FabSwingers.com forum: meets

By *eo67 OP Man
over a year ago

leicester

Why do women and couples post meets to meet men, but have "not seeking single men" on there profiles. So that you can not contact them to arrange a meet!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women and couples post meets to meet men, but have "not seeking single men" on there profiles. So that you can not contact them to arrange a meet!!!!

They do the searching themselves.

It stops them being inundated with inappropriate messages.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Why do women and couples post meets to meet men, but have "not seeking single men" on there profiles. So that you can not contact them to arrange a meet!!!!

They do the searching themselves.

It stops them being inundated with inappropriate messages."

Yes this, they can control how many messages they are likely to receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So that they can do the messaging.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Why do women and couples post meets to meet men, but have "not seeking single men" on there profiles. So that you can not contact them to arrange a meet!!!!

They do the searching themselves.

It stops them being inundated with inappropriate messages."

This. They do the looking and are proactive not reactive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women and couples post meets to meet men, but have "not seeking single men" on there profiles. So that you can not contact them to arrange a meet!!!!

why you so confident they'd arrange a meet with you anyway?

wouldn't be surprised if most people put a meet up then have to block all men within 5 mins of putting it up coz they get too many messages to deal with. that's how it was when i used to put one up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its for everyone on their friends list who will be able to message them having had previous contact and being friends.

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By *tarlord6969Man
over a year ago

stockport

I can understand not wanting to be inundated from fellas, but what's the point of advertising a meet for guys if the guys can't contact them/express an interest? If it's a mixed meet then yes, I understand, but I've seen some profiles asking solely for men, and then the old "this profile has blocked your sex" message?!? I'd always assumed it was just a dropped bollock by the profile owners

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By *tarlord6969Man
over a year ago

stockport

The allowed...inundated...blocked suggestion sounds likely though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because whenever si gle guys message us it usually reads along the lines of

"I want to ruin your mrs's ass" or "id fuck your wife stupid"

Stopping the messages saves me the hastle of telling people to f**k off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The allowed...inundated...blocked suggestion sounds likely though lol

it is. i once had some guy slagging me off for not replying within 10 mins of putting it up (i neve thought to remove the meet as i was frantically trying to reply to all my messages already), so then i realised just block all men.

people do things on here that suit themselves, it is themselves that wants something and is asking for that and as this site is pretty much NSA you can't really expect anyone to be obligated to you in any way or owe you anything. i mean what they gonna get in return for that, apart from this site being hard work for them?

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