointment. She did say she thought I was my better looking mate, all I could reply with was "Soz, he's in the other room with your better looking mate!" " Hi 5 | |||
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person? I get one on a bus So a naked body is no problem oh my gosh. Why??! lol. What is so sexy about the morning commute lol? I think it's the vibration . I'm sooo easily pleased If the bus turns you on, I dread to think what you're like in the gym surrounded by those beauty lycra clad ladies lol Yeah . I need professional help don't I? " lol. I wouldn't complain | |||
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"I've been the "other person" and fair play to her, she didn't even try and hide her dissapointment. She did say she thought I was my better looking mate, all I could reply with was "Soz, he's in the other room with your better looking mate!" Hi 5 " | |||
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person? oh so true sadly us heterosexual guys are biologically programed to go hard when faced with tits and a ripe fanny . which sadly means we are capable of fucking any woman cant guarantee a good fuck but we are capable of the act when faced with the female form no matter how unappealing that form maybe " How hilarious lol. | |||
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"I've been the "other person" and fair play to her, she didn't even try and hide her dissapointment. She did say she thought I was my better looking mate, all I could reply with was "Soz, he's in the other room with your better looking mate!" " So quick and witty, I always think of good comebacks way after the fact. | |||
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"Yes quite a lot in the beginning but Hubby has since introduced a "no pity shags" rule!" I couldnt put anyone into a class of pity shag | |||
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"I've been the "other person" and fair play to her, she didn't even try and hide her dissapointment. She did say she thought I was my better looking mate, all I could reply with was "Soz, he's in the other room with your better looking mate!" Hi 5 " *stores riposte for future use* | |||
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"Yes quite a lot in the beginning but Hubby has since introduced a "no pity shags" rule! I couldnt put anyone into a class of pity shag " To me the pity shag is kind of selfish outlook, why fuk so.eone if your not fully interested how much fun they have | |||
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"and who's to say we haven't been the unattractive people in the past? " Can we pretend this is the Match thread so I can be the unattractive one in your future? | |||
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up Ah shit, sorry about that. I know I looked a bit rough that particular morning, but I do scrub up well ya know You do look better when yer slap a bit of lippy on " Canna beat a bit of bj lippy | |||
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"Yep had a wank recently and couldn't believe how ugly the fucker I'd just given a handjob to was. Couldn't look his face in the mirror. So embarrassing " Have you heard from them since? | |||
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings" No. | |||
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"Sadly, I'm 'that' other person I'm sure there's been many WTF! moments from others I've met over the years! you'll wear out the strings on me violin Dan!" Surely a little vibrato on the G string wouldn't go amiss? | |||
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up Gnaw your arm off..that so made me giggle! " me too lol | |||
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"The problem here is determining what is meant by “attraction.” I can be sexually aroused by a man or woman I’m not aesthetically attracted to. Notice I didn’t say “physically attracted,” since, by definition, I wouldn’t be having sex with them if some physical attraction weren’t involved. But the arousal comes from their own desire and/or skill. If those things sync up well with mine, then they would have to be horribly repulsive in appearance for me not to respond. Does that even make sense....on the vino early tonight!!! " perfect sense your talking about if there sexual animal gels with your sexual animal you would be a fool not to go there , [people often forget that the biggest sex organ in the human body is our brains . now pass me some of that vino please | |||
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"and who's to say we haven't been the unattractive people in the past? " | |||
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"Yes but cos my libido was so high." bad girl over the knee you go | |||
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"Yep had a wank recently and couldn't believe how ugly the fucker I'd just given a handjob to was. Couldn't look his face in the mirror. So embarrassing Have you heard from them since? " Yep the fucker is still there every time I look in the mirror | |||
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"Yes but cos my libido was so high. bad girl over the knee you go " I should do it more often then | |||
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"Yes but cos my libido was so high. bad girl over the knee you go I should do it more often then " yes you should and with in arms length | |||
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"Yes but cos my libido was so high. bad girl over the knee you go I should do it more often then yes you should and with in arms length " | |||
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings" Yes, several times with the same girl. I never learn | |||
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"In my 20s, out for my birthday with a group of friends. friend of a friend took a shine to me. For lots of reasons she wasn't my thing. About 3am everyone else went to bed, she wouldn't stop flirting. Decided shagging her was the best way to get some sleep!" A very mercenary approach. But funny | |||
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"I've been the "other person" and fair play to her, she didn't even try and hide her dissapointment. She did say she thought I was my better looking mate, all I could reply with was "Soz, he's in the other room with your better looking mate!" So quick and witty, I always think of good comebacks way after the fact." Yep. That's a great response . I'm the same, and I often think "if only I'd said this or that" after the event. The French actually have a phrase for it - L'esprit de l'escalier | |||
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings" No to both of the situations. | |||
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"Wow are the couples telling me you have only met people where both of you find both of the other couple attractive?? Really? " Yup. No pity shags here, or "taking one for the team". We have even turned a couple down because I (Mart) didn't "gel" with the bloke, even though I wouldn't have been shagging him lol! We have to like the whole package, or its hasta la vista, baby! | |||
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"Wow are the couples telling me you have only met people where both of you find both of the other couple attractive?? Really? Yup. No pity shags here, or "taking one for the team". We have even turned a couple down because I (Mart) didn't "gel" with the bloke, even though I wouldn't have been shagging him lol! We have to like the whole package, or its hasta la vista, baby! " I think we have a different viewpoint. There are very few people we meet that I would say attract me. But then I'm not looking for a new partner I have the one I want. I think for that reason I prefer orgy rooms and clubs where the sex and stimulation are the key. It is about the experience not feeling attracted to the person giving it to you. Attraction is for different things entirely | |||
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings" I have...A Few times. I just end up not doing anything or in times where ive been d*unk ive got tf out of there the next day lol | |||
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