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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I finally managed to get a lady off here to have a social meet with me last weekend we meet in a pub I brought some drinks for us the banter and laughs were great we had something to eat then the end of the night shes said to me thanks for a good night but im only looking for black men to be honest imnot bbothered about the money why not just say from the start I would of still enjoyed her company never the less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

random! Maybe she just wanted a night out?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Maybe it was her way of letting you down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would rather she was honest from the start

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I would rather she was honest from the start "

Maybe she hadn't made a decision until she'd eaten her pudding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather she was honest from the start "
ive used obvious things to let guys down rather than say sorry i dont find you attractive... maybe she did the same and didn't know how else to let you down x

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yeah that's pretty off don't think I'd be to impressed if someone said that to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can u d'état and why this would piss you off actually OP.

Sounds very bad manners, should of at least offered to pay half the bill.

She's no lady and indicative of her behaviour in general no doubt.

Lucky escape, learn from it and move on mate.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Understand*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh lord! If that's how we let guy's down, I would be as fat as a fool. I agree with op, she could have said from the start that was what she was after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it was an excuse, and it was the only excuse she could come up with. Perhaps she felt saying 'you have the personality of a chairleg' was going to be insulting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Oh lord! If that's how we let guy's down, I would be as fat as a fool. I agree with op, she could have said from the start that was what she was after. "

Said from the starter more like

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"I finally managed to get a lady off here to have a social meet with me last weekend we meet in a pub I brought some drinks for us the banter and laughs were great we had something to eat then the end of the night shes said to me thanks for a good night but im only looking for black men to be honest imnot bbothered about the money why not just say from the start I would of still enjoyed her company never the less "

I think that's why profiles are so important ( even though 90% of guys don't read them grrrr) gives ppl guidelines of what they are looking for so u don't get endless time wasting convos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If she had of said that from the start I would of still had a drink and lunch with her she was funny I just dont like liars no need for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah that's pretty off don't think I'd be to impressed if someone said that to me "

Me either. We're all grown ups, at least come up with something that doesn't make it sound like you've been taken for a mug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I finally managed to get a lady off here to have a social meet with me last weekend we meet in a pub I brought some drinks for us the banter and laughs were great we had something to eat then the end of the night shes said to me thanks for a good night but im only looking for black men to be honest imnot bbothered about the money why not just say from the start I would of still enjoyed her company never the less

I think that's why profiles are so important ( even though 90% of guys don't read them grrrr) gives ppl guidelines of what they are looking for so u don't get endless time wasting convos "

Valid point, op was it on her profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No if it was I wouldnt of messaged her like I dont the other women on here no point is there every one has their preferences and its still not on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was there an expectation of sex following the social? It seems very harsh of her to say that but as others have said, she may have not wanted to take it further for whatever reason and just came up with that. Personally though, I'd have just thanked you for a lovely evening and said goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest with you there was and there wasnt she said if we click but I dont see how she could say that if she only attracted to black men if she just wanted a night out I would rather she just said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest with you there was and there wasnt she said if we click but I dont see how she could say that if she only attracted to black men if she just wanted a night out I would rather she just said that "

Obviously we only have one side of the story here and from what you've said I think she wasn't into you (for whatever reason) to want to take it further and maybe thought she had to come up with some sort of excuse when really, she didn't. If someone didn't want to take a social further then I would know its because they weren't into me and I wouldn't need a reason. I can see why you think you were done over but if there was the possibility of sex not happening as you say then I guess just take it on the chin and move on. At least you had a nice evening otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather she was honest from the start

Maybe she hadn't made a decision until she'd eaten her pudding. "

Did she have black forest gateau?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could be totally wrong (it's been known) but maybe she wasn't into you but didn't want to give you any hope to cling onto. By saying she's going to look for a black guy then it's something you can't possibly be or hope to become. So many men when rejected because they're not quite your type etc will try to convince you that they can become your type! She's not leaving you with that possibility. x

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