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"Some dogs just cry when separated from owner He may not be neglecting the dog. Better to chat to neighbour first" I would if he'd answer his door. | |||
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"Possibly. It's definitely neighbour cruelty having to listen the whining all day long so I'd have to say something to them as a first point of call then see what happens next " Some people give out when a dog barks at anytime | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours?" Um. | |||
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"Possibly. It's definitely neighbour cruelty having to listen the whining all day long so I'd have to say something to them as a first point of call then see what happens next Some people give out when a dog barks at anytime " I'm not giving out. I'm concerned. | |||
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"Do you get on with your neighbour? If so, then it will be easier to make a direct approach and maybe say "I don't want to appear nosey or anything, but....." If you don't get on though, it does make things trickier, because even if you make an anonymous report, chances are the neighbour will work out it's you. Hope the situation is resolved amicably OP! " He's not the approachable type and never answers his door. | |||
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"Possibly. It's definitely neighbour cruelty having to listen the whining all day long so I'd have to say something to them as a first point of call then see what happens next Some people give out when a dog barks at anytime I'm not giving out. I'm concerned. " That is animal cruelty and I would love if you would report him. I have a German Shepherd and a pug who are indoor dogs.. I work from home in the morning rather than leave them on their own.. They need their pack so that situation is neglect. | |||
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"I'm concerned. " Dogs, like many animals, can live outdoors. Its distress is more likely to be a combination of boredom and separation anxiety. Sadly there are no laws against being a shit dog-owner, just a cruel one Environmental Health will get better results than the RSPCA. Mr ddc | |||
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"I would contact the RSPCA for advice and ask them for their opinion. They may do a welfare visit and check on the circumstances. I don't think it's acceptable, as someone who used to breed dogs, to leave a dog outside for hours and hours while it cries." It's something I've never done to a dog. I couldn't. | |||
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"Years ago I did report a neighbour because the dog yowled all day to sspca. They went and talked to the owner and then phoned back with an update. The owner didn't know the dog was distressed as they weren't about. After that the yowling stopped so they either rehomed the dog or it was left inside. Maybe your neighbour doesn't know how distressed his dog is? " Well I've left a note. Hopefully he'll take notice as I don't want to cause any problems. | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours?" That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours? That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. " A pet dog is basically a child. It is a creature that can't ask for what it wants, or provide for itself. It should be treated as such. | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours? That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. " No but you can treat them with the same level of kindness You wouldn't leave a child out crying in the rain, you wouldnt kick a child so why do some people think it's acceptable to treat an animal in this way? But then I guess some people would treat a child in that way Personally I see no point in having a dog if it's kept outside If there is no kennel it is classed as abuse, an outside dog by law has to have shelter for if it rains | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours? That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. A pet dog is basically a child. It is a creature that can't ask for what it wants, or provide for itself. It should be treated as such." See that's how I see it, a dog is 100% dependent on you and if your not willing to uphold your duty as a pet owner don't get a pet | |||
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"Nice to receive private message telling me to 'mind my own business'. Why not say that here? " No never mind your own buisness Sometimes we have to be the voice of those who don't have one | |||
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"Nice to receive private message telling me to 'mind my own business'. Why not say that here? No never mind your own buisness Sometimes we have to be the voice of those who don't have one " Well I've penned a note and posted it through. If nothing changes then I'll make a call. | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours? That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. A pet dog is basically a child. It is a creature that can't ask for what it wants, or provide for itself. It should be treated as such." Technically a dog is closer to a wolf than a human child. As domesticated animals, sheep and cows are left outside in rain and snow. Good to see you back though Mr ddc | |||
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"I have a somewhat similar situation, though it's not as blatant. Maybe use your phone to record the noise and even include something to prove the times in the footage. Any authorities might find visual/aural evidence helpful when working out whether to proceed." I'll keep that in mind. Thank you. | |||
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"Well if it's barking all day it clearly isn't happen so yes in my mind." That's my thinking. | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours? That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. " The " crying" is separation anxiety; it happens often when dogs are left indoors, too. Dogs are social/ pack animals, and can suffer extreme anxiety if left alone for long periods. Nothing wrong in principle with a dog being outdoors, but it must have shelter . | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours? That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. The " crying" is separation anxiety; it happens often when dogs are left indoors, too. Dogs are social/ pack animals, and can suffer extreme anxiety if left alone for long periods. Nothing wrong in principle with a dog being outdoors, but it must have shelter ." Which to me, seems cruel. | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours? That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. The " crying" is separation anxiety; it happens often when dogs are left indoors, too. Dogs are social/ pack animals, and can suffer extreme anxiety if left alone for long periods. Nothing wrong in principle with a dog being outdoors, but it must have shelter . Which to me, seems cruel." Correct. A dog should not be left alone ( even indoors) for more than 4 hours. It should have shelter if outdoors. That means a minimum of out of rain, and shelter from wind. Ie a proper kennel. | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours? That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. A pet dog is basically a child. It is a creature that can't ask for what it wants, or provide for itself. It should be treated as such." Nope. A dog is an animal and a pet. As I said, I would never neglect an animal but it would know it's place in my pack and that is an animal and a pet, not a child. It would receive shelter and food and medical care and affection but there is a definite difference between what I would provide for a pet and what I would provide for children. Hasn't ever done my 2 cats any harm. I wonder how so many stray dogs survive if they can't provide for themselves | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours? That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. A pet dog is basically a child. It is a creature that can't ask for what it wants, or provide for itself. It should be treated as such. Technically a dog is closer to a wolf than a human child. As domesticated animals, sheep and cows are left outside in rain and snow. Good to see you back though Mr ddc " Note the part where I said 'pet dog'. I have a friend with 43 huskies who has them in outdoor shelters... but they are not (and have never been) pet dogs. | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours? That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. A pet dog is basically a child. It is a creature that can't ask for what it wants, or provide for itself. It should be treated as such. Technically a dog is closer to a wolf than a human child. As domesticated animals, sheep and cows are left outside in rain and snow. Good to see you back though Mr ddc Note the part where I said 'pet dog'. I have a friend with 43 huskies who has them in outdoor shelters... but they are not (and have never been) pet dogs." There lies the crucial difference. If you do want a pet then love them as pets. | |||
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" My neighbour leaves his dog out in his garden for hours crying even in the pouring rain. Is this animal cruelty? I'm pondering whether to contact RSPCA. " OP how long has he had the dog? Used to have family who left their dog out when they were at work, as it got too nervous alone inside and tore up pillows and had defecated due to stress. Eventually they got it a kennel for the outdoor weather. It's not nice but better than him putting the dog up for adoption. | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours? That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. A pet dog is basically a child. It is a creature that can't ask for what it wants, or provide for itself. It should be treated as such. Technically a dog is closer to a wolf than a human child. As domesticated animals, sheep and cows are left outside in rain and snow. Good to see you back though Mr ddc Note the part where I said 'pet dog'. I have a friend with 43 huskies who has them in outdoor shelters... but they are not (and have never been) pet dogs. There lies the crucial difference. If you do want a pet then love them as pets." The thing is people have different definitions on how a pet should be loved I have two dogs who are part of my family and as such live in my house , they have never been outside dogs but that's my definition of loving a pet, some people see no harm in keeping a dog outside but that's their definition of loving them as a pet It's a hard one to decided how a dog should be looked after because we all have our own ideas There is no law to say a dog can't be kept outside so long as your garden follows its basic needs ie shelter from the rain/sun etc but even so I stil wouldn't put my dogs outside | |||
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" My neighbour leaves his dog out in his garden for hours crying even in the pouring rain. Is this animal cruelty? I'm pondering whether to contact RSPCA. OP how long has he had the dog? Used to have family who left their dog out when they were at work, as it got too nervous alone inside and tore up pillows and had defecated due to stress. Eventually they got it a kennel for the outdoor weather. It's not nice but better than him putting the dog up for adoption." about a year. Thing is I have no idea if dog has a kennel which is why I've put a note through instead of calling anyone. | |||
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" My neighbour leaves his dog out in his garden for hours crying even in the pouring rain. Is this animal cruelty? I'm pondering whether to contact RSPCA. OP how long has he had the dog? Used to have family who left their dog out when they were at work, as it got too nervous alone inside and tore up pillows and had defecated due to stress. Eventually they got it a kennel for the outdoor weather. It's not nice but better than him putting the dog up for adoption." Looking for a better more suitable home would have been a better option Op are you in a position to offer the dog a home? If not maybe volunteer to find new home for dog to owner. He might want rid of it but not bothered to put in effort | |||
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"There lies the crucial difference. If you do want a pet then love them as pets." True. I grew up with working dogs and waited until one of us was home full-time before we got one last year. It took a fortnight to settle his separation anxiety, and even now he can't be left outside any shop he isn't used to. My experience of the RSPCA is that they aren't that fussed unless there's a chance of a successful prosecution, whereas Environmental Health are more successful at achieving results in these sort of cases. | |||
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"Put it this way would you leave your child outside crying kn the pouring rain for hours? That doesn't quite equate really. Whilst I wouldn't let an animal suffer I would certainly treat it a lot different to how I would treat a child. The " crying" is separation anxiety; it happens often when dogs are left indoors, too. Dogs are social/ pack animals, and can suffer extreme anxiety if left alone for long periods. Nothing wrong in principle with a dog being outdoors, but it must have shelter . Which to me, seems cruel. Correct. A dog should not be left alone ( even indoors) for more than 4 hours. It should have shelter if outdoors. That means a minimum of out of rain, and shelter from wind. Ie a proper kennel." its not cruelty to leave a dog while you go to work...as long as you provide water etc.. so id imagine 4 hours is a bit less than what would be deemed acceptable . Op.. I think by leaving a message you have done the right thing.... maybe the owner is unaware that his dog is even crying out x | |||
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"In your shoes, I'd definitely contact the RSPCA for advice - I can't abide animal cruelty and/or neglect. I must admit that if he's not the approachable type I might be a little worried about potential repercussions (if he's *that* sort of unapproachable) but on the other hand the cries of a whining dog can carry quite far and chances are other people in the vicinity will have also heard him so could just as easily have reported. Hope they take it seriously if you do report ... god knows why some people get pets when this is how they treat them Ms G " | |||
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"I'm concerned. Dogs, like many animals, can live outdoors. Its distress is more likely to be a combination of boredom and separation anxiety. Sadly there are no laws against being a shit dog-owner, just a cruel one Environmental Health will get better results than the RSPCA. Mr ddc" RSPCA probably won't do anything. Especially if the dog has access to shelter and water. Environmental health with send a letter and warn of noise. They will give you a noise diary to complete. You'll get more action this way. | |||
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"I'm concerned. Dogs, like many animals, can live outdoors. Its distress is more likely to be a combination of boredom and separation anxiety. Sadly there are no laws against being a shit dog-owner, just a cruel one Environmental Health will get better results than the RSPCA. Mr ddc RSPCA probably won't do anything. Especially if the dog has access to shelter and water. Environmental health with send a letter and warn of noise. They will give you a noise diary to complete. You'll get more action this way. " Thank you. | |||
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"It's got me thinking though....I reckon my dog could be fine for a month? . He self feeds and that's how long a bag of dog food lasts, water is constant from a rainwater tub(never given my dog tap water). . . I'm wondering how long it would take before the beggar misses me " Phone the cops!!!!!! | |||
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"It's got me thinking though....I reckon my dog could be fine for a month? . He self feeds and that's how long a bag of dog food lasts, water is constant from a rainwater tub(never given my dog tap water). . . I'm wondering how long it would take before the beggar misses me Phone the cops!!!!!! " . He'd probably just take up with next door..... He's a bit of a littlest hobo type!. No idea where he gets it from | |||
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