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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could someone enlighten me as to why someone id like to message,who has tv/ts listed on profile who they want to hear from,has a block on stopping someone from my sex messaging them

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe they want to do the searching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are confused lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Grock-landers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they were getting too many messages from tv/ts and changed their filters. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just dont get how this place is ment to work...

Just seen a status update on my updates page for someone

(1)in my local area

(2)looking for cd/tv on their 'looking for' list

(3)status update reads "love watching shemale porn"

But i cant message them as they have blocked everyone of my sex ?? !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just dont get how this place is ment to work...

Just seen a status update on my updates page for someone

(1)in my local area

(2)looking for cd/tv on their 'looking for' list

(3)status update reads "love watching shemale porn"

But i cant message them as they have blocked everyone of my sex ?? !"

He may have forgtten to take the filter off or he may have put this up for people on his friends list who will be able to bypass the filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people like to search and find for themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just dont get how this place is ment to work...

Just seen a status update on my updates page for someone

(1)in my local area

(2)looking for cd/tv on their 'looking for' list

(3)status update reads "love watching shemale porn"

But i cant message them as they have blocked everyone of my sex ?? !

He may have forgtten to take the filter off or he may have put this up for people on his friends list who will be able to bypass the filter."

So if i was to invite them as a friend that gets round the filter block ?

Dont like to send out random friends invites till chatted via a few messages,only polite to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you think you know how the game works, they change up the rules.

This site is bit like a bag of tools - you make of it what you will and you can use them in you own fashion. Sure, there are 'hard limits' of what you can and cannot do, couple with some ideological rules on what constitutes 'good' behaviour but beyond that, its pretty much 'do what you whilst'.

Folk play the game how they want to play it - all you can do is find like-minded people who play the game your way. The meeting of minds and all that.

Accepting that upwards of 90 percent of people n here don't play the game how you do leads to far better results, because you simply focus on those that do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just dont get how this place is ment to work...

Just seen a status update on my updates page for someone

(1)in my local area

(2)looking for cd/tv on their 'looking for' list

(3)status update reads "love watching shemale porn"

But i cant message them as they have blocked everyone of my sex ?? !

He may have forgtten to take the filter off or he may have put this up for people on his friends list who will be able to bypass the filter.

So if i was to invite them as a friend that gets round the filter block ?

Dont like to send out random friends invites till chatted via a few messages,only polite to do so"

you wont be able to send an invite same as you cant wink or message - if pics are available to fab you could try that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just dont get how this place is ment to work...

Just seen a status update on my updates page for someone

(1)in my local area

(2)looking for cd/tv on their 'looking for' list

(3)status update reads "love watching shemale porn"

But i cant message them as they have blocked everyone of my sex ?? !

He may have forgtten to take the filter off or he may have put this up for people on his friends list who will be able to bypass the filter.

So if i was to invite them as a friend that gets round the filter block ?

Dont like to send out random friends invites till chatted via a few messages,only polite to do so"

Why push a situation that isn't appropriate to push?

Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have all filters up presently. I have enough people I'm currently chatting to. That might be the case here. I would just pop them on my hotlist and see if the filters are lifted in a few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No upper body pics are u convincing are u local to the person can u accom travel etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No upper body pics are u convincing are u local to the person can u accom travel etc "

What has this to do with the original post?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"No upper body pics are u convincing are u local to the person can u accom travel etc

What has this to do with the original post?"

Just wondering that myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may already have enough people they are currently in contact with/friends with and an ad is the quickest and easiest way to let them all know they are free for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could someone enlighten me as to why someone id like to message,who has tv/ts listed on profile who they want to hear from,has a block on stopping someone from my sex messaging them "

This site's full of hypocritical cock treasers who lead people on on the forum and want you to fawn over their "false" profiles but are then supercilious when it actually comes to contacting them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No upper body pics are u convincing are u local to the person can u accom travel etc

What has this to do with the original post?

Just wondering that myself"

Thank you ladies x

As it says in my post...they have shown up on my local updates page,so yes they are local to me,15miles drive away at most,this profile i have not searched for,their status update showed up on news feed / updates page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could someone enlighten me as to why someone id like to message,who has tv/ts listed on profile who they want to hear from,has a block on stopping someone from my sex messaging them

This site's full of hypocritical cock treasers who lead people on on the forum and want you to fawn over their "false" profiles but are then supercilious when it actually comes to contacting them. "

I'm wondering how they can tease these people if they've blocked them and don't want contact from them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could someone enlighten me as to why someone id like to message,who has tv/ts listed on profile who they want to hear from,has a block on stopping someone from my sex messaging them

This site's full of hypocritical cock treasers who lead people on on the forum and want you to fawn over their "false" profiles but are then supercilious when it actually comes to contacting them.

I'm wondering how they can tease these people if they've blocked them and don't want contact from them?"

Obviously you haven't completely read my previous post....on the forum with posts like "oh I'd like to have my first...etc etc or I'd love wear a strap-on and...etc etc, the forum's full of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could someone enlighten me as to why someone id like to message,who has tv/ts listed on profile who they want to hear from,has a block on stopping someone from my sex messaging them

This site's full of hypocritical cock treasers who lead people on on the forum and want you to fawn over their "false" profiles but are then supercilious when it actually comes to contacting them.

I'm wondering how they can tease these people if they've blocked them and don't want contact from them?

Obviously you haven't completely read my previous post....on the forum with posts like "oh I'd like to have my first...etc etc or I'd love wear a strap-on and...etc etc, the forum's full of it!"

Maybe it is but I could put a meet up for people on my friends list and anyone not on it would not be able to message. I'm not teasing them, I'm simply seeing who of my friends might be interested without having to message them individually. Maybe this is what this guy has done, who knows but if you find you cannot message someone then move on, its no big issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have all filters up presently. I have enough people I'm currently chatting to. That might be the case here. I would just pop them on my hotlist and see if the filters are lifted in a few days "

Firstly... nice tits

Secondly.... forgot was I was going to say... give me a minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe they want to do the searching"

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