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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Were you always a bit free and easy with the lovin, has swinging made you more promiscuous?

Mrs had always been extremely shy and never one for outrageous antics.

In fact she is a completely different person from this time five years ago.

Have you changed?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes. For the better, I'd say.

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley

Before swinging I was in a long term monogamous relationship. Even though it wasn't a very happy one - and even if I'd heard of it - I doubt I could have coped with the guilt of swinging whilst in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Before swinging I was in a long term monogamous relationship. Even though it wasn't a very happy one - and even if I'd heard of it - I doubt I could have coped with the guilt of swinging whilst in a relationship."

Guilt?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We've always had an 'edgy' sex life, a little out of the norm we'll say, this is pretty much keeping that side intact, if it wasn't swinging we'd be getting extra sexual kicks from some other source.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

No, I've not changed... social media has just made it easier. Much, much easier

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley


"Before swinging I was in a long term monogamous relationship. Even though it wasn't a very happy one - and even if I'd heard of it - I doubt I could have coped with the guilt of swinging whilst in a relationship.

Guilt? "

I don't mean swinging as a couple - I mean coming on as a 'single' behind my partners back - ie adultery.

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

I was "happily" married until earlier this year. We always had a great sex life but she cheated on me, that was the end of that.

Being heartbroken but still horny I kind of want to still enjoy great sex with new people until I'm ready to fall in love again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretty much always sensed I was different from other women friends.

Now I know I why.

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley


"I was "happily" married until earlier this year. We always had a great sex life but she cheated on me, that was the end of that.

Being heartbroken but still horny I kind of want to still enjoy great sex with new people until I'm ready to fall in love again."

I think a lot of singles are here as a break from getting hurt before the next relationship comes along!

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath


"I was "happily" married until earlier this year. We always had a great sex life but she cheated on me, that was the end of that.

Being heartbroken but still horny I kind of want to still enjoy great sex with new people until I'm ready to fall in love again.

I think a lot of singles are here as a break from getting hurt before the next relationship comes along! "

It makes sense I guess, I'm sexually available but not emotionally right now.

The idea of losing my inhibitions with someone sexually and not worrying about who else she might be sleeping with just seems so liberating!

Oh and I've just noticed the op username. Bingpot!

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley


"I was "happily" married until earlier this year. We always had a great sex life but she cheated on me, that was the end of that.

Being heartbroken but still horny I kind of want to still enjoy great sex with new people until I'm ready to fall in love again.

I think a lot of singles are here as a break from getting hurt before the next relationship comes along!

It makes sense I guess, I'm sexually available but not emotionally right now.

The idea of losing my inhibitions with someone sexually and not worrying about who else she might be sleeping with just seems so liberating!

Oh and I've just noticed the op username. Bingpot! "

I think fab's the ideal place to be between relationships - not getting hurt - but not hurting others either - and able to make real friendships as well as having great sex!

If more women were aware of swinging, and there wasn't such a stigma attached to it for women - I believe the male/female ratio on here would be far more balanced - and a lot less singles would rush into another relationship for the sake of it!

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"No, I've not changed... social media has just made it easier. Much, much easier"

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I was "happily" married until earlier this year. We always had a great sex life but she cheated on me, that was the end of that.

Being heartbroken but still horny I kind of want to still enjoy great sex with new people until I'm ready to fall in love again."

Admire your honesty

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly believe that a major event in my formative years dislocated the idea of love and sex being linked, and no matter how much reasoning I try I can't put them back together.

I'm not saying you can't have srex with someone you love, but you don't have to love someone to have sex with them, and you don't have to have sex to love someone.

So I guess I've been of the swinging mindset all of my adult life, some would say I'm broken, but I prefer evolved

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We have both changed dramatically since deciding to embark on a swinging lifestyle. We have been Happily married for many many years and this has only ever been a bit of additional fun to what was and still is an enjoyable sex life. What we have noticed however is that Alexis is far more confident that she ever has ever been, not all down to swinging but a significant part of it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh god yes ive changed- 10 yr ago i would have at a tenth of what i get up to now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm smilier, happier and more confident. And that applies to the real world, not just Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have both changed dramatically since deciding to embark on a swinging lifestyle. We have been Happily married for many many years and this has only ever been a bit of additional fun to what was and still is an enjoyable sex life. What we have noticed however is that Alexis is far more confident that she ever has ever been, not all down to swinging but a significant part of it is."
Jools is too!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I was celibate for 14 years before this malarkey. The sex isn't the real change, though. That's being on a forum. The lounge is my first and only online forum.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I am not a swinger

So called swining is bollocks its 1950s

I am, and always have been, a libertine/ polymourous

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Or even swinging ( swining)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger as I'm single but I have always enjoyed sex..

well, apart from when I was married..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you changed? "

No.

Swinging is just an occasional bit of fun. Sometimes there's a bit of an ego boost but it's only ever superficial and means nothing.

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