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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently watched Lars Von Trier's Nymphomaniac films, which I loved -- it made me think of the films that I've seen which were part of my sexual awakening or fed my erotic cravings. I recall watching Les Valseuses alone as a teen and being thoroughly turned on by what was happening. The Secretary stirred me, Vicky Cristina Barcelona, Bound, The Reader, Mulholland Drive, Shame, Y Tu Mamá También and many more. And those I've not yet seen but know I want to such as Betty Blue, The Piano Teacher, Malèna and Blue is the Warmest Colour, just to name a few.

So which are your go-to erotic, visually sumptuous, or indulgently sexy films? And which others would you recommend?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Bambi

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Bambi

"

That rabbit's begging for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shrek

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bambi

That rabbit's begging for it "

Bwahahaahaaaaahaaaaaaaa!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shrek "

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Fantastic list.

It's always been just Secretary. No idea where the the keeps coming from?

Basic Instinct (92) was a favourite of my youth. I also found a great deal of pleasure from Cronenberg's Crash (96) but I'm kinky and get turned on by James Spader.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not in the catagory your talking op but i was about 14 when i saw rocky horror and fell in love with tvs.

There is also a tv frama ( film) called compulsion and for me beats any porn film or erotica

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 1/2 weeks

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

American werewolf in London, when Jenny Agater had sex with jack was a fave of mine when I was a teenager.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fantastic list.

It's always been just Secretary. No idea where the the keeps coming from?

Basic Instinct (92) was a favourite of my youth. I also found a great deal of pleasure from Cronenberg's Crash (96) but I'm kinky and get turned on by James Spader. "

You are right! Correction noted.

JS is very ooooh, and Crash - yup, I get that one!

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

I'm adding

Eyes Wide Shut

And

Hostel 2

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

The Umbrellas of Cherbourg.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not in the catagory your talking op but i was about 14 when i saw rocky horror and fell in love with tvs.

There is also a tv frama ( film) called compulsion and for me beats any porn film or erotica"

Oh no, I totally get Rocky Horror - Tim Curry... *drools* thanks for the reminder. I'll have to check out Compulsion, thanks!

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By *appyman3943Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

A few years ago it was the uncut version of Caligula. Best mainstream films I've watched recently are Hymphomaniac, like you said or 9 songs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"9 1/2 weeks "

I've still not seen it! Although I'm aware I will want a bed snack picnic whilst watching it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"American werewolf in London, when Jenny Agater had sex with jack was a fave of mine when I was a teenager."

That's it! My friend recommended this one! Although whenever I see Jenny Agutter, I think of The Railway Children and the scene at the end 'Oh Daddy, my Daddy!' - which I suppose could still work!!

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

There's a fair few, but right now I'm thinking of a scene in Only God Forgives  with Ryan Gosling. Anyone seen it?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Not in the catagory your talking op but i was about 14 when i saw rocky horror and fell in love with tvs.

There is also a tv frama ( film) called compulsion and for me beats any porn film or erotica

Oh no, I totally get Rocky Horror - Tim Curry... *drools* thanks for the reminder. I'll have to check out Compulsion, thanks! "

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wlwnbcxBuzI

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm adding

Eyes Wide Shut

And

Hostel 2"

I'm mixed on Eyes Wide Shut, didn't quite work for me - not seen Hostel 2, I saw the first one though....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The Umbrellas of Cherbourg."

Makes a note. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A few years ago it was the uncut version of Caligula. Best mainstream films I've watched recently are Hymphomaniac, like you said or 9 songs."

9 Songs is the one where they go to gigs and the actors had 'real' sex? Yup, I'd like to see that one, I think it starred the guy who played the son in Cracker - who I had a thing for!! Right on the list with that!

Must watch Caligula. Who doesn't need a Roman orgy in their lives?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm adding

Eyes Wide Shut

And

Hostel 2"

the fuck! hostel 2 got stuck in my mind for all the wrong reasons...the cutting his dick/balls off at the end

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By *appyman3943Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"A few years ago it was the uncut version of Caligula. Best mainstream films I've watched recently are Hymphomaniac, like you said or 9 songs.

9 Songs is the one where they go to gigs and the actors had 'real' sex? Yup, I'd like to see that one, I think it starred the guy who played the son in Cracker - who I had a thing for!! Right on the list with that!

Must watch Caligula. Who doesn't need a Roman orgy in their lives? "

Yes, 9 songs has real actors in it. Some nice sex as well. I like the mainstream genre.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's a fair few, but right now I'm thinking of a scene in Only God Forgives  with Ryan Gosling. Anyone seen it? "

Yes, I've seen it - which scene? I rather enjoy the hand up the girl's dress in the bar bit!

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton


"A few years ago it was the uncut version of Caligula. Best mainstream films I've watched recently are Hymphomaniac, like you said or 9 songs.

9 Songs is the one where they go to gigs and the actors had 'real' sex? Yup, I'd like to see that one, I think it starred the guy who played the son in Cracker - who I had a thing for!! Right on the list with that!

Must watch Caligula. Who doesn't need a Roman orgy in their lives? "

Yes that's the one. .wasn't really impressed with film but soundtrack good mine 9 1/2 weeks and The Hunger...mmm Susan Sarandon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not in the catagory your talking op but i was about 14 when i saw rocky horror and fell in love with tvs.

There is also a tv frama ( film) called compulsion and for me beats any porn film or erotica

Oh no, I totally get Rocky Horror - Tim Curry... *drools* thanks for the reminder. I'll have to check out Compulsion, thanks!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wlwnbcxBuzI

"

*shivers* and not from my flu!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Secretary, Crash, The Dreamers and Y Tu Mamá También also. Eva Green and a slightly wrong threesome was right on so many levels. Shame is probably my favourite erotic drama for obvious reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some excellent films there OP - I'd also add in Von Trier's The Idiots and Breaking the Waves which have some bizarre but fascinating sexual content.

Also agree with 9 Songs and would add My Beautiful Luanderette.

The film which truly saw in my own sexual awakening was Betty Blue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A few years ago it was the uncut version of Caligula. Best mainstream films I've watched recently are Hymphomaniac, like you said or 9 songs.

9 Songs is the one where they go to gigs and the actors had 'real' sex? Yup, I'd like to see that one, I think it starred the guy who played the son in Cracker - who I had a thing for!! Right on the list with that!

Must watch Caligula. Who doesn't need a Roman orgy in their lives?

Yes that's the one. .wasn't really impressed with film but soundtrack good mine 9 1/2 weeks and The Hunger...mmm Susan Sarandon "

Well I'll be happy with a good soundtrack too! Susan, she's wonderful -- agreed.

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

Emanuelle. For me it was erotic because it wasn't just porn, there was a bit of a story line and to my mind erotica is about what you don't see as much as what you do see.

Having said that, I do have the boxed set of Confessions films.

Erotica and soft core can be far more stimulating than hard core.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Secretary, Crash, The Dreamers and Y Tu Mamá También also. Eva Green and a slightly wrong threesome was right on so many levels. Shame is probably my favourite erotic drama for obvious reasons."

Yes the struggle is real with Fassbender. I don't know the Dreamers, will check that out -- thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm adding

Eyes Wide Shut

And

Hostel 2"

was it Hostel 2 with the ritual bathing in blood ?

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

Channel 4 and Channel 5 used to have some good erotic stuff in the early days, often from France or Italy with badly dubbed voices (but that didn't matter as I had the volume turned down anyway).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some excellent films there OP - I'd also add in Von Trier's The Idiots and Breaking the Waves which have some bizarre but fascinating sexual content.

Also agree with 9 Songs and would add My Beautiful Luanderette.

The film which truly saw in my own sexual awakening was Betty Blue

"

Oh I will certainly add those then. My Beautiful Launderette! How could I forget this? Love it. And love Daniel Day Lewis.

And talking of DDL, reminds me - A Room With A View - is one on my list too, for its repressed sexuality and the awakening of Lucy Honeychurch (I also had a thing for Helena Bonham Carter!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex, Lies and Videotape with James Spader, and White Palace with Spader and Susan Sarandon are both excellent mainstream mild erotica

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Recently watched Lars Von Trier's Nymphomaniac films, which I loved -- it made me think of the films that I've seen which were part of my sexual awakening or fed my erotic cravings. I recall watching Les Valseuses alone as a teen and being thoroughly turned on by what was happening. The Secretary stirred me, Vicky Cristina Barcelona, Bound, The Reader, Mulholland Drive, Shame, Y Tu Mamá También and many more. And those I've not yet seen but know I want to such as Betty Blue, The Piano Teacher, Malèna and Blue is the Warmest Colour, just to name a few.

So which are your go-to erotic, visually sumptuous, or indulgently sexy films? And which others would you recommend?

"

Impressive, I would also add Perfume...alas my inspirations were books and plays...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nymphomaniac was extremely UNSEXY must say, but we do sympathise with the character's motivation:

"Perhaps the only difference between me and other people was that I've always demanded more from the sunset; more spectacular colors when the sun hit the horizon. That's perhaps my only sin."

Secretary and y tu mamá tambien, very naughty films.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some excellent films there OP - I'd also add in Von Trier's The Idiots and Breaking the Waves which have some bizarre but fascinating sexual content.

Also agree with 9 Songs and would add My Beautiful Luanderette.

The film which truly saw in my own sexual awakening was Betty Blue

Oh I will certainly add those then. My Beautiful Launderette! How could I forget this? Love it. And love Daniel Day Lewis.

And talking of DDL, reminds me - A Room With A View - is one on my list too, for its repressed sexuality and the awakening of Lucy Honeychurch (I also had a thing for Helena Bonham Carter!)"

Oh Goodness yes!!! A Room With a View is hornier than a hundred porn movies on toast

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By *appyman3943Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Some excellent films there OP - I'd also add in Von Trier's The Idiots and Breaking the Waves which have some bizarre but fascinating sexual content.

Also agree with 9 Songs and would add My Beautiful Luanderette.

The film which truly saw in my own sexual awakening was Betty Blue

"

Yeah, The Idiots is a bit strange, lol!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Sex, Lies and Videotape with James Spader, and White Palace with Spader and Susan Sarandon are both excellent mainstream mild erotica "

James Spader. That voice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Emanuelle. For me it was erotic because it wasn't just porn, there was a bit of a story line and to my mind erotica is about what you don't see as much as what you do see.

Having said that, I do have the boxed set of Confessions films.

Erotica and soft core can be far more stimulating than hard core."

Thanks, added to my little list!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex, Lies and Videotape with James Spader, and White Palace with Spader and Susan Sarandon are both excellent mainstream mild erotica "

Haven't yet seen SL&V which is ridiculous and hadn't heard of White Palace. These are definitely on the list!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Recently watched Lars Von Trier's Nymphomaniac films, which I loved -- it made me think of the films that I've seen which were part of my sexual awakening or fed my erotic cravings. I recall watching Les Valseuses alone as a teen and being thoroughly turned on by what was happening. The Secretary stirred me, Vicky Cristina Barcelona, Bound, The Reader, Mulholland Drive, Shame, Y Tu Mamá También and many more. And those I've not yet seen but know I want to such as Betty Blue, The Piano Teacher, Malèna and Blue is the Warmest Colour, just to name a few.

So which are your go-to erotic, visually sumptuous, or indulgently sexy films? And which others would you recommend?

Impressive, I would also add Perfume...alas my inspirations were books and plays... "

Oh yes! Perfume is stunning. Good call.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nymphomaniac was extremely UNSEXY must say, but we do sympathise with the character's motivation:

"Perhaps the only difference between me and other people was that I've always demanded more from the sunset; more spectacular colors when the sun hit the horizon. That's perhaps my only sin."

Secretary and y tu mamá tambien, very naughty films. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some excellent films there OP - I'd also add in Von Trier's The Idiots and Breaking the Waves which have some bizarre but fascinating sexual content.

Also agree with 9 Songs and would add My Beautiful Luanderette.

The film which truly saw in my own sexual awakening was Betty Blue

Oh I will certainly add those then. My Beautiful Launderette! How could I forget this? Love it. And love Daniel Day Lewis.

And talking of DDL, reminds me - A Room With A View - is one on my list too, for its repressed sexuality and the awakening of Lucy Honeychurch (I also had a thing for Helena Bonham Carter!)

Oh Goodness yes!!! A Room With a View is hornier than a hundred porn movies on toast "

YES!!

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"There's a fair few, but right now I'm thinking of a scene in Only God Forgives  with Ryan Gosling. Anyone seen it?

Yes, I've seen it - which scene? I rather enjoy the hand up the girl's dress in the bar bit! "

The scene I keep thinking about is when she sits him in a cHair at the bottom of the bed & ties his wrists on the arms of the chair then proceeds to sit on the edge me the bed spreading her legs slightly. Giving teasing flashes. Then starts to play with herself in front of him while he can't move......

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Secretary ticks all my boxes. The Duke of Burgundy is both immensely sexy and sad. I seem to remember having flutterings over a kiss in Last of the Mohicans many, many moons ago. My love for James Spader started with Sex, Lies and Videotape. And the Shakespeare Retold version of Taming of the Shrew with Rufus Sewell as Petruchio? Good lordy lord, that was sexy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's a fair few, but right now I'm thinking of a scene in Only God Forgives  with Ryan Gosling. Anyone seen it?

Yes, I've seen it - which scene? I rather enjoy the hand up the girl's dress in the bar bit!

The scene I keep thinking about is when she sits him in a cHair at the bottom of the bed & ties his wrists on the arms of the chair then proceeds to sit on the edge me the bed spreading her legs slightly. Giving teasing flashes. Then starts to play with herself in front of him while he can't move...... "

Oh god yes! I'm off to get my DVD copy and re-watch. This flu is affecting my memory.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Secretary ticks all my boxes. The Duke of Burgundy is both immensely sexy and sad. I seem to remember having flutterings over a kiss in Last of the Mohicans many, many moons ago. My love for James Spader started with Sex, Lies and Videotape. And the Shakespeare Retold version of Taming of the Shrew with Rufus Sewell as Petruchio? Good lordy lord, that was sexy."

Great reccs, and I used to be crazy for Rufus Sewell and the cheeky, evil glint in his eyes. Ooooft. I feel a little faint.

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By *appyman3943Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Nymphomaniac was extremely UNSEXY must say, but we do sympathise with the character's motivation:

"Perhaps the only difference between me and other people was that I've always demanded more from the sunset; more spectacular colors when the sun hit the horizon. That's perhaps my only sin."

Secretary and y tu mamá tambien, very naughty films. "

I found the Charlotte Gainsborough 3 some at the end of Nymph 2 pretty sexy!

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

There are a few that were part of my sexual awakening...mostly shown late at night on BBC2 back in the late 70's when I'd sit with the volume down low and my finger poised on the off switch of the black and white portable I had in my bedroom (was the days before remotes)....they were mostly French or German with subtitles....the only one that I recall the name of was Belle De Jour...

...another I remember seeing at a young age that had a profound effect on me was Women In Love...the one with the famous Alan Bates/Oliver Reed naked wrestling scene amongst other things

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are a few that were part of my sexual awakening...mostly shown late at night on BBC2 back in the late 70's when I'd sit with the volume down low and my finger poised on the off switch of the black and white portable I had in my bedroom (was the days before remotes)....they were mostly French or German with subtitles....the only one that I recall the name of was Belle De Jour...

...another I remember seeing at a young age that had a profound effect on me was Women In Love...the one with the famous Alan Bates/Oliver Reed naked wrestling scene amongst other things

Mr G"

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By *appyman3943Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Shortbus is also worth a viewing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shortbus is also worth a viewing."

Oh yes, forgot about that one

Another inspiration for our swinging choices.

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